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Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by Melonny(m): 2:21am On Jul 11, 2017 |
***Please, do not take this as an excuse to start hating women*** Hello guys, this is melonny. I would like to discuss something deep, something very dear to the heart, something very important and I feel that it will resonate with you as well. I want to talk about the fact that in my personal experience and interactions I have had with people which is considerable "WOMEN DON'T LOVE MEN". In fact , women are incapable of loving another genuinely. Some new data about divorce and non-marital breakups contains an unexpected findings. it found that women initiated nearly 70% of all divorces (Psychologytoday, 2015) It's often the women who expresses more overt conflict and dissatisfaction about the state of their marriage. On the other man, the man is more likely to report feeling troubled by his wife's dissatisfaction; but pretty much "OK" with the way things are; he's content to just lope along as time passes (Goodmenproject, 2015). Why? Men interpret things simply by looking whether they feel good and the woman feels good at the moment (Goodmenproject, 2014) while Women are slaves of their emotions- they attach their memories to their emotions. Her decisions and reaction are based on all the past memories. "If you hurt her feelings last year by acting in a particular way, that pain still lies in her. she feels the possibility that you could do it again (she feels you have the potential to hurt her again)- even if you have changed significantly since that time( (Goodmenproject, 2014)). No wonder, they are willing to leave just as long as the relationship hits the rock and a guy who is objectively better in every way comes offering her more(Reddit). 23 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by Melonny(m): 2:25am On Jul 11, 2017 |
Don't blame them, they are not designed to love you. It is their nature to act that way. You cannot expect something from someone when it is their nature not to have it. "Husbands, love your wives just as Jesus loves the church and gave his life for it -Agape love that is, unconditional (Ephesians 5:25). It means men should be able to die, take bullets for women, fight for them , be dedicated to them etc. "Older women should live a holy life(Titus 2:3) In order to train the younger women to love their husbands and children"(Philia, Eros, Storge love) - (Titus 2:4). So, they(women) have to be taught on how to love. they can't be taught Agape love so they don't have the capability to understand what men call love. If you that ignoramus that is planning to stage your death for a marriage proposal or the man that gets surgery to look like his wife or the man who ask his friend to shoot him so his girlfriend will sympathize, you are not wrong because you must love your wife unconditionally but despite all these, she does not understand this show of stupidity and in due time will dump you for someone crazier, wealthier and someone better. Guys submission isn't love. She will only submit herself to you until she sees a better man! 36 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by pressplay411(m): 6:24am On Jul 11, 2017 |
God punish the wicked girl that did this to your heart. 155 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by Melonny(m): 8:08am On Jul 11, 2017 |
pressplay411:No girl mate, I have the knowledge and it's power. I just want guys to think not with their heart but with wisdom. God said men should love their wives and the wife should be submissive to their husbands more than twice in the Bible. Paul only mention women should be taught how to love in Titus in the whole Bible. they weren't designed to love! 36 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by Nobody: 8:33am On Jul 11, 2017 |
@melonny this is one of the greatest revelations ever and all men needs to understand this....so true, Men should love their wives unconditionally(agape) then women are taught to love(philio) their husband....#deeptruth 32 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by Melonny(m): 8:47am On Jul 11, 2017 |
Mynd44,RoyalRoy, Lalasticlala c'mon buddies, let's focus in on this with wisdom. let men know their fate. 1 Like |
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by Mynd44: 8:51am On Jul 11, 2017 |
So this is what my mind knew low key and became gamophobic 13 Likes |
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by veekid(m): 8:54am On Jul 11, 2017 |
Another escapee 13 Likes |
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by YelloweWest: 8:54am On Jul 11, 2017 |
Threads like thus are poisoning... There are a lot of good men and women out there. Don't poison the minds of people pls 44 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by holatin(m): 8:54am On Jul 11, 2017 |
days why I be been looking for baby mama on olx, jiji and eBay. no wan over think myself to insanity 2 Likes |
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by SeniorZato(m): 8:54am On Jul 11, 2017 |
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Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by mikool007(m): 8:55am On Jul 11, 2017 |
Pple dey o |
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by deepwater(f): 8:55am On Jul 11, 2017 |
Op stay away from secondary school girls 26 Likes |
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by Majesticniyi(m): 8:55am On Jul 11, 2017 |
Using scriptures to back up your lopsided views abi? How about the numerous scriptures commanding EVERYBODY to love? 33 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by Opistorincos(m): 8:55am On Jul 11, 2017 |
Iranu, u just neva jam beta woman 19 Likes |
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by naijaboiy: 8:55am On Jul 11, 2017 |
Who gives a flying Fück? I love myself so much that I don't need to feed on a "fake love" from anyone. If you want to be slaves to your own emotions it's your own problem not mine. At least I'm sure of one love which can never die. A mother's love for her child. Fück other types of love. 55 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by ISMM(m): 8:56am On Jul 11, 2017 |
Op, if I tell you what's on my mind ehn!!!! You even brought your bible in this. It's really sad I must say Anyways, I hope you find a man to love you completely... 2 Likes |
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by Finestface(f): 8:57am On Jul 11, 2017 |
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by Nobody: 8:57am On Jul 11, 2017 |
You were making sense until this: ...and in due time will dump you for someone crazier, wealthier and someone better. Then I realized you're heartbroken, just pick the grains of your shattered heart. Nothing will fall on you, if strength should fall, it will make matters worse. 42 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by kiddoiLL(m): 8:57am On Jul 11, 2017 |
"Older women should live a holy life(Titus 2:3) In order to train the younger women to love their husbands and children"(Philia, Eros, Storge love) - (Titus 2:4)" . "Op you better get sense now, we no go join u for ur women can't love journey" don't use the bible to back urself if u dont understand what it's saying....u said women cant love and quoting d bible...Bible tell you say women no dey love??...how person way no fit love go teach younger ones how to love? 30 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by Shiitposter: 8:57am On Jul 11, 2017 |
Hope i never end up like this bitter statistic posting OP. There is always that one guy who is such a pessimist about everything. Fxck you and your bad vibes dude. 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by Nobody: 8:58am On Jul 11, 2017 |
True OP, even if you are super cute, all still the same shit, they leave their boyfriend just to be with you because you are cuter and more fun than previous boyfriend, they tell you they love you but it is all a lie, they don't even know they are lying, because it's who they are. this world is bleeped up I don't even know if I should proceed with my plans to get married next year. sexybbstar, what do you think about this write up from op? 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by kingrt2(m): 8:58am On Jul 11, 2017 |
Fair enough See ma signature |
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by Nobody: 8:58am On Jul 11, 2017 |
Melonny: You spread your venom convincing weak ones like your cabal-mates not to date/love, but we won't be there when you chase that your neighbor's cousin who just visited...to taste her lollipop... grow up dude...or else, your plan is to dicck anoda guy, you're stuck with females...so grow up. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by Nobody: 8:58am On Jul 11, 2017 |
pressplay411: 1 Like |
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by jegz25(m): 8:58am On Jul 11, 2017 |
love is for fools 3 Likes |
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by Stevengold(m): 8:59am On Jul 11, 2017 |
Don't Generalize it. Some women love genuinely. My Fiancée loves me to a fault. Even when I try to push her away. She's always there. 10 Likes |
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by Pavore9: 8:59am On Jul 11, 2017 |
Maybe for those whose mothers never loved their fathers! 4 Likes |
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by Triniti(m): 8:59am On Jul 11, 2017 |
Another one 1 Like |
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by Johncuba(m): 8:59am On Jul 11, 2017 |
Here to read comments. |
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by Nobody: 8:59am On Jul 11, 2017 |
Tell us the girl that broke your heart like this. Maybe we will help you cane her. 3 Likes |
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