I love all the comments have been reading through but the basic truth about this issue is that character, spirituality n reaction after sex isn't the issue, the truth is that so many girls donot know what it takes to have sex with a guy u just met. There are so many guys out there with different aim and aspirations after wooing a girl, some guys have the aim of marking register n after that dey let go of the babe while some have the aim of building a girl up with the mind set that after hAving sex with her they are aim is to trap her down. As a girl u have to study the kind of man u are about to go into a relationship with coz some guys are just sheep in human clothing, they make empty promise n foolishly we fall for it n believe we have met the right person not knowing they have another set goal.
My advice to all ladies out there is study yourself on what works for u in a relationship. There are some girls once they open their legs for a guy they are able to trap dem down while some once they open their legs guys walk away. Plz after falling victim of such in this guys hand donot make the same mistake or letting this repeat itself, just know sex after meeting a guy doesn't work for. Give it time when you meet a guy u just met;don't be to quick to let it open some guys are just too deceptive in nature.
Have once been in that shoe n the moment I notice what works for me I started working in accordance to it. Be wise

Giving out sex to guys so easily gives the impression that you cheap. It's a big turn off as no guy wanna marry a lady who would readily jump into the arms of any man and get fuccked hard without any hesitation.

learn how to be stingy with your pusssy, it has a way of building a guy's confidence in you, unless you just wanna fuccck with no strings attached

internationalman:
I'm in this category of men.
I don't know how will get married bcoz I always tend to develop a sudden hate for a lady after having my way with her like d OP said.

Bros we in this together oooooo, even sister and friends are complaining of it seriously. How I wish I can change

RadicallyBlunt:
Really? To be sincere with you if its not spiritual which I don't think it is, then its your character.

I said so because once a girl have sex with you, they just start believing that they've done you a great favour and unconsciously start trying to be in control of the relationship..this is something all guys can relate to. Only few girls maintain d tenderness that first attracted the guy to her even after sex and that's what inspires the guy to show more care.

When I meet such girl I usually have patience for a 2nd sex, after that I vapourize off. My long relationships are with girls that are simply feminine.

Other factors may include body odour, parasitic demands, lack of exposure, your disposition in public, level of neatness etc

U've said it all bro, and other factor may include
1- u're not sexually active, expose or expirence
2- u're unclean ( u dn't shave ur kitty kat)

I strongly believe is ur private part. There is this undiscribeable odour that comes from one girl I meet ones, it didn't start immediately but while we where still at it The odour just came from no where. I lost all urge and left for air in a hurry . If this is the problem then u should be thankful they don't leave while u still on the bed . ( no insult intended.

2dugged:
heheheh, by sweet you mean?, help the op understand ,who knows more ladies here can learn how to be "sweet" to their men

Is a very 'small' guy, 'sweet' to girls?

Is a very 'wide' girl sweet to guys?

Use your tongue count your teeth.

Guys will understand where I'm coming from..

Why do many young ladies loose their virginity in the higher institution?
I pray that my future daughters won't be like that

i used to be like that, until i went for Deliverance, my dear u need serious deliverance and avoid sex, the man that wants you will sure want you for who u are not want u have btw your legs

DabLord:
Have you heard this song"Pass the agbara".
They're passing your agbara

chai u are wicked

adecz:


Is a very 'small' guy, 'sweet' to girls?

Is a very 'wide' girl sweet to guys?

Use your tongue count your teeth.

Guys will understand where I'm coming from..

that is a misconception,anyway ,i won't want to deliberate further on this

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falconey:
Your Pics please......

falconey u nt close to serious

RadicallyBlunt:
Really? To be sincere with you if its not spiritual which I don't think it is, then its your character.

I said so because once a girl have sex with you, they just start believing that they've done you a great favour and unconsciously start trying to be in control of the relationship..this is something all guys can relate to. Only few girls maintain d tenderness that first attracted the guy to her even after sex and that's what inspires the guy to show more care.

When I meet such girl I usually have patience for a 2nd sex, after that I vapourize off. My long relationships are with girls that are simply feminine.

Other factors may include body odour, parasitic demands, lack of exposure, your disposition in public, level of neatness etc

i guess its due to dat chikala character, check all her comment on NL and picture in ur mind d kind of human dat � will b in real life

Bitcoin1000:
Sometimes I think I'm cursed since I broke the purity with my first love in 100l all the men who I have been having affair with always dump me after making love to me the first time.

It has gotten to the point that I tried doing everything other girls do but it not just working for me.


Please I need advice

hhhaahaha maybe because you are a s..l..uu ..t

Tosyne2much.... where at thou

wait for your wedding day before having sex

Gistruler:
Tosyne2uch.... where at thou

I kuku dey here oooo.. I just dey observe ni

baby me i wont leave you because one Bleep cant hold me we gat to go twice

emakoji:
Since you already know, then stop having sex with them. Wait after the wedding. My advice

What if her village people package her matter well?

If her husband come still dump her after having sex with her nko?

regma:
wait for your wedding day before having sex

Will u kip shot!!!!!!!!

If ur Toto sweet,they will surely come back for more

DeGuyNxtDoor:
All these things happen to you because you think opening your legs for a man you love would keep him tied down to you forever. I can guess you open them too early than most girls do which is wrong. The logic IS;

When you get into a relationship with a man, first, focus on building that relationship with him, work towards making him see you as a wife material as past experiences may have diverted his ways of thought towards woman and make him see you as no different from the others other than as a sex object. Show him love, care and attention and monitor to see if he'll do same. See if he'll detach himself little by little because you've not offered sex, see if he's reciprocating the love, care, attention and commitment even more than you do, take things easy, don't be too demanding, show him that you love him genuinely without pretence and study his behaviour when he asks for sex the first time and you refuse, if he still hangs around, then when in a romantic scenario, ask him if he loves you, if he says yes with seriousness and ask you why you had to ask, then explain to him how you have been hurt by pple you trust and love in the past and how you don't want to go through that path again... I'm sure if he's a man and not a furckboy, he'll see the right to love you and even care for you more and make you see the difference between him and those you dated in the past.

Good luck dear.

Sex should come last, take note.

abit turn off

So, some ladies out there are still having premarital sex?

Oga oooo

Naturally,I don't hit once . .I go chop,chop,chop chop until she go tire. . .

tosyne2much:
So, some ladies out there are still having premarital sex?

Oga oooo

Is it bad for ladies to have pre marital sex?

AHCB:
Is it bad for ladies to have pre marital sex?

I didn't say that ooooo

tosyne2much:
I didn't say that ooooo

Na you sabi. Tosyne Tosyne, how market?