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A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? - Romance (3) - Nairaland

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 11:23am On Jun 28, 2017
Lionessza:
Lol , I see. Was just curious tongue. Lol.@ avoiding getting cranky and bitchy.




Great no complaints here as well.
Yho, it's serious. Have you ever been around someone that smokes, when they are out of cigarettes? It's a nightmare!

Cool smiley
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Martin0(m): 11:26am On Jun 28, 2017
Lionessza:
Lol, yes you're not her man so it shouldn't bother you one bit.
yeah,so how about you do u smoke?
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 11:26am On Jun 28, 2017
Lionessza:
Yup. Yes my grand aunt and uncle do.
I knew it already lol. Rarely do you find someone that doesn't smoke. Especially those old ladies, they love their pipes!
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Martin0(m): 11:28am On Jun 28, 2017
Lionessza:
Lol , I see. Was just curious tongue. Lol.@ avoiding getting cranky and bitchy.




Great no complaints here as well.
lemm say what just rolled in my mind now,,,,mahosha
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 11:31am On Jun 28, 2017
ZarZar:
Lol, why did you ask? You could tell from the photo I showed you, right? tongue
I smoke because I want to. There's no real reason. It does give you a bit of a buzz though, particularly if you haven't smoked for a while. I calms you down too. Side effects of not smoking is extreme irritability, so I guess you keep smoking to avoid getting cranky & bitchy.

Everything is good. How's your side?
If you run out of cigs do come by my house.I smoke Chesterfield,it's minty

Where did you disappear to btw?
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Cleopatra4(f): 11:32am On Jun 28, 2017
DeGuyNxtDoor:
Good morning everyone, I would just head straight to the point here.

I happen to be a person who does not find smoking even the said harmless shisha fun. I hate it so much that I advice my friends to stop it when they do it in clubs. I also hate drinks as well, be it alcohol, beer or the popular kerewa hard drinks. I can at least settle down with malt as I don't take fanta, Pepsi, coke and the rest of the sugary drinks


Now my problem is my friends, they indirectly insult me over this, even my own brother did too, saying I look too soft cos I'm not doing weed or shisha at least which is harmless, that I'm not man enough physically. Its become persistent that its starting to worry me and I just wanna hear someone say I'm doing what's right and not wrong...

I'm not tryna show/say I'm a Holy person but I just don't like it. Is this normal? Are there guys like me out there?
Op na your type dey very dangerous I swear..
My brother doesn't smoke nor drink his colleagues and even friends respects him like kilode..
It is not what you are physically that matters.
U have what your so called friends doesn't have and that's integrity.
Please Don't let anyone deceive you.
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 11:38am On Jun 28, 2017
Cleopatra4:
Op na your type dey very dangerous I swear..
My brother doesn't smoke nor drink his colleagues and even friends respects him like kilode..
It is not what you are physically that matters.
U have what your so called friends doesn't have and that's integrity.
Please Don't let anyone deceive you.
I'm not dangerous my dear, you'd actually be amazed there are still guys like me in existence if you get to meet me smiley
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 11:41am On Jun 28, 2017
Jayceon:
If you run out of cigs do come by my house.I smoke Chesterfield,it's minty

Where did you disappear to btw?
Lol, not thanks. Chesterfield, Rothmans & Stuyvesant are too strong for me. Btw, Chesterfield is my dad's favourite. I smoke Craven A Slim only. It's more gentle on the lungs & doesn't have an after-taste. I wanna quit though. I'm just scared of the withdrawal symptoms & getting fat due to the overeating that comes with it tongue

NL was becoming unbearable with the connection problems.
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Lionessza(f): 11:42am On Jun 28, 2017
Martin0:
yeah,so how about you do u smoke?
I have.
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Lionessza(f): 11:43am On Jun 28, 2017
Martin0:
lemm say what just rolled in my mind now,,,,mahosha
What is that ?
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Lionessza(f): 11:45am On Jun 28, 2017
ZarZar:
I knew it already lol. Rarely do you find someone that doesn't smoke. Especially those old ladies, they love their pipes!
Lol , yeah especially from our home province. Lol @ they love their pipes .....in more than one way grin.
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 11:47am On Jun 28, 2017
Martin0:
lemm say what just rolled in my mind now,,,,mahosha
Magosha just because someone smokes? Are you kidding me! I'm the farthest thing from a free giving slut. I don't even go to clubs. Alcohol imo, has more to do with such behavior than cigarettes. Cigarettes don't alter your behavior & inhibitions.
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Martin0(m): 11:49am On Jun 28, 2017
Lionessza:
What is that ?
ok maybe u will know this(Izifebe )
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 11:49am On Jun 28, 2017
Lionessza:
Lol , yeah especially from our home province. Lol @ they love their pipes .....in more than one way grin.
Kikikiki @ in more than one way grin
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Martin0(m): 11:50am On Jun 28, 2017
Lionessza:
I have.
whattt!!!! Come lio u need to end this or
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Martin0(m): 11:50am On Jun 28, 2017
Lionessza:
I have.
whattt!!!! Come lio u need to end this or u might just grow old at 20
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Lionessza(f): 11:52am On Jun 28, 2017
ZarZar:
Kikikiki @ in more than one way grin
Lol. I'm glad I got rid of that habit before it got worse , damn!
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Lionessza(f): 11:53am On Jun 28, 2017
Martin0:
ok maybe u will know this(Izifebe
)
What does izifebe have to do with smoking ?
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Lionessza(f): 11:53am On Jun 28, 2017
Martin0:
whattt!!!! Come lio u need to end this or u might just grow old at 20
I did.
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 11:53am On Jun 28, 2017
Martin0:
ok maybe u will know this(Izifebe
)
Uyanya! Who are you calling that? That's village boy mentality to think smoking has something to do with sleeping around. Not everyone that smokes is a LovePeddler angry
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Martin0(m): 12:01pm On Jun 28, 2017
ZarZar:
Uyanya! Who are you calling that? That's village boy mentality to think smoking has something to do with sleeping around. Not everyone that smokes is a LovePeddler angry
calme down zarzar am not puting you into such classes,just understand I made my mind clear...that should not put in as a crime for you..it's more better I say it in your presence what if I had say it when u away,,calm down over that..
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 12:01pm On Jun 28, 2017
Lionessza:
Lol. I'm glad I got rid of that habit before it got worse , damn!
Lucky you! How did you do it? I'm thinking of buying nicotine patches but I'm not sure how effective they are. My voice is getting a little husky lol. I wanna stop before I start sounding like the head of the house grin My other stumbling block is gaining weight. Because you do eat a lot to substitute the smoking, I've tried. I can't believe how quickly I ballooned in just one week. Plus I was angry all the time. LOL!
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 12:01pm On Jun 28, 2017
DeGuyNxtDoor:
Good morning everyone, I would just head straight to the point here.

I happen to be a person who does not find smoking even the said harmless shisha fun. I hate it so much that I advice my friends to stop it when they do it in clubs. I also hate drinks as well, be it alcohol, beer or the popular kerewa hard drinks. I can at least settle down with malt as I don't take fanta, Pepsi, coke and the rest of the sugary drinks


Now my problem is my friends, they indirectly insult me over this, even my own brother did too, saying I look too soft cos I'm not doing weed or shisha at least which is harmless, that I'm not man enough physically. Its become persistent that its starting to worry me and I just wanna hear someone say I'm doing what's right and not wrong...

I'm not tryna show/say I'm a Holy person but I just don't like it. Is this normal? Are there guys like me out there?
OP how old are you?

Just about a month ago I went with a friend of mine to visit his other friend. The guy offered me a drink which I refused. Then he said "you be weak man ooo."

I laughed and answered. "bros if I want fall for this kind talk no be when I don turn 32."

Such emotional blackmail tactics has been hurled at me since I was a teenager both in terms of alcohol, smoke and women. Never got to me.


I advise you. Be humble. Whenever anyone attacks you this way, always agree that you are a "mugu."

End of discussion.
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Martin0(m): 12:02pm On Jun 28, 2017
Lionessza:
I did.
bravo,have u met zarzar before or u knew her here?
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Martin0(m): 12:04pm On Jun 28, 2017
Lionessza:
What does izifebe have to do with smoking ?
mainly in some countries they classify them into that,but am not classifying anybody into that am just saying my mind bcoz that what it makes me think of them..
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Martin0(m): 12:07pm On Jun 28, 2017
ZarZar:
Magosha just because someone smokes? Are you kidding me! I'm the farthest thing from a free giving slut. I don't even go to clubs. Alcohol imo, has more to do with such behavior than cigarettes. Cigarettes don't alter your behavior & inhibitions.
well I said my mind you should know that,I only wanna let you know that what most people will think about a lady that smokes bcoz it only classify one to be in that category..but am not classifying you into that coz I know u just natural...
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Martin0(m): 12:13pm On Jun 28, 2017
ZarZar:
Lucky you! How did you do it? I'm thinking of buying nicotine patches but I'm not sure how effective they are. My voice is getting a little husky lol. I wanna stop before I start sounding like the head of the house grin My other stumbling block is gaining weight. Because you do eat a lot to substitute the smoking, I've tried. I can't believe how quickly I ballooned in just one week. Plus I was angry all the time. LOL!
Hmmm akumangazi ukuthi awufuni ukukhombisa
isithombe sakho
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Cleopatra4(f): 12:14pm On Jun 28, 2017
DeGuyNxtDoor:
I'm not dangerous my dear, you'd actually be amazed there are still guys like me in existence if you get to meet me smiley
Wow.
Careless of what people say about you..
Wish I can tell you more through my own experience.
But please don't join d bad gang.
It is not worth it at all..
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 12:17pm On Jun 28, 2017
Martin0:
well I said my mind you should know that,I only wanna let you know that what most people will think about a lady that smokes bcoz it only classify one to be in that category..but am not classifying you into that coz I know u just natural...
Most people from where you're from, perhaps. Because only here on NL have I heard such a ridiculous thing. Here it's not a big deal just as long as a lady does it respectfully eg. not smoking while walking in the streets, like a man. A lady is required to sit down & have a smoke while sitting down. Personally, I smoke indoors. Preferably at home because I do understand that in some cultures, even here, they look at it somehow. But white people, Coloureds & people from my culture have no problem with smoking. Whites & Coloureds even do it publicly.
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 12:20pm On Jun 28, 2017
Cleopatra4:
Wow.
Careless of what people say about you..
Wish I can tell you more through my own experience.
But please don't join d bad gang.
It is not worth it at all..
thanks for the advice my dear, I know what's right from wrong, I won't join the wrong crew smiley


And you should put up a thick skin towards your complaints yesterday. Boyz here ain't worth it. Stay safe my dear smiley
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 12:22pm On Jun 28, 2017
ZarZar:
Lol, not thanks. Chesterfield, Rothmans & Stuyvesant are too strong for me. Btw, Chesterfield is my dad's favourite. I smoke Craven A Slim only. It's more gentle on the lungs & doesn't have an after-taste. I wanna quit though. I'm just scared of the withdrawal symptoms & getting fat due to the overeating that comes with it tongue

NL was becoming unbearable with the connection problems.
Chesterfield is soft on the lungs too,I don't know about cigarettes that much tho.I'm not addicted to smoking,the reason I like Chesterfield is because it leaves a sweet minty taste on the tip of the tongue.Is difficult for you to quit?
Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 12:25pm On Jun 28, 2017
Jayceon:
Chesterfield is soft on the lungs too,I don't know about cigarettes that much tho.I'm not addicted to smoking,the reason I like Chesterfield is because it leaves a sweet minty taste on the tip of the tongue.Is difficult for you to quit?
I don't like the taste of Chesterfield lol. Maybe it's Chesterfield menthol you're smoking if it has a minty taste because the original tastes horrible & is too strong.

Yeah, it's very difficult, Jace. I'm an addict tongue
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