DeeTus:
This is not a good advice. Sex also cements a relationship. You ought to have told her about bond. Bonding with a guy and the next time is he will take you serious and then propose to you.

2dugged:
some don't , we get cases like that .A fungal infection can go unnoticed and most times sexual intercourse that ruffles the vaiginal wall only makes it known or during masturbation.And I have personally met a guy who came to get drugs for a lady even without informing her about it. He said he liked her and didn't know how to tell her ,so he came to us. so it won't kill you if you maturely tell her about it. The problem here is some guys are too immature to deal with sensitive issues so instead of facing it,they choose the easiest way out ,run and not say anything

Bitcoin1000:
Sometimes I think I'm cursed since I broke the purity with my first love in 100l all the men who I have been having affair with always dump me after making love to me the first time.

It has gotten to the point that I tried doing everything other girls do but it not just working for me.

Maybe it's not u, maybe you are going about it the wrong way
Please I need advice

Bitcoin1000:
Sometimes I think I'm cursed since I broke the purity with my first love in 100l all the men who I have been having affair with always dump me after making love to me the first time.

It has gotten to the point that I tried doing everything other girls do but it not just working for me.


Please I need advice

falconey:


Hahahahaha person fit know from looks? Not sure if the op is real anyways. no d.p, the moniker and signature are all about bitcon.

Beey:
Sorry I advocate for abstinence till marriage.

DeeTus:
Shut up! Are you a virgin?

DeeTus:
Shut up! Are you a virgin?

connectpoint:


But DeeTus can i give you a shocking information ?

DeeTus:
Go ahead, man!

GeneralOjukwu:
Username is "bitcoin"...."f"

My deductions -

1. The OP is a man who uses "F" to attract males to click on his profile....

2. This obviously fake story is to get you to click on the profile out of curiosity - I did.

CONCLUSION - this was all to get traffic and PMs and it worked! 9 good pages of comments. I am amused at those sweating to write good advice.

connectpoint:



From personal experience with society, I can tell five out of ten unmarried ladies have this problem

DeeTus:
That girl is not a virgin but she's an advocate of what she's not. What a pity!

This is the kind of girl I run from. Infact, I run from so many girls. Too many girls are really not what they said they are. They are so fake!

jimb:


abit turn off

connectpoint:


Bro it's not a virgin/non-virginity issue... Well, what i mean to say is, many of our ladies are going through this exact problem...May God Help us...


This generation has been bombarded with massive sexually related information, one can hardly blink without seeing something that gives one a tick..I wouldn't blame people entirely...this our generation bro..Also she needed to learn dating tips, if she had a guide on how to date right, this could have been avoided, a lot of times, they also take this for granted and think it's just about the assets....If she had a coach/mentor like you, those bobos would not just have chopped and cleaned mouth..... May God help us

DeeTus:
Hehe, most of these girls are only looking for money and this is the problem.

One chick I knew over two years ago without even having a conversation or maybe because she had someone had started calling me her boyfriend since two days ago. I asked her to shut up and concentrate more on her studies. The next time I heard was my birthday is next week. Hope you are preparing for it. I was like please I am not your boyfriend. I don't even know you. I only wanted to kick it for a while.

Go look for your man, okay?

connectpoint:



I beg to say I see this differently,I have a proverb I tell ladies around me, " after prophets na woman ", see bros, your potential is the honey....it's what's attracting you to...this na priv8 matter, i don't want to enter this level abeg...i'll cut it here.. it's not the girl being a LovePeddler...but yu been attractive...can't yu tell by the number of ladies that have done this same thing to yu ? in fact, i ...let me stop ere bro b4 d spirit descend...

DeeTus:
No no no. I used to rude on all of them except the one I met here on Nairaland. She's very nice and has a tendency to becoming a good mother.

connectpoint:



He he he... Sound like the man's got a good catch..I have about 5-7 cool ones on Nairaland sha... but i maintain a strict working relationship only with them...that's how i'm getting to know them better...Bro...do your sifting well...

DeeTus:
This particular one is good. Have met her mom too. But the problem I have right now is distance. We are far away from each other.

connectpoint:


Oh boi...You don't waste time... I can relate, distance can be a problem...If you rily like her you can compensate by popping up a surprise visit....or making time to see once in a while...just burst a few piplelines and ur acc will be reeking wif lots of kash...

DeeTus:
LOL, I am not a dull guy. You should know this. I like this girl but distance is now a barrier. Really it is.

I have no time to travel now.

DeeTus:
Shut up! Are you a virgin?

NigeriaKitchen:
Bros lets be practical for once and stop sounding celestial in every human problem.

90% if not 99% of happily married men you see today had sex with their present wives before they got married, so what are we saying

Some ladies make it seem like guys leave them just because they had sex with them, when in reality that's not the truth.

Do you know that majority of married men you see today went to just chop their present wives and clean mouth, but changed their mission after noticing that the lady doesn't deserve it Go and listen to Psquare song titled: ego adigo......in the lyrics, he said something like this:

"the man weh came to chop you and clean mouth de beg to stay".....in pure English he is saying: "the man that came to hit a lady and run is now pleading with the lady to please marry him".

This is the case of so many happily married ladies....their present hubby came to chop them and run, but stayed because of the lady's amazing character and other qualities