A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? - Romance (10)

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 10:45pm On Jun 28, 2017

ZarZar:
The more, the merrier. We ain't gonna stop until the cops come knocking

I love Jim Carrey too. The scene I'm talking about is when he & Irene spent the night in that motel, while they were on the run from the mob guy. In the morning he woke up nekkid & started getting angry with Irene because he felt she took advantage of him sexually. Not knowing that his other personality seduced her! Twas hilarious!

And when the cops come in,the first thing they'll see will be 3 girls knocked into paralysis by one giant cøck,I feel sorry for you guys. grin

I really must watch the movie again because I can barely remember the scenes.If you haven't watched The Mask you better watch it.some funny stuff LMAO

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by israelmao(m): 11:11pm On Jun 28, 2017

Is a man who contacted disease through drunkenness and smoking considered man enough?

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by positivetaught: 11:45pm On Jun 28, 2017

The strength of your character n success in life defines the real man in you, not some dirty alcohol or smoke, don't be cajoled Into simply been a guy behind the crowd,stick to what you believe is good n right for you,just have the confidence n brevity to defend your stand, you will not regret it.

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by wahihi(m): 12:26am On Jun 29, 2017

pocohantas:
Men who do not smoke, drink or womanise are very man enough to me. Where you wan take get them?

Let's not forget the health benefits of abstaining from these three things.

AM ONE OF THEM AND AM VERY HAPPY ABOUT IT.

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Austyn44(m): 1:50am On Jun 29, 2017

If your manhood is defined by drinking and smoking then am sorry to say that you are a teenager whose brain is fluctuating like glo network.

A real man is one who is cool all by himself before it becomes cool to be cool. cool

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by tosinjay(m): 4:00am On Jun 29, 2017

I don't do any, and never have. I see those who drink as cowards. Mostly needing to be high to boost morale. Like a previous oga who was boldly high to d office.

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by tosinjay(m): 4:04am On Jun 29, 2017

DeGuyNxtDoor:
Good morning everyone, I would just head straight to the point here.

I happen to be a person who does not find smoking even the said harmless shisha fun. I hate it so much that I advice my friends to stop it when they do it in clubs. I also hate drinks as well, be it alcohol, beer or the popular kerewa hard drinks. I can at least settle down with malt as I don't take fanta, Pepsi, coke and the rest of the sugary drinks

Now my problem is my friends, they indirectly insult me over this, even my own brother did too, saying I look too soft cos I'm not doing weed or shisha at least which is harmless, that I'm not man enough physically. Its become persistent that its starting to worry me and I just wanna hear someone say I'm doing what's right and not wrong...

I'm not tryna show/say I'm a Holy person but I just don't like it. Is this normal? Are there guys like me out there?

Bros, present. You're doing the right thing. Most of these people are damaging their system. Besides getting high sometimes is for them to boost morale.

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Josephamstrong1(m): 5:48am On Jun 29, 2017

Zinny377 Where are you?
Is your man guilty of smoking, drinking and womanising?
What's your verdict?
Man enough?

As for OP,
I have never smoked since i was born. Never took beer or star or Hennessey or Gulder or whateva mehn!
Yet I am a man!!! Does looking soft affect ur manhood ni? I look even younger than my age..less toxins in my system....
Just be U! Who will love u will love u!
U are not d only one though...My parents don't....my woman don't......
Datz just ME!! If nobody likes and thinks it defines a man, then they are welcome to fvck themselves....
Again! Just be U!!!

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by standgifted(m): 6:20am On Jun 29, 2017

you mean you don't smoke or drink..? what the F*ck do you do then huh

??.??.?.
kpekus banging huh

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Lionessza(f): 6:47am On Jun 29, 2017

TayserMahiri:
I think am your type

Hahahaha, genie from the block seems to think so too grin

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Lionessza(f): 6:48am On Jun 29, 2017

Jayceon:
Oh yes I can,what do you take me for lioness.Lol

Lol, I didn't want ZarZar to break your back , I was just concerned grin

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Lionessza(f): 6:51am On Jun 29, 2017

Jayceon:
I'm already addicted,Once you go Zar you'll never go Lionessza ever again

LMFAO , you know not of what you're talking about. I am God , no one can resist me grin

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Lionessza(f): 6:55am On Jun 29, 2017

ZarZar:
Hahaha. Maybe we should do a tag team on you one of these days Shake your life & your bed up a little

He wouldn't be able to handle that one, so I will leave him to you to train him a bit before he takes on the God

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 7:10am On Jun 29, 2017

Lionessza:
He wouldn't be able to handle that one, so I will leave him to you to train him a bit before he takes on the God

LMFAO @ God. You mean you'll tear him to shreds? grin

Good morning, btw

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by bassdow: 7:20am On Jun 29, 2017

DeGuyNxtDoor:
Good morning everyone, I would just head straight to the point here.

I happen to be a person who does not find smoking even the said harmless shisha fun. I hate it so much that I advice my friends to stop it when they do it in clubs. I also hate drinks as well, be it alcohol, beer or the popular kerewa hard drinks. I can at least settle down with malt as I don't take fanta, Pepsi, coke and the rest of the sugary drinks

Now my problem is my friends, they indirectly insult me over this, even my own brother did too, saying I look too soft cos I'm not doing weed or shisha at least which is harmless, that I'm not man enough physically. Its become persistent that its starting to worry me and I just wanna hear someone say I'm doing what's right and not wrong...

I'm not tryna show/say I'm a Holy person but I just don't like it. Is this normal? Are there guys like me out there?

Don't let the effect of Peer Pressure push you into doing things you wouldn't naturally do.
Most criminals / Cultists / Womanizers / Drunkards / Etc got into their Current and or Previous bad habits due to Peer Pressure.
Don't let any of such happen to you.
Learn to overlook things. They would keep pressuring you to join them Because to them, you being different makes them feel guilty. Once had a Boss who did everything humanly possible to talk me into Women (this is someone that handles nothing less than 8 women a week) and he knows I have no issues socializing with ladies and am also a No-nonse Guy where ladies are concerned and he did all he could to convert me into a Womanizer But guess what, He finally gave up almost @ year after not because he got tired But because he saw non of his tricks made any attempt or showed any signs of making a difference.

For the records,
I don't do things because Others are doing them.
I do things mostly because I want to do them or I feel it's right.

Learn to easily tell people your Mind (No / Yes response ) and don't bother caring how they take it.

It's further painful to hear Grown-Up Adults say something like -
A man must Do one of the following :
1. Drink
2. Womanize
3. Smoke

Else he won't survive the stress of the world + Stress of having a Wife

And when I look at their present condition(s), I smile inwardly.

Bye for now and remain strong.

PSS: Abeg no think say I be Mr HolyMan because na only on 31st nights I dey go church (atleast for the last 4 years). And I know am holier than most people who Goes to the Church 10-days in a week.
Heck I don't even always need the Bible to know what's Bad. As long as I know I can't freely do something, I know it's BAD.

And I Sin also (almost every Nano-seconds).

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Lionessza(f): 7:24am On Jun 29, 2017

ZarZar:
LMFAO @ God. You mean you'll tear him to shreds?

Good morning, btw

Hahahaha i will work him so hard , he will beg for mercy grin

.

Hey , how's your morning? cheesy

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by TSOM(m): 7:28am On Jun 29, 2017

CplusJason:
I only do fruit juice and fresh yoghurt. "cheap and healthy"

Perfect! Being straight-edged and teetotal is better.

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by bassdow: 7:36am On Jun 29, 2017

tosinjay:
I don't do any, and never have. I see those who drink as cowards. Mostly needing to be high to boost morale. Like a previous oga who was boldly high to d office.

It's only Weaklings who need to Get high (Smoke or Drink) to achieve an aim (such as approach women, overcome a predicament, socialize, become a temporary Alpha Male, etc).

Take me as I am or look else where

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 7:44am On Jun 29, 2017

DeGuyNxtDoor:
Good morning everyone, I would just head straight to the point here.

I happen to be a person who does not find smoking even the said harmless shisha fun. I hate it so much that I advice my friends to stop it when they do it in clubs. I also hate drinks as well, be it alcohol, beer or the popular kerewa hard drinks. I can at least settle down with malt as I don't take fanta, Pepsi, coke and the rest of the sugary drinks

Now my problem is my friends, they indirectly insult me over this, even my own brother did too, saying I look too soft cos I'm not doing weed or shisha at least which is harmless, that I'm not man enough physically. Its become persistent that its starting to worry me and I just wanna hear someone say I'm doing what's right and not wrong...

I'm not tryna show/say I'm a Holy person but I just don't like it. Is this normal? Are there guys like me out there?

Ah so men like you still exist shocked

.
Nice o. Really.

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 7:52am On Jun 29, 2017

Lionessza:
Hahahaha i will work him so hard , he will beg for mercy .

Hey , how's your morning?

LMAO. I pity him small grin

Dull morning here. I'm bored already, wishing I was in mars or wherever. Ever have those days where you don't know what to do with yourself? I'm having one right now. Wish I could jump out of my skin.

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Lionessza(f): 8:09am On Jun 29, 2017

ZarZar:
LMAO. I pity him small

Dull morning here. I'm bored already, wishing I was in mars or wherever. Ever have those days where you don't know what to do with yourself? I'm having one right now. Wish I could jump out of my skin.

Lol, I hate those days. You wish you were elsewhere but deep down you know when you get there you will wish you were somewhere else again cry

no place is good enough even the people around you , you wish they could just vanish never to be seen again grin

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 8:13am On Jun 29, 2017

Lionessza:

Lol, I hate those days. You wish you were elsewhere but deep down you know when you get there you will wish you were somewhere else again no place is good enough even the people around you , you wish they could just vanish never to be seen again

lol...that feeling ain't good...wave it off.

If I were ur partner, I know you'd hardly feel this way.

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 8:23am On Jun 29, 2017

Lionessza:

Lol, I hate those days. You wish you were elsewhere but deep down you know when you get there you will wish you were somewhere else again no place is good enough even the people around you , you wish they could just vanish never to be seen again

Lol, exactly!

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by CplusJason: 8:26am On Jun 29, 2017

TSOM:
Perfect! Being straight-edged and teetotal is better.

Teetotalism is another way of showing respect to your kidneys.

Greetings, The Son Of Mark.

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Lionessza(f): 8:28am On Jun 29, 2017

DeGuyNxtDoor:
lol...that feeling ain't good...wave it off.

If I were ur partner, I know you'd hardly feel this way.

Lol, you think?. How would you help?

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 8:32am On Jun 29, 2017

Lionessza:
Lol, you think?. How would you help?

all you need is to cuddle with him and proly try things you never did before...that way you get to feel much alive.

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Lionessza(f): 8:34am On Jun 29, 2017

ZarZar:
Lol, exactly!

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Lionessza(f): 8:37am On Jun 29, 2017

DeGuyNxtDoor:
all you need is to cuddle with him and proly try things you never did before...that way you get to feel much alive.

Lol, I do that frequently plus I can't do that during the day we are far from each other. Anyways that feeling rarely comes my way although I'm familiar with it.

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 8:37am On Jun 29, 2017

Lionessza:
Lol, I do that frequently plus I can't do that during the day we are far from each other. Anyways that feeling rarely comes my way although I'm familiar with it.

so how so you handle it my dear?

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Lionessza(f): 8:45am On Jun 29, 2017

DeGuyNxtDoor:
so how so you handle it my dear?

I go and sit alone and meditate grin

. Come back and take a strong cup of coffee, put my headphones on and play very depressing songs when I feel like crying grin

I go ride the lift 5 times making calls to people I dislike grin

that always cures the feeling.

Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 8:55am On Jun 29, 2017

Lionessza:
I go and sit alone and meditate . Come back and take a strong cup of coffee, put my headphones on and play very depressing songs when I feel like crying I go ride the lift 5 times making calls to people I dislike that always cures the feeling.

lol my lioness..you are one funny lady grin

You mean there are strong and soft cup of coffees? grin

Why would you talk to those who dislike you? Boundaries should be maintained between yourself and these pple my dear.

Music helps me as well...most times I write songs but only when I'm sad.

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Re: A Man Who Does Not Smoke Or Drinks, Is He Considered Not To Be Man Enough? by Nobody: 9:12am On Jun 29, 2017

Lionessza:
I go and sit alone and meditate . Come back and take a strong cup of coffee, put my headphones on and play very depressing songs when I feel like crying I go ride the lift 5 times making calls to people I dislike that always cures the feeling.

Lol, that's an interesting way of handling it. Me, I just sit it out with as little stimulation as possible because I hate everything & everyone, when I'm in a mood funk. Sometimes I pray noone contacts me because I'd take it out on them in a flash, cuss them up one side & down the other. There are currently people I wanna send mean messages to as we speak, but I'm doing a great job controlling myself this time. If it were the old me, I would have done so much damage by now. But thank God I now realize doing that is just a way for me to get some action & ease some tension.

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