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How Long Would You Want To Be Engaged Before Marriage? by robosky02(m): 10:44am On Jun 06, 2017 |
How long would you want to be engaged before marriage? The journey down the aisle is an all-familiar one. So, you meet someone great, fall in love with them, date for a while and as the love grows and the bond is strengthened, he gets on one knee to propose after which you both take the nuptial vows. The distance between the first stage and the last could be as short as few months like 3 to 6 months to a couple of years like 2 to 4 years. Therefore, How long would you want to be engaged before marriage? or how long will be too long for you? |
Re: How Long Would You Want To Be Engaged Before Marriage? by Papiikush: 10:45am On Jun 06, 2017 |
5 years. I have a lot of researching to do. |
Re: How Long Would You Want To Be Engaged Before Marriage? by wordbank(m): 10:47am On Jun 06, 2017 |
maybe 10yrs cos engagement na semi marriage after dat we can continue |
Re: How Long Would You Want To Be Engaged Before Marriage? by pocohantas(f): 10:49am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Papiikush:What are you researching? Is it phd? OP, 1-3years is okay for me, as long as we're ready in every other aspect. I strongly believe everyone knows what he or she wants in a partner,it doesn't take eternity to figure it out. Insincerity among couples is what makes long courtship ideal. If both are true to themselves, there won't be need to keep observing someone for 12yrs, hoping to discover a negative trait. Why turn someone to lord of the rings? In all, some people have it faster, others longer. A happy marriage should be the end result. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Would You Want To Be Engaged Before Marriage? by robosky02(m): 10:49am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Papiikush: do you think a girl what to be tied down for that long? |
Re: How Long Would You Want To Be Engaged Before Marriage? by nawtibownie: 10:50am On Jun 06, 2017 |
5-6 months (max). I cannur coman turn to Lord in the ring. |
Re: How Long Would You Want To Be Engaged Before Marriage? by Papiikush: 10:52am On Jun 06, 2017 |
pocohantas: Who wants to wife an ex olosho? robosky02: If she is worth it, she might wanna stick around |
Re: How Long Would You Want To Be Engaged Before Marriage? by robosky02(m): 10:53am On Jun 06, 2017 |
wordbank: 10 years? you don mean it, and how long will the marriage now have left if 10 years is for engagement? in short that is marriage |
Re: How Long Would You Want To Be Engaged Before Marriage? by BiafraBushBoy(m): 10:53am On Jun 06, 2017 |
nawtibownie: What if I keep adding a gold ring to all the fingers every 6 months |
Re: How Long Would You Want To Be Engaged Before Marriage? by robosky02(m): 10:55am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Papiikush: wait is the research on her or something cos it its a lady am sure your finding will be zero |
Re: How Long Would You Want To Be Engaged Before Marriage? by wordbank(m): 10:57am On Jun 06, 2017 |
robosky02:Guy marriage is for life oo Looking at things ill live above 150yrs so do d math Infact it's 20yrs I'm considering |
Re: How Long Would You Want To Be Engaged Before Marriage? by robosky02(m): 10:59am On Jun 06, 2017 |
wordbank: forget your own na hire purchase 1 Like |
Re: How Long Would You Want To Be Engaged Before Marriage? by Nobody: 11:01am On Jun 06, 2017 |
2months is enough time when I find the right person |
Re: How Long Would You Want To Be Engaged Before Marriage? by Papiikush: 11:02am On Jun 06, 2017 |
robosky02: Bro I have to do all kinds of research both physical, spiritual, mental, educational even her womb sef |
Re: How Long Would You Want To Be Engaged Before Marriage? by robosky02(m): 11:06am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Papiikush: only a desperate lady will be your specimen if you continue like this. and imaging saying she's not good enough at the end. I cant explain the kind of "sorry" that awaits you |
Re: How Long Would You Want To Be Engaged Before Marriage? by robosky02(m): 11:06am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Re: How Long Would You Want To Be Engaged Before Marriage? by NairalandCS(m): 11:09am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Anything wey pass 1 year na marriage. Kapish! |
Re: How Long Would You Want To Be Engaged Before Marriage? by newyorks(m): 11:10am On Jun 06, 2017 |
there is no specific period/time after engagement. |
Re: How Long Would You Want To Be Engaged Before Marriage? by Papiikush: 11:10am On Jun 06, 2017 |
robosky02:Like I said bro, if she is worth it. She's got to earn me... What if she is a dummy? Or possessed with a demon? What if she has got some disabilities I can't live with? What if she's got no womb due excess abortions? Can't manage a woman for the rest of my life 1 Like |
Re: How Long Would You Want To Be Engaged Before Marriage? by Nobody: 11:13am On Jun 06, 2017 |
robosky02:it's not my brother, we are talking about engagement here, if you ain't sure then why engage the innocent lady in the first place? |
Re: How Long Would You Want To Be Engaged Before Marriage? by Oyindidi(f): 11:15am On Jun 06, 2017 |
A year is okay |
Re: How Long Would You Want To Be Engaged Before Marriage? by JacksonD7: 11:19am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Papiikush: I concur with your stance. With the quality of women we have these days, a sane man must take the time to do proper research on any lady he wants to get into a long term relationship with. |
Re: How Long Would You Want To Be Engaged Before Marriage? by robosky02(m): 11:22am On Jun 06, 2017 |
24sqm: so what your definition of engagement? |
Re: How Long Would You Want To Be Engaged Before Marriage? by Papiikush: 11:22am On Jun 06, 2017 |
JacksonD7:This is a life time relationship oh |
Re: How Long Would You Want To Be Engaged Before Marriage? by Nobody: 11:28am On Jun 06, 2017 |
robosky02:a way of showing your intentions towards marrying someone or promising to marry a woman. I know it comes with a period of time which has to be determined by both parties, the man most times. |
Re: How Long Would You Want To Be Engaged Before Marriage? by robosky02(m): 11:35am On Jun 06, 2017 |
JacksonD7: this "research" what exactly is the intention and what do you want to find out? |
Re: How Long Would You Want To Be Engaged Before Marriage? by Evestar200(f): 1:01pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
3 months |
Re: How Long Would You Want To Be Engaged Before Marriage? by JacksonD7: 3:39pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
robosky02: Marriage is a lifelong commitment, and you've got to do it with a quality woman. The purpose of the "research" is to find out if a woman meets your standards. It takes time to know the details, which is why guys take their time. The article below will give you an idea of the kind of things men look for. https://boldanddetermined.com/pick-the-right-wife/ |
Re: How Long Would You Want To Be Engaged Before Marriage? by robosky02(m): 3:44pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
JacksonD7: so you need 10 years to do this simple research? or if she pretends and you only find out n the tenth year will you talk another ten years? |
Re: How Long Would You Want To Be Engaged Before Marriage? by Lionessza(f): 3:58pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
It would depend on how long we've dated before the engagement. If we had been dating for some years then I wouldnt take long to marry the guy , probably a few months. But if it's a new relationship, nope ! I wouldn't marry a guy I have known for less than a year , I need time to know someone especially for something this serious. |
Re: How Long Would You Want To Be Engaged Before Marriage? by jakandeola(m): 4:06pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
Lionessza:but u will sex him |
Re: How Long Would You Want To Be Engaged Before Marriage? by Lionessza(f): 4:07pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
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