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OKANGPRECIOUS:
I bet you once a man does the DNA test on the child and it proves his not the father, he wouldn't have the patience to keep his wife in the same house not to talk of DNA test for his wife

lol, u remind me of emeka ike in n0llyw0od films. After dna test, he'll be like "out, get out of my house. Park you stupid w0man"

Berbierklaus:
What a funny thread and responses.
Ha hahahahaha hahahahaha hahahahaha
Can't wait to start reading stories about DNA test online,chai,some people go sabi their real fathers one day

i hope u too will, one day.

Gangster1ms:
Yea.. u don't need DNA tests when the resemblance is clear for everyone especially back then. But this modern day generation it's a No No No No.. if the baby like make e be my carbon copy like twins I'm still doing my precious DNA test

You are right man... I Was reading a post yesterday and a guy on his facebook page encourage people to do DNA test... Do you know a woman was threatening the guy...that if any thing happens to her marriage she'll kill the guy cos her husband commented on the guys thread.. Which means her husband is likely going to do a DNA test.....slay queens are indeed greedy... Instead of concentrating in their runs business they still go into marriage they don't value

OKANGPRECIOUS:
You should equally know that some babies are exchanged in the hospital immediately after birth when the woman is not yet conscious of her self by dubious Doctors/Nurses who make deal with families that want a particular sex of baby.

In that case, who do you blame

in that case I blame the wickedness of man

greatman247:
You have no point. It's not enough reason for a wife to tag another man child to her husband. If marriage no fit stay in then opt out or talk it out. It's not a must everyone stays marriage it not even an automatic ticket to heaven.

Give yourself all that advice

obikirinoni:
Be careful ooo.

My sister's Oga did it two years ago, somewhere around computer village in Ikeja.

All four kids, none were his.

He willed his properties to his family and committed suicide.

suicide is a weak way out.

lajoshua:
B.astard daughter of a thousand fathers!!
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See all of them making mouth here, as if we don't know you people how weak you all are. This is what social media does, allows weak souls people who would have never been able to talk in reality start spewing trash.
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You know for yourself that you would be at the receiving end and would suffer for it. So you all should stop all this tough facade you're putting on. Abi is it not sane ladies that we treat their Bleep up anyhow.
See I will continue to mess all of you up as long as you all are brainless fools who are moved by money, I will continue to fvck you all and break your hearts. Motherfackers!!
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cc: cococandy this is for you too. As if we don't know how you all are always the victims of shii that happens in a marriage. You people are now forming tough here. I am sorry for Nigerian ladies honestly. Some of you will cry ehn you will think that its funeral. The way I will deal with some if you. Weak things forming bold on the internet.

You are so pained that it has blinded you from seeing that you men are actually the weak ones

bellotaofeek:
Thanks for the tips . But what if the kids resemble you a lot ? Raising someone else kids is total waste of time and money .

It is fair to say that at that point only character will tell

lajoshua:
It doesn't change the fact you will continue to be at the receiving end and suffer the most. You people think you have strong head abi, you will cry!! shey na today? we know how you all suffer as victims in marriages so if you like keep on forming bold here at the end of the day its a man you will still go and ask for monthly money for upkeep.
Motherfacker!! I have told you I will make all you Nigerian ladies cry. Fools who know only money you will see who will be at the receiving end, just watch.

Be there and be forming superman, at the end of the day we will know the real victims

NubiLove:
DNA test is affordable. It is less than N50k.... please do a google search for DNA testing service in Lagos, there are more than 3 I know of in Lagos alone.

What's this one saying? the least DNA test is about 100k so please send the link here so I can check.

Men don't bother going for DNA if you know you aren't faithful yourself. It's a cycle only you men can decide to end. You can only end it if you drink from your own well.

David4best:
This is why I so much like Esan my tribe. If our wife we legally married cheat on us and we are not awared, she will has an incurable terrible sickness till she dies. Except she confesses on time and come back to my village to do some traditional rites to d elders before she can be healed. They will even naked her to dance round the village. My future wife will not venture to cheating on me because of my tradition. This gives me confidence

Esan?!! keep dreaming. it's the same.

Xcelinteriors:
Some men deserve it my dear, they deserve to train up another man's child

Who are those people crucifying me for saying my mind? The truth is that I can't do it to my husband but seriously some men deserves it. Do you know how many men that keep their girlfriend outside, rented a very nice apartment for them and also paying them salary while the wife will be home eating rubbish food and wearing rags all in the name of marriage. SOME men are very wicked and deserve more than raising another Man's child with their hard earned money. Kill yourself if you don't like what I have said

That is not comparable to raising another man's child. It's wickedness in the highest realm, it is demonic. If you don't see anything wrong with it then you could be doing so or could.

Women done enter trouble oh especially those ones called hoes that cant close that thing between their legs
Imagine the shame and embarrassment for a woman to be driven from her matrimonial home after husband finds out kids are not his through DNA testing. Big big wahaLA

I must do that DNA test for my would be kids when time reach.Trustable women are extreme few these days

obikirinoni:
Be careful ooo.

My sister's Oga did it two years ago, somewhere around computer village in Ikeja.

All four kids, none were his.

He willed his properties to his family and committed suicide.

Thank you but a life lived in fear is a life half lived.

cuvox:
Nobody deserves to raise someone's else's child without knowing. I am not here to complain about the cheating or who cheats most, na na na. most of us are cheats by the way. some do it emotionally, others physically.
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The frigging annoying thing is that a woman cheats successfully, gets pregnant and ties the baby to another guy. WTF??
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if the guy wanted to raise someone's else child shouldn't him make the decision himself? And it's getting worse. I fear most ladies of nowadays.
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The way they tell their stories in my hostel. Here one had unprotected sex with her so called "fiance" two days ago, and then had unprotected sex with "an online friend that came to visit yesterday" and guess what, today is her ovulation (according to her).
And all her friends are telling her to hold her fiance if she gets pregnant, insisting that's what they will do. wawu.
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There's Odartey Lamptey who thought the three kids he raised were his. There are so many other cases out there. You raise a child, take him /her as yours, only for the lady to come and tell you later that the child is not yours.
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And how about the girls that goes around collecting abortion money from different guys, do you think they if they killed their conscience to come claim abortion money from you for what you didn't put in there they won't kill their conscience to make you raise the child if she wisely refuses to commit murder?
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Abeg, to avoid stories that touch, start saving for DNA test. If the result shows that the baby is yours, congratulations, love your wife more, else you can decide to either take care of them or move thrash aside.
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Don't tell me about homes that will be broken, is it the home that you have already broken before?
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Since the ladies are now making sure that we can't trust them anymore, make we distrust them.

All these women sef. And you dare not bring home a child of yours who you had through another woman, even before you met em. They will do many unthinkable things to you and that child. Yet they'll tie another man's responsibilities to you.

Don't let me talk because I know many people who have faced, some still facing and others likely to face same challenge. By their fruits though you'll know them. Just look deeper. Spits

lepasharon:
What disadvantaged position? I, in no way feel disadvantaged to a man except physically.

Not even physically, my dear

lajoshua:
Pain? stopping using deflection psychology. Its you all that is pained, that's why the idea of a DNA test irks you. So you think a cheating woman actually pains a man. Its a man who is a fool that would allow one weak thing called a woman to play him. Me raise child that is not mine? you think I'm interested in marrying you all, you all are just for fvcks we fvck you that's what we do, we don't marry Nigerian women we fvck them.
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They'll come here be claiming tough, you won't be the first woman to cry in a marriage and you would definely not be the last.
You all are fvcktards who do the will of us who have got the cash, see them claiming strong on social media. Bloody weak things!!! we will see now. shebi you can cheat. We will see. Bloody fools!! whose ticket of a better life is a man, are now here forming tough.

hehehe..calm down bro. I must admit, I agree with your last line.

cococandy:
You're part of the problem.
Indirectly saying it's better for the men to cheat on their wives. No it's not. And if we are against adultery it should be unbiased.

Otherwise it's plain hypocrisy and sexism.

The way these guys are pained, they should realize it's the same way their women feel when they go outside. And no man's emotional well being is better than a woman's.

i have read most of your comments on this thread, I just want to summarise all what you have said with this simple statement.

How would you feel if your mum tells you the man you have been calling dad isn't really your dad but your siblings are his children?

think of the emotional n psychological trauma you would go through as a person.

the child suffers the most. if the wife wants to cheat due to her husband's promiscuous lifestyle fine by me but don't bring a child into this world to pay for a sin he/she knows nothing about.

OKANGPRECIOUS:
You should equally know that some babies are exchanged in the hospital immediately after birth when the woman is not yet conscious of her self by dubious Doctors/Nurses who make deal with families that want a particular sex of baby.
In that case, who do you blame

That one is easy na.

DNA test will also show that the baby is not the mother's.

cuvox:
Nobody deserves to raise someone's else's child without knowing. I am not here to complain about the cheating or who cheats most, na na na. most of us are cheats by the way. some do it emotionally, others physically.
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The frigging annoying thing is that a woman cheats successfully, gets pregnant and ties the baby to another guy. WTF??
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if the guy wanted to raise someone's else child shouldn't him make the decision himself? And it's getting worse. I fear most ladies of nowadays.
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The way they tell their stories in my hostel. Here one had unprotected sex with her so called "fiance" two days ago, and then had unprotected sex with "an online friend that came to visit yesterday" and guess what, today is her ovulation (according to her).
And all her friends are telling her to hold her fiance if she gets pregnant, insisting that's what they will do. wawu.
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There's Odartey Lamptey who thought the three kids he raised were his. There are so many other cases out there. You raise a child, take him /her as yours, only for the lady to come and tell you later that the child is not yours.
.
And how about the girls that goes around collecting abortion money from different guys, do you think they if they killed their conscience to come claim abortion money from you for what you didn't put in there they won't kill their conscience to make you raise the child if she wisely refuses to commit murder?
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Abeg, to avoid stories that touch, start saving for DNA test. If the result shows that the baby is yours, congratulations, love your wife more, else you can decide to either take care of them or move thrash aside.
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Don't tell me about homes that will be broken, is it the home that you have already broken before?
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Since the ladies are now making sure that we can't trust them anymore, make we distrust them.

and how much does this test cost??

cococandy:
Face the topic please.
After insulting me.

lols I didnt insult u na

Johnbosco77:
and how much does this test cost??

Asked a few doctor friends online, most claimed it is between 70k-90k now. seems fair enough when compared to the millions spent in raising a child

You seem like a huge disappointment. I don't understand how you could say something like "Some men deserve it". Are you God to judge anyone else?

Xcelinteriors:
Some men deserve it my dear, they deserve to train up another man's child

Who are those people crucifying me for saying my mind? The truth is that I can't do it to my husband but seriously some men deserves it. Do you know how many men that keep their girlfriend outside, rented a very nice apartment for them and also paying them salary while the wife will be home eating rubbish food and wearing rags all in the name of marriage. SOME men are very wicked and deserve more than raising another Man's child with their hard earned money. Kill yourself if you don't like what I have said

Xcelinteriors:
Some men deserve it my dear, they deserve to train up another man's child

Who are those people crucifying me for saying my mind? The truth is that I can't do it to my husband but seriously some men deserves it. Do you know how many men that keep their girlfriend outside, rented a very nice apartment for them and also paying them salary while the wife will be home eating rubbish food and wearing rags all in the name of marriage. SOME men are very wicked and deserve more than raising another Man's child with their hard earned money. Kill yourself if you don't like what I have said

I can understand the pain caused by such wickedness but it is still not equal to the gravity of not know your child ain't yours...imagine your husband swaps your baby with another baby at birth and you now grow to love this child and take him or her as your own...imagine how it will feel knowing the truth later.. that's the closest analogy I could think up

With the presence of the dreaded HIV, should men keep having unprotected sex? Some people who have hiv want to spread it too saying someone else gave it to them. I just think men should just take things easy and stop digging deep. Papa wey born you no fit reach the bottom of the sea, na you want set the record?

Xcelinteriors:
Some men deserve it my dear, they deserve to train up another man's child

Who are those people crucifying me for saying my mind? The truth is that I can't do it to my husband but seriously some men deserves it. Do you know how many men that keep their girlfriend outside, rented a very nice apartment for them and also paying them salary while the wife will be home eating rubbish food and wearing rags all in the name of marriage. SOME men are very wicked and deserve more than raising another Man's child with their hard earned money. Kill yourself if you don't like what I have said

Brunosamel:
Abeg how much is DNA test, am expecting a child from one girl and I need to confirm the child belongs to me.

Between $150 to $200

Xcelinteriors:
Some men deserve it my dear, they deserve to train up another man's child

Who are those people crucifying me for saying my mind? The truth is that I can't do it to my husband but seriously some men deserves it. Do you know how many men that keep their girlfriend outside, rented a very nice apartment for them and also paying them salary while the wife will be home eating rubbish food and wearing rags all in the name of marriage. SOME men are very wicked and deserve more than raising another Man's child with their hard earned money. Kill yourself if you don't like what I have said

the problem with your statement is that the men who truly deserve it are too smart to bear the brunt...it's usually the innocent unsuspecting men that bear it....just look at what that lady's friend said up there that she should tie it to the innocent fiance whereas na anoda sharp guy score goal.....as for me DNA test even while baby still in d womb...any error like ds I bounce!

A friend of mine that we lived together in Europe,married her wife and kept them comfortably in nija and after 4 years with 2 kids the woman started persuading to come and join the husband overseas even though the guy visits them every 5 months.then he decided to bring them overseas with no negative intention.but it happened that the Finnish embassy in abuja needed to make a DNA test for the kids in there own hospital.it was so surprise to the woman because she never expected that and she began to draw back for the test.as the guy began to suspect her her for that,he travelled to nija to by force take the kids to the test and finds out that he was only the father of the first one.so shocking .he abandoned her and thats the end of the marriage.

That's why the Nigerian version of feminism is that ladies always want to sleep around just like men and don't want to be ridiculed for it...

This is very true, and another funny component of their yeye feminism is that they expect you as the man to continue spending on them (or taking financial responsibility for the relationship or family), while they retain the 'right' to cheat on you by sleeping around too!

These people are just despicable.

CreamyMoltenLar:
VicFunTop how would you feel if your husband requests for a paternity test?

I'll feel insulted. I'll prefer it if he goes ahead without telling me but he should be careful I dnt find out

cococandy:
Good for them.

I wish this for every man who believes it's okay for him to cheat but abominable if his woman does the same. May they all raise kids that don't belong to him. Amen.

I'm sure this one would be busy chopping her husband's money as if it is her entitlement. It is 'normal' for him to bear financial responsibility over you, but when it comes to cheating you are both equal abi? I pity whoever it is that you have have managed to entrap with your jezebelic wiles.

The perverse brand of gender equality and feminism adopted by these new age Nigerian females is sickening.