can you allow your gfrd to work in a hotel . is it normal yes or no and beside she has no work she doing before . because me want tell her to let us cutoff the relationship because i dont like the work . plz i need ur advice on this issue plzzzzz
please dont mind my grammar

yes

she work at the bar

I don't really see anything bad about it.Be it a receptionist, waitress,chef,or even a janitress. What matters most is her behaviour and self discipline. I once worked as a receptionist in a luxury hotel,truth be told,she will definitely come across crazy customers, but at the end of the day d decision of whether to give in to ur admirers rests on ur shoulder.
She can be managing dat one while searching for a better one,as dat was my case then.

it depends, they get many toasters.

if I give her money on a regular basis. , I can dictate to her , but it really depends on what she loves and has passion for

I cant stop my girl from working and making money cox we are dating

Saintsammurai:
Definitely it's a no..
Though whether she works in a hotel or work in a church is no big deal for a hoe is always a hoe, she will still cheat on you if she wants to, but working in a hotel means her sex partners will be more than 10.

Na so.... ode

ReneeNuttall:
I don't really see anything bad about it.Be it a receptionist, waitress,chef,or even a janitress. What matters most is her behaviour and self discipline. I once worked as a receptionist in a luxury hotel,truth be told,she will definitely come across crazy customers, but at the end of the day d decision of whether to give in to ur admirers rests on ur shoulder.
She can be managing dat one while searching for a better one,as dat was my case then.

remind me to send u money for guguru and epa

kiddoiLL:
remind me to send u money for guguru and epa

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Yes why not,its her pucci not mine,if she wishes 2share it wiv everybody that's her problem, because i always eat mine,wiv my gloves on...

On behalf of my boo,he wont accept.

Allow? Does he feed me, pay my rent & bills for him to have any kind of say on what I do for a living? Sorry, but I don't think that's his place.

If she's making a clean living , what exactly is your problem with her working at a hotel ? . I'm sure you meant to use another in the place of "allow".

ZarZar:
Allow? Does he feed me, pay my rent & bills for him to have any kind of say on what I do for a living? Sorry, but I don't think that's his place.

That word just made me feel kinda of uncomfortable with his post.

kayloyal87:
can you allow your gfrd to work in a hotel . is it normal yes or no and beside she has no work she doing before . because me want tell her to let us cutoff the relationship because i dont like the work . plz i need ur advice on this issue plzzzzz
please dont mind my grammar

depends in the girl bro...if she's easy and down to earth and know what she's doing, I'd let her...

ZarZar:
Allow? Does he feed me, pay my rent & bills for him to have any kind of say on what I do for a living?

If you really envision a future for yourselves,you'll surely respect his concerns,when it comes to his worries about your working environment,especially if it entails working in an area which could promote promiscuity

if you get her a better job and she rejects then you can complain about the hospitality job..but if you can't get her a job, then you have absolutely no right whatsoever to complain about her working in a hotel especially if the pay is worth it...responsible people work there too afterall and if luck is on her side, she'll meet destiny helpers there too.
because if it's some girls, once you stop them from this kind of job, be ready to provide for their every single need as they'll say its your fault they can't foot their own bills

Lionessza:








That word just made me feel kinda of uncomfortable with his post.

Girl, like you're a poodle! LOL! Can you imagine! I'd tell him well, tough! Controlling much? What is even wrong with working at a hotel?

If you can't provide a better job for her then don't be the bad belle in her life.

JSmart4u:


If you really envision a future for yourselves,you'll surely respect his concerns,when it comes to his worries about your working environment,especially if it entails working in an area which could promote promiscuity

Promotes promiscuity how? It's a hotel, not a brothel! Honestly, he can swiftly move on if he can't even trust me at work. WTH?

ZarZar:


Girl, like you're a poodle! LOL! Can you imagine! I'd tell him well, tough! Controlling much? What is even wrong with working at a hotel?

Youvon Thebe is wrong lolzz

JSmart4u:


Youvon Thebe is wrong lolzz

Huh? I don't understand

ZarZar:

Huh? I don't understand

Don't you watch Scandal?

ZarZar:


Girl, like you're a poodle! LOL! Can you imagine! I'd tell him well, tough! Controlling much? What is even wrong with working at a hotel?

Lol, probably one of those " I need an obedient woman for a wife" type. I still don't understand myself, what exactly is the problem if his woman is working at a hotel.

JSmart4u:


Don't you watch Scandal?

Lol no, not really. I'm not a big fan of soapies & telenovelas. You watch that?

ZarZar:


Lol no, not really. I'm not a big fan of soapies & telenovelas. You watch that?

Yeah i'm forced to watch some of em',due to my gf's remote control rights lol

Lionessza:









Lol, probably one of those " I need an obedient woman for a wife" type. I still don't understand myself, what exactly is the problem if his woman is working at a hotel.

Jsmart says "it promotes promiscuity" How? IDK because if you're loose, you're going to be loose even if you work as a lunch lady or church usher. Men are everywhere for crying out loud!

JSmart4u:


Yeah i'm forced to watch some of em',due to my gf's remote control rights lol

Hahaha. OK. Happy GF, happy life

ZarZar:

Hahaha. OK. Happy GF, happy life

Lmao u got that right!

JSmart4u:


Lmao u got that right!

What language does she speak?

ZarZar:


Jsmart says "it promotes promiscuity" How? IDK because if you're loose, you're going to be loose even if you work as a lunch lady or church usher. Men are everywhere for crying out loud!

Hahahaha that just sounds like insecurity to me. Like you said , if someone is a slut they will be a slut no matter where they are(location doesn't determine behavior). Same way you can go to a club and find decent women who are just there for fun and music. You can go to a church and find out that the lady who sits at the front and sings louder than any other congregant has slept with the pastor , the decon, the church janitor, the choir leader etc