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Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Nobody: 9:10am On Jun 27, 2017
busybeei5:
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Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Nobody: 11:00am On Jun 27, 2017
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Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by loshybab(m): 11:48am On Jun 27, 2017
Humility017:

it is sickening
such pressure will make many to be single for a long time....
because nothing turns men off than when a woman is desperate
And it is even more sickening when you feel the no of desperate singles will soon get to Increase exponentially. One might start asking how it got this bad in the first place.


Perhaps,a rough census of those that have been bold enough to air their situation will give you an idea of the number of concerned singles out there and how it might even increase as the trends and blame games continue.
Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by loshybab(m): 12:00pm On Jun 27, 2017
babake79:


Yes o... THis is the daily prayer ooo! Good women are not so easy to find nowadays, although they are out there!

THe most important decision a man can make in his life is who he chooses to marry! This must be someone who can take him to the next level of greatness, unfortunately, most girls are just looking for a guy they can leech from and live a comfortable life

One day one day sha, we shall find this girl!

Another painful thing I see regularly is a good girl marrying an a$$hole angry angry
@your last statement, u can say that again and anytime I see such situation, to say it annoys me to a fault is an understatement.
Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by loshybab(m): 12:32pm On Jun 27, 2017
SPEEDEPITOME:

A while back, I saw a guy on here that I thought I could be friends with because from his posts he stays in an area I just moved to. I sent him a PM, his reply was 'I don't do Nairaland girls'. I told him I just wanted to be friends. He asked how I got to know he stayed around that area, I told him I read his posts.
Guess what he said next? 'Quit stalking me, idiot'. I've never been more embarrassed my whole life.
so don't blame me if I don't send any guy PM on here or any platform for that matter.
Even from this your brief narration, i can feel how embarrassed you were.Although,its kinda difficult, but don't use that as a yardstick for other guys.

This guy in question just seems the immatured one.
Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Humility017(m): 12:33pm On Jun 27, 2017
loshybab:

And it is even more sickening when you feel the no of desperate singles will soon get to Increase exponentially. One might start asking how it got this bad in the first place.


Perhaps,a rough census of those that have been bold enough to air their situation will give you an idea of the number of concerned singles out there and how it might even increase as the trends and blame games continue.
yeah...me I am in my late twenties
one of the reason why I am still single...
is because of my kind of job...
I seriously praying and hoping to get a new and a better paying job.....immediately I land this...next should be marriage...
even at that many of the ladies....u have been close to and get to like...are mostly in same age bracket wit me. ..
they're so impatient and unwilling to wait...despite me being sincere...they want marriage immediately...
imagine just meeting someone in June. .and the person already telling you. ..she has set a target for herself to marry not later than this year....
Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by loshybab(m): 12:57pm On Jun 27, 2017
Humility017:

yeah...me I am in my late twenties
one of the reason why I am still single...
is because of my kind of job...
I seriously praying and hoping to get a new and a better paying job.....immediately I land this...next should be marriage...
even at that many of the ladies....u have been close to and get to like...are mostly in same age bracket wit me. ..
they're so impatient and unwilling to wait...despite me being sincere...they want marriage immediately...
imagine just meeting someone in June. .and the person already telling you. ..she has set a target for herself to marry not later than this year....
Lol....Our story is kinda similar albeit I'm in mid 20s.
Just as you meet ladies you have some feelings for to be in your age bracket and eventually impatient, so do I and even meet older ones with same desired qualities

I personally will not blame the impatient ones coz I feel you will start having a rethink if she eventually waits and u later meet a younger one with almost same qualities who is also willing to be with u.It doesn't favour them in that regards,hence their decision to call it off.

That is the more reason why I try to initially get to know the real age of whoever I feel I'm beginning to have some feelings for.

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Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by loshybab(m): 2:15pm On Jun 27, 2017
Fkforyou:


Thanks for the advice, but I'm not 27 yet, my decision might even change by then..... that's why I said if I had my way undecided
getting married at 30-35 ke....
Follow the dude's advice at your own peril.

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Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Humility017(m): 2:44pm On Jun 27, 2017
loshybab:

Lol....Our story is kinda similar albeit I'm in mid 20s.
Just as you meet ladies you have some feelings for to be in your age bracket and eventually impatient, so do I and even meet older ones with same desired qualities

I personally will not blame the impatient ones coz I feel you will start having a rethink if she eventually waits and u later meet a younger one with almost same qualities who is also willing to be with u.It doesn't favour them in that regards,hence their decision to call it off.

That is the more reason why I try to initially get to know the real age of whoever I feel I'm beginning to have some feelings for.
hmmm....you've got some points though...
but waiting for 2-3 years shouldn't be deemed too long...
I don't want eternity just 2-3 years I will tie the knot
Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by loshybab(m): 6:10pm On Jun 27, 2017
Humility017:

hmmm....you've got some points though...
but waiting for 2-3 years shouldn't be deemed too long...
I don't want eternity just 2-3 years I will tie the knot
Well,classification of courtship period be it too short,short,medium,long and too long,i feel is an individual thing.
Consider a 21yr old lady who has always wanted to settle down by 25yrs of age.She courts a guy with all sincerity for 2-3yrs with the belief that it will lead to the altar,only to be jilted at the last hour when she must have been 23-24yrs.

Do you see that kinda lady courting for that long again? Her trust level would have even dropped.


Bottomline is the issue of relationships nowadays is so complicated and both Males and females are responsible for those complications. so unless the parties involved are sincere with each other and also willing to make it work,the complications will even continue to multiply.





NB:The example I gave could be from the other gender as well.
Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Humility017(m): 6:15pm On Jun 27, 2017
loshybab:

Well,classification of courtship period be it too short,short,medium,long and too long,i feel is an individual thing.
Consider a 21yr old lady who has always wanted to settle down by 25yrs of age.She courts a guy with all sincerity for 2-3yrs with the belief that it will lead to the altar,only to be jilted at the last hour when she must have been 23-24yrs.

Do you see that kinda lady courting for that long again? Her trust level would have even dropped.


Bottomline is the issue of relationships nowadays is so complicated and both Males and females are responsible for those complications. so unless the parties involved are sincere with each other and also willing to make it work,the complications will even continue to multiply.





NB:The example I gave could be from the other gender as well.
yeah...you're right
I just pray these phase should pass over me fast
Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by loshybab(m): 6:21pm On Jun 27, 2017
Humility017:
yeah...you're right I just pray these phase should pass over me fast
Amin oooo brother and me too
Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Titilayooni(f): 7:07pm On Jun 27, 2017
lefulefu:

happy sallah
thank you sire

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Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by cuteme88(f): 9:40pm On Jun 27, 2017
loshybab:

I want to believe you were jilted by guys in your early 20s or maybe you didn't just feel there was need to be more inclined towards settling down then. Either ways,i encourage U to be free-minded and consider building your man if u see 1 and he eventually isn't as boxed up as you are...it could work that way.

Thanks though for your words of advise!

jilted by a guy in my early 20s? is a No, No, No.

I never dated any Man,boy or guy all through my school years until during my service. broke up with him on my POP because the relationship isn't worth it and i was been used by him. Since then i never involve into any relationship until 3yrs after. But I really don't know where it was heading to and i ended it this year. My love story History will tell u that I was very much mature in age before i even got involve on the first relationship not to talk of the second. so now i just wanna let the thoughts of going into another relationship sleep on till I could gather myself again to start all over.

I'm the type that don't rush, I could be patient for all i care but I'm doing myself good. Right now i am seriously and crazily working on my
self-esteem and confidence. It should get to a stage whereby i can't fall for any Man that appreciate my beauty and claim he loves me. Let me first appreciate who I have become and love myself so as not to fall on anyone's trap because of a mere appreciation of who I am.
I should get to the peak of my life in which a Man or anyone will tell me that i am beautiful and my reply should be, "thank you, i know i am beautiful"

I'm not saying that i won't embark on another relationship or give it another trial. But i will not be involve till i learn to appreciate myself and build my confidence to the highest peak. If I had know what I've known now! I wouldn't have given anyone the chance to rubbish me, abuse my emotions and feelings. But thank God i get to recognise that after two failed relationship.

Some never did until after MARRIAGE!
Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by ayokellany: 6:06am On Jun 28, 2017
cheesy
Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by OkoAnike(m): 7:58pm On Jun 28, 2017
Boleyndynasty2:
Ayam your witness jawee... They changed plans .




just admire tongue

Op, ur DP environment look like 238 building in RA, bonny Island...
Are you here?
Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by loshybab(m): 9:02pm On Jun 28, 2017
cuteme88:


Thanks though for your words of advise!

jilted by a guy in my early 20s? is a No, No, No.

I never dated any Man,boy or guy all through my school years until during my service. broke up with him on my POP because the relationship isn't worth it and i was been used by him. Since then i never involve into any relationship until 3yrs after. But I really don't know where it was heading to and i ended it this year. My love story History will tell u that I was very much mature in age before i even got involve on the first relationship not to talk of the second. so now i just wanna let the thoughts of going into another relationship sleep on till I could gather myself again to start all over.

I'm the type that don't rush, I could be patient for all i care but I'm doing myself good. Right now i am seriously and crazily working on my
self-esteem and confidence. It should get to a stage whereby i can't fall for any Man that appreciate my beauty and claim he loves me. Let me first appreciate who I have become and love myself so as not to fall on anyone's trap because of a mere appreciation of who I am.
I should get to the peak of my life in which a Man or anyone will tell me that i am beautiful and my reply should be, "thank you, i know i am beautiful"

I'm not saying that i won't embark on another relationship or give it another trial. But i will not be involve till i learn to appreciate myself and build my confidence to the highest peak. If I had know what I've known now! I wouldn't have given anyone the chance to rubbish me, abuse my emotions and feelings. But thank God i get to recognise that after two failed relationship.

Some never did until after MARRIAGE!




Wow! You sound like a gentle lady but with a very mean mind.The failures of your past relationships isn't helping either coz I feel it has even made your heart more hardened.

Meanwhile, your narration up there is more complicated than I thought. No advice is even forthcoming coz I don't even know what to say.

Perhaps,folks with more experience on relationships can give some pieces of advice. I really do wish you the best of luck as you continue the search for your potential-better half.

Takia!

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Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Titilayooni(f): 7:33am On Jun 29, 2017
You can't blame some ladies,some guys are just born crazy..we all have stories to tell and the only bad part,it makes us hard as ladies.. Now it only takes the grace of GOD and a little self OT on the lady's part too. I met few bad guys that treated me so badly and I had given up on love but U have to meet few bad guys,so that u can appreciate the good one when he comes" Someone with a good heart would just show up to right all those wrongs when you least expect it....NOT all men are the same,there are still some good men out there.. Ama april 6 baby.
Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Toks2008(m): 6:21pm On Jul 01, 2017
Happy new month friends.

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Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Divay22(f): 6:36pm On Jul 01, 2017
Toks2008:
Happy new month friends.

CC:
Lilyqueeny Pearly255 ahahnow Lindaangel Esepayne kennygee 2dugged VickyRotex jbaby265 Flawlesbae Vivipop
NotOfThis Juliearth TonieLee Titugirl funmisticqueen MISSOPTIMIST forever24 Sparkles003 UjSizzle darbeelicous yemsai Ezionye debbie223 Oyind17 Lucasinho xqzytchyca Neroski GEExclusive Divay22 femsheart lefulefu octopusfreaky busybeei5 Xiadnat Safiaa
paybak Nomfanelo99 alexialin kimbra
Alero3Arubi Elsielex Bumbae1 UIA04 rane06 olasaad
FelixFelicia Dfinex ikp120 blessedgal
Countrygirl Oyind17 Lucasinho xqzytchyca Neroski GEExclusive Divay22 femsheart lefulefu octopusfreaky busybeei5 Xiadnat Safiaa
paybak Nomfanelo99 alexialin kimbra
Alero3Arubi lalasticlala seun mynd44
Elsielex Bumbae1 UIA04 rane06 olasaad
FelixFelicia Dfinex ikp120 blessedgal
Countrygirl Ezionye Rukkydelta Cherlene Nickymezor Leriebloom airminem kayyat honeycandy humblemikel PrettyPrisca eipreel oriflamebaby1 cindybaby22 Sanmel MISSOPTIMIST schendy dogoFara rubi96
AimingIncognito Mimzyy queencalipso supernet4 zameena marieolae Unedith Pearl005 Titilayooni MhizTenderly Pricelessp grocery Lucasinho paybak BiafranBushBoy 2kaybiel RuggedArab FTBOY gbegemaster UltraLeslie1 lefulefu SINZ
soberdrunk bettercreature TheSlyone2
Tallesty1 FelixFelicia ikp120 bassette TonyeBarcanista Cholls dingbang donestk KennyID17 BiggyB242 Mynd44 Alezy IamaNigerianGuy babatunx slim49z haggai247 geezyk troy20 ronald4lif obowunmi vuc1 pressplay411 kingguu kowalsky odinga1of 2chainzz I888
Melsan TheLordIsGr8 mixter Iheazy Noble855 skylane cptshiver zanga420 donshaddow mazizitonene xynerise Williamsesco Mykemore donestk Mememan Humility017 Airborne02 Humility017 HRich hadura29 Rilwayne001 GuntersChain braine Sincere4u ehix89 Roydonzy87 xynerise MrEverest haryorbarmie83 younglawya Hiccups freshdill Acetyl mich2012 KevinDein haffaze777 Trustme2 saasala
talk2bity Dipville adetayo234 bjims majekdom2 ottalo1 jabojafa chrisja HenryThegreat1 fuckyoumhen oketoyinboshola Tonnero23 XwhY Saeed110 Anusiemgood Ojim07 Afritop
Nogodye ndulyf osayuwamwen jonath0012 Sacluxpaint KINGOZEK
vicardino ottalo1 vicardino pcguru1 babiwonda majekdom2 Lordshola pepigeorge majamajic lrdval Realhommie
Vokians bora1 Neldrizzy BoboYekini
And you too cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy..loads of blessings coming your way this month

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Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Nobody: 11:39pm On Jul 01, 2017
Rayton:


Hi
Strength of a woman.



Hello
Thanks.
Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Jbond(m): 12:39am On Jul 02, 2017
Vivipop:
Hello @Toks2008, I have seen my birthday mate @NNAMDIII, I am so happy. So Toks2008, tell me, my DOB is 17th March, 19..
Birth mate, 17 march too, nice to meet you.
Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Vivipop(f): 12:05pm On Jul 02, 2017
Jbond:
Birth mate, 17 march too, nice to meet you.
Aawwwww, It feels really good to meet someone born on the 17th of march, we aren't much but we are very special people.

Nice to meet you too.
Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Jbond(m): 10:50pm On Jul 02, 2017
Vivipop:
Aawwwww, It feels really good to meet someone born on the 17th of march, we aren't much but we are very special people.

Nice to meet you too.
Yeah very special, and beautiful too #wink#

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Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Jbond(m): 8:14pm On Jul 03, 2017
Vivipop:
Aawwwww, It feels really good to meet someone born on the 17th of march, we aren't much but we are very special people.

Nice to meet you too.
Vivipop, did you applying for this year's NDDC scholarship?
Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Nobody: 8:35pm On Jul 03, 2017
Toks2008:


You are pretty self-motivated and know what you need, be it your career or any other thing. You are Persistent, passionate and intensely career-driven, you accept defeat only when the odds are overwhelming and failure is inevitable.
You are known for being complex, secretive and curious by nature. It's difficult to pick one occupation best suited for you because you excel in several fields as long as you are determined so in essence,you can excel in any career you desire to pursue.
march 17
Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Nobody: 8:38pm On Jul 03, 2017
Vivipop:
Hello @Toks2008, I have seen my birthday mate @NNAMDIII, I am so happy. So Toks2008, tell me, my DOB is 17th March, 19..
we dey much ooo.rep march 17
Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Vivipop(f): 8:49pm On Jul 03, 2017
vingeophysicist:
we dey much ooo.rep march 17
better person
Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Vivipop(f): 8:50pm On Jul 03, 2017
Jbond:
Vivipop, did you applying for this year's NDDC scholarship?
Yes, I did
Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Jbond(m): 9:16pm On Jul 03, 2017
Vivipop:
Yes, I did
Same here, which discipline did you apply for, and are you going for the cbt test?
Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Vivipop(f): 9:20pm On Jul 03, 2017
Jbond:
Same here, which discipline did you apply for, and are you going for the cbt test?
Engineering. My test is scheduled for the 7th of this month. Hopefully I'll be there.
Re: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by johnson232: 9:30pm On Jul 03, 2017
cuteme88:


Thanks though for your words of advise!

jilted by a guy in my early 20s? is a No, No, No.

I never dated any Man,boy or guy all through my school years until during my service. broke up with him on my POP because the relationship isn't worth it and i was been used by him. Since then i never involve into any relationship until 3yrs after. But I really don't know where it was heading to and i ended it this year. My love story History will tell u that I was very much mature in age before i even got involve on the first relationship not to talk of the second. so now i just wanna let the thoughts of going into another relationship sleep on till I could gather myself again to start all over.

I'm the type that don't rush, I could be patient for all i care but I'm doing myself good. Right now i am seriously and crazily working on my
self-esteem and confidence. It should get to a stage whereby i can't fall for any Man that appreciate my beauty and claim he loves me. Let me first appreciate who I have become and love myself so as not to fall on anyone's trap because of a mere appreciation of who I am.
I should get to the peak of my life in which a Man or anyone will tell me that i am beautiful and my reply should be, "thank you, i know i am beautiful"

I'm not saying that i won't embark on another relationship or give it another trial. But i will not be involve till i learn to appreciate myself and build my confidence to the highest peak. If I had know what I've known now! I wouldn't have given anyone the chance to rubbish me, abuse my emotions and feelings. But thank God i get to recognise that after two failed relationship.

Some never did until after MARRIAGE!
Hmmm....Easy with this your over confidence building...because i am not really understanding the essence of it...overdose of confidence can be destructive for a lady if not well managed...

Easy easy ooo.....& u seriously need to forget about ur past relationships....it will do u no good...trust me....

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