ZarZar:


Jsmart says "it promotes promiscuity" How? IDK because if you're loose, you're going to be loose even if you work as a lunch lady or church usher. Men are everywhere for crying out loud!

ZarZar:

What language does she speak?

Lionessza:








Hahahaha that just sounds like insecurity to me. Like you said , if someone is a slut they will be a slut no matter where they are(location doesn't determine behavior). Same way you can go to a club and find decent women who are just there for fun and music. You can go to a church and find out that the lady who sits at the front and sings louder than any other congregant has slept with the pastor , the decon, the church janitor, the choir leader etc

JSmart4u:


There's a difference zarzar. Men who usually patronize hotels,especially these classy 5 star hotels,are men of high status and caliber. Men may feel that you'd surely make comparisons with these high classed individual,thereby breeding some form of insecurity,especially if your guy is struggling.

JSmart4u:


She speaks both venda and Isizulu

ZarZar:


I'm guessing she's Venda then because there must be few Zulus who can actually speak Venda

JSmart4u:


Her father is a zulu,while her mom a venda

ZarZar:


Gotcha. Can you speak any of the languages?

JSmart4u:


Nah not anymore.i was fluent in zulu language prior travelling to Nigeria,but ever since i returned,its been kinda foggy.
Are u zulu?

ZarZar:


Lol, you forgot so fast? I get you though. No, I'm Xhosa.

ZarZar:


Exactly! A job is a job, however, lifestyle differences are where I draw the line personally. I can never date a person that goes to clubs because I don't do clubbing. In the long run that would create a drift in the relationship.

JSmart4u:


Lol not that fast though,being too young was the culprit.I actually stayed in Nigeria for almost ten years straight,involuntarily subsititing my knowledge in Zulu with Igbo language.

Lionessza:










Exactly, which is why I always say people should choose a cluber should date a cluber , a church goer for church goer, a porn star for porn star there won't be any confusion just happiness lol.

ZarZar:

Oh? You grew up where, in SA or NG? I'm not following

JSmart4u:


I was born in durban,and I travelled to Nigeria when i was 10 years old

ZarZar:

Interesting. You must still be a kid then

JSmart4u:


What makes you think so?

ZarZar:


Simple logic. Because there weren't Nigerians pre-1994 & most of those who were born here are usually kids. So my guess is, your parents must have been one of the earlier arrivals, which means you're either in your early 20s or late teens since we've already figured out that you're not a pre-schooler.

JSmart4u:


Lol it seems you aspire to be some form of detective. Sometimes logical reasoning could be skewed without adequate information you know.My Dad actually came to south africa(now a south african citizen) before the apartheid era,moreover i came back to South Africa some years back. So miss/mrs detective,it appears your deduction wasn't actually concise

ZarZar:


Then you must be one of the very few, even him. Hence my thoughts didn't directly go there, knowing the previous restrictions the country had before

JSmart4u:


Every country have restrictions up to a certain degree,but if you qualify as per the criteria stipulated,you wouldn't have any problem entering whichsoever country of interest. Only someone with inadequate resources could've been refuted entry prior to apartheid.

ZarZar:


Nope, remember, I was also born here. I know what rules were in place. They didn't allow just about anybody to enter the country, particularly people from other African countries. The huge influx of African migrants, happened after Apartheid. 1st it was Zimbabweans & Somalis, the rest followed.

JSmart4u:


African lawyers were'nt allowed?

ZarZar:


Lol, what's special about that? I don't think they would have just allowed anyone in, on the simple grounds that they were lawyers. We had our own, so basically, I don't think that reason alone would have been enough reason to grant anyone & everyone entry into the country

Sidenote: Alfred Mangena & Pixley Seme were the 1st black lawyers in SA, as far back as 1910 & 1911, respectively. The 1st black owned law firm was opened by Nelson Mandela & OR Tambo in 1952. Most people don't know that Mandela was a lawyer by profession before he entered politics.

Jayceon:
mmm I like this,my baby is feeding us with knowledge

ZarZar:


Lol, that's because most people seem to be under the impression that black South Africans were uneducated under Apartheid, which is a fallacy. Fort Hare (in the Eastern Cape) was the 1st black university, established in 1916. I guess that's why most people say the Xhosa are the most educated bunch of people, because we pioneered higher level education

Jayceon:
exactly!!! People don't know there were millions of black South Africans going to exclusive schools even in those hard times hence the people who took over from the apartheid government weren't clueless about running a country cos they were educated

ZarZar:


Aha!

Actually, I just read that Fort Hare was THE KEY University in the whole of sub-Saharan Africa, for the "African elites". So not only did it provide higher education to South Africans, but also people from other African countries eg. Robert Mugabe, Julius Nyerere, Kenneth Kaunda etc. I'm guessing this was before Apartheid took full force.

Jayceon:
wow,so we have been Africa's greatest hope since time immemorial? Thanx for this info babes..I owe you,I should start paying you for all these history lessons.

ZarZar:


All there in black & white

ZarZar:


All there in black & white