alienhumam:
I spent four years in the university without a girlfriend, because am afraid to approach girls. I don't want to be rejected. people gossip about me that am gay. because am always in company of guys. even my male friends are even accusing me of been gay, which I know am not. The even joke with me with jokes like
I can't sleep in one bed with you and so on.

Now what I need is advice from Nairalanders on how I can get a girlfriend that can love me. Because very soon I will be going to national youth service. am depressed because of my situation I need help.

sisisioge:
You missed the first step dude. Shy guys who do not know how to talk to girls usually augment themselves with girl-magnets. Girl-magnets are: good looks, fame, money, smartness, intelligence etc. You should have struggled to be very smart in books while in school, girls will definitely come to you for tutorials.

Anyways, are you a sharp dresser? Or a gym freeak? Do you have some serious intelligence that seeps outta you without struggling? Do you have money? Biko don't sweat it, get some magnets for yourself. Good luck.

alienhumam:
my guy I know that if am successful girls will come, but for now I need someone I can share my problems with and someone who will clear this believe from people that am gay. am not gay I rather die than to be a gay.

alienhumam:
my guy I know that if am successful girls will come, but for now I need someone I can share my problems with and someone who will clear this believe from people that am gay. am not gay I rather die than to be a gay.

Tiffbuxas:
I'm not good at giving advice...
No matter how shy you are just be friendly with everyone you meet, develop friendship with females it shouldnt always be abt dating, try to get comfortable with ladies.... The rest will happen naturally.



Izza simpu sturv

noirsangre:


Madam what point do you want me to get to? And if you can't reply me without insulting me then you're not even worth talking to. No beauty, no brains.

alienhumam:
I spent four years in the university without a girlfriend, because am afraid to approach girls. I don't want to be rejected. people gossip about me that am gay. because am always in company of guys. even my male friends are even accusing me of been gay, which I know am not. The even joke with me with jokes like
I can't sleep in one bed with you and so on.

Now what I need is advice from Nairalanders on how I can get a girlfriend that can love me. Because very soon I will be going to national youth service. am depressed because of my situation I need help.

alienhumam:
I spent four years in the university without a girlfriend, because am afraid to approach girls. I don't want to be rejected. people gossip about me that am gay. because am always in company of guys. even my male friends are even accusing me of been gay, which I know am not. The even joke with me with jokes like
I can't sleep in one bed with you and so on.

Now what I need is advice from Nairalanders on how I can get a girlfriend that can love me. Because very soon I will be going to national youth service. am depressed because of my situation I need help.

gimakon:
Maybe you didn't read what I said. Attention seeker I'm comfortable now. I work on the island,i have a decent job that allows me to meet people I never dreamt of. Job has taken me outside naija few times, so if u claim I let my self down,either you didn't read or you want to be like this morons here who wants to "shine" to insult people. Don't try it with me.

I only gave the man advice I think it's best for him. He should focus, that shouldn't be hard for you as well,besides it's not compulsory.

So coming to advise me when you haven't advised yourself, even the bible made it clear that you remove the log from your eyes, before you want to take out from someone else's eye. No be by force to day single,but don't come here later to change moniker and ask for help when you didn't do what should be done a long time ago.

Look next door for someone else to help with this kind of advise. You are an example of the nairalanders who doesnt know what they doing i was talking about earlier.

Oga, you're the attention seeker here. Look at you bragging about how you have a decent job, Who asked you?

Tell me please, who asked you?

Get someone to help you read and explain my post, maybe then you'll understand i wasn't even taking a jab at you.

You're the typical example of the guys who were lucky enough to get a girlfriend.. (lucky cuz she chose you (most likely out of pity), you weren't man enough to approach any girl).

You were so happy that finally a girl likes you, you went ahead acting needy, building your whole life around her and doing everything to please her.

That's why she dumped you bro, you were being too needy!
At 29 you haven't learned still.

Will you c'mon stop the bullcrap about your decent job. You really think that's how to attract a decent lady?

Oga, man up and approach a girl and quit trying to use money to impress.

When you're ready to settle down (rather when another girl takes pity on you and chooses you again), you'll still end up with heartbreak When that happens, you'll come back and create a thread on Nairaland about how you've decided to remain single for life. That's your headache bro. It doesn't affect me.

blasterman:



Go find olosho fork make u calm ur konji.

Woman wey some ppl dey use clean Yansh.

Maybe u don't take or ur appearance or u don't make good use of your time.

I for train u if not be online

B4 b4 I dey give woman 72hrs grace period to comply to my demands or I fire am.


bad Baddo baddest I see u oh I nor know why these dey fear to talk to woman me wen be say say I get F##uck mate I don tried to f###uck self abi mke we help these guy

gimakon:
My honest and very sincere advice to you is, you don't need a gf to be a man, some idiots here would say what am I saying, but am standing my ground. I'm 29 and yes,i should be thinking of settling down, but truly I'm not really thinking of bringing in a liability now into my life until I think im ready for that.

Think about it this way, you have a gf, you give her money and sex, and your time, now you give - you're the person contributing what exactly is she giving back? Nyash? Or what exactly? You would work your life out to look good get money and spend on her and the day you don't have it, watch her going to make another man king behind your back. I'm telling you from a very bitter experience I had dating someone I thought was reasonable, instead what she did was awesome,she cheated, times after time I got her,what she did was to connive with her friends to come to my house to seduce me to make it look like I cheated also.. so many bad things and to the extent she got pregnant for another guy and decided to marry him.
This is someone I was staking my neck for, got her admission into university, did so many things for her, yet she says I wasn't mature enough for her and went ahead to get pregnant for another guy - I wonder how a mature guy behaves after trying to be good to his girl again.

Some idiots here would call me names, mugu nd what not,but am proud of myself, I became a settled guy at an early age,only few shake ups again, grace of God, - it's normalised now.

She still clicks "like " on Facebook when she sees my new success I earn a five -zero salary, I live alone now,few times I go to my parents. Her friends ask me for money like always now. It's always do this, do that, one even went to the extent of telling me her father was sick that she needed money, I hope the man won't be sick sha,considering the kain swear she day use hand swear give the man.

So ma dear,learn from my own experience, what you need now,yea is focus and not a girl. Believe me,when you get it, the smell of success will locate the right person. Nyash no be everything. Naija girls no follow , fuck_ them, if you get lucky, and throw them away.

DavidTheGeek:


I feel you bro..

but...

I have one problem with you!

That you had a bitter experience does not mean every other case will be bitter.

We've heard cases of even secondary school sweethearts getting married.

So please don't use your own to discourage up coming brothers Besides if you had moved on to another girl after that girl left you, you might have met a lady that would make you advice guys to find a lady asap.

Meaning, you had a bitter experience and you allowed it put you down. Instead of you to pick yourself up and find someone else.

blasterman:



Go find olosho fork make u calm ur konji.

Woman wey some ppl dey use clean Yansh.

Maybe u don't take or ur appearance or u don't make good use of your time.

I for train u if not be online

B4 b4 I dey give woman 72hrs grace period to comply to my demands or I fire am.

alienhumam:
I spent four years in the university without a girlfriend, because am afraid to approach girls. I don't want to be rejected. people gossip about me that am gay. because am always in company of guys. even my male friends are even accusing me of been gay, which I know am not. The even joke with me with jokes like
I can't sleep in one bed with you and so on.

Now what I need is advice from Nairalanders on how I can get a girlfriend that can love me. Because very soon I will be going to national youth service. am depressed because of my situation I need help.

DavidTheGeek:



Oga you're the attention seeker here. Look at you bragging about how you have a decent job, Who asked you?

Tell me please, who asked you?

Get someone to help you read and explain my post, maybe then you'll understand i wasn't even taking a jab at you.

You're the typical example of the guys who were lucky enough to get a girlfriend.. (lucky cuz she chose you, you weren't man enough to approach any girl.).

You were so happy that finally a girl likes you, you went ahead acting needy and building your whole life around her. That's why she dumped you bro, you were being too needy!

At 29 you haven't learned still.

When you're ready to settle down (rather when another girl takes pity on you and chooses you again), you'll still end up with heartbreak When that happens, you'll come back and create a thread on Nairaland about how you've decided to remain single for life.

Sarah20A:
Wait oo, are you a virgin boy ayam not understanding

alienhumam:
I spent four years in the university without a girlfriend, because am afraid to approach girls. I don't want to be rejected. people gossip about me that am gay. because am always in company of guys. even my male friends are even accusing me of been gay, which I know am not. The even joke with me with jokes like
I can't sleep in one bed with you and so on.

Now what I need is advice from Nairalanders on how I can get a girlfriend that can love me. Because very soon I will be going to national youth service. am depressed because of my situation I need help.

gimakon:
I've saved your idiotic screen name so I'd officially welcome you to my wedding, hungry beast.

No girl takes me for fun again, sorry if na your prayer, die there. Anuofia

DavidTheGeek:

I'll be happy to come if i have the time to spare!

Just make sure you're ready for another heartbreak. Cuz she might end up dumping you to row with me.

alienhumam:
I need someone I can share my problem .

Neminc:
Some toothless old women in your village singing "it's our work o" and dancing shoki

gimakon:


Ode. Can't even spell. It's not row, it's roll.
Na this type of English u wan use steal my girl? Akoi common sense? Silence, best answer for idiots like you. You no get advice to give na to talk rubbish to people and beef them. You won't grow past as you are na, abi u wan swear for me too

Get a life, Toilet.