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Never Blame Your Parents For Your Situation.. by Nobody: 5:45pm On Jul 05, 2017
Real problem is when you write "a father that is not rich like Dangote,is that one a father?" On facebook....and lo and behold ,you father like the post!


On a serious note,we guys should stop pointing accusing fingers at our fathers(parents) ...words like"i wish mr x is my father", "where was he when others were making money"?

I saw a comment made by someone on a front page thread. He typed "my father is as useless as my left hand"!

Your father may be more hardworking than those rich men but nature didn't smile on him.Some people's nuts are being cracked by a benevolent spirit (an Igbo adage), things just happens to fall into place for them.Most of these rich men dont work as hard as the rate at which money fall onto their laps,but life is just good to them.

Think of it,there are some of your mates out there that are not as hardworking as you but are living larger than you.So,how would you feel if someone tells you that where were you when your friend was making money...obviously,you wont feel good.You will feel like"but i am hardworking".

I do not dispute the fact that some parents are actually useless in terms of taking care and providing for their children. If you happen to fall into that category, all you need to do is to forget about them and show them that "I CAN DO IT WITHOUT YOU". Never blame them for your misfortune, see at as how it has been written.


So,lets respect our parents,and appreciate the fact that they brought us to life and nutured us through thick and thin.

Appreciate your mum for not aborting you before you came into this world.Respecting them alone is a key to long life.

I drop my pen!
Re: Never Blame Your Parents For Your Situation.. by Nobody: 5:49pm On Jul 05, 2017
[color=#F535AA]You fúçking know what?..... FÚÇK THE THREAD grin...........how the fûçk can we fûçk ourselves cool [/color]
Re: Never Blame Your Parents For Your Situation.. by Nobody: 5:50pm On Jul 05, 2017
FuckExpress:
[color=#F535AA]You fúçking know what?..... FÚÇK THE THREAD grin...........how the fûçk can we fûçk ourselves cool [/color]
FvckShiT!!! .. Where have you been? It's been a long time. Who kidnapped you.?
Re: Never Blame Your Parents For Your Situation.. by Lionessza(f): 5:50pm On Jul 05, 2017
Nice one. Nothing but the truth here.
Re: Never Blame Your Parents For Your Situation.. by Nobody: 5:52pm On Jul 05, 2017
Well i don't buy into this mentality because truth be told, some of the things we face in our lives before we eventually find our foots are caused by our parents..
Forget the blame game, a poor parent will eventually make things difficult for their children in this battle field we call earth..
I personally will be blame for anything that happens for my future kids..
Its my duty to give them a bird like life where they will be happy and free from the hustle of lives..
We should not blame them but the truth is that blame is on them.
Re: Never Blame Your Parents For Your Situation.. by Nobody: 5:52pm On Jul 05, 2017
sexybbstar:
FvckShiT!!! .. Where have you been? It's been a long time. Who kidnapped you.?
[color=#F535AA] Fúçking banned for months! angry [/color]



[color=#F535AA]how D Fúçk you been? cheesy [/color]
Re: Never Blame Your Parents For Your Situation.. by Nobody: 5:56pm On Jul 05, 2017
FuckExpress:
[color=#F535AA] Fúçking banned for months! angry [/color]



[color=#F535AA]how D Fúçk you been? cheesy [/color]
Aww sad, sorry dear.

I'm fine.
Re: Never Blame Your Parents For Your Situation.. by NairalandCS(m): 6:01pm On Jul 05, 2017
Lemme just sit here.

Re: Never Blame Your Parents For Your Situation.. by NairalandCS(m): 6:04pm On Jul 05, 2017
If you don't have money, don't have kids or have just one.

Simple.
Re: Never Blame Your Parents For Your Situation.. by ikp120(m): 6:06pm On Jul 05, 2017
FuckExpress:
[color=#F535AA] Fúçking banned for months! angry [/color]



[color=#F535AA]how D Fúçk you been? cheesy [/color]
Why did they ban you?
Re: Never Blame Your Parents For Your Situation.. by VargasVee(m):
Much as you hit the point, still parents constitute to about 70% of a child's potential life. Not just in the monetary aspect.

Some couples, even after knowing how much they earn would still give birth to a football team expecting God to come down and take care of them. Some of them even after having knowledge of their genotype and why they shouldn't marry, would still go ahead and end up bringing a child who would live on a borrowed life. And some of this people who go around stealing, you think they just woke up one day and started stealing? Most are a result of living in squalor, they get a taste of good life and do not want to go back. Some of it are even inherited traits.

Not to talk about neglect and abuse, some parents treat their kids like animals, where did you think all these molesters and abusers come from? As a kid, your memory basically sticks to everything you see.

They're the God for us here on earth, I believe every parent should have their child's interest at best.
Re: Never Blame Your Parents For Your Situation.. by Nobody: 6:08pm On Jul 05, 2017
ikp120:
Why did they ban you?
[color=#F535AA] The blöödyfûçkiñg bîtch don't fúçking want me around here[/color]
Re: Never Blame Your Parents For Your Situation.. by Nobody: 6:10pm On Jul 05, 2017
True, the best thing to do is to forget such parent and man up

Re: Never Blame Your Parents For Your Situation.. by rosieluv(f): 6:27pm On Jul 05, 2017
Well said!!!
Re: Never Blame Your Parents For Your Situation.. by tosyne2much(m):
You said nothing but the bitter truth

I always shake my head each time people make a juxtaposition of their parents' achievements to that of Dangote.

Only if people know that no matter how hard working or industrious you can be, everyone cannot attain Dangote's height, so the earlier people know this, the better
Re: Never Blame Your Parents For Your Situation.. by ChopBellefull(m): 7:01pm On Jul 05, 2017
Yea sexy u said it all.. D day i exchanged words with my father nd compared him.. Dah was d last day i was gonna do such.. D man no dey waste time to lay curse..
I had to go buy chicken(broilers 2) nd cook jollof rice jst to appease him, coz dah was his requirements for averting the curses he laid.

Sinx den even if e poo in my bag i ll thank him.. Pls forgv ir annoying parents
Re: Never Blame Your Parents For Your Situation.. by Nobody: 7:02pm On Jul 05, 2017
#Truth. Well said,bbstar.cool
Re: Never Blame Your Parents For Your Situation.. by Nobody: 7:07pm On Jul 05, 2017
ChopBellefull:
Yea sexy u said it all.. D day i exchanged words with my father nd compared him.. Dah was d last day i was gonna do such.. D man no dey waste time to lay curse..
I had to go buy chicken(broilers 2) nd cook jollof rice jst to appease him, coz dah was his requirements for averting the curses he laid.

Sinx den even if e poo in my bag i ll thank him.. Pls forgv ir annoying parents
Your dad is so funny... I was just laughing smiley
Re: Never Blame Your Parents For Your Situation.. by Nobody: 7:09pm On Jul 05, 2017
NairalandCS:
If you don't have money, don't have kids or have just one.

Simple.
Do you know that there are situations where misfortune sets in after two to three kids?
Re: Never Blame Your Parents For Your Situation.. by iweecureyou: 7:14pm On Jul 05, 2017
sexybbstar:
Real problem is when you write "a father that is not rich like Dangote,is that one a father?" On facebook....and lo and behold ,you father like the post!


On a serious note,we guys should stop pointing accusing fingers at our fathers(parents) ...words like"i wish mr x is my father", "where was he when others were making money"?

I saw a comment made by someone on a front page thread. He typed "my father is as useless as my left hand"!

Your father may be more hardworking than those rich men but nature didn't smile on him.Some people's nuts are being cracked by a benevolent spirit (an Igbo adage), things just happens to fall into place for them.Most of these rich men dont work as hard as the rate at which money fall onto their laps,but life is just good to them.

Think of it,there are some of your mates out there that are not as hardworking as you but are living larger than you.So,how would you feel if someone tells you that where were you when your friend was making money...obviously,you wont feel good.You will feel like"but i am hardworking".

I do not dispute the fact that some parents are actually useless in terms of taking care and providing for their children. If you happen to fall into that category, all you need to do is to forget about them and show them that "I CAN DO IT WITHOUT YOU". Never blame them for your misfortune, see at as how it has been written.


So,lets respect our parents,and appreciate the fact that they brought us to life and nutured us through thick and thin.

Appreciate your mum for not aborting you before you came into this world.Respecting them alone is a key to long life.

I drop my pen!
Hehe it is pained u abicheesy




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Re: Never Blame Your Parents For Your Situation.. by Nobody: 7:21pm On Jul 05, 2017
iweecureyou:
Hehe it is pained u abicheesy



itsjude Mrcork thepussyhunter adaksbullet maxi112 teehamzat victornezzar Knightnemesis comradespadeangry
The craziest friend I've ever had on nairaland sad
Re: Never Blame Your Parents For Your Situation.. by adaksbullet: 7:33pm On Jul 05, 2017
sexybbstar:
The craziest friend I've ever had on nairaland sad
while his these guys alway mension mine name evrywhr nl sad sad sad



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Re: Never Blame Your Parents For Your Situation.. by ChopBellefull(m): 7:34pm On Jul 05, 2017
sexybbstar:
Your dad is so funny... I was just laughing smiley
Lol.. Its funny nw.. Bt i neva believed in doz curses till i started seeing misfortunes. Any wer i go dey ll refer me to my prob wit my dad. I was lucky he is still alive, my dear i went bk like a prodigal son to beg him. Bt unfortunately i was d one to kill chicken nd not him killing cow as d Bible put it
Re: Never Blame Your Parents For Your Situation.. by Nobody: 7:43pm On Jul 05, 2017
This is the only write from sexybbstar that I cannot fault the logic or the intention behind the writeup
1000% correct

Your parent brought you into this world, no matter which home you find yourself, you still have to discover who you are

I know davido's father is rich and he constantly remind us, but the dude still had to make a name for himself
He is not the only kid from a rich home in Nigeria, but unlike most he made a name for himself


So let us man up and find a place for our self in these world regardless of which home we find our self and let us stop blaming our parents or relatives

Peace cool
Re: Never Blame Your Parents For Your Situation.. by ikp120(m): 7:44pm On Jul 05, 2017
FuckExpress:
[color=#F535AA] The blöödyfûçkiñg bîtch don't fúçking want me around here[/color]
What's the reason for banning you for months? Did you insult anyone?
Re: Never Blame Your Parents For Your Situation.. by Victornezzar: 7:46pm On Jul 05, 2017
greyboy5000:
This is the only write from sexybbstar that I cannot fault the logic or the intention behind the writeup
1000% correct

Your parent brought you into this world, no matter which home you find yourself, you still have to discover who you are

I know davido's father is rich and he constantly remind us, but the dude still had to make a name for himself
He is not the only kid from a rich home in niheria, but unlike most he made a name for himself


So let us man up and find a place for our self in these world regardless of which home we find our self and let us stop blaming our parents or relatives

Peace cool
yeah ur ryt but u wer not brot into dis world 2 ask whywhyogun out grin
Re: Never Blame Your Parents For Your Situation.. by Nobody: 7:50pm On Jul 05, 2017
Victornezzar:
yeah ur ryt but u wer not brot into dis world 2 ask whywhyogun out grin
go and meet you girlfriend he/she is hot waiting for you grin

I guess the dude really digs you cheesy
Re: Never Blame Your Parents For Your Situation.. by mikeycharles(m): 7:50pm On Jul 05, 2017
hatbricker:
True, the best thing to do is to forget such parent and man up
just kill me
Re: Never Blame Your Parents For Your Situation.. by NairalandCS(m): 7:51pm On Jul 05, 2017
sexybbstar:
Do you know that there are situations where misfortune sets in after two to three kids?
That's why you have to set up contingencies, just in case.

But more often than not, these parents start a family knowing fully well that they can't fend for themselves, talkless of their children. You'll hear them saying, it'll get better. Let's have kids first.

The child didn't beg you to bring him/her to this world. You did that, so the least you can do is to give him/her all that they need. Simple.
Re: Never Blame Your Parents For Your Situation.. by Victornezzar: 7:52pm On Jul 05, 2017
greyboy5000:
go and meet you girlfriend he/she is hot waiting for you grin

I guess the dude really digs you cheesy
very soon mamagee would be competing 4 ur love
Re: Never Blame Your Parents For Your Situation.. by Nobody: 7:54pm On Jul 05, 2017
Victornezzar:
very soon mamagee would be competing 4 ur love
don't let us derail this thread
I am coming for you in another thread grin
Re: Never Blame Your Parents For Your Situation.. by Victornezzar: 7:55pm On Jul 05, 2017
greyboy5000:
don't let us derail this thread
I am coming for you in another thread grin
no p Bro grin
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