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Papiikush:
Listen, the hard truth is sometimes In a relationship, stuff like these are bound to happen.

Sometimes you feel your partner is not bringing happiness and value to you life.

Sometimes you feel they are always negative to every plans you make.

Sometimes you feel they are not honest, they are holding you back etc...

If you keep walking out of relationships because of one reason or the other, you would have gone through about a hundred different relationships before realizing NO ONE IS PERFECT!

I am not saying those attributes listed are not enough to walk out of any relationship but you hardly find a partner who has got all at once.

The only reason(s) I will walk out of any relationship is either Lack of communication, domestic violence or a Cheating partner

Karidqueen:
the best time to walk outta a relationship is when yhur heart tells you to.

Prettythicksmi:
Vizkiz baba,i seconded u on this one.Nice one

Papiikush:
an abusive relationship, a cheating partner and someone who goes AWOL for weeks without any credible reason doesn't count?

Be reasonable before quoting me next time.

MzLarem:
Talking of lack of communication, is stone-walling an example?

Prettythicksmi:
Vizkiz baba,i seconded u on this one.Nice one

Papiikush:
Not in all cases though. Sometimes the person just doesn't have anything to say.

It happens when you date an extreme introvert

Thallyheart:
Pls make una borrow me a very good shoe
... Dis slippers is not helping me I need it like ASAP

MzLarem:
That's not the case in stone walling... the person ignores you cos he or she is mad at you... So does that count?

Papiikush:
Oh, I thought stone-walling was about withdrawing from a conversation.

Well, someone like myself prefer ignoring when it comes to heated conversations with my girl before it escalates to something intensive.

In my opinion, I'll say no, it doesn't Cuz it mostly happens whenever there is a misunderstanding.

MzLarem:
Typical guy

Stonewalling is wrong... a no-no for me, I can't marry someone who sees it as a way out of issues.

3RNEST:
What happened to vizkiz moniker?

Prettythicksmi:
Ask him naw

Piiko:
Time to get a new bae, she doesn't reciprocate my gestures. It's one sided

Papiikush:
So what do you prefer? Arguing till you settle the matter? Not everyone can handle intensification.

I stammer whenever I am pissed off it makes me feel aggravated

MzLarem:
Typical guy

Stonewalling is wrong... a no-no for me, I can't marry someone who sees it as a way out of issues.

Papiikush:
So what do you prefer? Arguing till you settle the matter? Not everyone can handle intensification.

I stammer whenever I am pissed off it makes me feel aggravated

Aderola15:
Same here. I hate that shii with passion, whatever happened to talking things through? As a matter of fact, if my Baeby stonewalls me, I will calmly apologize, make him forgive me and forget the issue. Then I'll stonewall him, let him swallow the bitter pill too.

MzLarem:
Honestly,the shit only dents relationship and these guys don't know. I feel. unwanted and irrelevant whenever I'm stonewalled...And if I try to do the same, I only miss the fowl

Aderola15:
Lmao @fowl. Why do I think you are going through that right now... . I honestly feel unwanted, like my absence doesn't mean shii to you ( there are other girls to fill in my space abi). If you stop talking to me because you're mad at me for some reasons, Omo you're putting a very terrible strain on our relationship and it might lead to a breakup.

The only reason why I won't let you know once you wrong me and sort our shii out is if it happens in a public place, I wee jejely let us get home before I start.

MzLarem:
Yes,yes and yes... not arguing as in yelling at each other but both parties speaking out their minds in a matured and civil way and ending it there. That's not so hard.

Women are never civil especially when they want to be right.

You ladies always find a way for us to apologize. Don't deny this larem. Don't even think about it

Aderola15:
Same here. I hate that shii with passion, whatever happened to talking things through? As a matter of fact, if my Baeby stonewalls me, I will calmly apologize, make him forgive me and forget the issue. Then I'll stonewall him, let him swallow the bitter pill too.

I haven't even gone anywhere and Aderola already confirmed it at emboldened

Aderola15:
Lmao @fowl. Why do I think you are going through that right now... . I honestly feel unwanted, like my absence doesn't mean shii to you ( there are other girls to fill in my space abi). If you stop talking to me because you're mad at me for some reasons, Omo you're putting a very terrible strain on our relationship and it might lead to a breakup.

The only reason why I won't let you know once you wrong me and sort our shii out is if it happens in a public place, I wee jejely let us get home before I start.