Hi everyone,

My name is Obowunmi. I've been a Nairaland member for many years now under different monikers.

I started dating this girl early January of this year however we have had too many ups and downs because I have not shown or told her that I have money. She thinks I am just a loser.

When I first met her, she was very nice but not anymore.

Once in a while, I buy her expensive gifts but I haven't divulged to her what I do, the type of job I have or any of that stuff. Maybe this is her reason for being so heartless.

Over the months, we have had one altercation where we didnt talk throughout the month of May. Today, I've had to block her on WhatsApp and other channels because she is just mean, doesn't communicate, would rather spend time on twitter than talk with me.

We have kept our relationship secret so far and my heart is heavy and I think at this point, I'm tired and ready to move on.


I like her. I really do like her. But I dont know what else to do. I dont want anyone to date me for my money so I will not tell her that I am a multimillionaire.

Pls I need your help. I am tired of it all. My heart is heavy. I am ready to settle down.

Nay God help you

Front page pls.

Okay

Are you sure she is angry about you being "broke"

I feel like there are other underlying issues...

Clearly she dated u without the money so she is not there for that coz she doesn't even know ...

Just go apologize

What do you think is going to happen once she finds out?
Why do some men like creating situations? Date a woman who is standing on her own two feet why is that so difficult to do? You like her but you lie to her and now you can't cope with her frustrations honestly some men never learn. There is a part of me that would like me to call you immature in terms of how you handled this. But I will be nice .You know that you will attract some unsavoury females on account of your wealth, why set yourself up to fail?

That relationship lacks effective communication.

The truth right?
Unblock her from every channel, and let your mind let her go and not your social chat sites alone
.... Live her alone, stopping checking on what shes doing, best is , three weeks and shes off your mind....
Go out bro , go to new places, do new things , these would help you, and since you said you are a multi millionaira, i willl be sending my account , i am not yet a multi..

Omoh I didn't read that story ....but guy if yhure a multi billonaire... Just sow 1million into my life..yhur love life go change..



Nawa ooo..

MissRaine69:
What do you think is going to happen once she finds out?
Why do some men like creating situations? Date a woman who is standing on her own two feet why is that so difficult to do? You like her but you lie to her and now you can't cope with her frustrations honestly some men never learn. There is a part of me that would like me to call you immature in terms of how you handled this. But I will be nice .You know that you will attract some unsavoury females on account of your wealth, why set yourself up to fail?

what is this one saying?

Multi-milionaire Ke.....Sometime around April you talked about your boss harassing you in the office. 2 months later you are a multi-millionaire WELL DONE SIR. Did you hit a jack pot or do they pay you millions??

You will be shocked to find out that OP doesn't even have up to 100k. LMAO

obowunmi:
Hi everyone,

My name is Obowunmi. I've been a Nairaland member for many years now under different monikers.

I started dating this girl early January of this year however we have had too many ups and downs because I have not shown or told her that I have money. She thinks I am just a loser.

When I first met her, she was very nice but not anymore.

Once in a while, I buy her expensive gifts but I haven't divulged to her what I do, the type of job I have or any of that stuff. Maybe this is her reason for being so heartless.

Over the months, we have had one altercation where we didnt talk throughout the month of May. Today, I've had to block her on WhatsApp and other channels because she is just mean, doesn't communicate, would rather spend time on twitter than talk with me.

We have kept our relationship secret so far and my heart is heavy and I think at this point, I'm tired and ready to move on.


I like her. I really do like her. But I dont know what else to do. I dont want anyone to date me for my money so I will not tell her that I am a multimillionaire.

Pls I need your help. I am tired of it all. M y heart is heavy. I am ready to settle down.

.... millionnaire how?...on nairaland? (No oofensece)

Honestly, i'm nw confused of what millonaire really means?....

ikp120:
You will be shocked to find out that OP doesn't not have up to 100k. LMAO

No be small thing o, lies everywhere.

ikp120:
You will be shocked to find out that OP doesn't not have up to 100k. LMAO

thanki410:
The truth right?
Unblock her from every channel, and let your mind let her go and not your social chat sites alone
.... Live her alone, stopping checking on what shes doing, best is , three weeks and shes off your mind....
Go out bro , go to new places, do new things , these would help you, and since you said you are a multi millionaira, i willl be sending my account , i am not yet a multi..

This sounds like a good idea. Thank you.

Tahrah:
That relationship lacks effective communication.

Yes but on her part not mine.

No, a legit millionaire.

..

Cladez:
Multi-milionaire Ke.....Sometime around April you talked about your boss harassing you in the office. 2 months later you are a multi-millionaire WELL DONE SIR. Did you hit a jack pot or do they pay you millions??

Savage, you fvcking wicked bro, see as you end him career

U see why I don't like some ppl watching nollywood unless their brain is updated.
OK I know is u are telling us a movie.
Cos in reality wealth can't be hidden.
Once you make money everything about you reveals it

I understand why you might want to keep the fact that you are a multimillionaire secret from any prospective girlfriends, until you are sure about their affection. But if you want a girl to date you for your personality, be sure you actually have one. Some wealthy people can be arrogant and egotistical, characteristics they develop from mentally counting their coins. Add to that the smugness of deceit. Since you haven't told her that you're rich, she might just think you naturally have a bad attitude. If you show people only half the picture, they might misunderstand you.

Op, Leave her, if you're not sure in your heart about her it's a bad sign so follow your instincts. Girls these days respond in marvelous ways to money that you might be confused and not differentiate real love from these paper chasers.

Really it's a difficult world out there for rich guys that want to marry for love.

I envy those couples that started Godly relationship together when they had nothing.

This is why I adore most Western girls.

I had 1,000,000.00 in my account yesterday but I withdrew 1,000 today so my balance is 999,000.



That means yesterday I was a millionaire but today am not a millionaire

Op

Cladez:
Multi-milionaire Ke.....Sometime around April you talked about your boss harassing you in the office. 2 months later you are a multi-millionaire WELL DONE SIR. Did you hit a jack pot or do they pay you millions??

Cladez:
Multi-milionaire Ke.....Sometime around April you talked about your boss harassing you in the office. 2 months later you are a multi-millionaire WELL DONE SIR. Did you hit a jack pot or do they pay you millions??

Lie Mohammed

Multi millionaire
Inna fear God o

mugu, you can't tell ur girlfirend that is making ur heart heavy that you're a multi milonaire, but you can tell everyone on nairaland... abeg who get that Segun arinze Junior brother picture..

CuddleBear:
Give me 10k out of that millions thank you

r u cheating on me

Dude go get a fvckin job n stop deceiving urslf. Hw can u even say u luv her n yet u been hiding ur true identity frm her? I knw u watch a lot of Nollywood bt this is real life. Leave relationship n get a job so one day u can actually realise ur multi millionaire dream.