Estharfabian:
Lol. Discordant, Uncorrelated Excuses.


however you wish to suave what is being discussed. still doesn't change the fact that only Dolls, Puppet, Slaves, People without Self worth submit to Mere mortals.

sekxy:

stop begging for my attention I don't sell any

nkkylove95:
As a girl,I've got to say this is the most sensible topic I've ever come across on Nairaland.The word FEMINIST repulses me cos my mama taught me how to make it in life by not hiding behind the cloak of FEMINISM. Girls,have an education either formal or informal to make it in life then try to be a submissive woman to a honourable man you married.

Dimples129:
1. Can a man impregnate another man?

2. Why should the lady take the "blame" (a child is a blessing and not blame) when it takes 2 to reproduce?
Should we not change this backward ideal rather than embracing it?

3. Gender equality isn't about trying to be a man but rather trying to protect women from the injustices that you as woman is supporting.

I hope all the praise you get from the men on this thread puts money in you're account because you just sold out on the female race including your daughters.

AyeeIdris:


But for this feminism that so repulses you; you won't have gotten this education u speak of. In the western world, you have been sent off to finishing school. in Africa, you would have been married off at 12. Internet is a good time for knowledge. You should try it

greyboy5000:
Good morning sis,
There are lot of things that men do that women may not be able to do or struggle to do better than men

For example physical activities
Have you ever wondered why certain sports have different set of rule for male and female

Yes woman also have where they have competitive advantage

AHCB:
What tha hell are you yapping about? A woman can not dream big? What manner of nonsense are you vomiting, child. What is hindering a woman or any woman from dreaming big if not her mind.

Patriarchal society or not, I've mentioned names in my previous post of women who aspire big and achieve big despite being born in a Patriarchal society. So I wonder where your thoughts is spewing from.

Look kid, nobody is stopping you from achieving what you want to achieve, the only person who can stop you, is you! No one else.

Estharfabian:
I will deliberately overlook the concealed jibe in your response to me because I initially wanted to Engage you in a sequence that'll Culminate into some Understanding. I will also Deliberately ignore your misuse of 'Kid'

Daboomb:




It is treating BOTH GENDER (male and female) with FAIRNESS and JUSTICE.

The operating word here is EQUITY.

No one can fault that.

Cinderella5:
yes, when you are broke and ugly, you should be quiet forever.

Daeylar:
Gender equity means fairness of treatment for women and men, according to their respective needs. This may include equal treatment or treatment that is different but which is considered equivalent in terms of rights, benefits, obligations and opportunities.
A simpler definiton
Gender equality "means that women and men, and girls and boys, enjoy the same rights, resources, opportunities and protections. It does not require that girls and boys, or women and men, be the same.
There is no reason to belittle gender equality and the fight for it

AyeeIdris:


But for this feminism that so repulses you; you won't have gotten this education u speak of. In the western world, you have been sent off to finishing school. in Africa, you would have been married off at 12. Internet is a good source of information. You should try it

Sterope:
You haven't made any sense. Contradictions left, right and center.

Go a get a job, boy:+\

AmoryBlacq:



Hey shut up there

in the East when the missionaries first set up schools

it was women that made up majority of the students

even till date women obtain education more than the male in that region ....... did the women need feminist movement for that

instead of you to strive hard and achieve your potentials like every other individual, you want abstract favours to be handed to you simply because you own a vagina

YelloweWest:

You are young and naive so I'll forgive your ignorance.
I pray you learn that yes, men and women are very different.
However no gender is less than the other!
God is not a misogynist.
He created everything with a fine balance. Can two men impregnate themselves?
The only superior male to me is my husband.
I AM EQUAL WITH EVERY OTHER MAN!

repogirl:
you need to read up what gender equality really means, not this crap you wrote here.

Years ago women were not allowed to vote, they were​ not allowed education and were not given access to lots of things you and I now enjoy today. If no one raised the awareness for equal rights for women, you wouldn't have access to lots of things you do now. You probably wouldn't even be able to read/ write, talk more of type nonsense from a phone.

BTW promiscuity doesnt slack the breast, there are virgins with slacked breasts, neither does it widen the vagina. If a woman can push out the size of a baby and the vagina remains fine, what lasting damage can a pénis do?

Please go and read some more and be sure of what exactly you want to talk about, before you open a t
thread reeking of ignorance and backwardness.

Condemn promiscuity in both sexes if thats what you want to do. Sex is symbiotic, both parties enjoy it together and both will share its consequences together.

Jelal0007:
is it a crime if u make a superior argument without insults?

repogirl:
Kindly waka pass if the insults are affecting you. Stop quoting me or I will turn the insults on you also.

Tayeni:
Mr keyboard warrior try to keep it clean....why are you taking it personal....its just a discussion..its my opinion and what I think my society needs. Now to answer what my thoughts are in relation to the questions.
I run a business with my sister(smart and intelligent BTW)....I've had more than two formerstaff say to my face that they object to having a woman as their boss and that they would prefer to work with me than with her.....tell me if those men sound secure to you. And its even a common saying among some types of men that they will never ever allow their women make more money than them.

-The way you train a female child goes a long way to shape her view of her position in the society. I grew up in the north and you wouldn't see women in the market buying and selling like you'd see down south(that's one if the shocks I experienced when I moved a little south). They are all locked up in their husband's houses as what they call "kulle". Just bear children and bicker with your husband's other wives....that's all they do. No schooling , no economic activities.
Now I don't see any other " active prevention" from participating in the productive sectors than that. And that's the case Emir Sanusi has been advocating that got him into trouble.
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-We don't have to force women who have grown to accept a lower place in the society as a result of the mental conditioning they received growing up to aspire for more. But the society can do more for the next generation.

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CreamyMoltenLar:
Actually gender equality is more of a romantic notion. In the true sense of it, gender equality doesn't advocate for 'equal' opportunities for women, it advocates for women to be allowed to enjoy privileges that men enjoy without necessarily 'earning' it the way men do. By giving a girl a job that requires brainpower because she was more intelligent than the other applicants, the employer has given both genders equal opportunities and one won on merit, but giving a job to a girl that is less suited for the job than other male applicants to meet up with a 'gender quota' is not gender equality, it is giving ladies preferential treatment to afford them the opportunity to enjoy certain privileges. It works the same way as the quota system in which northerners are given 'slots' or given preferential treatment that allows them to occupy positions that they might not have gotten based on merit. I prefer the term female empowerment, because what's at play is basically an attempt to ensure that space is created for women to occupy positions in different capacities, in a bid to reduce their 'subjugation' or dependency on the mercy of men. That's why female politicians pay less to secure tickets to contest under their parties, that's why women aren't expected to keep up with their male counterparts during military training, because the truth is that gender equality would only apply in cases that require only brainpower as an edge to females securing such positions, because factoring in physical strength, societal conceptions about power belonging in the male domain, logical business considerations (pregnant women/mums not being focused or giving the job their all) etc, men would likely still get the jobs even if women were allowed to contest for them and they were expected to do better than men to be chosen over them, unless of course the job itself is better suited to women.
PS
Op was actually talking about how women and men are not the same physiologically, mentally and psychologically. On a side note, in an ideal world gender equality shouldn't be mentioned in marriages. I believe in marrying for love and I believe when a guy marries a girl he loves, the issue of her being used like a slave won't come up. But the world is far from ideal, isn't it?

Kay17:


You dissolved equity into two more vague terms. Whose subjective view are we to resolve to in order to define fairness and justice

Estharfabian:
You misconstrued my Post. stone men. Not Stoning men.

proudafrogal:


this your comment sha. she didn't mention jungle justice at all. you are completely off.

Jelal0007:
Lmao...trust me,u don't wonna do that. Kapish?

repogirl:
See this one. It's on Nairaland you are coming to flex muscle, forming godfather for who? No go find better thing to do with your life.

Trolling me about and looking for my attention. Last time I checked my view was my view and if my view gives you constipation, go and frigging hang yourself instead of appointing yourself my special adviser like one jobless lout with nothing better to do.

Quote me again and confirm that you are indeed a slowpoke who is slow to understanding. Nairaland dolt.

Daboomb:


You are "micro-managing" issues and your post reeks of ignorance!
The fact that you even surround yourself with cheap, illiterate labour, is a reflection of your kind of person and the Kiosk you run
I want to engage intellects, not some runts that is not even worth my attention.

Now Buzz-off and go chat with ya mates.

Daboomb:


How is FAIRNESS or JUSTICE for every human, subjective terms?

Abeg explain, make l learn something new today.

greyboy5000:
first you deserve a bottle of groundnut and freshly roasted plantian for your post
But your ananology may be the problem
en also carry scares from sleeping around just as their female counterpart ( sexually transmitted diseases, unwanted child, failed marriage among others)
However, I agree with you that woman and men are different BUT BOTH SEX HAVE THEIR STRENGHT
For example an average man is physically stronger than a woman BUT an average woman can seduce a strong man and make him powerless
Note: I am not saying some women can't be stronger than men or men cannot seduce women but in both cases it will take an extraordinary person to accomplish

AyeeIdris:


But for this feminism that so repulses you; you won't have gotten this education u speak of. In the western world, you have been sent off to finishing school. in Africa, you would have been married off at 12. Internet is a good source of information. You should try it