Hello everyone. I'm very confused here because for some time now I've been having issues with women.
I'm a nice guy by all indication and I treat women with the respect and dignity. I'm always available whenever my female friends need my help. In other words I'm the go-to guy in times of trouble. But I've also noticed that being nice and respectful and good to these women is often times at my own detriment because they take me for granted. They get the help they need and become something (or someone) else. Here's a good example: a fellow student lost her purse with all its content which included her ID card. She needed the ID card desperately and as the case was she wasn't in town at that moment. I helped her facilitate the procurement of a replacement ID card with my own money that when she comes back she'll pay me back. My intention was just to help a sister in distress ohh. But loo and behold she didn't give me back the money after returning. Now she won't take my calls. But the same girl will spend 10k on her boyfriend!!! It makes me wonder if girls are wired to treat nice kindhearted guys like me badly and worship those other guys who treat them badly. Just this month, a close relative of mine even rained insults on me, calling me names that I can't even say here. But the same relative can't do as much as call her cheating boyfriend a cheat. Well, such is life.
Lately I'm developing hatred for women generally because I see all of them as the same. "I know I'm wrong but I can't help it". So I just want to ask your opinions....is it that I'm too kind to women and as such they see me as a weakling or what do you all think.

Please advice me. I know some of you have passed through such and can be of immense help.
Thanks....

Being nice doesnt pay anymore...
I repeat, Being nice to women doesnt pay anymore..


98.2785728 of them are not worth it

Don't generalize bro

I know its naturally for girls not to have sense
But few of dem do thrive
Nt all girls would treat you like that 4 being nice


Hey but in Nigeria here na all of them no get sense until de clock 30


#Eco99#

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Following your moniker, I might be tempted to yell: "Grab 'em by the poosay!"

But no. How to treat a woman (in a relationship)? I follow a simple rule: "You don't owe a woman; you don't own a woman"

It doesn't pay to be a nice guy hooo haaaa....


Just take dem 4 fun

elderhimself:
Being nice doesnt pay anymore...
I repeat, Being nice to women doesnt pay anymore..


982,785,728,987,400,000,263 of them are not worth it

bro u got the calculation wrong..... that there is the correct figure

Be nice...
Be Good
Be yourself...
That is how you should relate to everyone around you...
Especially our fragile ladies...

Not worth it. They all have herdsmen brain. Treat dem as shhit

samyfreshsmooth:


bro u got the calculation wrong..... that there is the correct figure

Thanx bro, ..and i was almost sure that i got the exact figure oh.....
Thanx for the correction bro.... lol

That you have to ask if you shouldn't be nice to one gender, shows you have a flawed concept of being nice. You should be nice to every human. Some will abuse it, that's what makes them human.

Maybe they have seen so much wickedness in this evil world that they can't appreciate otherwise. If we all start telling stories of guys that have abused our own being nice too, we won't leave here today and there would probably be no love left in the world.

Just do your little best without inconveniencing yourself and move on, that's how I roll. It's good to know when to say NO though, from experience...humans will abuse your good heart if you always go out of your way to please them, this includes guys.

Women like it when men are nice to them. But when a man becomes too nice to the point where he becomes compliant to every need and interest of his woman, is where the whole niceness becomes an unattractive quality.

Curry30:
Not worth it. They all have herdsmen brain. Treat dem as shhit

This is totally uncalled for. Women don't all have herdsmen brain. Weren't you given birth to by a woman? Did she have herdsmen brain? And isn't it funny that you are trying to insult women by using a derogatory term that has the word "men" in it?

No woman enjoys being treated as shit. You need to change your orientation. Women enjoy being shown love and we love attention a lot. Just don't overdo it.

elderhimself:




Thanx bro, ..and i was almost sure that i got the exact figure oh.....
Thanx for the correction bro.... lol

u were close to the ans sha just that u approximated to 7d.p which u shouldnt have......

All the same u're welcome..........what are bros for

Nice guys will always carry last.

ecoeco:
Don't generalize bro

I know its naturally for girls not to have sense
But few of dem do thrive
Nt all girls would treat you like that 4 being nice


Hey but in Nigeria here na all of them no get sense until de clock 30


#Eco99#

The amount of misogyny and negative stereotyping of women on this forum is shocking.

Please explain how it's natural for girls not to have sense.

feelgoods:
Nice guys will always carry last.

That's just the world we live in mehn ...I stopped being one and girls started liking me ...but I can't help being nice
The reward of the nice guys is heaven even the Bible knows this world doesn't favour the good guys.
Good guys don't win... We are the Magas and fools

And nothing like I'm being too nice or clingy or overdoing I never do that
Good guys only win Girls in the movies . What we do win is success... It's not the best cause we need companionship but it's aii

When it comes to money.. Keep it to ur self.. U should know naija girls and money na.. No offence to the ladies #ImJustSayin I loand 60 bux to my x and I havn't got it back I could care less ..I got money.. Its just the principal of promise to give it back that gets me.. If u say u will u do it.. If u can't u ask if u can help no intention to pay back.. Nowadays I just tell ppl I'm broke my x called for another 100 dollar I'm like sorry broo I payed bills.. I work too hard for my money ..dont be a "nice guy" they will drain you dry... And friends will no longer be friends.. Keep money out of friendship or cut negative energy out of ur life.. I used to have 2 jobs and lot of friends.. I had money grass.. I had parties.. Payed for everything.. Alcohol food.. Snacks.. Some need 50 dollar for phone.. No prob... Then I lost both jobs due to that they closed.. Do u think any of them were there for me when I needed help? Nooo I cut em all off.. I had 3 ppl out of 50 plus I knew... That helped out.. Bought me femenin product.. Beer.. Lol food.. I'm very greatful for them.. People are ur friend as long as they can get things or money from u but if u need help they mysteriously dissapear.. Know ur true friend.. Who needs fake ppl

Curry30:
Not worth it. They all have herdsmen brain. Treat dem as shhit

hahaha not all women.. Many men got disfuncual brain as well

Mtchew

Lubyna:


The amount of misogyny and negative stereotyping of women on this forum is shocking.

Please explain how it's natural for girls not to have sense.

Research has proven that
1. Males have higher I.Q

2. Males have larger inferior-parietal lobules than females thus males think more 'mathematically'..... i.e they think with their head

3.cortex are larger in females than in males thus females think mre 'emotionally' i.e.. They think with their heart

4...... In fact i could on n on


#Eco99#

Lubyna:


The amount of misogyny and negative stereotyping of women on this forum is shocking.

Please explain how it's natural for girls not to have sense.

Research has proven that
1. Males have higher I.Q

2. Males have larger inferior-parietal lobules than females thus males think more 'mathematically'..... i.e they think with their head

3.cortex are larger in females than in males thus females think mre 'emotionally' i.e.. They think with their heart

4...... In fact i could on n on


#Eco99#

Thanks for all the comments and contributions.

ecoeco:



Research has proven that
1. Males have higher I.Q

2. Males have larger inferior-parietal lobules than females thus males think more 'mathematically'..... i.e they think with their head

3.cortex are larger in females than in males thus females think mre 'emotionally' i.e.. They think with their heart

4...... In fact i could on n on


#Eco99#

women have always been capable of scoring higher but, because of discriminatory gender socializing, never realized their own potential. Gender-based differences in education, upbringing and social roles have historically set the bar lower for women....in recent decades, women have grown smarter at a faster rate then men and that they now generally have higher IQs than their male counterparts... women are expected to multi-task, to get jobs and go to work while still raising children...

Being nice is admirable. But erm Oga, e be like say you're the Friendzone guy.

There's a very thin line between a friendship and Friendzone. You my friend usually go to the other side.

you're 2 broke and 2 nice

@trump45
Your problem is that you are being nice to EVERY women, while some should simply be avoided. You shouldn't have paid for this lady's issue UNLESS you knew she was a good person... Now this demon turned around and played you for a fool.

Being nice certainly doesn't mean that you should help every Dikc Tom and Harry, and sometimes you should just say:"sorry I cant"

So stop blaming women and instead mend your ways.

Most nice guys are always on the friendzone, reason being they live to please any girl, rarely have the balls to decline requests, very short of controlling prowess hence reflecting needy personalities, it is basic chemistry that the more you're nice to a lady increases your chances of being friendzoned...take it or leave it .

Ladies motto for nice guys: no good deed goes unpunished

ecoeco:



Research has proven that
1. Males have higher I.Q

2. Males have larger inferior-parietal lobules than females thus males think more 'mathematically'..... i.e they think with their head

3.cortex are larger in females than in males thus females think mre 'emotionally' i.e.. They think with their heart

4...... In fact i could on n on


#Eco99#

1. First of all, intelligence is a robust term that admits of various definitions and classifications, so using IQ test scores to weigh intelligence is very simplistic. But for the sake of debate, I'll follow through with your argument. Saying that males have higher IQs than females isn't a legitimate thing to say in my opinion.
The vast majority of males and females score within the average in IQ testing. There are females who score very high in IQ scores as well as there are males. Yes there are more males than females who score very high on IQ scores, but there are also more males than females who score low . So on this basis, am I to say that males have lower IQs than females? You see where your claim becomes problematic to legitimize?

2. Males are better mathematically, yes. But women are also better at language tasks. Being better at mathematical tasks doesn't mean men think with their heads and women don't. That's an absolutely ridiculous thing to say.

3. How does being more emotional than men translate to being less intelligent? If you said that in decision making women tend to involve emotions than men, then maybe you would have made sense. But because women express a wide range of emotions, and at a deeper level than men, doesn't mean that they are less intelligent.

And how does this poor, unresearched argument you presented answer my question? You said it was natural for women not to have sense. I asked you to explain and you provided this "men are more intelligent than women" argument. Dissapointing!!

Lubyna:


1. First of all, intelligence is a robust term that admits of various definitions and classification, so using IQ test scores to weigh intelligence is very simplistic. But for the sake of debate, I'll follow through with your argument. Saying that males have higher IQs than females isn't a legitimate thing to say in my opinion.
The vast majority of males and females score within the average in IQ testing. There are females who score very high in IQ scores as well as there are males. Yes there are more males than females who score very high on IQ scores, but there are also more males than females who score low . So on this basis, am I to say that males have lower IQs than females? You see where your claim becomes problematic to legitimize?

2. Males are better mathematically, yes. But women are also better at language tasks. Being better at mathematical tasks doesn't mean men think with their heads and women don't. That's a silly thing to say.

3. How does being more emotional than men translate to being less intelligent. If you said that in decision making women tend to involve emotions than men, then maybe you would have made sense. But because women express a wide range of emotions, and at a deeper level than men, doesn't mean that they are less intelligent.

And how does this poor, unresearched argument you presented answer my question? You said it was natural for women not to have sense, I asked you to explain and you provided this "men are more intelligent than women" argument. Dissapointing!!

Intelligent ladies turn me on, am sure you aint new, mind i ask ur main?

MrBrownJay1:
@trump45
Your problem is that you are being nice to EVERY women, while some should simply be avoided. You shouldn't have paid for this lady's issue UNLESS you knew she was a good person... Now this demon turned around and played you for a fool.

Being nice certainly doesn't mean that you should help every Dikc Tom and Harry, and sometimes you should just say:"sorry I cant"

So stop blaming women and instead mend your ways.

Yeah I guess am too nice to every woman. I blame the closeness with my mum for that. I treat women how I treat my mum.
Too bad many don't deserve to be treated that way. Thanks for your contribution bro.

samyfreshsmooth:


bro u got the calculation wrong..... that there is the correct figure

Lmaooo