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LordKO:
Boy! I don't join issue with small-minded people like you. This virtual world has given every Tom, Dick and Harry an avenue to overestimate their importance.

From all indications, I'm old enough to father you. Now vamoose and look for your mates elsewhere.

Vernoms of a bleeding poodle.

#herebyIgnored

Jman06:
The truth is that many of you think that when a guy is in love with you and doing everything to prove his love that he is doing that because he has been rejected by other girls and so he is trying so hard to get you. This thought triggers the feeling that you are settling for a reject, hence the negative feeling towards the guy starts. This is so even when the guy might have rejected other girls for you.
Guys who understand this psychology hardly show it when they're inlove.

Oga, nobody likes an overly servile human being.
Male or
Female!
EOD

jhudit:
Oga, nobody likes an overly servile human being. Male or Female! EOD

Madam speak for yourself!
Besides, i don't see anything ''overly servile'' in the op.

jhudit:
Where do you people generate these weird facts from?
Ladies don't like nice guys?
A nice guy is someone that washes his gf's pants?

You as a guy, would you like that kind of nice girl?

Pls!
Nobody likes someone that's so servile.
Someone who doesn't have a mind of his...or her own.
Let's be truthful and stop making everything a ladies problem.

When you marry a man that doesn't give hoot about you, you will give any thing in the world just have a guy like this... we don't appreciate things we get with ease.

Jman06:
Madam speak for yourself!

Besides, i don't see anything ''overly servile'' in the op.

lol no mind them.

futurism:
When you marry a man that doesn't give hoot about you, you will give any thing in the world just have a guy like this... we don't appreciate things we get with ease.

Story story ...
Like there are no guys that are in between.
Some examples you guys come up with,
Drains the IQ.

Respect people's choices and quit issuing threats.
I don't need a man to wash my pant and cook for me to show he loves me! That doesn't mean I will end up with a man who doesn't give a hoot about me. Think!!!

She doesn't love him not because he is good, but because the love isn't just there, some other girl might love him.

jhudit:
Story story ...
Like there are no guys that are in between.
Some examples you guys come up with,
Drains the IQ.

go to family section and see woes of married women. Why didn't the girl give the phone number if she doesn't want him anymore? A guy warned her that if she help get him off her back, she will never have him again, he will never call or text, even if she comes back begging to offer sex,she will never get a chance.

Another in that same post shared story of a girl who went through a similar situation and that girl deleted it. I had wanted to post it but couldn't find that very post. She deleted it for selfish reasons.

In the post, the narrator said her friend was ignoring a guy with similar trait while doing skin to skin with guy B, traveling by water to see guy C, got beaten by Guy D, almost had accident because of Guy E.... until she told this very girl that she had better go and meet the dude who really liked her before it's too late because she has always told this girl the guy really love her.

Now, like every other guys who behave like this, that most of you think are weakling, they are not really weak. They are just not exposed.

So what happened? She had to heed to her friend's advice after years gone by, to go get the dude back. Could she? For wia...the girl said her friend had to fight many battles, fought so much and fought hard before the dude could give her another chance because before she could come back, the dude eyes don tear, he now forks different girls and have become wiser. But, according to the narrator, they are married now and the dude keep proving he loves her more.

Why didn't the OP give the number to the person who wanted to help her? The reason is because the person warned her that she would never be able to get him again because he was gonna radicalise him like islamic terrorist does such that no woman will ever have the opportunity of seeing a Nice in him ever again and I believe you want the nice in these souls dead.

They are not weak... like most of you assume.

jhudit:
Story story ...
Like there are no guys that are in between.
Some examples you guys come up with,
Drains the IQ.

Iect people's choices.
I don't need a man to wash my pant and cook for me to show he loves me! That doesn't mean I will end up with a man who doesn't give a hoot about me. Think!!!

She doesn't love him because he is good, but because the love isn't just there, some other girl might love him.

It doesnt mean u will end up wit a man who will treat u worse nd neither does it mean u will end up wit a man who will treat u better. There are limits to which a man should do in his attempt to woo a woman, washing panties is a limit for me. I personally love cooking, so if i cook for a lady nd she assumes am so much in love nd doing everything to please her, shez on a long thing, some other men could see washing panties as ntin, bt d lady could capitalize on dt. Do not ever mistake a nice guy attitude for being a fool, he may love u today, nd tomaro he doesnt, nd d gal may continue living in d fake reality dt she is d most special person in his life, let dem believe d lies dey tell demselves.

HARDDON:
Vernoms of a bleeding poodle.

#herebyIgnored

HARDDON the DON

Eveezy:
It doesnt mean u will end up wit a man who will treat u worse nd neither does it mean u will end up wit a man who will treat u better. There are limits to which a man should do in his attempt to woo a woman, washing panties is a limit for me. I personally love cooking, so if i cook for a lady nd she assumes am so much in love nd doing everything to please her, shez on a long thing, some other men could see washing panties as ntin, bt d lady could capitalize on dt. Do not ever mistake a nice guy attitude for being a fool, he may love u today, nd tomaro he doesnt, nd d gal may continue living in d fake reality dt she is d most special person in his life, let dem believe d lies dey tell demselves.

Nice point there.
The issue here is the girl doesn't love him. It has nothing to do with him being nice, she just doesn't love him. It happens everyday, and some people are forced into dating or marrying someone all because he or she is nice! Dating and marrying out of pity

You're trying too hard @futurism.
The partners of the married section people may have started off washing pant. We have more tales of people who went from good to bad after marriage...nobody said anybody is weak either.

If he does, his name is sorry, I call him sorry he is a very foolish dude his name is sorry

jhudit:
Nice point there.
The issue here is the girl doesn't love him. It has nothing to do with him being nice, she just doesn't love him. It happens everyday, and some people are forced into dating or marrying someone all because he or she is nice! Dating and marrying out of pity

You're trying too hard @futurism.
The partners of the married section people may have started off washing pant. We have more tales of people who went from good to bad after marriage...nobody said anybody is weak either.

Why are you so fixated in washing pants? I don't understand.

futurism:
Why are you so fixated in washing pants? I don't understand.

Why are you finding it so difficult to understand that the issue is she doesn't love him? Has nothing to do with him being nice!

It has everything to do with the guy....here is why

Being nice to a lady, may mean any of these
-want to get into her pant
-interested in her. I.e wants a relationship, or
-want to marry her...

And all of these has its varying degree of LOVE. Maybe real or pretense...

He loves overtly with his eyes closed.....this is just the reason I blame him....being in love with her and wanting to marry her,he only felt the lady loves him which IMO is wrong..... I should be able to say a lady whom I want to marry loves me or not......

Anyway na im cross make e carry am......



Happy New Month once again.....

jhudit:
Why are you finding it so difficult to understand that the issue is she doesn't love him? Has nothing to do with him being nice!

I asked you again, why did she refused to provide the guy's number when someone volunteered to help her get him off her doors but warned that she may never get access to him again if she ever changed her mind in the future? I need answers...

futurism:
I asked you again, why did she refused to provide the guy's number when someone volunteered to help her get him off her doors but warned that she may never get access to him again if she ever changed her mind in the future? I need answers...

You should ask her.

jhudit:
You should ask her.

lmaooo

hope she won't write an epistle when she dates a "bad" guy, and he dumps her...

ceezarhh:
hope she won't write an epistle when she dates a "bad" guy, and he dumps her...

lol or say all guys are same.

Jman06:
Madam speak for yourself!

Besides, i don't see anything ''overly servile'' in the op.

No one likes an overly servile person, have a mins of your own, also washing peoples pant is odd I will never give another person to do that, I do it myself it's too private,if she doesn't feel anything for him then she's right to move on and find someone else it's not that hard to grasp

jhudit:
You should ask her.

I tire oh na you be op ?

pcguru1:
I tire oh na you be op ?

lol. Bros...

pcguru1:
No one likes an overly servile person, have a mins of your own, also washing peoples pant is odd I will never give another person to do that, I do it myself it's too private,if she doesn't feel anything for him then she's right to move on and find someone else it's not that hard to grasp

Like my post you quoted said, you can only speak for yourself. I know that some people still like to be overly served , that is why some keep slaves . Not that I subscribe to living a life of servitude, but saying that nobody likes an overly servile person is a false generalization.

Washing someone's pants to me is nothing because pants are just fabrics like every other clothes. Besides, if you can touch the same pants during lovemaking, I don't see anything wrong in washing it. It's all a thing of the mind.