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Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by RuggedArab: 3:40pm On Jun 17, 2017
Benita27:
I'm at work. No fried rice here. grin

Abeg where is that your office again? I want to enter town.
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by judgedredd22(m): 3:42pm On Jun 17, 2017
EgunMogaji:
She was self centered and has an unreal sense of entitlement.

#HomieDontPlayThat wink

To the curb she was kicked - sorry hun, you can scamper for crumbs with the other Lasgidi females.



welcome to the world of the average naija girl! grin grin grin

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Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Nobody: 3:43pm On Jun 17, 2017
RuggedArab:


Relationships these days are tiring. People are taking cautions and precautions everyday. People don't give it their all again. How can it work?

We want good relationships yet we can't put extra efforts.
We have too many reservations to keep yet we want it close to perfect.

Which way abeg!

Meself tire pass.
Love now has eyes. If you feel blinded in yours, ask a trusted friend if it's worth it 'cause they're your eyes in such situations.
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Nobody: 3:44pm On Jun 17, 2017
RuggedArab:


Abeg where is that your office again? I want to enter town.
You travelled?.
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by judgedredd22(m): 3:44pm On Jun 17, 2017
mizhefeh:
Cos he broke up with me


what did you do? cos you so pretty and me luvyoulongtime! cheesy cheesy
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by judgedredd22(m): 3:45pm On Jun 17, 2017
Medunah:

Lol, u both are immature asf

Mine was distance and lack of frequent communication.....and I am sure he was cheating too thou I never caught him, I still broke up.

Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by RuggedArab: 3:46pm On Jun 17, 2017
Benita27:
Love now has eyes. If you feel blinded in yours, ask a trusted friend if it's worth it 'cause they're your eyes in such situations.

As I don't have friends is that why these girls have been breaking my tiny heart? No wonder!
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by UndisputedBosom(m): 3:47pm On Jun 17, 2017
Finally i got to the top of this mountain....


I hv an ex whom i share my xperience wit my current bae wit at the detriment of her jealousy (who cares)...


Though i still love her...she came to my house few days ago, told me 2 unlock my phone i gave her the password instead cox i didnt hv anything 2 hide from her, she went through the msg and immdiately had a mood swing (only cared cox it deprieved me the reason i wanted her to come)....


I told her a time like this will surely come when she was threatening to leave...but she left anyway "SHE CAN'T EAT HER CAKE AND HAVE IT" cheesy

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Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by judgedredd22(m): 3:48pm On Jun 17, 2017
Yuneehk:

And you didn't know she wasn't fleshy when you were asking her out Keep waiting for sweet meaty while she meets someone who'll love her regardless of how skinny she looks.



calm down! it is not that serious! grin grin grin
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by judgedredd22(m): 3:49pm On Jun 17, 2017
Gkay1:
I love my ex so much because she tried for me in all aspects of my life. all my life in polytechnic, she stood by me and fulfilled her promised. after we graduated, pride and eagerness to get married came upon her and she started misbehaving and I tried to stop her and talk to her but no positive result. she lust after a guy and d guy disappointed her just after two months of dating. now we are just friends but no more going back. backward never.

Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by HARDDON: 3:50pm On Jun 17, 2017
Benita27:
Now that you don't seem to be "Commanding" me, I could explain what I meant.

"Being a good girl doesn't pay, men would disrespect you"...here, I was making reference to doormat girlfriends. What do I mean?. A guy would cheat on you, you'll be the one begging him and trying to get his attention even after being put in such emotional stress, no one's life revolve around the other. He wrongs you, you apologise even when he knows he was wrong but holding back the 'Sorry' word which seem too heavy to come out of his lips. He thinks too highly of himself, and less of you but you're there showing him love and hoping he'd change. Whenever he calls, you're at his service, never saying 'No' just to satisfy him. These are things "Good girls" do to keep their man/relationship but it usually backfires 'cause men want strong-willed women. Women who would say 'No' to certain things and stand by it.

Let me shine my teeth again 'cause I'm having a good day. grin

Awww dearie ! It must hv been terrible. How did u survive it? tongue

Btw, been a good gurl isnt equal been a naive first-time-in-luv-doll. There is a wide chasm.

Also, been a good / bad gurl cud take on a million n one robes depending on d scenerio you decide to drool on.

Generally speaking, gud gurls are reserved n homely, knows how to cook great meals, wud rather help u save than spend, are principled, dont do two timing, rock ur wits n ur bed, gud sence of humour, gives u ur btrathing space, understands, good communicator, stands by her man , keeps no grudge, industrous n a host of others

While badt gurls r generally opposite of d above listed qualities. You can add been crazy , hot headed , strong willed , hot temper and night life ( weeds, can fight, stab, drink like fishes, fvck random d1ck daily for money, visits prayer houses n herbalists, can kill without a blink etc) to d cognac.


See? Now u schooled

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Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by judgedredd22(m): 3:50pm On Jun 17, 2017
YTderin:
Distance, overtly domineering, never listens to me.


that's a damn shame! you look quite pretty and those locks are giving me joy over here!
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by RuggedArab: 3:51pm On Jun 17, 2017
Benita27:
You travelled?.

No, I am very much around. Thinking of going to Old GRA axis.
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by judgedredd22(m): 3:52pm On Jun 17, 2017
AjiChris:
imagine lolz calling one's bf bro.STEVE bro.DANIEL who does that?


well.... in fairness, church peeps do that though! grin grin grin grin MFM!!
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Horlahmah(m): 3:52pm On Jun 17, 2017
After 2 1/2 years in relationship. Her attitude changed. She was somehow influenced. I was not comfortable with her attitude on social media. Using different guys pics as dp. Dressing shameless yet post online. She has other guys she made love chat with. I was shocked when i saw her chat with her lecturer.
She can use anything to swear that she was not having affair or sex with them.
I called her to order several times. Until she told me, she has no interest in any man FOR NOW (right infront of her parents). She wants to live her life the way she want. She is currently HUSTLING. She has no interest in relationship anymore. After 5 wasted years. I am still yet to recover.

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Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by judgedredd22(m): 3:53pm On Jun 17, 2017
Awesome01:
Mine chose a slightly richer church member of hers over me. 15 years down the line; she's now blaming me for not for not fighting for her love and sadly, her childlessness.

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Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by judgedredd22(m): 3:55pm On Jun 17, 2017
gypsey:
I found some one else who is younger, sexier, Richer, slimmer and taller. tongue grin And oh! she has her own hair she doesn't wear them smelly Animal, Artificial hair or weave on.

Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Nobody: 3:58pm On Jun 17, 2017
krissconnect:
Guys come on let's relate. Let's get to know what got you so pissed off that you decided to call off that relationship or the attitude you put up that made him or her call off the relationship.

Mine: She always acted so cold and like she never cared. Might appear a minor issue but it was bogus to bear
Bogus means 'false' and not 'big' as some think.

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Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by judgedredd22(m): 3:59pm On Jun 17, 2017
Klington:
She was a serial cheat to the extent that on a fateful day she was supposed to come to my place for our usual marathon bleeping buh low n behold, she went to bleep another dude. As if that wasn't enof, one other dude whom she equally booked down for bleeping same day who could not bear it, came looking for her in their house when he was told she wasn't home, he got really upset and beat the hell out of her two sisters. They tot she was with me and were threatening to come and embarrass me buh my guy who lives close to them called to notify me about the development, na so i open mouth. Ironically, this LovePeddler would tell me she hasn't seeing any guy like me in her life b4 and 4 dis reason, she would not have anything to do with any other guy. Later she packed her family ppl cum dey beg me... . No be me n u again. grin

Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by vicben27(m): 3:59pm On Jun 17, 2017
Awesome01:
Mine chose a slightly richer church member of hers over me. 15 years down the line; she's now blaming me for not for not fighting for her love and sadly, her childlessness.
datz the stupid excuze dy alwayz give dy blame you for nt fightin for them
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by kumulus(m): 4:02pm On Jun 17, 2017
Aderola15:


Gay! Gay!! Gay!!!

Ya kissing a man angry embarassed


Man kor....Mané ni!!!


So ur ex broke up with u cos of another man.....chai!!! Aiyé le ö...
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Yuneehk(f): 4:05pm On Jun 17, 2017
judgedredd22:



calm down! it is not that serious! grin grin grin
tongue
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by judgedredd22(m): 4:08pm On Jun 17, 2017
Abiagirl777:
he was obsessed with me,sleays monitored my moves.while I was on I.t ,he told my boss that he has paid my bride price cos I noticed how all the guys wouldn't talk to me(Eng. coy), paid the receptionist to monitor me within.when he always saw me with my supervisor ,he reportede to my aunt that I was prostituting..If I call it quits he'd kneel down to beg me in public.It was highly embarrassing
sometime later I had a near rape incident,he called it quits that I have been deflowered.I was so happy
4 years down the lane he still calls even though i'm married to know whether I regret not marrying him.aftr ignoring this calls several times last wk he told me i was very stupid for doing that cos he wanted to update me on his achievements. he has fought my husband threatened threatened threatened threatened us when we got married.so many...chai !
Ladies run away from any guy obsessed with youo

chai! the guyn tara 'juicy kpomo' ndi abia state, isi ekopuzie ya! grin grin grin grin grin grin

Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by jfleece(m): 4:09pm On Jun 17, 2017
I took her virginity at 24,through she was decent buh after that she would remind me that she gave her life to me, she would scrutinize all my friends and dictated who to hang out with, it even got to the point that she would complain that my sisters visitations was becoming rampant na im I kukuma Waka leave am.

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Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by judgedredd22(m): 4:10pm On Jun 17, 2017
tosyne2much:
I broke up with my ex because I made her understand that I want to remind a virgin till marriage yet she wouldn't just stop coercing me into sex, to the extent that she added something in my food and when I slept off, she started removing my boxers.. Today, I'm happy I'm out of that relationship

Now, I am happy I'm now dating a lady that respects my decision. We have been dating for more than three years now and no form of kissing or hugging let alone sex.


it's all good, but.... you fit finally inherit draw soup, if you know what i mean! grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Nobody: 4:12pm On Jun 17, 2017
kumulus:



Man kor....Mané ni!!!


So ur ex broke up with u cos of another man.....chai!!! Aiyé le ö...

Mane nor, Maine nii undecided

Ain't no nigga breaking up with me, I do the breakups... cool cool

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Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by judgedredd22(m): 4:13pm On Jun 17, 2017
Yuneehk:

tongue


yeye! if i catch that your sexy lips, i go use am do peppersoup! grin grin
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by stkevin(m): 4:14pm On Jun 17, 2017
She wanted out so I had to succumb to her pressure and let her be
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by jfleece(m): 4:17pm On Jun 17, 2017
crismark:
all my gfs re d ones dah always initiates d break up wit d excuse of me not giving dem enuf moni their upkeep...shey I be their papa I never knew I was even giving dem too much until I met my recent gf who is a soldier(navy), who has never asked me for moni, it was den dat I realized broke gals re not meant for me...
oga u really get time to give girl money, women do not appreciate generous men, they love anything opposite.
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by MrIcredible: 4:22pm On Jun 17, 2017
mickeysylva:
Single as Bleep.... Interested in a relationship with a handsome yoruba boy, send a pm...
Are you beautiful and do you think you're smart?
Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by mizhefeh(f): 4:23pm On Jun 17, 2017
Tnxs wink
DeGuyNxtDoor:
hey..you're beautiful! smiley

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Re: Why Did You Breakup With Your Ex? by Telemon(m): 4:25pm On Jun 17, 2017
I cheated, somehow she did find out na so it take end.

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