Please I need your advice as my guy want me to get pregnant for him out of wedlock that when the time comes we will get married,that other ladies are disturbing him have baby for him.
Please I need your advice
Thanks.

lekpaciouse:
Please I need your advice as my guy want me to get pregnant for him out of wedlock that when the time comes we will get married,that other ladies are disturbing him have baby for him.
Please I need your advice
Thanks.

A man who loves you won't put you in that position.

He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord.

I have seen many ladies fall prey to this lie and they ended up as single mothers with no man to marry them.

Most guys these days are just looking for women to bear one or two kids for them so they can eat their cake and have it.

That man doesn't love you, do things the way God ordained it from the beginning.

If you are not born again, repent of this way of life, let the Word of God be your guide and your manual and I promise you, you will not miss it.

Don't allow any man pressure you. Its easy to have sex and get pregnant, but what happens after you give birth to the child and this man leaves you?

A child born out of wedlock is a bastard, forget the sugar they are sprinkling on it to call it "baby mama or baby daddy".

Omo ale ni won pe.

He's not trying to marry you. He's trying to tie you down with no commitment. Dont fall for it. No ring no baby. What does he want to wait for? If he has money for a baby, he has money for a wedding ceremony. Nonsense.

What kind of love is dat
Why must u av a child out of wedlock wen dey are not doing u
Not after we would be seeing dumped babies everywhere
tell him 2 marry u if u he wants a child

Nigga no dey try. Haba! Why should he tell you that na?

Lemme help my niggas on this thread.

If you want to turn your babe to your baby mama, just puncture the condom that you want to use for fvcking her and leave the rest for biology. Hehehehehe

Trust me, she no go even suspect. Na when she go miss her period wey e go dawn on her.

Run for your dear life

DO NOT DO IT !!
The fact you are even thinking about it means he knows how gullible you are ..
honestly never ever ever ever trust a guy with a life at least till you marry .( he can change his mind )
If you get pregnant and didn't know etc that's a different story ..

Financially can you afford a child , home, food .. etc
It's not just about getting pregnant it's a life long commitment

Tell him to go and get those other ladies pregnant (pressuring him )

Thanks very much,like he said,he said other ladies want to carry his baby and I told him they are just looking for whom to father their baby,and he is very serious about it am just confused about the whole things.

He should marry you if he wants u to carry his child

Not every marriage starts with "will you marry me?", therefore, he definitely wants to start his own with "I don get belle"

Abeg run from that eeeedioot ooo

It will be hard for both parties

I know a lady who also did the same thing for a lover boy. He was a choir master and he laid her like he did others. He finally settled for another lady and that poor lady is still waiting for him till today. The guy invariably wasted her life, as no man approaches her now. We pray things change. Any man now must adopt her and the kids. She waited and waited and waited. I was surprised when by mistake i called her 14 year old son the name of his real father and he backed at me saying "am not his son" - i was shocked. The boy is scarred, he's a product of an imaginary home.

My advice is don't do it. You wouldn't want to raise up your child in a polygamous setting and un fatherly way.

It is evident that the same thing/gimmick he told you must have been what he told the other ladies who have given birth and waiting for him.

Meanwhile see what it takes to fight for Child custody in Nigeria:

http://asknigeria.com.ng/topic/278/child-custody-in-nigeria

I dont get...other ladies r disturbing him.How many girlfriends does he have?

lekpaciouse:
Please I need your advice as my guy want me to get pregnant for him out of wedlock that when the time comes we will get married,that other ladies are disturbing him have baby for him.
Please I need your advice
Thanks.

I don't blame the guy, he doesn't want to buy non- tested


Everyone dey fear fake things now.. Fake woman, fake pregnancy, fake womb....

Is he saying get pregnant then marriage or is he saying baby mama for a while. I don't get

Fat lie....run for your future

Him wan turn you to professional baby mama...#Trending

lekpaciouse:
Please I need your advice as my guy want me to get pregnant for him out of wedlock that when the time comes we will get married,that other ladies are disturbing him have baby for him.
Please I need your advice
Thanks.

ONE ADVICE... RUN!!!

That is a gamble not worth gambling.

lekpaciouse:
Thanks very much,like he said,he said other ladies want to carry his baby and I told him they are just looking for whom to father their baby,and he is very serious about it am just confused about the whole things.

A man who truly loves u wud never give u that stupid and demeaning condition to get married to u. As a sister, don't fall for that. If he likes let all d women agree to give him baby or babies out of wedlock that is their lives not yours. Also, it is a possibility he is cooking those stories just to pysch u up. Besides giving birth is no guarantee that he wud still marry u. Don't be fooled and come here to narate stories that touch.

deadlock

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Babe, i cant believe you brought this here, and you are even asking for advice.

Nnem, biko, why wld a man that claims to love you, ask you to have a baby out of wedlock?

For him to even tell you to your face that other girls are asking to be his baby mama is an insult to you.

Here is my advice, Dont have any baby out of wedlock for him.

Why wld you even want to reduce your market value? .

lekpaciouse:
Please I need your advice as my guy want me to get pregnant for him out of wedlock that when the time comes we will get married,that other ladies are disturbing him have baby for him.
Please I need your advice
Thanks.

RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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ikp120:
Nigga no dey try. Haba! Why should he tell you that na?

Lemme help my niggas on this thread.

If you want to turn your babe to your baby mama, just puncture the condom that you want to use for fvcking her and leave the rest for biology. Hehehehehe

Trust me, she no go even suspect. Na when she go miss her period wey e go dawn on her.

not with my babe.
bcoz she rushes to see the CD after the show..
and will say this one is big or small

lekpaciouse:
Please I need your advice as my guy want me to get pregnant for him out of wedlock that when the time comes we will get married,that other ladies are disturbing him have baby for him.
Please I need your advice
Thanks.

I wouldn't advice that you do it but the fact that you brought it here when you should have walked away shows you are thinking of doing it and in that case, tell him to sign a contract, GET A LAWYER and arrange with family members that he must marry you

Hmmmm

You looked at urself.
You saw how bleak ur future is. Right
You decide to settle for less.
Let him pay dowry without wedding sef. Makes sense than reducing ur bridal value without marital vows





Oshi ATI iraanu

.dont mind him. He just want
to do like foreigners ( make u
his baby mama ) thats all !!!
If he truly loves u then he should take u to the altar first

Naija mentality on marriage is really low...... Marriage is no guarantee a man will stay with you. You don't have to get married to raise a family.