ikp120:
LMAO
Bros, that thing can vanish within the twinkle of an eye once she sees another guy. Just relax and watch the show.

#WomanNature

That's why I said, I have nothing to loose. I don't spend on her at all. She doesn't bug me for flashy things. It doesn't even move her. I've tried using my friend to get her attention, didn't work. On the other hand I've used same technique on a girl and it worked like charm. So maybe I'm yet to see this one's weak point. If e no vanish 4yrs ago, na now e wan vanish? Bros. Lemme enjoy her love.

Maxvasia:
You and OP hqve the same issues. I really do not know wer to start to untie u too from. Too many wrong and childish assumptions.

Are you a Christian, if you are not then there is no need.

Maxvasia:
Don't worry, experience will teach u otherwise soon. The whole write up is so full of childlike melancholy that i do not even know where to start to untie u from. Let me just give u a small hint: Just know from today onwards that the only reason that percentage is that way is that divorce almost ALWAYS favours the woman just as the society does and the women know it. So they use it as a weapon to slay men and destroy their lives which wer in order before the crept into it. Womn are very destructive and the earlier u realise that, the better for u. My advice to any guy who wishes to live long: Never ever do court wedding. These ladies lure u into it as a trap. Only fools do court wedding nowadays and many never live to be smarter. Having said this, i would also say that the only statement i will agree with in ur write up is that women are not capable of loving as everything is selfish from the moment they set their eyes on u. But NO, dey wer not created that way. They wer created to love but they have made demselves into beasts of the Nether regions. God created them and God is Love and out of Love cannot come a lack of Love. Cos of the free will man possesses, they made themselves into what dey are today. Be very careful, mate and keep a safe distance from these creatures. U will see how right i am by the time they start to quote me. Just sip tea and observe.

I will take what you have said under advisement. Yoruba pray that "God will give you a wife that will submit to you till you die" Amen.

ikp120:
Bro, I won't be surprised to find out that your current girlfriend has another guy somewhere making his way into her heart. Just relax and watch the show.

That's the way they are.

#WomanNature

U didn't ask if I have another I kept at home ba. Relax I once reasoned like u. It will change with time.

This write up is saddening..

Amenya96:
whoever did this to you is very stupid. well same goes for men, they are not capable of loving to full. well maybe I have not met someone true

I hope u meet cos am looking for that lady that will appreciate the love i will give her,
Two of my relationship i caught them cheating

SaulRazor:


Beta woman hard to jam oo.the truth is 97 percent of men will never meet one

97% of men?
Do you guys have a super-idiot computer out of which you just draw statistics from?
Beta woman hard to jam when you as a man has not equipped yourself with the right tools which would enable you spot them. Work on yourself!

hensben:
Are you a Christian, if you are not then there is no need.

If by "Christian", u mean those who rely on ready made opinion of pastors without being able to think, weigh and examine issues for themselves cos of indolence of the spirit, then No sir, i am not. If you are, then i am sorry, u cannot be helped.

pressplay411:
God punish the wicked girl that did this to your heart.

God punish the "wicked" girl for what? What makes her wicked? Everyone is guilty of breaking hearts in one way or the other. OP can't claim he never broke one's heart so if God must punish that girl then everyone must be punished too.

Well, these are your thoughts anyways. A girl once loved me so much that I got scared, and out of my stupidity and naivety I broke her heart. For the past 4yrs I av been begging for a second chance cos she's d best.... But she ain't gonna give me a second chance. If u have something good, don't joke with it.

Rubbish. ........ you think it's only women that dump. Enjoy your guy now cos when he gets tired of eating that apple he will dump you for someone fresh younger and more beautiful. Ur punany go soon old and body go sag.. but the Ur guys stuff will be up and ready to keep going even at age 80
















Ur mom right now........... is that what I thought u?

Julietcutie:

sorry I think I know u ...do u know any one called Maureen

This line trended back that year. Be more creative, atleast put some effort.
Maureen Ko Afternoon ni.

caesaraba:


97% of men?
Do you guys have a super-idiot computer out of which you just draw statistics from?
Beta woman hard to jam when you as a man has not equipped yourself with the right tools which would enable you spot them. Work on yourself!

Right tools to get better woman ? I acn bet the woman beside you right now is not there because she loves you and you will soon get know....Meanwhile I am amongst the blessed 3 percent already

Sorry @Melonny

You will soon get over it.

Maxvasia:
If by "Christian", u mean those who rely on ready made opinion of pastors without being able to think, weigh and examine issues for themselves cos of indolence of the spirit, then No sir, i am not. If you are, then i am sorry, u cannot be helped.

I don't rely on any pastor to think for me but the word of God(holy bible).

Melonny:
Don't blame them, they are not designed to love you. It is their nature to act that way. You cannot expect something from someone when it is their nature not to have it. "Husbands, love your wives just as Jesus loves the church and gave his life for it -Agape love that is, unconditional (Ephesians 5:25). It means men should be able to die, take bullets for women, fight for them , be dedicated to them etc.
"Older women should live a holy life(Titus 2:3) In order to train the younger women to love their husbands and children"(Philia, Eros, Storge love) - (Titus 2:4). So, they(women) have to be taught on how to love. they can't be taught Agape love so they don't have the capability to understand what men call love.
If you that ignoramus that is planning to stage your death for a marriage proposal or the man that gets surgery to look like his wife or the man who ask his friend to shoot him so his girlfriend will sympathize, you are not wrong because you must love your wife unconditionally but despite all these, she does not understand this show of stupidity and in due time will dump you for someone crazier, wealthier and someone better.
Guys submission isn't love. She will only submit herself to you until she sees a better man!

Are you kidding me?

Wrong, not everyone!

TinaAnita:



God punish the "wicked" girl for what? What makes her wicked? Everyone is guilty of breaking hearts in one way or the other. OP can't claim he never broke one's heart so if God must punish that girl then everyone must be punished too.

is d op male or female? cus i am not understanding.

dem no go still hear

Nothing pisses me off like using scripture to back up personal opinion for the interest of getting people to accept a one sided and mostly, selfish view.

It's common especially in religion section of nairaland.

In the same Bible, there are many scriptures that will back up poverty and extremism if you are not careful.

I believe the spirit of God should guide anyone wanting to study Bible or Quran. All this online philosopher thing in nairaland is just annoying.

Women have the ability and actually practice the love thing EVEN MORE THAN MEN. It's those that have the materialist mindset that flow with what you stated.

I personally, in my time as a bad guy years back, knew this.

hensben:
I don't rely on any pastor to think for me but the word of God(holy bible).

Good for you then. Work on ur interpretation of the words used in the Bible. U obviously have a lot of work to do. I wish u strength

OP u just won the award of most incomprehensible senseless post ever. please anyone that understands should explain.

SaulRazor:


Right tools to get better woman ? I acn bet the woman beside you right now is not there because she loves you and you will soon get know....Meanwhile I am amongst the blessed 3 percent already

Of course by right tools, your super computer interprets "MONEY." If I'm to borrow a minute from that computer of yours, I'd tell you that there are millions of good ’beta women' walking about this country. You just have to have developed your self enough to spot them. (Again, don't think I mean money). Prepubescent lads lining the pages of this thread screaming love is dead isn't gonna stop the fact that every Saturday there are couples head over heels in love getting married to each other. And the fact that one anonymous individual on Nairaland has had his/her heart broken wouldn't stop majority of those couples living long, happy lives together.
Y'all go about this stuff like it's some ”US” versus ”Them” shît. Newsflash: IT ISN'T! No be club.

AnaCheks:
Well, these are your thoughts anyways. A girl once loved me so much that I got scared, and out of my stupidity and naivety I broke her heart. For the past 4yrs I av been begging for a second chance cos she's d best.... But she ain't gonna give me a second chance. If u have something good, don't joke with it.

Ooooooh I really feel for you bro.. The OP will continue to lose important women in his life if he does not recondition his mind towards ladies

@Melonny

It's obvious you are BROKE and probably have an awful personality. I looked at your previous posts and you said you are an introvert. What I have come to realize is that many Nigerian people who use the term introvert, are often on the autism spectrum. If you are on the spectrum, then regardless of the amount of money you have, it will be hard for a woman to truly love you. Sorry but women just don't like your personality and you will have to accept it.

tosyne2much:
Are you kidding me?

No, when she sees a better man, then she remembers how you hurt 2 years ago and she thinks you have the potential to hurt her again and again. Maybe, the new man, the better man won't hurt me.. it's just like the concept of throughput accounting.

Guys submission isn't love. Guys better wise up, is a good point. When you have money and you are treating your girl fine all she will do is to submit herself to you, you you will be thinking kai my babe love's me. I belt you some babe let that money finishes or lose your job, all the sweet names that she do call you will be changed to SORRY!

Melonny:
No, when she sees a better man, then she remembers how you hurt 2 years ago and she thinks you have the potential to hurt her again and again. Maybe, the new man, the better man won't hurt me.. it's just like the concept of throughput accounting.

Can you now see where you're getting it wrong

That a lady remains faithful, loyal and submissive to you doesn't mean she doesn't come across men that beat you hands down on a daily basis.

Almost every lady in a relationship often comes across men that are better than her own boyfriend, just that lack of contentment usually makes some of them to follow anything on trouser at the expense of their insatiable desires

tosyne2much:
Ooooooh I really feel for you bro.. The OP will continue to lose important women in his life if he does not recondition his mind towards ladies

I missed Her so bad

naijaboiy:
Who gives a flying Fück?

I love myself so much that I don't need to feed on a "fake love" from anyone. If you want to be slaves to your own emotions it's your own problem not mine.

At least I'm sure of one love which can never die. A mother's love for her child. Fück other types of love.