debspauly:
well ..he is very caring
he gives me money every time I need it
he is handsome,tall and has the cutest smile
he truly loves me for me and would do anything for me


but he is 20 yr older than me ..and my family says I should marry him ..

but I want a younger guy ...

but all young guys so far are

self centered
childish
not capable of taking care of me
handsome sha but just too childish

don't know what to do.

IamSINZ:



The federal government has failed to achieve Its main goal. Buhari's anti-corruption war has simply crashed and I see the opposition using it against him and the APC in 2019. God help Nigeria.

JeffreyJamez:
For some reason I don't believe this your "story".

Loyalblak007:

Do what you want

debspauly:
sir this is romans section not politics.

IamSINZ:


Really? I actually thought this is YouTube

IamSINZ:


Really? I actually thought this is YouTube

debspauly:
abeg I no get strength to laugh ..

debspauly:
well ..he is very caring
he gives me money every time I need it
he is handsome,tall and has the cutest smile
he truly loves me for me and would do anything for me


but he is 20 yr older than me ..and my family says I should marry him ..

but I want a younger guy ...

but all young guys so far are

self centered
childish
not capable of taking care of me
handsome sha but just too childish

don't know what to do.

IamSINZ:



My regards to the sugar daddy

debspauly:
well ..he is very caring
he gives me money every time I need it
he is handsome,tall and has the cutest smile
he truly loves me for me and would do anything for me


but he is 20 yr older than me ..and my family says I should marry him ..

but I want a younger guy ...

but all young guys so far are

self centered
childish
not capable of taking care of me
handsome sha but just too childish

don't know what to do.

debspauly:
well ..he is very caring
he gives me money every time I need it
he is handsome,tall and has the cutest smile
he truly loves me for me and would do anything for me


but he is 20 yr older than me ..and my family says I should marry him ..

but I want a younger guy ...

but all young guys so far are

self centered
childish
not capable of taking care of me
handsome sha but just too childish

don't know what to do.

MrCork:


....u the main reason y we hate our black women so much an will never respet u....u can't find job?....so u loookin for young man to buy u cloths becuzz yorrr husband don't give u Moiney becuzz yorrr 20year old....abi?....white women r 10times better than u!!!(no oofeense)

MrCork:


....u the main reason y we hate our black women so much an will never respet u....u can't find job?....so u loookin for young man to buy u cloths becuzz yorrr husband don't give u Moiney becuzz yorrr 20year old....abi?....white women r 10times better than u!!!(no oofeense)

You woke up on the wrong side of the bed? You could be so mean sometimes.

MrCork:


....u the main reason y we hate our black women so much an will never respet u....u can't find job?....so u loookin for young man to buy u cloths becuzz yorrr husband don't give u Moiney becuzz yorrr 20year old....abi?....white women r 10times better than u!!!(no oofeense)

debspauly:
well ..he is very caring
he gives me money every time I need it
he is handsome,tall and has the cutest smile
he truly loves me for me and would do anything for me


but he is 20 yr older than me ..and my family says I should marry him ..

but I want a younger guy ...

but all young guys so far are

self centered
childish
not capable of taking care of me
handsome sha but just too childish

don't know what to do.

Nma27:
Sugardaddy re oo... I don't even understand d op. He possesses all that quality and u are bothered about age?

Emary:
You are right to give it a good thought before jumping in. There are other factors associated with marrying older men which may not immediately be evident while dating.

1. He may be buoyant now but how many more years of his working life are still available for him to cater to you.
2. What is his health condition now? Does he have underlying ailments like hypertension or diabetes that may soon prove health challenges? You might soon find yourself a nursemaid or worse, a young widow if he does not take proper care of himself.
3 What is his attitude to you? Given the age difference, he might be controlling and you would be in no position to express yourself properly as it might appear rude to "challenge" him. He should at least be your friend and hear your opinions before taking decisions.

A lot of younger guys are afraid of heavy responsibilities so they might not be ready for marriage. A young man can also die young too as they tend to take more risks such as drunk driving. The main advantage of marrying an older man is that he is usually already established in his business or career so he has more money to spend. He can, however, lose it in an instant in a bad business deal or an act of God. I was just talking to a friend who told me he lost his house to unforeseen structural damage at 55 after 20 yrs of being in the US and the insurance company wouldn't pay so he is basically restarting from the scratch.

Pray very well for God to show you if he is truly your husband. If you do go ahead, ensure you establish a business that can sustain you and your kids as well as life insurance policies and educational plans so your children would be well catered for in any case.

I wish you all the best.

debspauly:
well ..he is very caring
he gives me money every time I need it
he is handsome,tall and has the cutest smile
he truly loves me for me and would do anything for me


but he is 20 yr older than me ..and my family says I should marry him ..

but I want a younger guy ...

but all young guys so far are

self centered
childish
not capable of taking care of me
handsome sha but just too childish

don't know what to do.

naturalwaves:

You seem a bit immature from what I have seen. There was no place in your post where you mentioned why exactly you like him apart from the fact that he is caring and takes care of you because you mentioned that other guys are handsome too. Are you incapacitated or something? With the way you saying he takes care of you, gives you money bla bla . It seems like you do not have a regular good paying job thus being vulnerable to such gestures.

You failed to name concrete/ genuine reasons why you love him except the ephemerals. What happens if all those things are gone? Huh? It takes more than all the things you mentioned to settle down with someone. You need to think deeply and I do not even know where you have been going that you have been meeting childish younger ones. I do not think this is absolutely correct. You just wanted to use the point to justify your decisions.

Moreover, it is obvious he has also extended the financial care to your family or your family can feel it through you. Either way, they won't be the one to live with him and let no one cajole you into making critical, personal decisions.
How old are you if I may ask? Why is he still single or his he a divorcee or a widower? Answer these questions and let us pick it up from there. Cheers!

Emary:
You are right to give it a good thought before jumping in. There are other factors associated with marrying older men which may not immediately be evident while dating.

1. He may be buoyant now but how many more years of his working life are still available for him to cater to you.
2. What is his health condition now? Does he have underlying ailments like hypertension or diabetes that may soon prove health challenges? You might soon find yourself a nursemaid or worse, a young widow if he does not take proper care of himself.
3 What is his attitude to you? Given the age difference, he might be controlling and you would be in no position to express yourself properly as it might appear rude to "challenge" him. He should at least be your friend and hear your opinions before taking decisions.

A lot of younger guys are afraid of heavy responsibilities so they might not be ready for marriage. A young man can also die young too as they tend to take more risks such as drunk driving. The main advantage of marrying an older man is that he is usually already established in his business or career so he has more money to spend. He can, however, lose it in an instant in a bad business deal or an act of God. I was just talking to a friend who told me he lost his house to unforeseen structural damage at 55 after 20 yrs of being in the US and the insurance company wouldn't pay so he is basically restarting from the scratch.

Pray very well for God to show you if he is truly your husband. If you do go ahead, ensure you establish a business that can sustain you and your kids as well as life insurance policies and educational plans so your children would be well catered for in any case.

I wish you all the best.

Dicedpineapple:
Milady..hez a bit on the ancestral syd in my opinion o..bt if hez single nd matured nd u don't wanna marry him out of pity nd d gifts he gives u,den go ahead.Bt how old are u if u don't mind？wanna add it up