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Re: The Only Type Of Partners Who Enjoy The Best Marriage. by Omotayor123(f): 8:30pm On Jun 22, 2017
True grin
Re: The Only Type Of Partners Who Enjoy The Best Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 8:31pm On Jun 22, 2017
Oluwaremythe:

one sense like dis,e no make abeg swerve jo
see as yu dey give hope to a mediocrity comment

But seriously the guy made sense if not for proper decorum...who marriage really help if not for christ.
Re: The Only Type Of Partners Who Enjoy The Best Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 8:38pm On Jun 22, 2017
Lalas247:

Excuse me Mr Op
Na lie .. why do guys already bring up the issue of forgiveness ..
so can you tell me what offences we should forgive ? Pls note forgiving means the other person did something terrible ..

So how many I'm sorry should we take sad

490 times a day
Re: The Only Type Of Partners Who Enjoy The Best Marriage. by Oyindidi(f): 9:11pm On Jun 22, 2017
You are right
Re: The Only Type Of Partners Who Enjoy The Best Marriage. by Cinderella5(f): 10:03pm On Jun 22, 2017
People who do not practice what they preach.

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Re: The Only Type Of Partners Who Enjoy The Best Marriage. by labake1(f): 11:53pm On Jun 22, 2017
There is nothing like being single cool
No heart break
No missed chats
No jealous attitude

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Re: The Only Type Of Partners Who Enjoy The Best Marriage. by IamSINZ(m): 6:37am On Jun 23, 2017
Jacksparr0w127:
Iam.sinz where is that approval seal? This shït here is the real deal

Dude was spot on!


Baba, abeg wetin be the meaning of "aje ku iya ni o je" gringrin
Re: The Only Type Of Partners Who Enjoy The Best Marriage. by Vikky014(f): 7:08am On Jun 23, 2017
Toks2008:
That you are romantic,caring, sexy,educated or uneducated,charming,endowed,homely,responsible,God fearing....does not translate to a good romantic affair or marriage. The best marriage is not between two romantic or compatible partners.

Yes in any marriage there are basic status quo that needs to be maintained and certain lines that should not be crossed to avoid discord but as they say...no human is perfect.


in view of this,i would gladly conclude that the best marriage can only exist between two forgivers.


Before you venture into any marriage,develop the habit of forgiving.
marriage counsellor when are you inviting us for your wedding

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Re: The Only Type Of Partners Who Enjoy The Best Marriage. by Lalas247(f): 7:12am On Jun 23, 2017
Toks2008:


490 times a day
Kolewerk

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Re: The Only Type Of Partners Who Enjoy The Best Marriage. by Lalas247(f): 7:13am On Jun 23, 2017
Jacksparr0w127:
he wan marry Jesus shocked shocked shocked
Bet Jesus don marry me few other lol no more space grin
Re: The Only Type Of Partners Who Enjoy The Best Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 8:48am On Jun 23, 2017
Vikky014:
marriage counsellor when are you inviting us for your wedding

Re: The Only Type Of Partners Who Enjoy The Best Marriage. by Nobody: 9:16am On Jun 23, 2017
IamSINZ:


Dude was spot on!


Baba, abeg wetin be the meaning of "aje ku iya ni o je" gringrin
"Na full/maximum suffer/beating he/she go chop"


In full aje kun iya ni o je eniti o to ni no to denò deni, aje kun iya ni o je - Na full/maximum suffer/beating he/she go chop. Person wey no reach to no reach to fight you wey dey block you for road Na full/maximum suffer/beating he/she go chop"
Re: The Only Type Of Partners Who Enjoy The Best Marriage. by Nobody: 9:17am On Jun 23, 2017
Lalas247:

Bet Jesus don marry me few other lol no more space grin
You be Female na. And Jesus be male, so e go well

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Re: The Only Type Of Partners Who Enjoy The Best Marriage. by Vikky014(f): 9:20am On Jun 23, 2017
[quote author=Toks2008 post=57773809][/quote]hahahahahaha. waiting for it oooo .
Re: The Only Type Of Partners Who Enjoy The Best Marriage. by IamSINZ(m): 9:23am On Jun 23, 2017
Jacksparr0w127:
"Na full/maximum suffer/beating he/she go chop"


In full aje kun iya ni o je eniti o to ni no to denò deni, aje kun iya ni o je - Na full/maximum suffer/beating he/she go chop. Person wey no reach to no reach to fight you wey dey block you for road Na full/maximum suffer/beating he/she go chop"


A serving senator sang this?


Una need to sack that tout o, Smart Adeyemi trended for better reasons than this coot.
Re: The Only Type Of Partners Who Enjoy The Best Marriage. by Nobody: 9:26am On Jun 23, 2017
Papiikush:

Learn to ignore. No be all comments person dey reply. Same thing goes out to tosyne2much.

This is exactly what I've been telling tosyne2much, he replied all comments even when it is not really necessary especially when it is related to ladies. SMH
Re: The Only Type Of Partners Who Enjoy The Best Marriage. by Nobody: 9:27am On Jun 23, 2017
IamSINZ:



A serving senator sang this?


Una need to sack that tout o, Smart Adeyemi trended for better reasons than this coot.
Hehehe Logicslly he's saying the governor will end up crying cuz he no reach him (Dino) level to battle


Drama drama drama... clowns everywhere.

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Re: The Only Type Of Partners Who Enjoy The Best Marriage. by tosyne2much(m): 9:29am On Jun 23, 2017
MzEddytan:


This is exactly what I've been telling tosyne'2much, he replied all comments even when it is not really necessary especially when it is related to ladies. SMH
Henceforth, I promise to turn a new leaf.. You don't have to SMH for me nah cheesy

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Re: The Only Type Of Partners Who Enjoy The Best Marriage. by IamSINZ(m): 9:38am On Jun 23, 2017
Jacksparr0w127:
Hehehe Logicslly he's saying the governor will end up crying cuz he no reach him (Dino) level to battle


Drama drama drama... clowns everywhere.


Simply because he's Saraki's most active asslicker.


Let's see how it'll unfold.
Re: The Only Type Of Partners Who Enjoy The Best Marriage. by Nobody: 9:41am On Jun 23, 2017
tosyne2much:
Henceforth, I promise to turn a new leaf.. You don't have to SMH for me nah cheesy

good...seriously I like you but what you're doing is pissing me off. I always look up to you when its come to relationship advice and I so admire your perception and instinct about it.

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Re: The Only Type Of Partners Who Enjoy The Best Marriage. by Nobody: 9:41am On Jun 23, 2017
tosyne2much:
Henceforth, I promise to turn a new leaf.. You don't have to SMH for me nah cheesy

good...seriously I like you but what you're doing is pissing me off. I always look up to you when its come to relationship advice and I so admire your perception and instinct about it.
So now am looking forward to a better you.
Re: The Only Type Of Partners Who Enjoy The Best Marriage. by tosyne2much(m): 9:51am On Jun 23, 2017
MzEddytan:


good...seriously I like you but what you're doing is pissing me off. I always look up to you when its come to relationship advice and I so admire your perception and instinct about it.
Oooops! Sorry to disappoint you.. I will change as advised cheesy
Re: The Only Type Of Partners Who Enjoy The Best Marriage. by jashar(f): 12:17pm On Jun 23, 2017
dingbang:
lol u know u need to get married

I thought i read somewhere that he's divorced? He should go and forgive his ex na....

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Re: The Only Type Of Partners Who Enjoy The Best Marriage. by dingbang(m): 12:27pm On Jun 23, 2017
jashar:


I thought i read somewhere that he's divorced? He should go and forgive his ex na....
abi.. I tire sef
Re: The Only Type Of Partners Who Enjoy The Best Marriage. by pabostt: 12:43pm On Jun 23, 2017
Lalas247:

Excuse me Mr Op
Na lie .. why do guys already bring up the issue of forgiveness ..
so can you tell me what offences we should forgive ? Pls note forgiving means the other person did something terrible ..

So how many I'm sorry should we take sad

This your question caught my attention. Offences weigh differently. Some can be overlooked while some must be corrected. It would be sadonic for a guy or lady to continue with the same offence and expect forgiveness at every time. A time will come that "I am sorry" will become nauseating. For every "I am sorry" there must be a corresponding and lasting behavioral change.
Re: The Only Type Of Partners Who Enjoy The Best Marriage. by Lalas247(f): 12:44pm On Jun 23, 2017
pabostt:


This your question caught my attention. Offences weigh differently. Some can be overlooked while some must be corrected. It would be sadonic for a guy or lady to continue with the same offence and expect forgiveness at every time. A time will come that "I am sorry" will become nauseating. For every "I am sorry" there must be a corresponding and lasting behavioral change.

Exactly ! Please tell Op before I vex grin
Re: The Only Type Of Partners Who Enjoy The Best Marriage. by pocohantas(f): 1:04pm On Jun 23, 2017
tosyne2much:
Oooops! Sorry to disappoint you.. I will change as advised cheesy
When will you change Tosyn? Make I mark am for my calendar.

OP, you're right about the forgiveness thing...but there is a limit to what people can forgive, or how long they can keep forgiving. Liken a marriage to an 80leaves exercise book, every time you keep hurting your partner...one leave goes off. At a point, the book becomes weak, you really don't like the book anymore, but you have written so much in it, you can't throw it away. It's bad to keep doing same offence over and over, you weaken the very essence of a marriage.

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Re: The Only Type Of Partners Who Enjoy The Best Marriage. by makydebbie(f): 1:19pm On Jun 23, 2017
MzEddytan:


This is exactly what I've been telling tosyne2much, he replied all comments even when it is not really necessary especially when it is related to ladies. SMH
My dear, all these guys that are not perfect, expect perfection in their women. They should better advice themselves to turn gay and start fvcking each other assholes. At least, they can show love to themselves and leave women alone. When it comes to bashing women, their libido gets high and they start yapping rubbish. They don't know their hatred for women is already making them gay.

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Re: The Only Type Of Partners Who Enjoy The Best Marriage. by Nobody: 2:20pm On Jun 23, 2017
makydebbie:
My dear, all these guys that are not perfect, expect perfection in their women. They should better advice themselves to turn gay and start fvcking each other assholes. At least, they can show love to themselves and leave women alone. When it comes to bashing women, their libido gets high and they start yapping rubbish. They don't know their hatred for women is already making them gay.
this is exactly what I have been telling him, they should not just feel as if they themselves are perfect, no one is perfect and we all handle our imperfections differently. When its come to relationship it is better u advice or contribute to it by not being one sided or keep quiet. These guys only want things in their favour, feels they know it all and matched majestically to a thread to start insulting ladies. This their hatred for ladies is really getting out of hands.
Re: The Only Type Of Partners Who Enjoy The Best Marriage. by tosyne2much(m): 4:17pm On Jun 23, 2017
pocohantas:


When will you change Tosyn? Make I mark am for my calendar.


OP, you're right about the forgiveness thing...but there is a limit to what people can forgive, or how long they can keep forgiving. Liken a marriage to an 80leaves exercise book, every time you keep hurting your partner...one leave goes off. At a point, the book becomes weak, you really don't like the book anymore, but you have written so much in it, you can't throw it away. It's bad to keep doing same offence over and over, you weaken the very essence of a marriage.
I swear I don change henceforth

Oga Toks, wetin you go talk for this matter? cheesy
Re: The Only Type Of Partners Who Enjoy The Best Marriage. by makydebbie(f): 4:36pm On Jun 23, 2017
MzEddytan:

this is exactly what I have been telling him, they should not just feel as if they themselves are perfect, no one is perfect and we all handle our imperfections differently. When its come to relationship it is better u advice or contribute to it by not being one sided or keep quiet. These guys only want things in their favour, feels they know it all and matched majestically to a thread to start insulting ladies. This their hatred for ladies is really getting out of hands.
I tell you sis, they think they're flawless. They'll have an experience with a girl and use it as a yardstick to conclude all girls are the same. The best is not to take most guys here or their comments serious. They type for likes without making sense.

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Re: The Only Type Of Partners Who Enjoy The Best Marriage. by Toks2008(m): 7:57pm On Jun 23, 2017
jashar:


I thought i read somewhere that he's divorced? He should go and forgive his ex na....

You just made a good point though in a sarcastic manner but I will excuse that.

Now you need to understand that it takes two to tango...

When Anita decided to divorce pastor Chris it was her decision to go and there was nothing for pastor Chris to forgive her for and Tiwa just reconciled with her hubby cos the two parties were willing to be together so forgiveness only comes to play when the two are willing to be together...hope you understand.

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