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A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? - Romance (2) - Nairaland

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by luminouz(m): 8:54am On Jun 28, 2017
DeGuyNxtDoor:
my parents don't too but my elder brother does. The fact that he does that shit gets me angry so much. But I guess we all have our separate lives to live bro....they can't be me and I can't be them.


Thanks for this buddy, I'm fully satisfied with answers I got here smiley
U welcome bro!!
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by phoenixthefirst(m): 9:06am On Jun 28, 2017
Nothing in this entire world will make me smoke or drink; I neither smoke nor drink.
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by chiraqDemon(m): 9:23am On Jun 28, 2017
U just be like my guy. This nigga de fornicate anyhow but him de claim holiness cos him nor de smoke weed or drink at all. Bros nor deceive yasef cos if dem blow trumpet now all ur other sins dey enough to carry u enter hell if e exist
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 10:08am On Jun 28, 2017
I see no correlation, but personally, I don't mind smokers. Drunks I can't stand.
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 10:18am On Jun 28, 2017
ZarZar:
I see no correlation, but personally, I don't mind smokers. Drunks I can't stand.
wow...I never knew this.
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 10:20am On Jun 28, 2017
DeGuyNxtDoor:
Good morning everyone, I would just head straight to the point here.

I happen to be a person who does not find smoking even the said harmless shisha fun. I hate it so much that I advice my friends to stop it when they do it in clubs. I also hate drinks as well, be it alcohol, beer or the popular kerewa hard drinks. I can at least settle down with malt as I don't take fanta, Pepsi, coke and the rest of the sugary drinks[/b]you are on track brother.only if the knew it's dentrimetal to their health keep living healthy bto


[b]Now my problem is my friends, they indirectly insult me over this, even my own brother did too, saying I look too soft cos I'm not doing weed or shisha at least which is harmless, that I'm not man enough physically. Its become persistent that its starting to worry me and I just wanna hear someone say I'm doing what's right and not wrong...


I'm not tryna show/say I'm a Holy person but I just don't like it. Is this normal? Are there guys like me out there?
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 10:31am On Jun 28, 2017
[quote author=superNOVA1995 post=57913031][/quote]only if they knew the health benefits of not smoking and drinking
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 10:32am On Jun 28, 2017
DeGuyNxtDoor:
wow...I never knew this.
Now you know tongue

I don't see smoking as a big deal, if it's ONLY cigarette or plain tobacco they smoke. I guess it all boils down to upbringing & what one is accustomed to. In my culture smoking is not frowned upon. It's accepted even for women. I grew up seeing old ladies smoking pipes, even more than I saw the old men doing it. It's been happening for so long that carrying a pipe became part of "our" look as people. My own mother & father smoked, so I have a first hand account to know that smoking doesn't =irresponsibility etc.
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 10:38am On Jun 28, 2017
ZarZar:
Now you know tongue

I don't see smoking as a big deal, if it's ONLY cigarette or plain tobacco they smoke. I guess it all boils down to upbringing & what one is accustomed to. In my culture smoking is not frowned upon. It's accepted even for women. I grew up seeing old ladies smoking pipes, even more than I saw the old men doing it. It's been happening for so long that carrying a pipe became part of "our" look as people. My own mother & father smoked, so I have a first hand account to know that smoking doesn't =irresponsibility etc.
yeah, I was expecting a breakdown smiley

Let's not stress the topic more. How are you today my dear?
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Collyno82(m): 10:45am On Jun 28, 2017
ZarZar:
Now you know tongue

I don't see smoking as a big deal, if it's ONLY cigarette or plain tobacco they smoke. I guess it all boils down to upbringing & what one is accustomed to. In my culture smoking is not frowned upon. It's accepted even for women. I grew up seeing old ladies smoking pipes, even more than I saw the old men doing it. It's been happening for so long that carrying a pipe became part of "our" look as people. My own mother & father smoked, so I have a first hand account to know that smoking doesn't =irresponsibility etc.
but here it is a different ball game. it is interpreted as the Ist sign of being irresponsible n irresponsive
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 10:47am On Jun 28, 2017
DeGuyNxtDoor:
yeah, I was expecting a breakdown smiley

Let's not stress the topic more. How are you today my dear?
I'm great, thanks smiley You?
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Lionessza(f): 10:47am On Jun 28, 2017
ZarZar:
Now you know tongue

I don't see smoking as a big deal, if it's ONLY cigarette or plain tobacco they smoke. I guess it all boils down to upbringing & what one is accustomed to. In my culture smoking is not frowned upon. It's accepted even for women. I grew up seeing old ladies smoking pipes, even more than I saw the old men doing it. It's been happening for so long that carrying a pipe became part of "our" look as people. My own mother & father smoked, so I have a first hand account to know that smoking doesn't =irresponsibility etc.
She's still alive cheesy. Do you smoke ?
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 10:50am On Jun 28, 2017
ZarZar:
I'm great, thanks smiley You?
I'm great here smiley

I see you're doing well over there, always give it a positive mind my dear.

Glad to see that smile on ur face.
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 10:51am On Jun 28, 2017
Collyno82:
but here it is a different ball game. it is interpreted as the Ist sign of being irresponsible n irresponsive
Yeah, I've noticed how you guys judge it. Different strokes for different folks. Shrugs.

Us on the other hand, we blaze it up tongue

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 10:54am On Jun 28, 2017
ZarZar:
Yeah, I've noticed how you guys judge it. Different strokes for different folks. Shrugs.

Us on the other hand, we blaze it up tongue
that lady got a nice shape...she your friend?
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 10:56am On Jun 28, 2017
Lionessza:
She's still alive cheesy. Do you smoke ?
Lol, I took some time away because NL was acting up pretty bad. Do I smoke? Yeah tongue
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 10:59am On Jun 28, 2017
DeGuyNxtDoor:
that lady got a nice shape...she your friend?
Which one? No, I got all the pics online lol.
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Collyno82(m): 10:59am On Jun 28, 2017
ZarZar:
Yeah, I've noticed how you guys judge it. Different strokes for different folks. Shrugs.

Us on the other hand, we blaze it up tongue
then good luck to u guys. on the other hand if ur the one depicted on that frame, ur wow
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 11:02am On Jun 28, 2017
Collyno82:
then good luck to u guys. on the other hand if ur the one depicted on that frame, ur wow
It's not me
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Lionessza(f): 11:02am On Jun 28, 2017
ZarZar:
Lol, I took some time away because NL was acting up pretty bad. Do I smoke? Yeah tongue
Oh yeah it was. Lol , I don't believe you don't ask me why. What do you smoke? grin.


How's things though?
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 11:02am On Jun 28, 2017
ZarZar:
Which one? No, I got all the pics online lol.
the one in the middle
I wish you had her contact embarassed
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Martin0(m): 11:03am On Jun 28, 2017
Lionessza:
Oh yeah it was. Lol , I don't believe you don't ask me why. What do you smoke? grin.


How's things though?
wait lio she smokes for real?
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Lionessza(f): 11:04am On Jun 28, 2017
ZarZar:
Yeah, I've noticed how you guys judge it. Different strokes for different folks. Shrugs.

Us on the other hand, we blaze it up tongue
Wow ! Nice pics , they remind me of one of the best days of my life tongue cheesy
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Collyno82(m): 11:04am On Jun 28, 2017
ZarZar:
It's not me
OK thanks. I gaze u look better
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Lionessza(f): 11:05am On Jun 28, 2017
Martin0:
wait lio she smokes for real?
I don't know.
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 11:14am On Jun 28, 2017
Lionessza:
Oh yeah it was. Lol , I don't believe you don't ask me why. What do you smoke? grin.


How's things though?
Lol, why did you ask? You could tell from the photo I showed you, right? tongue
I smoke because I want to. There's no real reason. It does give you a bit of a buzz though, particularly if you haven't smoked for a while. I calms you down too. Side effects of not smoking is extreme irritability, so I guess you keep smoking to avoid getting cranky & bitchy.

Everything is good. How's your side?
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by naijajobx: 11:17am On Jun 28, 2017
yes...real women hold that man tight
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Martin0(m): 11:17am On Jun 28, 2017
Lionessza:
I don't know.
jesus christ mmm she better don't smoke coz am gonna well am not her bf,just sided
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 11:18am On Jun 28, 2017
Lionessza:
Wow ! Nice pics , they remind me of one of the best days of my life tongue cheesy
IKR! They remind me of home too. Sigh. Does anyone in your family smoke a pipe?
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Lionessza(f): 11:18am On Jun 28, 2017
ZarZar:
Lol, why did you ask? You could tell from the photo I showed you, right? tongue
I smoke because I want to. There's no real reason. It does give you a bit of a buzz though, particularly if you haven't smoked for a while. I calms you down too. Side effects of not smoking is extreme irritability, so I guess you keep smoking to avoid getting cranky & bitchy.

Everything is good. How's your side?
Lol , I see. Was just curious tongue. Lol.@ avoiding getting cranky and bitchy.




Great no complaints here as well.
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Lionessza(f): 11:21am On Jun 28, 2017
ZarZar:
IKR! They remind me of home too. Sigh. Does anyone in your family smoke a pipe?
Yup. Yes my grand aunt and uncle do.
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Lionessza(f): 11:23am On Jun 28, 2017
Martin0:
jesus christ mmm she better don't smoke coz am gonna well am not her bf,just sided
Lol, yes you're not her man so it shouldn't bother you one bit.
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