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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by HolyTitus(m): 10:07am On Jun 10, 2017
Op, i need a sincere answer from you on what I'm about to ask you; Has this so-called girl been gotten laid by YOU before ??
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by Emmahunk(m): 10:08am On Jun 10, 2017
My dear, you are a very wise guy. You were right you know. Commit that suicide and end it all. Why? Because you are a DISGRACE to men and your family.
Love my foot!

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by Maris0427: 10:09am On Jun 10, 2017
U are obsessed

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by bonifieldstun(m): 10:09am On Jun 10, 2017
Lol ur still a boy and not yet a man, man up jor
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by BamideleOJ: 10:09am On Jun 10, 2017
ceejayluv:
was in such emotionally draining situation few months back. dating this girl, ended up proposing to her, arranging for intro and some ex shows up from nowhere and proposes to her as well..... Ah, the dreaded love triangle. Had to allow her make her choice, i lost out. sucked it up, the feelings almost affected my health though, but i haven't contacted her since then. She later blocks me on social media a month later. kept quiet. The yeye new fiance even called me some weeks back asking me some dumb questions of my relationship with his girl. Told him it's all bygone now.
That YeYe new fiancé is just like the owner of the above story. Dem no get sense!
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by farouk0403(m): 10:09am On Jun 10, 2017
Guy you have no hope for your redemption, Just because of a ugly stinking bitch you wanted to commit suicide? ? what the fuick are you thinking? ? i give up on you i am really disappointed in you.

Rule no1 never beg for a relationship because you are being ridiculous.

That your so called ex will never have respect for you again.

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by Josephamstrong1(m): 10:09am On Jun 10, 2017
ogorwyne:
Sometimes love makes us look stupid and weak. What do you want to call her again for? She had issues with her 'ex' and you jumped in. When it comes to relationships and 'exes' ehn, you just have to be careful. One day she is going to have issues with this 'ex' and would want to take advantage of you by coming close again. Been there, done that.

You attempted suicide, na so love dey make you mumu? Killing yourself would only make you the biggest loser. Her mom asked you to beg her, did she not hear your story? abi she don see you finish, sotay she fit just talk without checking the nature of things?

Call it quits and be firm when you do.
tongue
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by DanseMacabre(m): 10:10am On Jun 10, 2017
7footre:


Lol bro, the pained my soul I swear down. My elder bro will beat the living Jesus out of this one gan begging a girl who cheated severally!! Haba

Happy to have relieved some stress... do have a good day


Allah. If to say OP na Okonkwo pikin (Nwoye), na him him papa for kill before him commit suicide. I believe only about 5% of what I read on here though.

Have a great day too.
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by mostsimpliest(m): 10:10am On Jun 10, 2017
Snitch41:
not in Nigeria. Nigerian chicks are stubborn if u are a broke guy. Don't listen or give u d proper attention. Dey clING to the loaded or player types. Bad boys sha. . Build ur principles, if yo lucky u meet a gud girl, else marry a foreigner. Even tho its a Ghanaian.
thanks bro...buh wait ooh do yhu realy mean a ghanian?
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by I888(m): 10:10am On Jun 10, 2017
mostsimpliest:

am 23 yrs old in my final year civil engineering
don't mind all those idiots insulting you. They are all morons forming "man up" NO MAN ON EARTH hasn't gone through this phase you are.

They are just being hypocritical like an average Nigerian instead of admiting they had been in such position before.

Bros, until you go through this phase, you will never have the experience needed to handle Nigerian women.

Forget what most girls will say... NEVER pet any Nigerian girl. I repeat, NEVER do it because they don't deserve it.

Most of them only act like they need a serious relationship wherein they had exhausted all their pussy elasticity forking and hanging out with bad boys.

Only few of them, very small percentage, appreciate a man that pampers them with love like u have done to that bastard. I hate most Nigerian girls because they are morons and idiotic.

It's after they have been messed up by bad boys that often always look for nice guy(many of them may have lost their niceness).

One who stopped picking my call some years back is busy seeking serious relationship from me. May thunder strike her pussy and woe betide me if I ever give her such opportunity.

It will never be well with all the girls who don't appreciate genuine feelings. Spits.

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by bonifieldstun(m): 10:10am On Jun 10, 2017
Emmahunk:
My dear, you are a very wise guy. You were right you know. Commit that suicide and end it all. Why? Because you are a DISGRACE to men and your family.
Love my foot!
jah bless u ma nigger

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by klax(m): 10:11am On Jun 10, 2017
Oh heaven this early Saturday morning with this kind of day spoiler and depressive post.

Attempted suicide because of a girl and he is NL member

I repeat you mean a guy in NL attempted suicide because of a girl

Pls no comment.

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by kearls: 10:12am On Jun 10, 2017
Brother you've to take heart,it normal thing all must pass through,to shock u 90% of us have gone through that phase of life not once or twice but in all it make you stronger only if u decide to be.Best of luck in the next relationship. grin
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by Ayoguy(m): 10:12am On Jun 10, 2017
eph12:

How is accepting to be a side boyfriend respecting woman feelings?

Abeg I no wan vex this morning o. Why don't you get​her account number and that of the guy and send money to them since​ you're about respecting feelings?
Bros the thing weak me too o..
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by samtol4(m): 10:12am On Jun 10, 2017
Beging a girl to be her side bf? You need deliverance ...Place your right hand on your head and say oh God recover my brain from witchcraft coven in Jesus name

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by timilinda(f): 10:12am On Jun 10, 2017
mostsimpliest:
On a very serious note this has got me down since yesterday night and i have no one to ask or share this with among my friends cause none of them will listen to me as far as is about this girl (my ex)

It all started when i was in my level 300 first semester after we started dating, even the air i breath can bear me witness that i loved this girl with my life that i couldn't spent 2 hours without hearing from her. I got to know her through a secondary school classmate which was her friend and roommate then, I was the type that don't do relationship stuff since i thought it was all about waste of time and even doubt if there was anything like true love, I told this friend of mine about my love for her friend and she laughed and said that i can't date her since am the no-nonsense type and that she has hot tempered like me and that she was madly in love with her guy and she doesn't double date.

With time they had problem with this guy which i used to my advantage and she accepted my proposal of dating.

On this day, Etisalat were doing one bonanza like that and i wanted to participate and didn't have their sim whereas this my ex was having an etisalat and mtn sim,
I collected her sim so that i participate in the promo only for me to start seeing what i wasn't suppose to see but sincerely i never suspected her of any misdeed, I was so heartbroken by the messages on her phone especially from a particular number.

I saved d no. and chatted up with the guy not knowing dah he was her so-called ex that know me even though i didn't know him then coz we lived in the same area....she called me that night and was raining causes on me and threatening to cut off the relationship that i didn't trust her that's why i chatted up with him,i pleaded with all my life for days before she accepted my apology after i carried out my research on her i got to understand that they were still dating...

To cut the story short towards my exams she started showing me attitudes before telling me it was over.....I attempted suicide only friends were able to stop me from that callous act

Her mum invited me over that i should try begging her if i still got achance,i stupidly begged this girl because i was totally in love with her,she agreed buh that i will be the side boyfriend and that her guy mustnt know that we dating,i happily acepted buh guess what some months to exams again its over with plenty insults and threats from her that am too jealous that she doesnt wanna loose her bf.i accepted in good faith.

After sometime,she called me on the phone mind you she asked me not to ever call her or chat her up,i picked and was giving her one word answer which make her never to call me again...but seriously am now feeling bad like am childish dont know whether to call her or what do you guys think?


Even I, a female, will call you mumu! angry angry If u were my relative I would hv SLAPPED YOUR BRAIN TO FACTORY SETTING, so that u for get sense!!! angry angry

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by thestevens: 10:13am On Jun 10, 2017
You are not just childish o,what you need is to graduate with a good result and make a better life for yourself instead of infatuating towards a gal that doesnt even have the same feeling 4 you.who even commit suicide because of a woman?WTF!

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by ivolt: 10:14am On Jun 10, 2017
ezteem:
It's only Yoruba boys that'll think of sucide....... I'm sure OP is Yoruba.

Can't you think straight for once ?

Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by BamideleOJ: 10:14am On Jun 10, 2017
TrapHedges:
All d people abusing d OP are dumb primitive people..lowkey uall done did things worst than OP's


bro.. At times all tis stuff llappe# for tis sllit called love..

Its easy... STOP FALLING INLOVE just be #ormal.. Keep side chicks so u don't get llurt wen main click fucks_ u up..





will you keep quiet!
speak for yourself
National Union of MuMu Lovers
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by Nobody: 10:16am On Jun 10, 2017
TrapHedges:
All d people abusing d OP are dumb primitive people..lowkey uall done did things worst than OP's


bro.. At times all tis stuff llappe# for tis sllit called love..

Its easy... STOP FALLING INLOVE just be #ormal.. Keep side chicks so u don't get llurt wen main click fucks_ u up..






Best advice, #no body holy.

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by Opoki(m): 10:16am On Jun 10, 2017
mostsimpliest:
On a very serious note this has got me down since yesterday night and i have no one to ask or share this with among my friends cause none of them will listen to me as far as is about this girl (my ex)

It all started when i was in my level 300 first semester after we started dating, even the air i breath can bear me witness that i loved this girl with my life that i couldn't spent 2 hours without hearing from her. I got to know her through a secondary school classmate which was her friend and roommate then, I was the type that don't do relationship stuff since i thought it was all about waste of time and even doubt if there was anything like true love, I told this friend of mine about my love for her friend and she laughed and said that i can't date her since am the no-nonsense type and that she has hot tempered like me and that she was madly in love with her guy and she doesn't double date.

With time they had problem with this guy which i used to my advantage and she accepted my proposal of dating.

On this day, Etisalat were doing one bonanza like that and i wanted to participate and didn't have their sim whereas this my ex was having an etisalat and mtn sim,
I collected her sim so that i participate in the promo only for me to start seeing what i wasn't suppose to see but sincerely i never suspected her of any misdeed, I was so heartbroken by the messages on her phone especially from a particular number.

I saved d no. and chatted up with the guy not knowing dah he was her so-called ex that know me even though i didn't know him then coz we lived in the same area....she called me that night and was raining causes on me and threatening to cut off the relationship that i didn't trust her that's why i chatted up with him,i pleaded with all my life for days before she accepted my apology after i carried out my research on her i got to understand that they were still dating...

To cut the story short towards my exams she started showing me attitudes before telling me it was over.....I attempted suicide only friends were able to stop me from that callous act

Her mum invited me over that i should try begging her if i still got achance,i stupidly begged this girl because i was totally in love with her,she agreed buh that i will be the side boyfriend and that her guy mustnt know that we dating,i happily acepted buh guess what some months to exams again its over with plenty insults and threats from her that am too jealous that she doesnt wanna loose her bf.i accepted in good faith.

After sometime,she called me on the phone mind you she asked me not to ever call her or chat her up,i picked and was giving her one word answer which make her never to call me again...but seriously am now feeling bad like am childish dont know whether to call her or what do you guys think?
This girl gave you the chance to be her wash ma, I mean she gave you a chance to be shinning her Congo sideways but you blew your chance. Pele. Sorry.

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by Josephamstrong1(m): 10:17am On Jun 10, 2017
Aderola15:


Don't call her, leave things be just the way they are. If you guys cross paths again, just do the normal pleasantries and move along.

If you call that girl, I wee find you and use you for money rituals... angry angry angry

Chisos!
Ehh! Money wat?

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by franzis(m): 10:18am On Jun 10, 2017
ode ni bobo yi sha... o da bi pe o ni nkan ti o ro ... all this epistle because of a woman
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by Aleora(f): 10:18am On Jun 10, 2017
am sure you are one of our nairaland guys that will say all ladies bitch and aint worth it......since you are a no nonsense person you know what to do.......take heart sha...she never loved you...
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by CeeJay419(m): 10:18am On Jun 10, 2017
Laughing Out my veins... Cj

Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by MropeEleniyan00(m): 10:18am On Jun 10, 2017
Waste my time reading this story..worst I have ever read on NL ..Guy u no well
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by Nobody: 10:18am On Jun 10, 2017
The guy above me is right this is the worst sh!t that I ever read.

Some guys are naturally born dunce. Op, I would have beat some sense into you if you were close. Goddammit!
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by ivolt: 10:19am On Jun 10, 2017
@mostsimplest
If you don't want to become a perpetual slave, please keep off
that girl.

Your mistake is falling in love before you know the girl, you fell
for the love scam.

Even if she "forgives" you again, I assure you it won't end well
because this same cycle will repeat itself and you will likely take
stupid decision that you will regret..

I will advice you run for your life and future.
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by SirImole(m): 10:20am On Jun 10, 2017
Frankicent:
If this story is real you a big fool..... Hmnn no wonder ladies would always have a man to make them bow down to Herr and take stupid order. This gal you plead with and even went as far committing suicide cause, of one gal.. List she had would be fine face, and...shit ass....


Anywy you need help me....i go guys who can move your beta male nonchalant attitude to a bold alpha men. grin

In time this useless gal who almost made you committ suicide would come beg you..trust me. If you have the patience you become an alpha soon... Pm me.. make I share the group link with you.



Link me up with the group!




08067621697
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by slinkman(m): 10:20am On Jun 10, 2017
mostsimpliest:

just to make sure there is no grudges attached....dont wanna cont. keeping malice with her.dassall
you still be very big idiot if you dey avoid grudges and dey there dey worry about who you keep grudges with and who not.. guy forget all this bullshit , to hell with her , start leaving now like she never existed. If she likes she stays your friend, if she likes she _fucks off, you owe her NO phone call

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Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by starwar(m): 10:20am On Jun 10, 2017
I888:
don't mind all those idiots insulting you. They are all morons forming "man up" NO MAN ON EARTH hasn't gone through this phase you are.

They are just being hypocritical like an average Nigerian instead of admiting they had been in such position before.

Bros, until you go through this phase, you will never have the experience needed to handle Nigerian women.

Forget what most girls will say... NEVER pet any Nigerian girl. I repeat, NEVER do it because they don't deserve it.

Most of them only act like they need a serious relationship wherein they had exhausted all their pussy elasticity forking and hanging out with bad boys.

Only few of them, very small percentage, appreciate a man that pampers them with love like u have done to that bastard. I hate most Nigerian girls because they are morons and idiotic.

It's after they have been messed up by bad boys that often always look for nice guy(many of them may have lost their niceness).

One who stopped picking my call some years back is busy seeking serious relationship from me. May thunder strike her pussy and woe betide me if I ever give her such opportunity.

It will never be well with all the girls who don't appreciate genuine feelings. Spits.
Boss e pass Wetin op talk?....I can feel ur para mode
Re: Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) by frankmoney(m): 10:21am On Jun 10, 2017
I was once like this OP until I decided to have sense , now once you give me attitude I ditch you straight there are about a billion fine girls in this world

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