I normally would not do this and have made fun of people who do and here i am!

I somehow dated this girl some years ago in 2011, when i was in NYSC, she was working. She was into me, cos i was a corper doctor and a big catch for her! She had a MSc from the UK and i just felt i wasn't ready to settle and even though she was very pretty and friendly, i was looking for an excuse to call off the whole thing. I was never intimate with her other than a few kisses, no smooching even! Guess i was a slacker!

Anyway, she wanted to marry ASAP, but i was doing NYSC and the Doctor pathway is long , so one thing led to another and she "dumped" me.

However, she kept in touch with me over the years, possibly hoping something could restart or just as a plan B. However, she got hitched in 2014 or 2015, i don't really remember, to some ugly looking guy! Over the time i've had my flings, and not really sure if i believe in love. The point being, i didnt really feel i lost out when she got married. but sometimes when am lonely i wonder maybe i messed up.

Now i'm in the UK and obviously better life and i got to tell her, one of those days when i am lonely and trying to console myself with old girlfriends, cos i'm now single and i feel like i might be single for a long time!

So, the problem is she is excited for me making progress, and eventhough she's "happily married", has twins! She wants to come enjoy my money and spend holiday with me in UK, without her family's knowledge. Initially i was so lonely, i was excited about having a friend over, or even thinking she'll put out...but, its only for a few days and i feel its totally pointless.

Could she be having some ulterior motives or just to chop money! I mean, she's from a very comfortable family herself!

Tell her NO!

Tell her No!!! carry Oyindidi instead



I know the feeling tho.... D thought comes @ times Buh you gotta keep your head straight.

You are the one that is having ulterior motives

she wants to vacate wiv u in yuh dreams....

You know it's wrong. So I don't see the need for this thread. Or you want to tell us about your vacation abi?

Tiffbuxas:
Tell her No!!! carry Oyindidi instead



I know the feeling tho.... D thought comes @ times Buh you gotta keep your head straight.

Who be this?

Hmmmm, plenty why and if running through my head

Oyindidi:
Who be this?

tiffbuxas

Tiffbuxas:
tiffbuxas

you can change monikers for Africa

Oyindidi:
Who be this?

tiffbuxas

makydebbie:
You know it's wrong. So I don't see the need for this thread. Or you want to tell us about your vacation abi?

ma! He's taking Oyindidi already, no space for you o.... Unless I'd have to come along to even the equation

Tiffbuxas:
tiffbuxas

ma! He's taking Oyindidi already, no space for you o.... Unless I'd have to come along to even the equation

I'm not interested. You're derailing this thread

Oyindidi:
you can change monikers for Africa

re u sure you know me??

Tiffbuxas:
re u sure you know me??

what's your old id

Tiffbuxas:
tiffbuxas

ma! He's taking Oyindii already, no space for you o.... Unless I'd have to come along to even the equation

But I'm not interested in the first place.

Put yourself in the husband's shoes. How would you feel if your wife do the same to you. It's totally wrong . She is now a NO go area for you. There are many ladies in the world.

Guyz please i need your votes for the miss FUTA competition by liking my pic. Thanks.


https://www.instagram.com/p/BW7WVqwA_xc/

your brain is stupid. You want to elope with someone's wife. Anuofia

Oyindidi:
what's your old id

tuffpivot

I believe you and I know that you know that I know that you dey lie... haaa... the whole don't just blend at all...


This lie ehn.. I dab for you

OP,
She's bored and needs some adventure.
Remember you slacked when you were a corper.
You cant afford to slack again.

There's nothing to lose and trust me there's no better victory than scoring a girl you wrote off as a 'bad-debt'.

She schooled a bit in the UK so she knows marriage is just a word. You live in the UK too so you know sometimes you gotta shag what you gotta shag.

You gotta shag her bro,
Forget her marital status,
Forget her husband,
Forget her twins.
This is a gift, a rare gift that no man should turn down.
Invite her over, spread her legs really wide and drill her hole like you are searching for crude oil.

You never can't tell, she might end up being your missus

NwaAmaikpe:

Close your mouth and go to bed

Ishilove:

Close your mouth and go to bed

Dear OP,

'My money', 'money', 'shag', 'UK' are all I could pick up from this narration of your fantastic tall tale.

You're obviously looking for attention, because you know, I know and everyone knows that this thread is needless and pointless. You sha want us to know that you're in the UK living a 'better life' and hoping to score some chicks.

Mscheeeewww. Smh

NwaAmaikpe:

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Tiffbuxas:
Tell her No!!! carry Oyindidi instead



I know the feeling tho.... D thought comes @ times Buh you gotta keep your head straight.

Lol, I like this your comments that he should say no and carry Oyindidi instead

U don't have to think about what to tell this lady,simply tell her NO.Remind her that she is married. There are many single ladies looking for guys to hook up with,try and hook up with one if needs be and just maintain ur friendship with the married lady.

Burgerlomo:



Lol, I like this your comments that he should say no and carry Oyindidi instead

Abi na... Plus She single

Sorry for chipping in. tell her no, because wen she com over dere, she must lur u into sleeping with her, den u have don d worst mistake in life. Tnx

Are you that naive or is this you being not very clever?
There are women who are stockbrokers they wait for the right moment to trade. Trade up in your case. So look at things this way has you not done well for yourself would she be interested?
If she really wanted to be with you why did she not wait?
You are encouraging her. When she decided to marry someone else that should have been you cutting strings. Don't be gullible and walk into a trap come to think of it you are half way in cause you sound smitten!

Thanks for the replies.

Sometimes, one acts ignorant and that's when stupid scenarios play out!
This is a true tale and I guess i should just block her number on my truecaller and whatsapp!
I don't want to be locked up in the same apartment with someone who's married to somebody else and she's calling her husband and kids and the risk of in appropriates happening.

Might as well just call a callgirl to the house!