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I've Decided Not To Love Again And It's Final by lebete3000: 7:47pm On Jul 09, 2017
I'm a good guy that has always been good to people but gotten evil back in return every time. I have realized that ppl aren't really interested in d good you do to them but only your personality. I am a shy person with low self esteem. I have shown people my good side and even been open to them all to my detriment majority of the time. There are however sometimes I get in my good elements and during this period ladies will now bring themselves around me loving up but when I need them emotionally the most they take advantage of my emotional weak state and ride roughshod over me.
When a woman senses confidence she bows, when she senses weakness she misbehaves.
I know Women aren't really keen on a man's money as I've had enough of them help me when I'm broke but in my good elements. I've noticed them neglect me when I'm weak only to be lurking in one corner waiting for when I'll come around and den flock around me when I do. I've come to realize there's really no emotional help a woman can render a man but will even add to his sorrows instead when he's weak and help other men thay are feeling good about themselves.
This has made me to come to the conclusion they're useless and can't afford such specie in my life. A dog is a better companion.
I will simply use them for the only thing I need them for- Sex & Procreation. I have decided not to be bitter while doing this as it will stagnate my progress in life.
This is my final resolution.

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Re: I've Decided Not To Love Again And It's Final by Aonkuuse(m): 7:51pm On Jul 09, 2017
You are entitle to your opinion

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Re: I've Decided Not To Love Again And It's Final by ednut1(m): 7:52pm On Jul 09, 2017
Who cares

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Re: I've Decided Not To Love Again And It's Final by lebete3000: 7:56pm On Jul 09, 2017
ednut1:
Who cares

Thank God for that....
Re: I've Decided Not To Love Again And It's Final by nelson16(m): 8:07pm On Jul 09, 2017
1. Only God is good. 2. Make the best use of life...it is yours

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Re: I've Decided Not To Love Again And It's Final by Nobody: 8:08pm On Jul 09, 2017
First off, the only problem here is you.

Typical human, pointing fingers to every one else but one comes back to you.
You need to work on yourself dude.

Nobody likes a weakling. Even sperm has to survive to get to the ova. Nature itself kills the weak and the strong survive.
A relationship is for emotionally matured people so grow up. Be the man a woman needs and not some whinny douchebag.

Work on yourself and then try again.

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Re: I've Decided Not To Love Again And It's Final by ovaRAYted(m): 8:09pm On Jul 09, 2017
OP read the following words very very carefully.....




















NOBODY GIVES A Bleep!!!!

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Re: I've Decided Not To Love Again And It's Final by ekensi01: 8:10pm On Jul 09, 2017
Thank God for your soul.

You can now serve God in spirit and truth.

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Re: I've Decided Not To Love Again And It's Final by Jaynom(m): 8:26pm On Jul 09, 2017
Op. It's clear you know what needs to be done. Don't be complacent. Develop your personality, develop yourself!

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Re: I've Decided Not To Love Again And It's Final by fowosh: 8:46pm On Jul 09, 2017
DAT is ur own problem, commenting on ur write up is my own problem.....ur problem is non of my business
Re: I've Decided Not To Love Again And It's Final by Bibi294(f): 9:06pm On Jul 09, 2017
Op, love is sweet...

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Re: I've Decided Not To Love Again And It's Final by lebete3000: 9:44pm On Jul 09, 2017
ENIMONEY:
First off, the only problem here is you.

Typical human, pointing fingers to every one else but one comes back to you.
You need to work on yourself dude.

Nobody likes a weakling. Even sperm has to survive to get to the ova. Nature itself kills the weak and the strong survive.
A relationship is for emotionally matured people so grow up. Be the man a woman needs and not some whinny douchebag.

Work on yourself and then try again.

Yes I will work on myself but when I get there I won't try again. I will simply do the same thing people have done to me-take advantage of other's weakness. Nature itself kills d weak you said. It's simply a game and we'll play it to the end. No more Love cos it doesn't exist. Don't get me wrong I won't get bitter, I'll only get better so that I can make them bitter.
I'm confident in myself and I see a very bright future in my persona. But only those who helped get there will share in it.

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Re: I've Decided Not To Love Again And It's Final by lebete3000: 9:47pm On Jul 09, 2017
Jaynom:
Op. It's clear you know what needs to be done. Don't be complacent. Develop your personality, develop yourself!

No where did I mention being complacent. Ive got the necessary tools and resources to get my personality in shape and I'm currently working on it. It's just that no woman will settle and enjoy it. They'll only have my attention when I need to have sex or procreate.
Re: I've Decided Not To Love Again And It's Final by toastedbread: 9:47pm On Jul 09, 2017
op, do you take alcohol?

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Re: I've Decided Not To Love Again And It's Final by lebete3000: 9:48pm On Jul 09, 2017
Bibi294:
Op, love is sweet...

Yeah self Love is sweet.
Re: I've Decided Not To Love Again And It's Final by lebete3000: 9:49pm On Jul 09, 2017
toastedbread:
op, do you take alcohol?

Yeah I do, currently using it to wipe away my sorrows as I build myself all the way up.
Re: I've Decided Not To Love Again And It's Final by Nobody: 9:49pm On Jul 09, 2017
lebete3000:
I'm a good guy that has always been good to people but gotten evil back in return every time. I have realized that ppl aren't really interested in d good you do to them but only your personality. I am a shy person with low self esteem. I have shown people my good side and even been open to them all to my detriment majority of the time. There are however sometimes I get in my good elements and during this period ladies will now bring themselves around me loving up but when I need them emotionally the most they take advantage of my emotional weak state and ride roughshod over me.
When a woman senses confidence she bows, when she senses weakness she misbehaves.
I know Women aren't really keen on a man's money as I've had enough of them help me when I'm broke but in my good elements. I've noticed them neglect me when I'm weak only to be lurking in one corner waiting for when I'll come around and den flock around me when I do. I've come to realize there's really no emotional help a woman can render a man but will even add to his sorrows instead when he's weak and help other men thay are feeling good about themselves.
This has made me to come to the conclusion they're useless and can't afford such specie in my life. A dog is a better companion.
I will simply use them for the only thing I need them for- Sex & Procreation. I have decided not to be bitter while doing this as it will stagnate my progress in life.
This is my final resolution.

Re: I've Decided Not To Love Again And It's Final by lebete3000: 9:58pm On Jul 09, 2017
nelson16:
1. Only God is good.
2. Make the best use of life...it is yours

Spot on! I'm on it!
Re: I've Decided Not To Love Again And It's Final by Nobody: 10:34pm On Jul 09, 2017
lebete3000:


Yes I will work on myself but when I get there I won't try again. I will simply do the same thing people have done to me-take advantage of other's weakness. Nature itself kills d weak you said. It's simply a game and we'll play it to the end. No more Love cos it doesn't exist. Don't get me wrong I won't get bitter, I'll only get better so that I can make them bitter.
I'm confident in myself and I see a very bright future in my persona. But only those who helped get there will share in it.
you already sound bitter. Well just don't get played while playing.

Girls are becoming even badder these days. Good luck
Re: I've Decided Not To Love Again And It's Final by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:47pm On Jul 09, 2017
Let us all remind the OP that the only option, apart from women, is MEN.... So unless he wants to now be a bootylicker, he better change his mind ASAP.

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Re: I've Decided Not To Love Again And It's Final by natureem: 10:52pm On Jul 09, 2017
To some, love is an illusion...To some, it's the best thing that ever happened to them

Whatever rocks your boat.... Do it

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Re: I've Decided Not To Love Again And It's Final by tensazangetsu20(m): 11:01pm On Jul 09, 2017
I was talking to a coworker about girls. He tells me about how a girl tells him he's too nice. I told him that's a Mark of Death. He was confused so I explained.

At the top, are the men who women pay for. That is the ultimate sign of a woman's "love" for you. They are PAYING for the man.

The second best are the men who smash for free. Free=no financial costs/loss. These are the so-called Alpha males, the thugs, murderers and so on. The monsters of society. I told him about how women will complain about these men treating them but never forget, THESE WOMEN REPEATEDLY bleeped AND SUCKED THESE MEN.

Favored men who are given sex in exchange for perceived benefits. This is the party dudes, the rich dudes, the dudes with the connections. These dudes don't actually have to give women the benefits. They can simply use it as bait to get sex and then dispose of the female.

The false balance. This is the boyfriend/husband that gets the sex and so on but it still expected to be the provider. Sex for money is a loss for the man.

The doormat. This is the cases you read about where the man does so much but he's treated like shit. She's lazy, fat, won't have sex, etc. He is still paying out the ass. Working himself to death.

If you're paying, it's because she doesn't think you're that attractive. As demonstrated here, men who are hot, women pay for them. One of the bitterness from the Red Pill is how you realize how women rate you.

Who the Bleep wants to be anyone else but the guy that is being paid for or the guy that gets the sex without financial loss? Anything else is a fucking insult. And then women wonder why we men are angry about this. It is a direct insult upon many of us.

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Re: I've Decided Not To Love Again And It's Final by lebete3000: 11:10pm On Jul 09, 2017
ENIMONEY:
you already sound bitter. Well just don't get played while playing.

Girls are becoming even badder these days. Good luck

I never denied being bitter. But i know i won't remain bitter when I get better. Vengeance isn't served hot it's served cold when one feels cool. You don't get me well thats why. When I'm in my good element I had d opportunity of messing girls up but I don't only to be messed up by them when I need their emotional help when I feel down. I promise to stay up and mess them up this time around. Everyone for his/herself. Hold ya self up. No more helps!

*have mercy on many men, many many many many men, wish death for me Lord I don't cry no more, don't look to the sky no more*

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Re: I've Decided Not To Love Again And It's Final by lebete3000: 11:15pm On Jul 09, 2017
tensazangetsu20:
I was talking to a coworker about girls. He tells me about how a girl tells him he's too nice. I told him that's a Mark of Death. He was confused so I explained.

At the top, are the men who women pay for. That is the ultimate sign of a woman's "love" for you. They are PAYING for the man.

The second best are the men who smash for free. Free=no financial costs/loss. These are the so-called Alpha males, the thugs, murderers and so on. The monsters of society. I told him about how women will complain about these men treating them but never forget, THESE WOMEN REPEATEDLY bleeped AND SUCKED THESE MEN.

Favored men who are given sex in exchange for perceived benefits. This is the party dudes, the rich dudes, the dudes with the connections. These dudes don't actually have to give women the benefits. They can simply use it as bait to get sex and then dispose of the female.

The false balance. This is the boyfriend/husband that gets the sex and so on but it still expected to be the provider. Sex for money is a loss for the man.

The doormat. This is the cases you read about where the man does so much but he's treated like shit. She's lazy, fat, won't have sex, etc. He is still paying out the ass. Working himself to death.

If you're paying, it's because she doesn't think you're that attractive. As demonstrated here, men who are hot, women pay for them. One of the bitterness from the Red Pill is how you realize how women rate you.

Who the Bleep wants to be anyone else but the guy that is being paid for or the guy that gets the sex without financial loss? Anything else is a fucking insult. And then women wonder why we men are angry about this. It is a direct insult upon many of us.


Don't I love this?! And this especially-

Focusing on self love and building confidence and becoming a better person.

ENIMONEY will deny this ain't true.
Re: I've Decided Not To Love Again And It's Final by lebete3000: 11:18pm On Jul 09, 2017
ENIMONEY:
you already sound bitter. Well just don't get played while playing.

Girls are becoming even badder these days. Good luck

And P.S a real player never gets played because he puts no emotions into it. It's just a game! As I've said, I'm only interested in getting sex and a child as from now. I want to be so vengeful that I won't even allow any woman bear my surname. They're not worth it. They're an insult to my name.
Re: I've Decided Not To Love Again And It's Final by NevetsIbot(m): 11:30pm On Jul 09, 2017
lebete3000:


And P.S a real player never gets played because he puts no emotions into it. It's just a game! As I've said, I'm only interested in getting sex and a child as from now. I want to be so vengeful that I won't even allow any woman bear my surname. They're not worth it. They're an insult to my name.

Last last... You go still look back at this post and say "I mumu when I dey type this thing sha"


Na jus one girl go bend your knee. For every player out there.. There that one girls who'll make him wanna die for her.... I met mine... Lol. Took me a while to get over her.

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Re: I've Decided Not To Love Again And It's Final by unqombothi(f): 11:33pm On Jul 09, 2017
Op has reached Buddhahood. It takes men who're built like him time to realise what he's just realised. I see most of the people commenting here don't understand. How can they?

Guy, you may yet find that woman for you and fall in love again, but we can't count on it. You will see how it plays out. Good luck!
Re: I've Decided Not To Love Again And It's Final by Samuel8604: 11:35pm On Jul 09, 2017
lebete3000:
I'm a good guy that has always been good to people but gotten evil back in return every time. I have realized that ppl aren't really interested in d good you do to them but only your personality. I am a shy person with low self esteem. I have shown people my good side and even been open to them all to my detriment majority of the time. There are however sometimes I get in my good elements and during this period ladies will now bring themselves around me loving up but when I need them emotionally the most they take advantage of my emotional weak state and ride roughshod over me.
When a woman senses confidence she bows, when she senses weakness she misbehaves.
I know Women aren't really keen on a man's money as I've had enough of them help me when I'm broke but in my good elements. I've noticed them neglect me when I'm weak only to be lurking in one corner waiting for when I'll come around and den flock around me when I do. I've come to realize there's really no emotional help a woman can render a man but will even add to his sorrows instead when he's weak and help other men thay are feeling good about themselves.
This has made me to come to the conclusion they're useless and can't afford such specie in my life. A dog is a better companion.
I will simply use them for the only thing I need them for- Sex & Procreation. I have decided not to be bitter while doing this as it will stagnate my progress in life.
This is my final resolution.


bros...ure on ur own.
if u like decide nt to eat again..hw does dat affects other people's business.. its ur life

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Re: I've Decided Not To Love Again And It's Final by iweecureyou: 11:40pm On Jul 09, 2017
lebete3000:
I'm a good guy that has always been good to people but gotten evil back in return every time. I have realized that ppl aren't really interested in d good you do to them but only your personality. I am a shy person with low self esteem. I have shown people my good side and even been open to them all to my detriment majority of the time. There are however sometimes I get in my good elements and during this period ladies will now bring themselves around me loving up but when I need them emotionally the most they take advantage of my emotional weak state and ride roughshod over me.
When a woman senses confidence she bows, when she senses weakness she misbehaves.
I know Women aren't really keen on a man's money as I've had enough of them help me when I'm broke but in my good elements. I've noticed them neglect me when I'm weak only to be lurking in one corner waiting for when I'll come around and den flock around me when I do. I've come to realize there's really no emotional help a woman can render a man but will even add to his sorrows instead when he's weak and help other men thay are feeling good about themselves.
This has made me to come to the conclusion they're useless and can't afford such specie in my life. A dog is a better companion.
I will simply use them for the only thing I need them for- Sex & Procreation. I have decided not to be bitter while doing this as it will stagnate my progress in life.
This is my final resolution.
angry haw i wishh ya fartar is do the nurnsense u juss talk.angry


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Re: I've Decided Not To Love Again And It's Final by Nwabundo38(f): 11:46pm On Jul 09, 2017
lebete3000:


And P.S a real player never gets played because he puts no emotions into it. It's just a game! As I've said, I'm only interested in getting sex and a child as from now. I want to be so vengeful that I won't even allow any woman bear my surname. They're not worth it. They're an insult to my name.
What are u even saying..
who did this to you
why will u judge females just because of what few of them did to you..
pls stop disgracing yourself on nairaland

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Re: I've Decided Not To Love Again And It's Final by lebete3000: 12:30am On Jul 10, 2017
NevetsIbot:


Last last... You go still look back at this post and say "I mumu when I dey type this thing sha"


Na jus one girl go bend your knee. For every player out there.. There that one girls who'll make him wanna die for her.... I met mine... Lol. Took me a while to get over her.

Took you a while to get over her but you did if I got you right.

What you don't understand is that there's a different reaction from someone who has not been rubbished by women b4 compare to someone who has almost been pushed to crime by women sometimes to almost hit them cos of them capitalizing on your weakness. And then you finally take charge and you say you'll still be bothered by women? I've seen everything about women. I know them more than they know themselves. I know where my problem lies and I'm currently tackling it and I know sooner it'll all be over.

You can call me Omini-Knowest.
Re: I've Decided Not To Love Again And It's Final by lebete3000: 12:33am On Jul 10, 2017
unqombothi:
Op has reached Buddhahood. It takes men who're built like him time to realise what he's just realised. I see most of the people commenting here don't understand. How can they?

Guy, you may yet find that woman for you and fall in love again, but we can't count on it. You will see how it plays out. Good luck!

Most people are superficial simply because they haven't seen the otherside. Experience they say is d best teacher. I've seen the beginning and the end of women. Even they know that I know them in & out. They're very simple.

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