A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? - Romance (4)

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by plessis: 12:32pm On Jun 28, 2017

Where are the Weed smokers? , come and educate this guy on the need to sometimes be on cloud nine...

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Martin0(m): 12:34pm On Jun 28, 2017

ZarZar:
Most people from where you're from, perhaps. Because only here on NL have I heard such a ridiculous thing. Here it's not a big deal just as long as a lady does it respectfully eg. not smoking while walking in the streets, like a man. A lady is required to sit down & have a smoke while sitting down. Personally, I smoke indoors. Preferably at home because I do understand that in some cultures, even here, they look at it somehow. But white people, Coloureds & people from my culture have no problem with smoking. Whites & Coloureds even do it publicly.

Angifuni ukuthi uzizwe ucasuliwe ngamazwana ami
nje ubheke phezu kwawo, futhi ungavumeli
kukulimaze, ngiyaxolisa uma ubuhlungu buhlungu
kakhulu.

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Martin0(m): 12:36pm On Jun 28, 2017

Martin0:
Angifuni ukuthi uzizwe ucasuliwe ngamazwana ami
nje ubheke phezu kwawo, futhi ungavumeli
kukulimaze, ngiyaxolisa uma ubuhlungu buhlungu
kakhulu.

Yebo ngikholelwa wena nakuba ubaba wami
engibhema kodwa ngigcina ngimfihlo ngenxa
yokuthi umndeni wami awusoze wawubamukela,
kepha awuzange uthinte ubuhlobo bethu ..

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 12:38pm On Jun 28, 2017

ZarZar:
I don't like the taste of Chesterfield lol. Maybe it's Chesterfield menthol you're smoking if it has a minty taste because the original tastes horrible & is too strong.

Yeah, it's very difficult, Jace. I'm an addict

Different strokes for different folks perhaps.

How do you guys get hooked on those things? I used sneak upon my father's pack of stuyvesent when I was young and I would smoke them on a corner somewhere,but I never got addicted to cigs

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by WORLDPEACE(m): 12:54pm On Jun 28, 2017

ZarZar:
Most people from where you're from, perhaps. Because only here on NL have I heard such a ridiculous thing. Here it's not a big deal just as long as a lady does it respectfully eg. not smoking while walking in the streets, like a man. A lady is required to sit down & have a smoke while sitting down. Personally, I smoke indoors. Preferably at home because I do understand that in some cultures, even here, they look at it somehow. But white people, Coloureds & people from my culture have no problem with smoking. Whites & Coloureds even do it publicly.

Smoking and drinking are cultural habits, I guess. In the north-west, because of Islam, smoking is more common than drinking. You know drinking alcohol is "haram" in Islam. Most of the guys I know up there smoke, and few girls too. In the South generally drinking is more acceptable than smoking. I've noticed that in the South-south people smoke more than in the South-west. A smoker friend from the south-south once complained about how more difficult it is to get cigarette in the south-west compared to the south-south.
In all of these cultures though, women don't smoke or drink like men.

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Lionessza(f): 1:08pm On Jun 28, 2017*

ZarZar:
Lucky you! How did you do it? I'm thinking of buying nicotine patches but I'm not sure how effective they are. My voice is getting a little husky lol. I wanna stop before I start sounding like the head of the house My other stumbling block is gaining weight. Because you do eat a lot to substitute the smoking, I've tried. I can't believe how quickly I ballooned in just one week. Plus I was angry all the time. LOL!

The nicotine patches worked for me plus I changed some of my daily routines . Lol @ sounding like the head of the house , I was asking my other cousin last weekend when she will stop coz her voice is starting to sound scary , she's like never grin

. With regards to weight gain, damn I ballooned in a short period of time myself but quickly made morning jogging my new habit. Lol @ being angry all the time. I know that feeling. Getting irritated by just about anything or anyone grin

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Lionessza(f): 1:11pm On Jun 28, 2017

Martin0:
bravo,have u met zarzar before or u knew her here?

No I've never met her , why?

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Lionessza(f): 1:13pm On Jun 28, 2017

Martin0:
mainly in some countries they classify them into that,but am not classifying anybody into that am just saying my mind bcoz that what it makes me think of them..

Oh well .

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by jakandeola(m): 1:15pm On Jun 28, 2017

Lionessza:
Oh well .

why oyibo treat u as a slave in sa

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Martin0(m): 1:17pm On Jun 28, 2017

Lionessza:
Oh well .

I guess u understand me

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Martin0(m): 1:18pm On Jun 28, 2017

Lionessza:
No I've never met her , why?

hmmm just asking,u should know why!!!

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Lionessza(f): 1:22pm On Jun 28, 2017

Martin0:
hmmm just asking,u should know why!!!

Unfortunately I don't.

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Lionessza(f): 1:23pm On Jun 28, 2017

Martin0:
I guess u understand me

Not really but let's just leave the issue, we can't all see things the same as we come from different environments.

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Lionessza(f): 1:24pm On Jun 28, 2017

jakandeola:
why oyibo treat u as a slave in sa

Why are you always looking for attention ?

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Martin0(m): 1:25pm On Jun 28, 2017

Lionessza:
Not really but let's just leave the issue, we can't all see things the same as we come from different environments.

sure thanks...

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Martin0(m): 1:26pm On Jun 28, 2017

Lionessza:
Not really but let's just leave the issue, we can't all see things the same as we come from different environments.

give me ur email,wanna ask u something it very private

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Martin0(m): 1:27pm On Jun 28, 2017

Lionessza:
Unfortunately I don't.

ok if u say so...

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Lionessza(f): 1:30pm On Jun 28, 2017

Martin0:
give me ur email,wanna ask u something it very private

No I don't do private chats.

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Martin0(m): 1:35pm On Jun 28, 2017

Lionessza:
No I don't do private chats.

neither do I,I just respect people's privacy that why I asked for it,but all thesame no problem..

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Lionessza(f): 1:38pm On Jun 28, 2017

Martin0:
neither do I,I just respect people's privacy that why I asked for it,but all thesame no problem..

Sure.

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Martin0(m): 1:55pm On Jun 28, 2017

Lionessza:
Sure.

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Lionessza:
Sure.

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Lionessza:
Sure.

you welcome

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Prestigenedu: 1:57pm On Jun 28, 2017

DeGuyNxtDoor:
Good morning everyone, I would just head straight to the point here.

I happen to be a person who does not find smoking even the said harmless shisha fun. I hate it so much that I advice my friends to stop it when they do it in clubs. I also hate drinks as well, be it alcohol, beer or the popular kerewa hard drinks. I can at least settle down with malt as I don't take fanta, Pepsi, coke and the rest of the sugary drinks
b]Now my problem is my friends, they indirectly insult me over this, even my own brother did too, saying I look too soft cos I'm not doing weed or shisha at least which is harmless, that I'm not man enough physically. Its become persistent that its starting to worry me and I just wanna hear someone say I'm doing what's right and not wrong...[/b]

I'm not tryna show/say I'm a Holy person but I just don't like it. Is this normal? Are there guys like me out there?

You're not alone at all.... Stand your ground, you got nothing to loss.

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Horlaarsco: 2:29pm On Jun 28, 2017

Hollandia Youghurt Gang grin

Strawberry flavor or choco malt wink

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by wristbangle: 2:29pm On Jun 28, 2017

I wonder when alcoholism and smoking has become a necessary criteria to become a man. Nonsense!

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by kceewhyte(m): 2:30pm On Jun 28, 2017

Which kinda post be this

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by engrpheleeks(m): 2:30pm On Jun 28, 2017

Op don't mind them. When their kidneys, lungs and livers start deteriorating, then we will know who is man enough. Nonsense.

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Newmanluckyman(m): 2:31pm On Jun 28, 2017

DeGuyNxtDoor:
Good morning everyone, I would just head straight to the point here.

I happen to be a person who does not find smoking even the said harmless shisha fun. I hate it so much that I advice my friends to stop it when they do it in clubs. I also hate drinks as well, be it alcohol, beer or the popular kerewa hard drinks. I can at least settle down with malt as I don't take fanta, Pepsi, coke and the rest of the sugary drinks

Now my problem is my friends, they indirectly insult me over this, even my own brother did too, saying I look too soft cos I'm not doing weed or shisha at least which is harmless, that I'm not man enough physically. Its become persistent that its starting to worry me and I just wanna hear someone say I'm doing what's right and not wrong...

I'm not tryna show/say I'm a Holy person but I just don't like it. Is this normal? Are there guys like me out there?

...grow up son. You are suffering from INFERIORITY COMPLEX.

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by wakes: 2:32pm On Jun 28, 2017

He is a man par excellence!

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by NevetsIbot(m): 2:33pm On Jun 28, 2017

DeGuyNxtDoor:
Good morning everyone, I would just head straight to the point here.

I happen to be a person who does not find smoking even the said harmless shisha fun. I hate it so much that I advice my friends to stop it when they do it in clubs. I also hate drinks as well, be it alcohol, beer or the popular kerewa hard drinks. I can at least settle down with malt as I don't take fanta, Pepsi, coke and the rest of the sugary drinks

Now my problem is my friends, they indirectly insult me over this, even my own brother did too, saying I look too soft cos I'm not doing weed or shisha at least which is harmless, that I'm not man enough physically. Its become persistent that its starting to worry me and I just wanna hear someone say I'm doing what's right and not wrong...

I'm not tryna show/say I'm a Holy person but I just don't like it. Is this normal? Are there guys like me out there?

Bro... I'm like you

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by pabostt: 2:33pm On Jun 28, 2017

DeGuyNxtDoor:
Good morning everyone, I would just head straight to the point here.

I happen to be a person who does not find smoking even the said harmless shisha fun. I hate it so much that I advice my friends to stop it when they do it in clubs. I also hate drinks as well, be it alcohol, beer or the popular kerewa hard drinks. I can at least settle down with malt as I don't take fanta, Pepsi, coke and the rest of the sugary drinks

Now my problem is my friends, they indirectly insult me over this, even my own brother did too, saying I look too soft cos I'm not doing weed or shisha at least which is harmless, that I'm not man enough physically. Its become persistent that its starting to worry me and I just wanna hear someone say I'm doing what's right and not wrong...

I'm not tryna show/say I'm a Holy person but I just don't like it. Is this normal? Are there guys like me out there?

Drinking or smoking is a choice and it has nothing to do with being a man. Being a man is a call to responsibilities and not the other way round. Afterall, ladies also drink or smoke, does that make them a man?

You are good the way you are and nothing do you.

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 2:33pm On Jun 28, 2017

same here bro. It's not as if I am the holiest but I just don't like taking alcohol and smoking.

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