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I need a gal friend but I don't know the process by emmy2fyn(m): 5:59pm On Jul 22, 2017
need a girl
Re: I need a gal friend but I don't know the process by Loyalblak007(f): 6:00pm On Jul 22, 2017
You can't make/force a girl love you truly

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Re: I need a gal friend but I don't know the process by omoeko001(m): 6:05pm On Jul 22, 2017
Loyalblak007:

You can't make/force a girl love you truly

how can I even make you notice me
Re: I need a gal friend but I don't know the process by thesuave10(m): 6:09pm On Jul 22, 2017
Loyalblak007:

You can't make/force a girl love you truly

Wanna bet? wink
Re: I need a gal friend but I don't know the process by Loyalblak007(f): 6:33pm On Jul 22, 2017
thesuave10:

Wanna bet? wink
yea
Re: I need a gal friend but I don't know the process by emmy2fyn(m): 7:23pm On Jul 22, 2017
Pls reasonable contributions
Re: I need a gal friend but I don't know the process by 7footre(m): 7:27pm On Jul 22, 2017
On this day, Mr English died and was hastily buried. embarassed embarassed

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Re: I need a gal friend but I don't know the process by walepackage(m): 7:52pm On Jul 22, 2017
@op,love is instrincal in nature,when u meet the right person u dont need"dogon turanci" before u guys conect.But my concern is hw to make her love u more depends on many factors,which are;your personality,sense of humor,inteligent,package,caring, to mention few.

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Re: I need a gal friend but I don't know the process by Nobody: 7:58pm On Jul 22, 2017
Op you can't make a girl love you

Besides love comes in unexpected ways. Stop searching, it will come to you naturally. You don't want to make a mistake by just desperately choosing anyone that comes your way.
It has to go both ways

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Re: I need a gal friend but I don't know the process by EmNaija: 8:19pm On Jul 22, 2017
emmy2fyn:
Am really a matured guy but though have not engaged in a serious relationship but now I wan start so how can I make a relationship sustained .Then if u meet a gal u love how can u make her to love u. Please ur reasonable contributions the matured mind pls.

here are my 3 smart steps,

You just have to be a man and be romantic even if you are faking it ..

first- Initiate a discussion with her and try to find out things you guys have in common,

second- try to know her well, things she like and hates, and also her family and friends.

third - call her often and see her often, when she becomes free and easy with you, then you drop you lines

"" baby Actually actually "Clare throat", emm I kinda have feelings for you and I'd like us to be close friends"" as in you being my girlfriend""

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Re: I need a gal friend but I don't know the process by Nobody: 8:30pm On Jul 22, 2017
When dem say you people should be wooing ladies in sch den you wee not

y'all wee go and be reading reading reading, calling us who were deep into the act of wooing dumb people

now you are 45 and still looking for who would give you steps to woo a lady......angry


with the rising rate at which some men come online to ask how to woo ladies i just might be tempted to open a secret organisation that help men either woo ladies themselves or help dem find wives (we would do the finding and wooing) for a big price they'll pay
Re: I need a gal friend but I don't know the process by Victornezzar: 8:31pm On Jul 22, 2017
thepussyhunter:
When dem say you people should be wooing ladies in sch den you wee not

y'all wee go and reading reading reading, be calling us who were deep into the act of wooing dumb people

now you are 45 and still looking for who would give you steps to woo a lady......angry


with the rising rate at which some men come online to ask how to woo ladies i just might be tempted to open a secret organisation that help men either woo ladies themselves or help dem find wives (we would do the finding and wooing) for a big price they'll pay
Bro dd ur parents send u 2 school 2 woo a lady

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Re: I need a gal friend but I don't know the process by Nobody: 8:45pm On Jul 22, 2017
Victornezzar:

Bro dd ur parents send u 2 school 2 woo a lady


yeah it is part of the reasons

not necessarily wooing sha but its all part of the socialising, getting to know people and dat part of life we were also sent there to do.......

Used to avoid peopl who were so stuck up in life and with sch work then.........its somehow


i wasnt so a die hard bookwarm........like i said i was more into dem..........

In da end i graduated with a 2'1 got a teaching job a year later and 9months later i got me dream job which i'm still currently doing wink

saw a scholar friend of mine that was so involved in what his parents sent him to sch for like you put it and from what i noticed and what he told me i'm doing well than he is (and overly well too)





to add to it all these guys wind up being like op
"guys who dont know how to talk to a lady"




all the same sha it all balls down to what suits you

if you wanna be a bookwarm good for you
if you wanna socialise and know it wont affect you much good for you too


abeg put head in your sch work o
dont say because u read something online you wanna put less attention to your studies

i trust you wont sha :grin

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Re: I need a gal friend but I don't know the process by Victornezzar: 8:47pm On Jul 22, 2017
thepussyhunter:



yeah it is part of the reasons

not necessarily wooing sha but its all part of the socialising, getting to know people and dat part of life we were also sent there to do.......

Used to avoid peopl who were so stuck up in life and with sch work then.........its somehow


i wasnt so a die hard bookwarm........like i said i was more into dem..........

In da end i graduated with a 2'1 got a teaching job a year later and 9months later i got me dream job which i'm still currently doing wink

saw a scholar friend of mine that was so involved in what his parents sent him to sch for like you put it and from what i noticed and what he told me i'm doing well than he is (and overly well too)





to add to it all these guys wind up being like op
"guys who dont know how to talk to a lady"




all the same sha it all balls down to what suits you

if you wanna be a bookwarm good for you
if you wanna socialise and know it wont affect you much good for you too


abeg put head in your sch work o
dont say because u read something online you wanna put less attention to your studies

i trust you wont sha :grin
How will I av a gf
wen babes yapa 4 skul na grin
Re: I need a gal friend but I don't know the process by MissRaine69(f): 8:49pm On Jul 22, 2017
You can't make anyone love you
They can pretend to love very much if you have a lot of money but when the money goes they do as well.
You need to understand yourself first...

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Re: I need a gal friend but I don't know the process by Nobody: 8:50pm On Jul 22, 2017
thepussyhunter:
When dem say you people should be wooing ladies in sch den you wee not

y'all wee go and be reading reading reading, calling us who were deep into the act of wooing dumb people

now you are 45 and still looking for who would give you steps to woo a lady......angry


with the rising rate at which some men come online to ask how to woo ladies i just might be tempted to open a secret organisation that help men either woo ladies themselves or help dem find wives (we would do the finding and wooing) for a big price they'll pay
I feel you bro
Where do you want to learn how to woo a lady if it isn't the highest institution of learning grin grin

Some niggas will be thinking those who woo ladies in university will end up been lossers in life angry angry
Re: I need a gal friend but I don't know the process by Nobody: 8:54pm On Jul 22, 2017
Victornezzar:

How will I av a gf
wen babes yapa 4 skul na grin


lol

sofri put sha o

so i wont see a post on nl by victornessa asking us where to get authentic baby things cheesy
Re: I need a gal friend but I don't know the process by Nobody: 8:56pm On Jul 22, 2017
Lol. Don't know why I find this funny tho
Re: I need a gal friend but I don't know the process by Nobody: 8:59pm On Jul 22, 2017
Op you have to learn how to be comfortable around ladies first bro.

There is no simple or single way to ask a girl out because every lady is different in her way and appreciate different things e.g some ladies like brave guys who approach them with confidence other ladies may term it as rudeness and lack of manners

Now, been comfortable around ladies will give you a unique chance to study the character of ladies and how to approach other ladies

Been friends with a cool nairaland girl or other social media platform, if you are not comfortable around ladies can be a good start

Stay blessed

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Re: I need a gal friend but I don't know the process by muller101(m): 9:02pm On Jul 22, 2017
Bia op. What is wrong with u. Go to any brothel and enjoy. Girl friend will drive u crazy
Re: I need a gal friend but I don't know the process by Victornezzar: 9:04pm On Jul 22, 2017
thepussyhunter:



lol

sofri put sha o

so i wont see a post on nl by victornessa asking us where to get authentic baby things cheesy
4 wer
Bro I don't sleep with women
Re: I need a gal friend but I don't know the process by Victornezzar: 9:04pm On Jul 22, 2017
thepussyhunter:



lol

sofri put sha o

so i wont see a post on nl by victornessa asking us where to get authentic baby things cheesy
4 wer
Bro I don't sleep with women
Re: I need a gal friend but I don't know the process by Nobody: 9:06pm On Jul 22, 2017
sunshineG:
I feel you bro
Where do you want to learn how to woo a lady if it isn't the highest institution of learning grin grin

Some niggas will be thinking those who woo ladies in university will end up been lossers in life angry angry

lol

exactly!!!.............if one doesnt get to learn how to talk to ladies while in da uni then theres no hope for such person ever........


Yeah true again......they all took us t be dumb ass+holes then in sch

but not too long ago i saw one and as it is i am doing super well than he is..........

So you werent among them "RTDB gang" (reading till day break) or "247B group" (24 hours bookwarm) huh? grin
Re: I need a gal friend but I don't know the process by Nobody: 9:15pm On Jul 22, 2017
thepussyhunter:


lol

exactly!!!.............if one doesnt get to learn how to talk to ladies while in da uni then theres no hope for such person ever........


Yeah true again......they all took us t be dumb ass+holes then in sch

but not too long ago i saw one and as it is i am doing super well than he is..........

So you werent among them "RTDB gang" (reading till day break) or "247B group" (24 hours bookwarm) huh? grin
me noooo
We study from Monday to Friday grin
On Friday and Saturday we go to clubs or keep the girl we have invited from school busy lipsrsealed grin tutorial and other stuff grin

On Sunday we go to church and work for God as usher
Our choir master then was the guy that leads us to the club grin grin he pays for everything most time

Many niggas will be shaking their head for me back then but still graduated with better result than most grin grin

When the Bleep am l going to get the opportunity to do that again
We only live once bro grin grin grin
Re: I need a gal friend but I don't know the process by Nobody: 9:16pm On Jul 22, 2017
Victornezzar:

4 wer
Bro I don't sleep with women

now thats cool

i trust you dont.................so you mean theres no "ONE" now right?
Re: I need a gal friend but I don't know the process by Victornezzar: 9:23pm On Jul 22, 2017
thepussyhunter:


now thats cool

i trust you dont.................so you mean theres no "ONE" now right?
not at all man
Re: I need a gal friend but I don't know the process by Nobody: 9:23pm On Jul 22, 2017
sunshineG:
me noooo
We study from Monday to Friday grin
On Friday and Saturday we go to clubs or keep the girl we have invited from school busy lipsrsealed grin tutorial and other stuff grin

On Sunday we go to church and work for God as usher
Our choir master then was the guy that leads us to the club grin grin he pays for everything most time

Many niggas will be shaking their head for me back then but still graduated with better result than most grin grin

When the Bleep am l going to get the opportunity to do that again
We only live once bro grin grin grin


lmfao @bloded.............tutoring ladies was a sure thing na........that was them so called scholars only acess to dem ladies till we had to take dat away from them too cheesy cheesy

and you just had to take me back to dem good old times sad sad angry .angry.............i swear those times were fun.............


Are you for real bro? shocked shocked

your bleeping choir master hosted your club outings shocked shocked......now thats one funny shiiiii cheesy cheesy
Re: I need a gal friend but I don't know the process by Nobody: 9:27pm On Jul 22, 2017
Victornezzar:

not at all man


shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

so you're one of those rare honorable guys still alive that friendzone all dem ladies crushing on you huh? shocked shocked shocked
Re: I need a gal friend but I don't know the process by Nobody: 9:28pm On Jul 22, 2017
thepussyhunter:



lmfao @bloded.............tutoring ladies was a sure thing na........that was them so called scholars only acess to dem ladies till we had to take dat away from them too cheesy cheesy

and you just had to take me back to dem good old times sad sad angry .angry.............i swear those times were fun.............


Are you for real bro? shocked shocked

your bleeping choir master hosted your club outings shocked shocked......now thats one funny shiiiii cheesy cheesy
yeah bro
There was one day we left from club to church
grin grin
I have seen things bro.
Even when I was serving, the choir master was the bleeping king of the church grin grin
Re: I need a gal friend but I don't know the process by Nobody: 9:34pm On Jul 22, 2017
Victornezzar:

4 wer
Bro I don't sleep with women

All these your lies ehn..

Re: I need a gal friend but I don't know the process by Nobody: 9:38pm On Jul 22, 2017
sunshineG:
yeah bro
There was one day we left from club to church
grin grin
I have seen things bro.
Even when I was serving, the choir master was the bleeping king of the church grin grin


lol cheesy cheesy

you have gat to be kidding me shocked shocked

that guy no be here o cheesy cheesy...........................


You're still in contact with him right?
Re: I need a gal friend but I don't know the process by Nobody: 9:41pm On Jul 22, 2017
thepussyhunter:



lol cheesy cheesy

you have gat to be kidding me shocked shocked

that guy no be here o cheesy cheesy...........................


You're still in contact with him right?
they are two different people
I have the one in sch as friend on face book
The one during service year, I have got his phone number

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