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concho:
are u saying that i made a mistake by ending it with 'dnt bother checkn on me'

If she did check on you, you might misconstrue it as she still been interested. Its clear she has moved on, pick your pieces and do same.

Why is there no genuine relationship ?

DeeTus:
Hahahahaha. Trapped in a chick? That's a whole lots of drama. I will tell you how to handle girls who study at UNN.

First, you have to be unpredictable in order for her to understand that you are not really easy to come by. By doing so, she would value you like an expensive product.

Second, whenever she calls you, do not pick her call. Text her after some days and say you were very busy. Do not say sorry.

Third, do you know that these girls derive a lot of joy to see guys come to their school to check on them? I am telling you this purely on my knowledge. And the funniest thing is if you go there, you would probably spend a lot. In other words, because you denied her some access and so she would be wondering what kind of guy you are. The next thing she does is to travel to see you. And after that, continue being a mystery and her interest level would be so high towards you. And now, you can decide whether to make her yours or not.

It's ao late for this to remedy the situation - she is shoppong for an out already

MissRaine69:
She did not know why she accepted? Silly girl.
How old are you both?
You cannot threaten suicide as a means of expressing distress. You gave her a directive not to contact you so why are you upset she did not?
She hurt your feelings now you know. Life is about experiences this is one of them, some people have 1 relationship and that is all they will ever need. Some will have several and never meet anyone life is about the unexpected you can't prepare for it adequately. You can learn from experiences that's how you manoeuvre the ups and downs.
Being emotionally unstable is not a good trait relationships will come with turmoil, relationships end you need to learn how to cope and how to be emotionally mature.
Move on, but don't be histrionic about it. You can't buy affection it never ends well and you will just feel ley down and bitter.

am 24 and she is 22. i understand all you said. You know all i told her was jst a game plan. i asked her nt to call me , knowing fully well dt if Amaka stl loves me dt she will never acceptn dt conditn under any circumstnce. This was a girl dt can do anytn on earth jst to hear my voice. recently i noticed dt d only tn i do in the relatnshp is spending. So i had to cm up wt dt plan . b4 she relocate me to villa ....smiles....

concho:
am 24 and she is 22. i understand all you said. You know all i told her was jst a game plan. i asked her nt to call me , knowing fully well dt if Amaka stl loves me dt she will never acceptn dt conditn under any circumstnce. This was a girl dt can do anytn on earth jst to hear my voice. recently i noticed dt d only tn i do in the relatnshp is spending. So i had to cm up wt dt plan . b4 she relocate me to villa ....smiles....

You have much to learn about life and relationships. Date someone who has something going on for her not a woman who always has her hand stretched out to receive. And you also need to keep most of your money in your pocket. Spending should be two ways.

MissRaine69:
You have much to learn about life and relationships. Date someone who has something going on for her not a woman who always has her hand stretched out to receive. And you also need to keep most of your money in your pocket. Spending should be two ways.

Inhabitants of planet Earth still have sense, I am relieved.

iamadonis2:
Inhabitants of planet Earth still have sense, I am relieved.

Oh we do exist we just have to win the battle against stupidity and mediocracy.

MissRaine69:
You have much to learn about life and relationships. Date someone who has something going on for her not a woman who always has her hand stretched out to receive. And you also need to keep most of your money in your pocket. Spending should be two ways.

Thank you very much dear.......thank God it all ended b4 nw, cos today na her bday. i for dn dy reason how to buy one xpnsive gift.........Sense fall on me

concho:
Thank you very much dear.......thank God it all ended b4 nw, cos today na her bday. i for dn dy reason how to buy one xpnsive gift.........Sense fall on me

That is your problem right there. What has she ever done for you? Stop trying to validate your presence in someone's life by getting them expensive gifts. If you start to do that you create exepections and dependency. Learn from this otherwise you will always attract the shallow women.

MissRaine69:
That is your problem right there. What has she ever done for you? Stop trying to validate your presence in someone's life by getting them expensive gifts. If you start to do that you create exepections and dependency. Learn from this otherwise you will always attract the shallow women.

Thanks a lot..........maybe i should even forget everytn about love nw n make it first

concho:
Thanks a lot..........maybe i should even forget everytn about love nw n make it first

Enjoy life make new experiences that is what you neeed to do.

VargasVee:
This must be some strong weed

I tell you