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Lets take for instance an averagely okay guy who has an apartment of his own, hustles and makes enough money to meet his basic needs and a few frivolities meets a supposedly Slayqueen who has her Fathom standards of the type of guy she'd be open to date or go out with.

Slayqueen makes her hair with at least 10k to 15k once every month or twice a month and Average guy obviously can't afford such frivolities for the time being.

What my sisters make me to understand is that Slayqueen who is also ambitious and has a certain level or Fathom standard she wants, then she'd rather dump the average guy for her supposed 'ideal' type of guy who meets up with her supposed 'standards' which indeed are fleeting and nothing of such adds value to her other than her to keep Slaying.

Forgetting that Average guy also has standards which is far from the materialistic and opportunistic needs of Slayqueen.

Average guy wants a girl who can add value to his life beyond sex. He wants a lady who is ambitious and goal oriented. A lady who would sit down and patiently watch him build a Billion dollar empire.

There are guys and there are guys. Some guys hustle to make money just to impress the ladies and that works for them. They get the Slayqueens aka coded Oloshos.

There are other guys who have no time for the fleeting materialistic things. They want something more lasting and enduring like building a financial profile or an enduring business empire that would last for generations. These kind of guys have no time and money to waste of frivolous things like dining in expensive restaurants or the movies. Not like it won't happen but the lucky lady would earn it and not just another Slayqueens aka coded Olosho.

So it's up to you guys. Do you want to get success just to impress a Slayqueen who any Tom, Dick and Harry who has enough money to throw away can get or you want want a Real Queen who knows her intrinsic worth like Paddy Adenuga would say. Trust me he's a smart guy to avoid ladies who all they're worth is an iPhone7 or 10k weave on.

'Slaying' queens don't last for long, they'll eventually get old, wrinkled with a disgusting skin, having so many bastards because they were baby mamas and then some old nigga picks them up from the streets and use them for rituals. life cycle of slay queens.

No ideal man, not even an above average man will wanna go for a slay queen and settle down with her and that's why davido has them plenty, wizkid, and even the father of many generation, 2face. After these guys don fūçk fūçk tire, they'll go back to their primary school crushes-Messi and 2face for instance

I think we nigerians should stop all this madness of poverty and relationships.

People are having sex everyday, rich and poor, getting married as well..

If you want to remain broke then so be it. If you want to be rich then work towards it and forget about things that will distract you

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Everyone has got standards but you should tag with those on the same wavelength.

Secretario:
Everyone has got standards but you should tag with those on the same wavelength.

What do you mean by 'same wavelenght' and in what context?

dingbang:
I think we nigerians should stop all this madness of poverty and relationships.

People are having sex everyday, rich and poor, getting married as well..

If you want to remain broke then so be it. If you want to be rich then work towards it and forget about things that will distract you

lalasticlacla oya

NNAMDIII:
lalasticlacla oya

He actually made little or no sense because being rich or poor is a function of so many factors which are mostly beyond human control. Some get rich and famous by a mere stroke of luck while others have to sweat it out and withstand all odds.

Some even get rich not from their own free volition but was bestowed on them and would rather have a simple life.

These are the complexities of life bit the average Slayqueen aka Olosho is so awash with poverty that she desperately wants to escape it by any means which includes selling her body to the highest bidder.

Besides, life is beyond sex and getting married. There's more to life than those ephemeral things ordinary people place more value on.

Besides, if you've had as much sex as i did. Trust me nothing in a woman will move you.

FYI, do you know Dangote is unmarried. He actually divorced all his wives and paid them alimonies just so he can focus on his business empire.

Now the Slayqueens should know that a Dangote or future Dangote places no value on women who have nothing to offer beyond sex .

ALIBABAgcfr:
He actually made little or no sense because being rich or poor is a function of so many factors which are mostly beyond han control. Some get rich and famous by a mere stroke of luck while others have to sweat it out and withstand all odds.

Some even get rich not from their own free volition but was bestowed on them and would rather have a simple life.

These are the complexities of life bit the average Slayqueen aka Olosho is so awash with poverty that she desperately wants to escape it by any means which includes selling her body to the highest bidder.

Besides, life is beyond sex and getting married. There's more to life than those ephemeral things ordinary people place more value on.

Besides, if you've had as much sex as i did. Trust me nothing in a woman will move you.

FYI, do you know Dangote is unmarried. He actually divorced all his wives and paid them alimonies just so he can focus on his business empire.

Now the Slayqueens should know that a Dangote or future Dangote places no value on women who have nothing to offer beyond sex .

I agree with you, nice one bro

lol... some ideologies just don't apply in this part of the world.
Broke guys/girls and standards? who dash you?
Just like seeing a broke man sticking to his principles.... bros, you will dice those principles in a plate and eat eventually when hunger hol u for belle.... shior kelebe!!

LadiIshola:
lol... some ideologies just don't apply in this part of the world.
Broke guys/girls and standards? who dash you?
Just like seeing a broke man sticking to his principles.... bros, you will dice those principles in a plate and eat eventually when hunger hol u for belle.... shior kelebe!!

Being broke is relative. A guy could be earning half a million every month and certain girls would still call him broke since he could not afford to buy her a 1.5 million Naira birkim bag or even the latest issue Mercedes benz C class since her ex got her a Range Rover which she is still driving.

So being broke doesn't necessarily mean youre hungry or cant afford your basic needs.

We all know ladies would tag you as a broke ass once you cant afford her demands at that moment in time.

Got it?

ALIBABAgcfr:
Lets take for instance an averagely okay guy who has an apartment of his own, hustles and makes enough money to meet his basic needs and a few frivolities meets a supposedly Slayqueen who has her Fathom standards of the type of guy she'd be open to date or go out with.

Slayqueen makes her hair with at least 10k to 15k once every month or twice a month and Average guy obviously can't afford such frivolities for the time being.

What my sisters make me to understand is that Slayqueen who is also ambitious and has a certain level or Fathom standard she wants, then she'd rather dump the average guy for her supposed 'ideal' type of guy who meets up with her supposed 'standards' which indeed are fleeting and nothing of such adds value to her other than her to keep Slaying.

Forgetting that Average guy also has standards which is far from the materialistic and opportunistic needs of Slayqueen.

Average guy wants a girl who can add value to his life beyond sex. He wants a lady who is ambitious and goal oriented. A lady who would sit down and patiently watch him build a Billion dollar empire.

There are guys and there are guys. Some guys hustle to make money just to impress the ladies and that works for them. They get the Slayqueens aka coded Oloshos.

There are other guys who have no time for the fleeting materialistic things. They want something more lasting and enduring like building a financial profile or an enduring business empire that would last for generations. These kind of guys have no time and money to waste of frivolous things like dining in expensive restaurants or the movies. Not like it won't happen but the lucky lady would earn it and not just another Slayqueens aka coded Olosho.

So it's up to you guys. Do you want to get success just to impress a Slayqueen who any Tom, Dick and Harry who has enough money to throw away can get or you want want a Real Queen who knows her intrinsic worth like Paddy Adenuga would say. Trust me he's a smart guy to avoid ladies who all they're worth is an iPhone7 or 10k weave on.

nd a guy must know dat its nt all about sex

preccy69:
nd a guy must know dat its nt all about sex

You be better pikin.

This is really good advice.

I wonder why a guy who's still struggling to find financial security should get himself entangled with a trophy girl. Call her slay queen if you like. But I'm referring to a pretty girl who's primarily concerned with looking pretty and living it up. Trophy girls are like sports cars and expensive jewelry - extravagances you allow yourself after attaining a certain class of wealth where you can bear to watch money flushed down the drain. That's when trophies might be appropriate. Imagine considering a Bugatti when you're just starting out? It would be smarter to consider a car that is efficient and not showy.

Everyone has standards, go for someone that meets your standards and allow others the opportunity to do the same.

ALIBABAgcfr:
You be better pikin.

hmmmm,thanks

preccy69:
hmmmm,thanks

Feel free ti add me on whatsapp...number on my profile. You can also send me an sms for quicker response. I have something for you.

*winks*

MsRoe:
This is really good advice.

I wonder why a guy who's still struggling to find financial security should get himself entangled with a trophy girl. Call her slay queen if you like. But I'm referring to a pretty girl who's primarily concerned with looking pretty and living it up. Trophy girls are like sports cars and expensive jewelry - extravagances you allow yourself after attaining a certain class of wealth where you can bear to watch money flushed down the drain. That's when trophies might be appropriate. Imagine considering a Bugatti when you're just starting out? It would be smarter to consider a car that is efficient and not showy.

Great Miss, you hit the nail on the head but the sad thing is those so called Slayqueens /Trophy girls you say aren't even up to the Bugatti standard. Its all based and packaging, make up and filters. In reality, they are nothing but a piece of shi.t.

Never be in a relationship with a person who is not goal-oriented.

ALIBABAgcfr:
Feel free ti add me on whatsapp...number on my profile. You can also send me an sms for quicker response. I have something for you.

*winks*

are you the real alibaba

Please someone tell me, who are broke guys?

ALIBABAgcfr:
Feel free ti add me on whatsapp...number on my profile. You can also send me an sms for quicker response. I have something for you.

*winks*

ok,keep it

Its a lie.
Is this the same Alibaba.
The Alibaba on Nigeria info.
The guy that once gave me rice.
I don't believe it.
But if its you, why did you stop your show on radio.

Wow, Mr Ali if its you its an honour meeting you, your like the Grand khadi of comedy, and your knowledge is a wonder to behold, your like the Gate keeper of all ancient knowledge.

And your generosity is so unparalleled, Delta state says they are the big heart, they haven't seen yours, you are the king of hearts.

ALIBABAgcfr:
Being broke is relative. A guy could be earning half a million every month and certain girls would still call him broke since he could not afford to buy her a 1.5 million Naira birkim bag or even the latest issue Mercedes benz C class since her ex got her a Range Rover which she is still driving.

So being broke doesn't necessarily mean youre hungry or cant afford your basic needs.

We all know ladies would tag you as a broke ass once you cant afford her demands at that moment in time.

Got it?

Bro, we all know what I mean when a guy is broke.
There is a social class where everyone belongs and the moment you overshoot your class, you should take whatever comes with it and not complain.
You said it yourself, he earns 500k monthly but wants to maintain a lady whose taste is higher than that. Bro it's nobody's doing but his.
He should learn to stick to his class.
That's the ugly truth, do not overshoot your capabilities, it's what's killing most men cos they aim for what they can't have and when they eventually have it, it eventually ends them.
My piece bro.... peace!!

it is appointed for a man to die once.....f...ck slay queens,baby mama's,runs girl,wife,gf,hoes.....I banged twin sister and each time it happens,I always say its a mistake..tell me how such a mistake can be made more than five times..even when one don born for me..I still dey mistakenly fu..k her identical twin sister... guyman,.u don big pass who for dey yarn bout man woman shit..think rather of ur appointment wit d grim reaper.... out.

LadiIshola:
Bro, we all know what I mean when a guy is broke.
There is a social class where everyone belongs and the moment you overshoot your class, you should take whatever comes with it and not complain.
You said it yourself, he earns 500k monthly but wants to maintain a lady whose taste is higher than that. Bro it's nobody's doing but his.
He should learn to stick to his class.
That's the ugly truth, do not overshoot your capabilities, it's what's killing most men cos they aim for what they can't have and when they eventually have it, it eventually ends them.
My piece bro.... peace!!

Nice one but in reality, most of these so called Slayqueens belong to no class as long as they depend on men for their income.

The social class status thing you are talking about in something you are born with and has nothing to do with income brackets.

I for instance already have a house bestowed upon me and i appreciate the fact that i don't have to sweat it to meet up with a landlords rent. You cant compare me to someone who lives in a campy single room apartment with her parents even if she makes more money than i do. We still don't belong to the same social class but that shouldn't be a factor when it cones to dating.

The problem is, people lay too much emphasis on ones financial status while choosing a partner while other things which are more important takes the back seat which shouldn't be so because people easily move up and down the ladder and its takes simple planning and proper diligence between you two to achieve your financial goals.