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Please Mature Minds I Need Ur Advice And Suggestions by Obongawanesther(f): 3:08pm On Jul 15, 2017
Is it advisable to marry a guy who has not been to school but can read and write and is civilize on all areas but does not have a degree, he intend going to higher institution after marriage, he is very gud in business and is well to do, he is in his late twenties n want to marry me, i graduated 2016 n awaiting service,(stream 2), he is into mobile phones and repairs, he is very talented in business and plan travelling abroad to import phones into Nigeria, he vows not to work for any body cos he wants to be his own boss....please ur gud suggestions matters
Re: Please Mature Minds I Need Ur Advice And Suggestions by whitebeard(m): 3:10pm On Jul 15, 2017
Do u love him like for real, and if u do have u asked your parents.
Re: Please Mature Minds I Need Ur Advice And Suggestions by Obongawanesther(f): 3:12pm On Jul 15, 2017
whitebeard:
Do u love him like for real, and if u do have u asked your parents.
yes i do
Re: Please Mature Minds I Need Ur Advice And Suggestions by whitebeard(m): 3:12pm On Jul 15, 2017
Obongawanesther:
yes i do
have u told your parents..!?
Re: Please Mature Minds I Need Ur Advice And Suggestions by Nobody: 3:16pm On Jul 15, 2017
Personally i see nathing wrong in marrying him hun smiley smiley

hell i even regret not learning a trade before going to school then cos now i have to answer yes sir to someone till i at least earn enough to go solo....

I love self made enterpenuers......

Like you said he is doing well at what he does and has dreams or better still as you put it PLANS.....

So yeah you both are good to go





ps: i dont like ladies who come asking for advice on matters relating to the suitors occupation (esp when its a small but honarable one) but luckily for us all i'm in a good mood today......

Do take care and think more on it before making that decision that'd keep u hooked for a LIFETIME smiley smiley

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Re: Please Mature Minds I Need Ur Advice And Suggestions by Divay22(f): 3:17pm On Jul 15, 2017
Is it the paper degree that he doesn't have that is confusing you or what?

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Re: Please Mature Minds I Need Ur Advice And Suggestions by tosyne2much(m): 3:20pm On Jul 15, 2017
If I may ask you, what is the primary aim of going to school if not to become rich?

From your story, it's very evident that this young man is business oriented than most of our English guru graduates parading the street with dumb heads and unproductive minds. So what is really your problem with this productive and ambitious young man who has decided to put education on hold at the expense of becoming an employer of labour?

Or you want a man that you will be able to brag to your friends that he holds masters degree? SMH

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Re: Please Mature Minds I Need Ur Advice And Suggestions by Nobody: 3:21pm On Jul 15, 2017
Op, what else can a woman wish for, he's very hard working from all you've said... If you love him, why not. Go ahead and introduce him to your parents.

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Re: Please Mature Minds I Need Ur Advice And Suggestions by Nobody: 3:21pm On Jul 15, 2017
Divay22:
Is it the paper degree that he doesn't have that is confusing you or what?


good question!

I dont blame her though
the society has placed too much emphasis on that small laminated paper called a CERTIFICATE........


Before associating with someone nowadays one has to know of the persons educational background and far he or she has gone



too shameful

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Re: Please Mature Minds I Need Ur Advice And Suggestions by Obongawanesther(f): 3:33pm On Jul 15, 2017
thepussyhunter:
Personally i see nathing wrong in marrying him hun smiley smiley

hell i even regret not learning a trade before going to school then cos now i have to answer yes sir to someone till i at least earn enough to go solo....

I love self made enterpenuers......

Like you said he is doing well at what he does and has dreams or better still as you put it PLANS.....

So yeah you both are good to go





ps: i dont like ladies who come asking for advice on matters relating to the suitors occupation (esp when its a small but honarable one) but luckily for us all i'm in a good mood today......

Do take care and think more on it before making that decision that'd keep u hooked for a LIFETIME smiley smiley
thank u, and thank God u r in gud mood today o
Re: Please Mature Minds I Need Ur Advice And Suggestions by Obongawanesther(f): 3:34pm On Jul 15, 2017
thepussyhunter:
Personally i see nathing wrong in marrying him hun smiley smiley

hell i even regret not learning a trade before going to school then cos now i have to answer yes sir to someone till i at least earn enough to go solo....

I love self made enterpenuers......

Like you said he is doing well at what he does and has dreams or better still as you put it PLANS.....

So yeah you both are good to go





ps: i dont like ladies who come asking for advice on matters relating to the suitors occupation (esp when its a small but honarable one) but luckily for us all i'm in a good mood today......

Do take care and think more on it before making that decision that'd keep u hooked for a LIFETIME smiley smiley
thank u, and thank God u r in gud mood today o.

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Re: Please Mature Minds I Need Ur Advice And Suggestions by Obongawanesther(f): 3:48pm On Jul 15, 2017
thepussyhunter:



good question!

I dont blame her though
the society has placed too much emphasis on that small laminated paper called a CERTIFICATE........


Before associating with someone nowadays one has to know of the persons educational background and far he or she has gone



too shameful
thank u, i see it wit u, paper is no more recognize in Nigeria as we all suffer carrying d paper without job, he is 28 years old and own a gud business, he can still go to skull juz for formality cos he vow never to answer sir for any body,,, he is handsome n more learnat
Re: Please Mature Minds I Need Ur Advice And Suggestions by ikp120(m): 5:55pm On Jul 15, 2017
Since you love him, go ahead and marry him IF he loves you too. Use your head sha. Look well before you leap.
Re: Please Mature Minds I Need Ur Advice And Suggestions by Homeboiy: 6:00pm On Jul 15, 2017
Obongawanesther:
Is it advisable to marry a guy who has not been to school but can read and write and is civilize on all areas but does not have a degree, he intend going to higher institution after marriage, he is very gud in business and is well to do, he is in his late twenties n want to marry me, i graduated 2016 n awaiting service,(stream 2), he is into mobile phones and repairs, he is very talented in business and plan travelling abroad to import phones into Nigeria, he vows not to work for any body cos he wants to be his own boss....please ur gud suggestions matters

Ur an ediot for asking this useless question
Re: Please Mature Minds I Need Ur Advice And Suggestions by Buking1: 6:03pm On Jul 15, 2017
Hmm shocked if you ask me na who I go ask



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Re: Please Mature Minds I Need Ur Advice And Suggestions by muller101(m): 6:04pm On Jul 15, 2017
Op you are a gold digger
Re: Please Mature Minds I Need Ur Advice And Suggestions by Nobody: 6:08pm On Jul 15, 2017
Obongawanesther:
Is it advisable to marry a guy who has not been to school but can read and write and is civilize on all areas but does not have a degree, he intend going to higher institution after marriage, he is very gud in business and is well to do, he is in his late twenties n want to marry me, i graduated 2016 n awaiting service,(stream 2), he is into mobile phones and repairs, he is very talented in business and plan travelling abroad to import phones into Nigeria, he vows not to work for any body cos he wants to be his own boss....please ur gud suggestions matters

Well, if he's aim is to go to school after marriage. Trust me, that won't work. Marriage slows down your career plans.

Since you luv him and he his good in business. Please go ahead. Many graduates can't even read and write properly.

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Re: Please Mature Minds I Need Ur Advice And Suggestions by Nobody: 6:13pm On Jul 15, 2017
Obongawanesther:
thank u, i see it wit u, paper is no more recognize in Nigeria as we all suffer carrying d paper without job, he is 28 years old and own a gud business, he can still go to skull juz for formality cos he vow never to answer sir for any body,,, he is handsome n more learnat



well there you have it smiley smiley

he's even handsome too shocked shocked

now thats a huge bonus.....


And ermm you're welcome




hope i get an invite to the soon to come wedding wink wink

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Re: Please Mature Minds I Need Ur Advice And Suggestions by edgecution(m): 9:32pm On Jul 15, 2017
If you wanna marry its your choice.....if you dont care about education..go ahead.. Please forget the lie that he's gonna go back to school after marriage. If he tells you that and you believe him..na u sabi o.
Re: Please Mature Minds I Need Ur Advice And Suggestions by Divinehenrich(m): 11:26pm On Jul 15, 2017
So you don carry our discussion enter narialand. isalright!!!!!!
Re: Please Mature Minds I Need Ur Advice And Suggestions by Learnstuffs: 11:42pm On Jul 15, 2017
OP. If you need approval from people to convince you to love the man, then you really have big doubts in your mind. Better make up your mind or stop wasting his time.
Re: Please Mature Minds I Need Ur Advice And Suggestions by Nobody: 2:34am On Jul 16, 2017
Marry him, but get a work first. Please start working before you marry him.
Re: Please Mature Minds I Need Ur Advice And Suggestions by amakadihot87(f): 4:38am On Jul 16, 2017
Obongawanesther:
thank u, i see it wit u, paper is no more recognize in Nigeria as we all suffer carrying d paper without job, he is 28 years old and own a gud business, he can still go to skull juz for formality cos he vow never to answer sir for any body,,, he is handsome n more learnat
........if you are the one in your dp it means you are older than this guy.......use ur maturity to handle it
Re: Please Mature Minds I Need Ur Advice And Suggestions by Nobody: 8:39am On Jul 16, 2017
Do you like what you see right now, forget about he planning to go back to school because he wont... If you like him for who he is, there is no problem!!! If you don't like you husband not being educated, it will pose a big problem later in the future because you won't respect him.

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Re: Please Mature Minds I Need Ur Advice And Suggestions by Nobody: 8:43am On Jul 16, 2017
edgecution:
If you wanna marry its your choice.....if you dont care about education..go ahead.. Please forget the lie that he's gonna go back to school after marriage. If he tells you that and you believe him..na u sabi o.
Exactly what I told her, that talk about going to school ain't true, he's just telling you that just to give you hope, maybe he knows you like guys that has at least a Tertiary Education.

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Re: Please Mature Minds I Need Ur Advice And Suggestions by shege45: 9:32am On Jul 16, 2017
Obongawanesther:
Is it advisable to marry a guy who has not been to school but can read and write and is civilize on all areas but does not have a degree, he intend going to higher institution after marriage, he is very gud in business and is well to do, he is in his late twenties n want to marry me, i graduated 2016 n awaiting service,(stream 2), he is into mobile phones and repairs, he is very talented in business and plan travelling abroad to import phones into Nigeria, he vows not to work for any body cos he wants to be his own boss....please ur gud suggestions matters
my dear i wld even advice d guy not to even go to school again...wetin him wan use am do na...so long he can read;write speak n u love him,ur or shey u go prefer me wey go school dey earn 30k to ur guy?
Re: Please Mature Minds I Need Ur Advice And Suggestions by alanka(f): 12:38pm On Jul 16, 2017
If we want to use your written English as a measure the guy should be the one asking if he should marry you or not.

See, degree certificate is not better than pepper they use to package akara at Ikeja along.

It does not even seem you worth him in your presentation

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Re: Please Mature Minds I Need Ur Advice And Suggestions by vincentjk(m): 12:52pm On Jul 16, 2017
If you ask me there's no problem one day things shall turn out fine

You fine o, nice dp

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Re: Please Mature Minds I Need Ur Advice And Suggestions by thickminaj(f): 1:04pm On Jul 16, 2017
Obongawanesther:
Is it advisable to marry a guy who has not been to school but can read and write and is civilize on all areas but does not have a degree, he intend going to higher institution after marriage, he is very gud in business and is well to do, he is in his late twenties n want to marry me, i graduated 2016 n awaiting service,(stream 2), he is into mobile phones and repairs, he is very talented in business and plan travelling abroad to import phones into Nigeria, he vows not to work for any body cos he wants to be his own boss....please ur gud suggestions matters
I see nothing wrong in marrying him having a certificate from a higher institution isn't an assertion of a good marriage... He's a man with a lot of potentials if you love him go ahead.. I wish u the best hun

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Re: Please Mature Minds I Need Ur Advice And Suggestions by mgdimagaladima(m): 1:11pm On Jul 16, 2017
as far as he can read and write, he has money,he is matured , and u also loves him.... Go ahead and Marry him


na DEGREE certificate u go chop?#$#

please go now now and marry him before it is too late

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Re: Please Mature Minds I Need Ur Advice And Suggestions by babyfaceafrica: 1:29pm On Jul 16, 2017
How does getting a degree make any difference?..if you love him and he does likewise,go for him!!....does Seun osewa have a degree?... Do you know how many PhD ladies will line up to marry him?..he is smart,handsome and rich.he may not be social,but them who social EPP,when you can move around as you like!!!!!...degree is good but is not the eldorado..go for someone who will take care of you!!!!

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Re: Please Mature Minds I Need Ur Advice And Suggestions by solomix10(m): 2:25pm On Jul 16, 2017
do u love him?
does he love you?
if yes then go for it

once he is literate and versatile; nd even an enterpreneur.


many have the papers but useless

whu certificate don help?

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