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Amarabae:
Sister, a guy being broke should not be a key issue if you as the lady have something doing to earn some money.
Must you be a financial liability in a relationship?
Even if the guy is broke, you can offer to him intelligent suggestion on how to come out of it, businesses he can venture in, how he can raise capital etc

jhadu:
All my life on planet earth I've neva seen sum1 as intelligent as u r... Wish to knw u more

9japrof:
hahahaha na only worm na e I know say dey hook person, take am easy with work, take enough rest ooo and am sure nairaland is a sure place to get that comic relief.

Stay cool brother...

Cinderella5:
money makes ladies look good too, with the right clothes, hair, cream, make up, she will become beautiful.

funmisticqueen:
I tried once, it was a struggle, try looking for a reason to love him when there wasn't any

cruchenuti:
Ahn ahn bros All your life? Why are you lying like this. Just tell her you like her, Simple.

You even added "planet earth" ahn ahn Kilode.

midehi2:
if my guy should read this, he will bless your comment, reason he loves me like kilode, "touch me and wait for him to blow you off"

Safiaa:
we understand that. But realistically not every story has an happy ending. We have people who are just destined to be poor. Thats fine, but some women don't want that. And if she states that she doesn't want that, it's a problem. The same way men have criterias for picking their partners, is the same way women are entitled to have their say too. A woman can only bring so much to the table financially. Once she becomes the breadwinner, problems occur. I don't care about what any body has to say.

bpee:
The question should be " who is a broke guy"?
Cos some guys earn 350k to 400k and are still broke,,they have so many bills to settle,,parents,family members they are sponsoring( including the growing ones) at the end the guy has little or nothing left,,while a guy who earns 100- 150k might have very few or no responsibilities at all?
So who is a broke guy?
Is it measured only on a guys's earnings?

Cinderella5:
it's society, not me. When a community wants to give out chieftancy title, do they give broke men? It's the life we live in.

Safiaa:
everything na talk. Talki talki. Who's talking about being a liability here? At the end of the day its not easy dating a guy who has less funds than you. Problems like insecurities, depression and all sorts will arise from this. Im talking from experience. Everybody wants to be a counselling therapist for their boyfriend on nl for likes, but in reality its a very frustrating experience. Ah beg be with somebody who is on your level or above. And if he's broke, he must have a serious plan to get out. I dont have time to be setting out a business plan for anyone.

mojounited:
Why did you copy my signature? That's plagiarism

ImaIma1:
You watch too many movies

Alphamale2017:
this is what I am saying , if u see potentials , real genuine one, that is clear , my sister wait oh. don't break up, I GB not even ur mama go curse u. from all the comments u can see that funmisticqueen is more mentally balanced than safiaa
. her argument is balanced. safiaa's points are too extreme fuministicqueen looks like some one who with or without marriage, may still make it in life and drive big cars. . cinderella5 is the most childish one, safiaa is more reasonable than this one. to this one, it's either money or nothing . this is foolish this one can even kneel down to beg a rich guy to marry her. very mentally crippled person. fortunately I am not in a mood to bash her.

scantee:
Lol my dear i have some deadline contracts i needs to to do handover soonest, so that is why, but I usually visit NL , but mostly midnights...


How your end na? Your federal Government contractor una, na una de eat am big big

AHCB:
Simple, you sound like a broke girl. Any girl who is able, makes her own money, won't be saying the things you've been saying so far.

That's why I wanted to know what you really do for a living.

BISIXCLUSIVE:
Thats individual way of thinking, some love money more than his/her future, they don't wanna know how it comes. May God help we ladies honestly.

Alphamale2017:
my dear thank God u stood by him. he has a very bright future. in 1-2 years time I bigger club can sign him and be paying him X5 of his present salary. thank God For your patience. u go drive Range Rover, u deserve it. God bless u

BISIXCLUSIVE:
Thnks boss I appreciate, your wife will be submitted and loyal with u for life, more $$$$$$$$$ in your bank account. amen

Acidosis:
I am not broke, but I will never marry a woman with OP's mentality. I'd rather die a Bachelor. When you begin to quantify love with monetary value, just accept the fact that marriage isn't meant for you. Even if you try to enter into one, you won't stay long...

Cinderella5:
you didn't prove anything. There are no broke girls. Only guys are termed broke. If in the next 10 years I don't make money no one will look down on me, provided I have a family, but if you don't, you will be termed a disappointment.

Cinderella5:
spot on. No one praises a guy for his looks, his money speaks for him, while a girls looks goes makes way for her lots of the time.

Barzinime:
I pity all you girls complaining about broke guys..Most of you come from a poor background & you want a life that your dad couldn't give you but your mum didn't run away or leave him..
Instead you should focus on developing yourself & be successful, you are looking for rich dudes...I pray they use you for ritual or less punching bag cos the guy will see through you & know you are a hungry girl..
Be careful what you wish for, everything as a price

Cinderella5:
there are people in relationships with rich guys and are happy, take your negativity away with you, everyone cannot be broke like you. And the way you all talk about using people for ritual is sickening, you need help.

Barzinime:
I'm not broke I'm working, a procurement engineer...What do you do for a living? Sure you jobless...go and work for your money lazy ass girl
Ole
I know you from a poor background & you can't meet a rich guy cos you are not in the same class

Cinderella5:
you are broke.
Go hustle for money, you stink poverty.

Acidosis:
I am not broke, but I will never marry a woman with OP's mentality. I'd rather die a Bachelor. When you begin to quantify love with monetary value, just accept the fact that marriage isn't meant for you. Even if you try to enter into one, you won't stay long...