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Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by Miggs(m): 10:51am On Jul 11, 2017
Melonny:
funny how men mistake love for submission. God has commanded them to submit.
Women really only "submit" to men when they are getting something from him.If the river from the man runs dry,they begin to act up.The only women that can truly love a man are maybe his daughter and sometimes his mother.Women dont really love men.They only love the idea of a man.There is no need to speak too much about this issue.For instance,online,look at Nland for example and see how males always "like' the photos on females dps and see how many "likes" females give to men.Offline,how many women offer males 'lifts' in their vehicles and how many men offer women?You see ...no comparison

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Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by mypains: 10:53am On Jul 11, 2017
Benita27:
Don't worry, someday you'll be loved by a lady.
OP is right, except he contaminated his position by bringing some unnecessary things.

You ladies do not love. Your love is tied to something.

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Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by Melonny(m): 10:53am On Jul 11, 2017
FortuneTeller:
@Melonny

It's obvious you are BROKE and probably have an awful personality. I looked at your previous posts and you said you are an introvert. What I have come to realize is that many Nigerian people who use the term introvert, are often on the autism spectrum. If you are on the spectrum, then regardless of the amount of money you have, it will be hard for a woman to truly love you. Sorry but women just don't like your personality and you will have to accept it.
Ok miss fortuneteller, you have every right to attack me or form a different opinion. why don't you address the fact that you don't unconditionally love your husband or boyfriend. He is disposable. God will give you the grace to submit to your man.

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Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by Miggs(m): 10:59am On Jul 11, 2017
naijaboiy:
Who gives a flying Fück? grin

I love myself so much that I don't need to feed on a "fake love" from anyone. If you want to be slaves to your own emotions it's your own problem not mine.

At least I'm sure of one love which can never die. A mother's love for her child. Fück other types of love. grin
Not all mothers' love are unconditional.The American rapper EMINEM mother had no love for him

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Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by Arccangel(f): 11:03am On Jul 11, 2017
Before i begin to sip my I-really-dont-give-a-fokk tea, let me just say, all dez children that have not seen life are here spewing rubbish. Boys o! If you feel women are unfaithful or not worth the stress, please settle with another man. You are cursed already. Or if you dont want that, you can as well die single. Nobody cares!! How can someone just getup and embarrass his father like this?

Even if sense is not free, haba, you can afford it na.

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Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by Melonny(m): 11:03am On Jul 11, 2017
tosyne2much:
Can you now see where you're getting it wrong

That a lady remains faithful, loyal and submissive to you doesn't mean she doesn't come across men that beat you hands down on a daily basis.

Almost every lady in a relationship often comes across men that are better than his boyfriend, just that lack of contentment usually makes some of them to follow anything on trouser at the expense of stomach infrastructure cheesy
I am a fan of your work here on Nairaland. Should we expect 10 ways women love their husbands and children later today? I love seeing your posts.
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by Nobody: 11:04am On Jul 11, 2017
Melonny:
Ok miss fortuneteller, you have every right to attack me or form a different opinion. why don't you address the fact that you don't unconditionally love your husband or boyfriend. He is disposable. God will give you the grace to submit to your man.

If you learn nothing, learn this. NEVER EVER speak on my husband. You can say anything you want to about me, but if you say something negative towards my husband you will have a fight on your hand. My husband is one of the best people I have ever encountered and you will never speak any ill will over him. Now you brought your little pathetic tears here because no one wants you. You cry that women aren't a prize because they don't want you. You sit alone in your room, rubbing that small piece of flesh between legs and cry because no one wants you. Is it my problem that women flee when they see you coming? Remember when you said you find "rude girls" very attractive? See you now even have a fetish for your rejection. In one of your posts, you said the only friends you have are on NL. What a waste of life!!

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Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by tosyne2much(m): 11:06am On Jul 11, 2017
Melonny:
I am a fan of your work here on Nairaland. Should we expect 10 ways women love their husbands and children later today? I love seeing your posts.
I will see to that bro cheesy cheesy
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by imustsaymymindo: 11:08am On Jul 11, 2017
gentlegenius:

Look... Secondary school girls are the only set of girls that are real. They don't live a fake or pretentious life. What you see is what you get. They can be easy to control, influence and teach. They can be taught how to love just as the scripture says.
In this generation of ours, older girls are so desperate for marriage, and can go extra miles, live a fake life and pretend to love a man just to get married. This is why young girls of about 16-18 years are the best category of girls a guy can date and marry in due course.
Don't be offended by my comment if you are an old lady, but this is the raw truth.

You made perfect sense. At that age they still savour for romance, happy home and they can still be swayed by words. When Naija girls get older, the whole love is all logical and calculative i.e is he a rich guy? Shey na just sex hin want? If this... else that...

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Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by Melonny(m): 11:11am On Jul 11, 2017
FortuneTeller:


If you learn nothing, learn this. NEVER EVER speak on my husband. You can say anything you want to about me, but if you say something negative towards my husband you will have a fight on your hand. My husband is one of the best people I have ever encountered and you will never speak any ill will over him. Now you brought your little pathetic tears here because no one wants you. You cry that women aren't a prize because they don't want you. You sit alone in your room, rubbing that small piece of flesh between legs and cry because no one wants you. Is it my problem that women flee when they see you coming? Remember when you said you find "rude girls" very attractive? See you now even have a fetish for your rejection. In one of your posts, you said the only friends you have are on NL. What a waste of life!!
lol.. Thank you!

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Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by imustsaymymindo: 11:11am On Jul 11, 2017
walter315:


all humans are selfish...even dog sef...dont u see a dog only plays with the person that cares for it? but woman sha..dia own bad pass....

All humans are not selfish.
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by Nobody: 11:12am On Jul 11, 2017
imustsaymymindo:


You made perfect sense. At that age they still savour for romance, happy home and they can still be swayed by words. When Naija girls get older, the whole love is all logical and calculative i.e is he a rich guy? Shey na just sex hin want? If this... else that...

lipsrsealed Some of you are really disgusting.

I try to tell people, men with low self esteem are lurking everywhere. These type of men are looking to molest and abuse young girls because they don't have anything to offer women their age. They want someone who has not gained knowledge, so they can trick them to believe their wastefulness is meaningful. Fortunately most of these young girls realize what has happened once they reach their late 20's and run away from these pathetic men. Everyone please protect your daughters from these predators.

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Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by zealblinks(m): 11:17am On Jul 11, 2017
deepwater:
Op stay away from secondary school girls
funny you... I don suffer
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by imustsaymymindo: 11:17am On Jul 11, 2017
Miggs:
Women really only "submit" to men when they are getting something from him.If the river from the man runs dry,they begin to act up.The only women that can truly love a man are maybe his daughter and sometimes his mother.Women dont really love men.They only love the idea of a man.There is no need to speak too much about this issue.For instance,online,look at Nland for example and see how males always "like' the photos on females dps and see how many "likes" females give to men.Offline,how many women offer males 'lifts' in their vehicles and how many men offer women?You see ...no comparison

Liking someone's picture is now an act of love.
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by Originalsly: 11:20am On Jul 11, 2017
If women have to be taught to love men... who do the teaching?....and why do sooo many young girls be committing suicide after being dumped by their bf?... is it not because of heartbreak?...but then how can young ladies be heartbroken if they have no love in their heart?....or is it they commit suicide because no bf means no more upkeep money ?..so they rather die?
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by mypains: 11:20am On Jul 11, 2017
rosieluv:
this thread is misleading, don't poison the heart of those who still believe in love.
what are you afraid of? How often do you advice yourself and your female friends not to hurt a genuine feeling in a bid to appear smarter?

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Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by caesaraba(m): 11:21am On Jul 11, 2017
FortuneTeller:


If you learn nothing, learn this. NEVER EVER speak on my husband. You can say anything you want to about me, but if you say something negative towards my husband you will have a fight on your hand. My husband is one of the best people I have ever encountered and you will never speak any ill will over him. Now you brought your little pathetic tears here because no one wants you. You cry that women aren't a prize because they don't want you. You sit alone in your room, rubbing that small piece of flesh between legs and cry because no one wants you. Is it my problem that women flee when they see you coming? Remember when you said you find "rude girls" very attractive? See you now even have a fetish for your rejection. In one of your posts, you said the only friends you have are on NL. What a waste of life!!

Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by nsilordgmail(m): 11:21am On Jul 11, 2017
There's this woman whose husband is handsome, tall and rich. Dude is living like a king with his family...giving them everything they need especially the wife. But one thing i don't understand is why the woman is trying everything hard to Bleep me. Thought she's suppose to love and Bleep her husband only undecided undecided undecided

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Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by Maxvasia(m): 11:22am On Jul 11, 2017
AnaCheks:
Well, these are your thoughts anyways. A girl once loved me so much that I got scared, and out of my stupidity and naivety I broke her heart. For the past 4yrs I av been begging for a second chance cos she's d best.... But she ain't gonna give me a second chance. If u have something good, don't joke with it.
A lady that can let another person beg for as much as 4years is not capable of forgiveness and cannot be an inwardly good person. Do not rush towards the things that the Lord protected u from by taking u away from dem. Be wise
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by tosyne2much(m): 11:23am On Jul 11, 2017
Stevengold:
Don't Generalize it. Some women love genuinely. My Fiancée loves me to a fault. Even when I try to push her away. She's always there.
This is what I'm trying to let the OP know. There are still few sensible ladies out there who love genuinely
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by imustsaymymindo: 11:25am On Jul 11, 2017
FortuneTeller:


lipsrsealed Some of you are really disgusting.

I try to tell people, men with low self esteem are lurking everywhere. These type of men are looking to molest and abuse young girls because they don't have anything to offer women their age. They want someone who has not gained knowledge, so they can trick them to believe their wastefulness is meaningful. Fortunately most of these young girls realize what has happened once they reach their late 20's and run away from these pathetic men. Everyone please protect your daughters from these predators.

Lol. I won't date or have sex with a girl that age of course. I am just saying age increase makes girls desperate and more calculative and this negates true love. They do love more at a younger age than when they get older, that is all I am trying to say. Abeg o, no vex.

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Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by logica(m): 11:27am On Jul 11, 2017
richard870:

FYI, are you aware of love story of Nelson Mandela well, I think you should try read that piece cuz it will definitely help ease the pain dat lady inflicted on you.
Do you mind sharing the love story?

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Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by Olaedoh: 11:27am On Jul 11, 2017
Melonny:
***Please, do not take this as an excuse to start hating women***
Hello guys, this is melonny. I would like to discuss something deep, something very dear to the heart, something very important and I feel that it will resonate with you as well. I want to talk about the fact that in my personal experience and interactions I have had with people which is considerable "WOMEN DON'T LOVE MEN". In fact , women are incapable of loving another genuinely.
Some new data about divorce and non-marital breakups contains an unexpected findings. it found that women initiated nearly 70% of all divorces (Psychologytoday, 2015)
It's often the women who expresses more overt conflict and dissatisfaction about the state of their marriage. On the other man, the man is more likely to report feeling troubled by his wife's dissatisfaction; but pretty much "OK" with the way things are; he's content to just lope along as time passes (Goodmenproject, 2015). Why? Men interpret things simply by looking whether they feel good and the woman feels good at the moment (Goodmenproject, 2014) while
Women are slaves of their emotions- they attach their memories to their emotions. Her decisions and reaction are based on all the past memories. "If you hurt her feelings last year by acting in a particular way, that pain still lies in her. she feels the possibility that you could do it again (she feels you have the potential to hurt her again)- even if you have changed significantly since that time( (Goodmenproject, 2014)). No wonder, they are willing to leave just as long as the relationship hits the rock and a guy who is objectively better in every way comes offering her more(Reddit).

This ur write up na bundle of trash. You saying women cant love but we all know theirs no love like a mother's love. Biko ur own mama no be woman ni?, na man born u?. Abeg go take a chill pill and nurse your broken heart back to life
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by JustMakeMoney(m): 11:29am On Jul 11, 2017
This post is only for the married men to love n don't expect love from your woman but submission but as for the unmarried ones; when you get there you will remember this trend, for now just do as you like O!
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by pocohantas(f): 11:29am On Jul 11, 2017
tosyne2much:
This is what I'm trying to let the OP know. There are still few sensible ladies out there who love genuinely
There are actually a whole lot more than few on both sides.
It's experience and society that makes people change. I have loved before...I had friends that told me it wasn't worth, because guys done deal with them well well.

Chai! They were finally right. Na your fellow men make us get sense grin grin
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by Miggs(m): 11:44am On Jul 11, 2017
imustsaymymindo:


Liking someone's picture is now an act of love.
Let me simplify that sentence..Males on Nland and other social networks "like" female dps because they are naturally interested in females but females hardly,if ever 'like" male dps because they arent really interested in males.They are much more interested in other females
P.S.Realistically,there is no such thing as 'love" on this planet.Its all about INTERESTS

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Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by SmartyPants(m): 11:45am On Jul 11, 2017
Melonny:
No girl mate, I have the knowledge and it's power. I just want guys to think not with their heart but with wisdom. God said men should love their wives and the wife should be submissive to their husbands more than twice in the Bible. Paul only mention women should be taught how to love in Titus in the whole Bible. they weren't designed to love!

Please be discerning.

First, Paul make such statements only twice that i know of. Can you show us three scriptural references?

Secondly, when Paul said husband's love your wives, he was actually teaching men to love their wives. We all need to be taught.

Sure, women tend to be a bit more selfish but to say they cannot love a man is flat out untrue.

I have been with many girls who loved me when i had nothing but my brain and a bright smile to show for myself.
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by LAPREMEDO: 11:47am On Jul 11, 2017
This world is designed to favour women. That is my take here.

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Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by tosyne2much(m): 11:48am On Jul 11, 2017
pocohantas:

There are actually a whole lot more than few on both sides.
It's experience and society that makes people change. I have loved before...I had friends that told me it wasn't worth, because guys done deal with them well well.

Chai! They were finally right. Na your fellow men make us get sense grin grin
So, guys don teach you sef lesson? cheesy

Guys no get mercy sha cheesy
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by imustsaymymindo: 11:53am On Jul 11, 2017
FortuneTeller:


lipsrsealed Some of you are really disgusting.

I try to tell people, men with low self esteem are lurking everywhere. These type of men are looking to molest and abuse young girls because they don't have anything to offer women their age. They want someone who has not gained knowledge, so they can trick them to believe their wastefulness is meaningful. Fortunately most of these young girls realize what has happened once they reach their late 20's and run away from these pathetic men. Everyone please protect your daughters from these predators.

I am 22 by the way.
Re: Don't kill yourself, a woman can't love you! by pocohantas(f): 11:53am On Jul 11, 2017
tosyne2much:
So, guys don teach you sef lesson? cheesy

Guys no get mercy sha cheesy
It wasn't really a lesson sha. He was a very nice guy, I guess he was only being a man...let me put it like that.

Even babes no get mercy, no be babe do OP this thing? cheesy

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