Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,151,405 members, 7,812,196 topics. Date: Monday, 29 April 2024 at 09:54 AM

Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? - Family - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? (3749 Views)

If Your 16 Years Old Daughter Got Impregnated, What Would You Do? / Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated What Would Your Reaction Be? / Daughter Gets Her Mother An Iphone 7 On Mothers Day, Her Reaction Is Epic (Video (2) (3) (4)

(1) (2) (Reply) (Go Down)

Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? by Monday5(m): 11:06am On Jun 29, 2017
I was having a well heated discussion with two young ladies. Topic of discussion: SHOULD YOUR DAUGHTER GETS IMPREGNATED WHAT WOULD YOUR REACTION BE? O'boy, their answer make me I catch fever instantly. They responded almost at the same, "I WILL SEND HER PACKING IMMEDIATELY". It hasn't ended oo, na my battery run down. I was like, "are hearing yourself, your own daughter?". Alright, send her packing to where? Offcourse, the answer was "to live with whosoever had impregnated her". I WANT TO HEAR YOUR OPINION ON THIS, PERHAPS SOME OF US WILL LEARN SOMETHING ABOUT LIFE.
Re: Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? by Khd95(m): 11:27am On Jun 29, 2017
I don't pray to ve a wayward child that will be impregnated outside wedlock

4 Likes

Re: Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? by ImaIma1(f): 1:24pm On Jun 29, 2017
The best punishment is that she has the child and faces the responsibility of being a mother along with her education, career,etc. She won't stop going to church and school if possible. I won't hide her at home or send her packing. Let her live openly with her mistakes and deal with them.
And I wont pause my life to take care of the baby while she goes back to her life. She will figure out a way to juggle while i help out.

26 Likes 1 Share

Re: Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? by joyAA(f): 4:24pm On Jun 29, 2017
Choi!
Disappointment!!!

Me wet no do am for my papa house upon aIl the wahala wey I use trouble them, kai!

It will pain me oooo make we talk true,
But I go first ask am aw e take happen, who give am d belle...

Its possible she was raped, especially by a trusted family friend or church member or family member sef,

Whatever the result of the investigation is will determine my response, she may have been a victim or just plain wayward.

But nna ehn, I will blame myself ooooo
I'll feel I have failed her and God as her mother, she deserved better and for that reason i'll do my best to help her pull through

8 Likes

Re: Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? by Nobody: 6:58pm On Jun 29, 2017
Since I haven't gotten one under my parent's roof 'cause I know the consequences thereafter...you'll be disowned 'cause it's considered a shame to have a child out of wedlock. I won't have a daughter who'd do that.

EOD.

1 Like

Re: Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? by Nobody: 7:16pm On Jun 29, 2017
Truth is only a fool will open leg for a guy so broke that he cannot take care of her when and if she gets pregnant

only Bleep guys that are capable so when u get thrown out by the useless father your baby daddy can still treat you well even better than your parents

2 Likes

Re: Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? by Richy4(m): 10:00pm On Jun 29, 2017
I will train my daughter the best way possible....@ 14, I will teach her the tricks of boys on what they do when they wants to get into a lady's pants....I believe the game was still the game but the players are different...

If she refused to listen to me because some little girls always feel that parents wants to deprive them of certain right...I will tell her sweetness, You have eaten what you want to eat, I guess you are satisfied..... I will never abandon my kids no matter the circumstance...

Just like some months ago I went to south africa on holiday to visit my Bro...My favorite nephew that was 10yrs came to me and asked me
Uncle Don't tell my dad, A girl in my class came to me and told me she loved me what do I do?...Immediately, I just remembered my days growing up...who born you to even ask such a question.... smiley

2 Likes

Re: Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? by Zither(m): 6:33am On Jun 30, 2017
My first reaction would be one of great disappointment. This will be followed by investigation. In the end, since it can't be undone she just has to live with the consequences or whatever outcome of the pregnancy but a dad will always love his daughter. There are things in life that one can never stop from happening or change. We just have to learn to deal with them. Now you see why fathers are over protective of their daughters.
Re: Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? by Zither(m): 6:39am On Jun 30, 2017
ImaIma1:
The best punishment is that she has the child and faces the responsibility of being a mother along with her education, career,etc. She won't stop going to church and school if possible. I won't hide her at home or send her packing. Let her live openly with her mistakes and deal with them.
And I wont pause my life to take care of the baby while she goes back to her life. She will figure out a way to juggle while i help out.

You sound exactly like one who would be a very loving and supportive mother but also a no-nonsense mother. My ideal kind of woman. Please am not hitting on you, just expressing my thoughts.

7 Likes

Re: Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? by jieta: 7:23am On Jun 30, 2017
Zither:


You sound exactly like one who would be a very loving and supportive mother but also a no-nonsense mother. My ideal kind of woman. Please am not hitting on you, just expressing my thoughts.
is allowed you can hit on her, women like this handle family squabbles privately without people raising eyeball.

1 Like

Re: Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? by Quinn22(f): 12:15pm On Jun 30, 2017
She must go to school like that till she delivers the baby angry at least that shame will make her learn from her mistakes angry instead of beating her mercilessly or sending her away, what will that solve?

I can take full responsibility of the baby while she continues her study because I care for my child's future. I still believe in her and I want her to make me proud someday smiley

2 Likes 1 Share

Re: Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? by Monday5(m): 7:12pm On Jul 01, 2017
I will not send even my ward out of my house for getting pregnant under my roof. She is carrying an innocent child.
Daughters proper marriage is the biggest honour you can give US your parents.
Re: Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? by ifyalways(f): 7:51pm On Jul 01, 2017
Depends on her age undecided

Under 18: Shes getting an abortion straight up.
Above 18: I will take a big back seat and let her be the adult she so badly desires to be. kiss

1 Like

Re: Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? by sisisioge: 7:55pm On Jul 01, 2017
Na him papa born am be that, she is no longer my daughter! Let them settle their wahala.
Re: Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? by greatwomenworld(f): 10:40pm On Jul 01, 2017
first of all, I advice mothers especially to befriend their daughters, don't be too hard on her. Tell her you love her, care for her, ask her how her day went when she's back from school. Ask her about her friends in school .laugh with her during her happy moments and cry with her during her sad moments.
make her understand that you love her and show it in your actions. know when to switch from being her disciplinarian and her friend.
secondly, if your daughter who is your best friend is seeing anyone you would know, thank God for phones, there will be signs, she will be all emotional and overly- excited. if she is seeing anyone, you would know. you are a woman and you have being there.
pregnancy doesn't just fall from heaven, it takes two. when your daughter confides in you that she has a boyfriend,invite him over and know him. expose her to sex-education , it's your duty to be her counsellor .watch movies of how young girls get pregnant and suffer together. pick on it and advice her to be careful.

if she still go ahead and get pregnant .
show your disappointment towards her, don't send her packing to ruin her life. she has made her mistake, make sure that she is remorseful and help her to set her life back on track.

life is too precious to allow mistakes ruin ones destiny.
BTW a child isn't a mistake, it was just the wrong timing .
a child is a blessing.

6 Likes 2 Shares

Re: Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? by Nobody: 2:09pm On Jul 02, 2017
hmmm no idea yet
Re: Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? by realtem(m): 2:30pm On Jul 02, 2017
Khd95:
I don't pray to ve a wayward child that will be impregnated outside wedlock
That love thing dey turn the head of young girls especially when they grow up watching indian movies and all those stupid telemundo stuffs. It's the same with almost all girls only that some get lucky to go scotfree and some are wise enough to use protection.

1 Like

Re: Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? by Monday5(m): 10:06pm On Jul 02, 2017
I will ensure she continues her school, because the stupid boy is not stopping school. Besides I won't even look for who is responsible self.
Re: Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? by Monday5(m): 12:50pm On Jul 04, 2017
Those parents who would send their daugther packing; do you realize the stupid boys are never sent packing? YOU SEE WHY YOU ARE WRONG?

2 Likes

Re: Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? by TemmyWon(f): 9:32pm On Jul 04, 2017
My neighbour is married to an irresponsibility personified because of teenage pregnancy.
After all threats, wink wink my Mom later confessed after my Uni Ed that she'd never abandon such a daughter smiley but let her learn from the mistake, *I'd do just that".
Re: Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? by Nobody: 11:59pm On Jul 04, 2017
i'm assuming you mean a teenage daughter not a daughter that's grown with a job but still single.

i will teach about sex education very early but if my teenage daughter ever gets pregnant, i will make sure she understands how much responsibility can result from a few minutes of carelessness, i wont yell at her or make her feel worse than she already feels, i'll encourage her to get an abortion and take her to the clinic myself and we'll test for STDs too just to have a clean slate on paper, she has a life to live and a stupid mistake shouldn't put a stop to it. my teenage daughter wont be keeping a pregnancy while i watch, i'm pro-choice but even i know that dependent ppl dont really have a say in matters that involve emotional maturity and financial stability.

2 Likes 1 Share

Re: Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? by omobabalawo: 12:20am On Jul 05, 2017
when ur african parent scolds u for premarital sex but u can clearly see yourself in their wedding pic

2 Likes

Re: Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? by raumdeuter: 1:03am On Jul 05, 2017
Abort it and put her on IUD birth control

2 Likes 1 Share

Re: Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? by Chelseafan1: 6:03pm On Jul 05, 2017
raumdeuter:
Abort it and put her on IUD birth control

MURDERER!!!!!!
Re: Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? by Monday5(m): 7:33pm On Jul 06, 2017
raumdeuter:
Abort it and put her on IUD birth control
I fear your Idea well well ooo. I think abortion is a last resort only when the mother's life is at stake.
Re: Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? by raumdeuter: 7:52pm On Jul 06, 2017
Monday5:
I fear your Idea well well ooo. I think abortion is a last resort only when the mother's life is at stake.

WHats there to fear? There are many competent doctors who will do the abortion cleanly and place a birth control device in her

Having a kid as a teenager her life is at stake

2 Likes 1 Share

Re: Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? by raumdeuter: 7:53pm On Jul 06, 2017
Chelseafan1:
MURDERER!!!!!!
How and why?
Re: Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? by Chelseafan1: 8:51pm On Jul 06, 2017
raumdeuter:

How and why?

Abortion is murder. Do not encourage it.
Re: Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? by raumdeuter: 8:54pm On Jul 06, 2017
Chelseafan1:
Abortion is murder. Do not encourage it.

Giving birth when you are not ready is a crime and abortion can fix it

1 Like

Re: Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? by tensazangetsu20(m): 8:56pm On Jul 06, 2017
I won't even have a female child. It's either a boy or an abortion.
Re: Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? by Gerrard59(m): 10:39pm On Jul 06, 2017
tensazangetsu20:
I won't even have a female child. It's either a boy or an abortion.

This is because you are a chromosome?

1 Like

Re: Should Your Daughter Gets Impregnated, What Would Your Reaction Be? by Gerrard59(m): 10:44pm On Jul 06, 2017
greatwomenworld:
first of all, I advice mothers especially to befriend their daughters, don't be too hard on her. Tell her you love her, care for her, ask her how her day went when she's back from school. Ask her about her friends in school .laugh with her during her happy moments and cry with her during her sad moments.
make her understand that you love her and show it in your actions. know when to switch from being her disciplinarian and her friend.
secondly, if your daughter who is your best friend is seeing anyone you would know, thank God for phones, there will be signs, she will be all emotional and overly- excited. if she is seeing anyone, you would know. you are a woman and you have being there.
pregnancy doesn't just fall from heaven, it takes two. when your daughter confides in you that she has a boyfriend,invite him over and know him. expose her to sex-education , it's your duty to be her counsellor .watch movies of how young girls get pregnant and suffer together. pick on it and advice her to be careful.

if she still go ahead and get pregnant .
show your disappointment towards her, don't send her packing to ruin her life. she has made her mistake, make sure that she is remorseful and help her to set her life back on track.

life is too precious to allow mistakes ruin ones destiny.
BTW a child isn't a mistake, it was just the wrong timing .
a child is a blessing.

I presume you're not a Nigerian or resident here.

At the bolded: Well, parents of agberos thought same. A child is a blessing when well taken care of.

1 Like

(1) (2) (Reply)

Is It Right For A Man To Move Into His Wifes Apartment / My 2yr Old Child - Is This Normal? / Is Anything Wrong With This Monthly List A Wife Wrote To Her Husband

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 45
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.