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Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by MissRaine69(f): 8:11am On Jul 25, 2017
Perhaps she has had bad experiences have you thought about that?
I would not advocate getting rid of someone when there is the potential of problem solving. Speak to her as one has recommended and explain what's expected of her put her on probation for a month if things do not improve then by all means find a replacement.

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Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by Siddeek: 8:11am On Jul 25, 2017
Just one day she spent you don de complained. Nawao.
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by czaratwork: 8:12am On Jul 25, 2017
she may have had some bad experiences she does not want to repeat or have heard how men lure people to sex by asking them to bring things to their rooms. i think she is just being protective of herself
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by Kobicove(m): 8:13am On Jul 25, 2017
What exactly is her job description?

Did you employ her to just supply you food or to work as a house maid? undecided

You have no business sending her to pick up your clothes or take things to your bedroom which is your personal space.

The fact that other people in the area do it does not make it right

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Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by MissRaine69(f): 8:14am On Jul 25, 2017
MissCokie:
Please let her go now.
Why?
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by EYIBLESSN(m): 8:14am On Jul 25, 2017
Bros
Things are not the way you are seeing it. She is a very conscious person. Let her be. Don't send her away.. Just tell her your intentions.
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by ghettochild(m): 8:18am On Jul 25, 2017
you risking ur life to assign a stranger to ur food. and secondly she thinks entering ur room cd result to her rape

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Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by Nobody: 8:19am On Jul 25, 2017
Na those kain girls day fuck_ pass dog. We know them well well.
For me sha,what I would advise you to do is,you talk to her. If she keeps on with the same attitude, do yourself a favour, sack her. She is just being plain stupid. She be Virgin way she day monkey like that. Nonsense.
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by tonardo(m): 8:21am On Jul 25, 2017
DeGuyNxtDoor:
Greetings my friends.... I actually entrusted my feeding and some other things to a girl I pay well for her services ""#15,000 a month"" (even though she's yet to receive her first pay as I just employed her yesterday). I have a small place at work too where I sleep whenever i worked late hours of the night, so my cloths and a little important belongings are there. In fact, I spent the Sunday there yesterday. {Pics added}


So this morning, I wanted to have breakfast, I asked her to make me some which she did and brought to my room, asked her to come in and she didn't, I had to go to the door my self before she gave me the food with this heavy frown on her face lol, I wondered what the matter could be but still can't remember where I've wronged the girl who's proly in her early 20s. I collected the meal and headed back in to eat before going downstairs to start work. I washed the plates my self when done and she didn't even bring me water which I did my self.


Now yesterday's evening before heading up to sleep, I washed some cloths which I dried outside. Then this afternoon when it was about to rain, I remembered the cloths and called her on phone to go get the cloths for me to avoid it being beaten by the rain. She did actually but brought it straight to my office, imagine! I calmly asked her to take it upstairs where my colleagues have their mini places too. She got the frown as she looked at me with the heap of cloths in her arms, she collected the keys and went upstairs to drop them.

She's gone home already but then, I keep wondering... What's with this attitude of hers? I never did anything to her, I don't even give her much attention or whatever looks like that. But I'm wondering, if she thinks the pay's too small for a girl her age... I'm confused.

op you are a leaner.

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N e x t
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by GuntersChain(m): 8:22am On Jul 25, 2017
You want her to serve you food in your bedroom, so on her way out you will be staring at her bum bum, she is keeping her defense so you won't try anything funny. There might be more to it try and speak with her.

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Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by Generalyemi(m): 8:23am On Jul 25, 2017
DeGuyNxtDoor:
hahahaha... She's sick to harbour such insane thoughts man grin


Hahahaha...I'm far from that.


trust me ,u are not far from that..

she is seducing u already.
u are as well falling ,by wondering were u have gone wrong with her.


is a game played my French Maids in 60s

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Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by Bondesniger(m): 8:24am On Jul 25, 2017
SHE DONT WANT TO SEE YOUR CUCUMBA ONE DAY
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by Godskidk(m): 8:24am On Jul 25, 2017
DeGuyNxtDoor:
Greetings my friends.... I actually entrusted my feeding and some other things to a girl I pay well for her services ""#15,000 a month"" (even though she's yet to receive her first pay as I just employed her yesterday). I have a small place at work too where I sleep whenever i worked late hours of the night, so my cloths and a little important belongings are there. In fact, I spent the Sunday there yesterday. {Pics added}


So this morning, I wanted to have breakfast, I asked her to make me some which she did and brought to my room, asked her to come in and she didn't, I had to go to the door my self before she gave me the food with this heavy frown on her face lol, I wondered what the matter could be but still can't remember where I've wronged the girl who's proly in her early 20s. I collected the meal and headed back in to eat before going downstairs to start work. I washed the plates my self when done and she didn't even bring me water which I did my self.


Now yesterday's evening before heading up to sleep, I washed some cloths which I dried outside. Then this afternoon when it was about to rain, I remembered the cloths and called her on phone to go get the cloths for me to avoid it being beaten by the rain. She did actually but brought it straight to my office, imagine! I calmly asked her to take it upstairs where my colleagues have their mini places too. She got the frown as she looked at me with the heap of cloths in her arms, she collected the keys and went upstairs to drop them.

She's gone home already but then, I keep wondering... What's with this attitude of hers? I never did anything to her, I don't even give her much attention or whatever looks like that. But I'm wondering, if she thinks the pay's too small for a girl her age... I'm confused.

What is this world turning into? She's there, why don't you ask her what the problem is rather than bringing it here on NL. Probably she thinks you're trying to take advantage of her. Just reason things out with her. Talk to her...

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Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by autonomous22: 8:25am On Jul 25, 2017
DeGuyNxtDoor:
Greetings my friends.... I actually entrusted my feeding and some other things to a girl I pay well for her services ""#15,000 a month"" (even though she's yet to receive her first pay as I just employed her yesterday). I have a small place at work too where I sleep whenever i worked late hours of the night, so my cloths and a little important belongings are there. In fact, I spent the Sunday there yesterday. {Pics added}


So this morning, I wanted to have breakfast, I asked her to make me some which she did and brought to my room, asked her to come in and she didn't, I had to go to the door my self before she gave me the food with this heavy frown on her face lol, I wondered what the matter could be but still can't remember where I've wronged the girl who's proly in her early 20s. I collected the meal and headed back in to eat before going downstairs to start work. I washed the plates my self when done and she didn't even bring me water which I did my self.


Now yesterday's evening before heading up to sleep, I washed some cloths which I dried outside. Then this afternoon when it was about to rain, I remembered the cloths and called her on phone to go get the cloths for me to avoid it being beaten by the rain. She did actually but brought it straight to my office, imagine! I calmly asked her to take it upstairs where my colleagues have their mini places too. She got the frown as she looked at me with the heap of cloths in her arms, she collected the keys and went upstairs to drop them.

She's gone home already but then, I keep wondering... What's with this attitude of hers? I never did anything to her, I don't even give her much attention or whatever looks like that. But I'm wondering, if she thinks the pay's too small for a girl her age... I'm confused.

plz don't tink of sacking her yet, just give her sometime n see if she will change, u Neva can tell she might be going tru depression. So just give her time but if she refuses to change den u tink of d next a step.
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by Nobody: 8:26am On Jul 25, 2017
DeGuyNxtDoor:
I was still laying back on my bed then, she knocked and I asked her to come in...how's that wrong?


I didn't even go ahead to force her to come in by asking her to come in (a second time) but rather I went to the door, opened it (cos she didn't even want to open it in the first place) and collected my food. Where did I go wrong?
you are asking where you went wrong, for real undecided, seems you are not on planet earth, I have worked with a perverted 72 years old boss ,so I undersrand how that 'come in' sounds like when you are on the other side of the door as a female empoyee

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Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by ejanla077: 8:26am On Jul 25, 2017
DeGuyNxtDoor:
hahahaha... She's sick to harbour such insane thoughts man grin


Hahahaha...I'm far from that.


wen conji hold u. i hope you remember dis
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by teemy(m): 8:26am On Jul 25, 2017
deguynetdoor, just add up what eyinjuege, dingdang and priceaction said above and fill in the gap. the frowns come only when it has to do with your 'room'. it is better to sit her down to put her mind at rest and if things do not change let her go.
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by kokomaster3d: 8:26am On Jul 25, 2017
I can never trust anybody with food. She can poison you. What stops you from going to restuarant yourself to eat. No matter how busy you are, I mean 30 mins to go out and eat will not kill.

You are paying N15,000/month which is not even equal to the minimum wage and you are saying you pay her well. Tell her the job description first and if she is not ok with that, go find another person. I think you are tasking her too much for just N15,000. Even common messenger earns more than N15,000/month.
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by hibee4uall(m): 8:27am On Jul 25, 2017
All I can deduce from your post above is lack of TRUST...



PLS CHECK MY SIGNATURE. THANKS FOR DOING SO
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by Donjazzy12(m): 8:28am On Jul 25, 2017
DeGuyNxtDoor:
Greetings my friends.... I actually entrusted my feeding and some other things to a girl I pay well for her services ""#15,000 a month"" (even though she's yet to receive her first pay as I just employed her yesterday). I have a small place at work too where I sleep whenever i worked late hours of the night, so my cloths and a little important belongings are there. In fact, I spent the Sunday there yesterday. {Pics added}


So this morning, I wanted to have breakfast, I asked her to make me some which she did and brought to my room, asked her to come in and she didn't, I had to go to the door my self before she gave me the food with this heavy frown on her face lol, I wondered what the matter could be but still can't remember where I've wronged the girl who's proly in her early 20s. I collected the meal and headed back in to eat before going downstairs to start work. I washed the plates my self when done and she didn't even bring me water which I did my self.


Now yesterday's evening before heading up to sleep, I washed some cloths which I dried outside. Then this afternoon when it was about to rain, I remembered the cloths and called her on phone to go get the cloths for me to avoid it being beaten by the rain. She did actually but brought it straight to my office, imagine! I calmly asked her to take it upstairs where my colleagues have their mini places too. She got the frown as she looked at me with the heap of cloths in her arms, she collected the keys and went upstairs to drop them.

She's gone home already but then, I keep wondering... What's with this attitude of hers? I never did anything to her, I don't even give her much attention or whatever looks like that. But I'm wondering, if she thinks the pay's too small for a girl her age... I'm confused.
You are a man, please stop hiring lesbians. Look for straight girls. Though they are few but many of them admire their male bosses secretly and will do any chore with all their hearts to please you. STOP HIRING LESBIANS!

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Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by seguntijan(m): 8:29am On Jul 25, 2017
Did you employ her as a maid or as a professional staff? we tends not to respect labour law in this country. If my boss will send me anything personal he uses the magic words such as "please". Even your PA shouldn't be sent all this useless errands talk of someone you employ for professional work. Guy man up and get married and keep away from sleeping in the office, don't transfer aggression on the poor lady.

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Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by Danzakidakura(m): 8:29am On Jul 25, 2017
deguynextdoor pls don't sack her make inquiry into her past experience with her previous employers she may have a lots to tell you,then you can help her out.
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by kenlinzo(m): 8:30am On Jul 25, 2017
While will admin post this kind of story that doesn't make any sense? Right from the beginning of the story to the end is all rubbish. You refused to tell us what you did to the girl that made her behave strange. Because, i can't imagine somebody i employed and knws her duties before employment would start refraining from her duties without any reasonable reason.

Please tell us what you did to her the first day she brought food or came to sweep ur room before she started refraining from entering ur room?.
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by eraankusam07(m): 8:30am On Jul 25, 2017
Try to discuss with her to know her mind, she may not be happy with the environment. Meanwhile, my brother why wouldn't you go for male servant?
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by Primebuilders(m): 8:31am On Jul 25, 2017
dingbang:
Ehen she thinks you have that tendency to demand sex from her..

Exactly what I think.so just reassure her that she should not be afraid of you demanding sex from her that is ifbu do not have the intension. But from the look of things I no trust you
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by eraankusam07(m): 8:31am On Jul 25, 2017
Try to discuss with her to know her mind, she may not be happy with the environment. Meanwhile, my brother why wouldn't you go for male servant? I suspects lipsrsealed undecided
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by xtivin(m): 8:31am On Jul 25, 2017
Don't sack her!
Don't sack her!!
Don't sack her!!!
You just employed her, watch her for like four days and be nice, there are probably somethings going on in her mind, be gentle and treat her like your sister, try to find out what's wrong if she continues. Life is about undeserved mercy but if she fail to change after your effort,you can take whatever decision on her. God bless you because you sound a good man
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by blaqkyla(f): 8:32am On Jul 25, 2017
DeGuyNxtDoor:
I've been thinking about that but will have a talk with her first before taking any further action.


Thanks bro smiley
NYC 1
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by drnoel: 8:34am On Jul 25, 2017
dingbang:
Ehen she thinks you have that tendency to demand sex from her..

That's what her problem is. She seens herself as a live in something but u don't pay her well enough fot what she does hence the attitude. A difficult situation for u bros, let her go and have ur peace or keep her on then be ready to sign ur demise with all the complications that come with such a situation. Be warned.

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Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by SELFmade7(m): 8:34am On Jul 25, 2017
Why not employ male


And maybe someone is disturbing her in ya house, or maybe what you told her before giving her the job is not what she's seeing or maybe you gave her your boxers to wash, which is not proper no matter what, or maybe




Talk to her nothing de apen
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by cybriz82(m): 8:35am On Jul 25, 2017
DeGuyNxtDoor:
hahahaha... She's sick to harbour such insane thoughts man grin


Hahahaha...I'm far from that.



yes she mit b sick to harbour such thought BT we are not cus we Dnt trust u.body no b firewood n anything can happen.joystick no get respect for him master.
Re: The New Girl I hired Keeps A Frown Whenever She Brings Anything To Me.(photos) by Nobody: 8:35am On Jul 25, 2017
WORDWORLD:


You are welcome! Its good to always put up a POSITIVE CONSTRUCTION when speculating until these options are exhausted then one can start thinking otherwise. And in life its MOST IMPORTANT that whatever kind of relationship one tends to have with another human being, due to privileges at our disposal. WE SHOULD BY ALL MEANS DO OUR BEST NOT TO END IT ON A SORRY NOTE. I mean, a state of unended malice or quarrel. ITS A VERY DANGEROUS SEED FOR THE FUTURE SO UNKNOWN. Lets always learn to forgive and always apply wisdom to all that we do. I wish you the best with your new girl. TREAT HER KINDLY, ALL THAT WE HAVE ARE PRIVILEGES WHICH SHOULD NOT BE ABUSED EXCEPT TO BRING OUT THE BEST IN THE LIFE OF THOSE LESS PRIVILEGED THAN WE ARE BY MAKING LIFE MEANINGFUL TO THEM TOO. What is practiced almost all around the world is MODERN SLAVERY.......In the name of salary that makes you cry.

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