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op I swear u deserve a gold medal.............












it is so annoying to chat up a lady, next thing she will ask is (how did u get my username)................











all this slay fool can't make u like chatting .....................











I stopped chatting with ladies last year on Facebook cos no mata how hard try to keep the conversation going they will make it boring as hell to u..................







what I do on Facebook now is Login, check my news feed, go to some comedy's page, look at pictures, laugh and log out....................










op u wont believe that I have been happy since then............

thepussyhunter:
lol

actually it wasnt for her alone

it includes all her kinda ladies too


good morning

morning bro

thepussyhunter:
dammmmmmmmm!!!!
Heres another real shiiiiii now making it two real shiiiiii in one thread
you just hit the center of gravity with a fvcking dild0 bae!!!
Nice one ma'am........nice one!

was just stating the obvious though thanks

hibiscus76:
the ratio of mature minded people to dúllards on social networks/media isn't even up to 30:70..majority of the dúnces and nitwíts are found in the circle of the supposedly slay queens and internet breakers as they are usually termed, yet they get the most DMs and PMs daily from you guys cuz they're usually seemingly classy and good looking (thanks to makeup). need I tell you how many Hello's and hi's they get on daily basis?? the probability of even noticing your hi is <1 provided they're not the chatty kind , worse still if your profile doesn't depict too much juice and sauce as is their want.

intelligent ladies always ready to keep a conversation going are hardly ever even noticed by you guys cuz most times, they are always never in the league of the said slay queens (that's strictly outta your league if truth be told) you'd never even want to have anything to do with them online

how many of y'all guys would boast of starting conversations for intellectual rather than physical features. Don't you scan a ladies profile and gallery before you initiate a chat?? I bet y'all don't initiate chats with every Eve, Sarah and Delilah you come across on social Media.
Same way we choose who to or who not to reply to.
Don't come here ranting and crying wolf probably because you expected a particular lady to reply you and she pricked your ego...how about those ladies in your list that eagerly hope to get a Hi and from you and never gets it??
The issue of social relations online isn't a gender affair..its personal
and most of all, IT'S NOT BY FORCE TO CHAT WITH ANYBODY, THEY DIDN'T BEG FOR YOUR HI AND THEY'RE NOT OWING YOU ANY OBLIGATIONS WHATSOEVER TO ALWAYS REPLY YOU IN A MANNER THAT HUNGERS YOU.
if one lady doesn't honor your chat request, try the next person and stop labelling us saddists

my sis you raised a different issue all together
You are talking about snobbish ladies
Op was talking about ladies that can hardly hold a conversation

Difference is a snobbish lady don't want to hold a conversation. While the other lady does not know how to hold one

Sometimes it is not just about girls you meet on a faceless forum, some girls are just like that in real life

I think you hit the nail on the head on one point though, which is most of those guys complaining are responsible for what they attract

sunshineG:
my sis you raised a different issue all together
You are talking about snobbish ladies
Op was talking about ladies that can hardly hold a conversation

Difference is a snobbish lady don't want to hold a conversation. While the other lady does not know how to hold one

Someone times it is not about girls you meet on a faceless forum, some girls are just like that in real life

I think you hit the nail on the head on one point though, which is most of those guys complaining are responsible for what they attract

well then, you should know that most times, chats are motivated by the spur of the moment, I mean not every lady you meet online is a nethead, responding to every dîck and Harry. you bet she doesn't respond the same way to everyone, she needs you to spark her area of interest and you'll see her flowing. there are some who wouldn't respond once its obvious the chats is down to a flubdub as the case may be...
have you thought about your timing?? for all I know I might not be in the mood for a long chat when you've infact just suscribed and hyperactively expect a swell chat..you might just get disappointed..your leisure time might be my logout time.

My point is, EVERYONE IS NOT ALWAYS IN THE MOOD EVERY TIME TO HOLD UP CONVERSATIONS.

RaggedyAnn:
So, I'm guessing that you pride yourself on your own intellectual capacity; yet, you've started a thread that shows your absolute ignorance about relativity and compatibility.

A lot of Nigerian girls feel the same way about Nigerian guys; we find a lot of you uninteresting. They're cast in a limited number of predictable moulds: the up-coming artist types (loud, gregarious, and thinks foul language is cool); the born-again types (calm, judgmental, grooming their victims for marriage); the father-types (condescending); and the rare-exceptions that can surprise you in a variety of ways. Not all of them appeal to a Nigerian woman. But instead of saying that Nigerian guys are lame, we accept that we aren't compatible with particular ones. Even a sense of humor isn't universal, that's why not all comics appeal to you. You might consider yourself funny, while she just thinks you're lousy.

About content of conversation, we have been hard wired to accept a few topics as 'intellectual material' - politics, technology, even sport. While fashion, art and culture are just trivia. Who decides what is intellectual content? Another victim of our long standing patriarchy. Women have to make an effort to educate themselves on issues that men are comfortable with - and they do! But that isn't a yard stick for their intelligence (because intelligence is only the capacity for aptitude. ANY aptitude). Men, on the other hand, consider it degrading to keep themselves abreast on the latest fashion fads. That's okay. But don't say we are the ones that aren't versatile or flexible. Just accept that you and a lot of Nigerian girls have differing interests.

Some Nigerian guys - the ones who are well rounded - can tell you that a lot of Nigerian girls are really interesting. Especially, since a lot of them have no filter and can be really brash. If you haven't clicked with anyone yet, just embrace your own weirdness, and accept that you're barking up the wrong tree. Then move on to the next.

Ouch!

I take it upon myself to award the full point to @RaggedyAnn who has skewered my poor fellow Nigerian guys with her submissions, she deserves first place if not for facts then for presentation.

_{Someone please come pick up the dead bodies...}

hibiscus76:
well then, you should know that most times, chats are motivated by the spur of the moment, I mean not every lady you meet online is a nethead, responding to every dîck and Harry. you bet she doesn't respond the same way to everyone, she needs you to spark her area of interest and you'll see her flowing. there are some who wouldn't respond once its obvious the chats is down to a flubdub as the case may be...
have you thought about your timing?? for all I know I might not be in the mood for a long chat when you've infact just suscribed and hyperactively expect a swell chat..you might just get disappointed..your leisure time might be my logout time.

My point is, EVERYONE IS NOT ALWAYS IN THE MOOD EVERY TIME TO HOLD UP CONVERSATIONS.

hmmm
So what will you do if your are at the receiving end of such snobbish attitude due to the mood of a guy?
How will it make you feel?
Will you want to exchange greetings with him again?

I still think a lady could at least respond to greetings no matter what mood she finds herself
Cause nobody likes to suffer rejection, even ladies
Although it is down to each person to choose when to associate
I think it is nice to at least exchange greetings with people who wants to hold a conversation
With you

After all it takes a lot of courage and good will to say hi to a stranger. I think doing the same in exchange will not be a bad thing

sunshineG:
hmmm
So what will do if your are at the receiving end of such snobbish attitude due to the mood of a guy?
How will it make you feel?
Will you want to exchange greetings with him again?

I still think a lady could at least respond to greetings no matter what mood she finds herself
Cause nobody likes to suffer rejection, even ladies
Although it is down to each person to choose when to associate
I think it is nice to at least exchange greetings with people who wants to hold a conversation
With you

After all it takes a lot of courage and good will to say hi to a stranger. I think doing the same in exchange will not be a thing

responding to your greetings when not in the mood is worse than not even replying you at all. you'll get a 'k' for every compliment and along the line, they'll leave you hanging like you just wasted your time. moreover the bone of contention here isn't about exchanging greetings. its about holding convos

hibiscus76:
responding to your greetings when not in the mood is worse than not even replying you at all. you'll get a 'k' for every compliment and along the line, they'll leave you hanging like you just wasted your time. moreover the bone of contention of this thread isn't about exchanging greetings. its about holding convos

yes I see
But the bone of contention was not about snobbish ladies either
I think you will have to move pass getting to hold conversation,
You raised an issue about greetings and pms in one of your previous post, which I taught also deviated from the issue being discussed on the thread

So I guess we both deviated
Peace sis

sunshineG:
yes I see
But the bone of contention was not about snobbish ladies either
I think you will have to move pass getting to hold conversation,
You raised an issue about greetings and pms in one of your previous post, which I taught also deviated from the issue being discussed on the thread

So I guess we both deviated
Peace sis

yeah prolly we both deviated except you called me to order at first and after I took your correction you went down the same valley you pulled me out of..peace Bro

olaboy1:
I always tell my friends to work out, dress good and maintain proper hygiene, you don't have to be rich to get many ladies drooling over you because the competition is just not there.

Many beta men and women who have found themselves locked in a complete crooked state of chasing desires and wants, whilst the beta men are busy chasing sexual desires, there female counterparts are positioned in an unperturbed mind set of fulfilling personal wants.

Online dating for many women is just to get validation and many likes, my question is would the world come to an end if guys don't validate them. Many guys are hooking up with women applying law of least effort, so if a girl is giving u kkk replies, just do royal flush by calling her out and let her know she is getting so boring or delete and move on.

Keep in mind many ladies get trailer load of PM's online, don't be that guy who chats her up when she is bored, that's what Netflix is for. Invite her out on a date immediately and if she doesn't consider the prospect of a date, bruv move on.

dOPE, just DopE!

I get madder at guys for getting marooned on the "kkk island" especially when they give up in frustration and start bad-mouthing the girls, making wrong conclusions that make the process of befriending her harder, considering the fact that their ulterior motives too, were never that pure in the first place.

On a serious note, many guys easily fall for the lure of objectifying women in our over-sexualized culture to the point of not being able to relate to them, on any other premise, except that of banging them, not knowing that while scheming with minds on such frequencies might make their game very basic in expectations but it also makes for the girls to out them easily on their false intentions; and cash-strapped, swag-less and uncreative dudes are often the worse off when that happens.

Online Dating itself can be so over-rated atimes. Some even say the real world should hold enough fun and fascination for anyone not willing to take stupid risks or wade thru rivers and rivers of slimey lies but hey, who's to judge?

Online or not,, I feel there's much to savor in the chase, much to learn in the pursuits, much to know in the journey which should make conversational and baiting skills the first of any dating skills a guy should hone. Boys often forget girls are more relational than them, not necessarily moved visually but often more accessible through word-plays on their minds. Boys see that as a long boring process instead. They wanna cut straight to the chyking and sharp girls, who're oft always on the receiving end, sniff them out from 10-furking miles off and just kkk' them off .

If we dispense with the process, we lose opportunities to create great memories and of course, that makes us no better than goats rutting mindlessly once on heat. I don't like that yet 50Cents seems to have a different opinion because another breed of chicks go for all-sex-no-hugs! I believe it's all about being ready, flexible, creative and loaded enough to create whatever illusions are necessary to trip your babe.

sooo you know all this and yet you keep chasing them..inferiority complex is a disease..

shinarlaura:
Goodmorning hun.

How was ur night?

Hope nothing bad happened

me night was awesome..............thanks love for asking


How was day btw?

thepussyhunter:
me night was awesome..............thanks love for asking


How was day btw?

My day is going on well.

Are u back from work?

shinarlaura:
My day is going on well.

Are u back from work?

yeah bae dats why i decided to log in..........was busy at work today and had no time to spare for nl........



So errmmm you kinda promised to cook me a traditional meal....preferably one i haven't eaten before

which is it gonna be

optional1:
Nigerian guys are just too broke and lazy to work their soul out.










In sambisa forest come and beat me, if you are damn broke quote me.


Note: i don't reply dumb broke ass nigga, so shift biko. Too early

Yekpa!!!
Any guy that spends more than 7h on this one before fvcking her is a big mumu. See human beign face abeg

thepussyhunter:
yeah bae dats why i decided to log in..........was busy at work today and had no time to spare for nl........



So errmmm you kinda promised to cook me a traditional meal....preferably one i haven't eaten before

which is it gonna be

Hope work was less stressful.


I always fulfill my promises........

I already did.

Am waiting for u

kullozone:
Yekpa!!!
Any guy that spends more than 7h on this one before fvcking her is a big mumu. See human beign face abeg

ehya sorry oh take heart but don't you think 7h is too far why not 5m

I think 5m is d best

shinarlaura:
Hope work was less stressful.


I always fulfill my promises........

I already did.

Am waiting for u

yea it was even though i had much paper work to do






sso where are we gonna eat cos i'm on me way ASAP

thepussyhunter:
yea it was even though i had much paper work to do






sso where are we gonna eat cos i'm on me way ASAP

Sorry. I think u need some warm massage.......

No outing today. Eating will be done at home

hibiscus76:
the ratio of mature minded people to dúllards on social networks/media isn't even up to 30:70..majority of the dúnces and nitwíts are found in the circle of the supposedly slay queens and internet breakers as they are usually termed, yet they get the most DMs and PMs daily from you guys cuz they're usually seemingly classy and good looking (thanks to makeup). need I tell you how many Hello's and hi's they get on daily basis?? the probability of even noticing your hi is <1 provided they're not the chatty kind , worse still if your profile doesn't depict too much juice and sauce as is their want.

intelligent ladies always ready to keep a conversation going are hardly ever even noticed by you guys cuz most times, they are always never in the league of the said slay queens (that's strictly outta your league if truth be told) you'd never even want to have anything to do with them online

how many of y'all guys would boast of starting conversations for intellectual rather than physical features. Don't you scan a ladies profile and gallery before you initiate a chat?? I bet y'all don't initiate chats with every Eve, Sarah and Delilah you come across on social Media.
Same way we choose who to or who not to reply to.
Don't come here ranting and crying wolf probably because you expected a particular lady to reply you and she pricked your ego...how about those ladies in your list that eagerly hope to get a Hi and from you and never gets it??
The issue of social relations online isn't a gender affair..its personal
and most of all, IT'S NOT BY FORCE TO CHAT WITH ANYBODY, THEY DIDN'T BEG FOR YOUR HI AND THEY'RE NOT OWING YOU ANY OBLIGATIONS WHATSOEVER TO ALWAYS REPLY YOU IN A MANNER THAT HUNGERS YOU.
if one lady doesn't honor your chat request, try the next person and stop labelling us saddists

Truth!

shinarlaura:
Sorry. I think u need some warm massage.......

No outing today. Eating will be done at home

lol

anything you say bae......you're the boss






but errrm you know i like eating in da bedroom .........how about we go there

thepussyhunter:
lol

anything you say bae......you're the boss






but errrm you know i like eating in da bedroom .........how about we go there

No no no. You re the boss. Ur wish is my command.

Let's go

shinarlaura:
No no no. You re the boss. Ur wish is my command.

Let's go

hehehehe i'm way ahead of you bae

good morning hun

thepussyhunter:
hehehehe i'm way ahead of you bae

good morning hun

Goodmorning hun. How was ur night?

14dfuture:
Have you ever tried chatting Nigerian girls on dating sites and social media like Facebook, badoo, palm chat etc then you must have noticed this.

Nigerian girls are very boring and annoying when it comes to holding up a conversation online.

Firstly you check out their profile some will write "Not here for hookups just want to chat" but when you go ahead to start a conversation with them all their responds is restricted to ; Yes, OK, fine, lol, k, kk, smiles and the use of annoying smilies that doesn't even match the conversation

all these will make you start to wonder what do these girls really want here? What are they doing here? they dont want to hookup and yet also cannot hold a conversation. They wrote on their profile, not for hookups but when it comes to contributing and responding to an intellectual conversation they are found wanting and inconsistent,

they lack sense of humor they can't even make you smile let alone laugh they are just like robots on automatic answer without brain or reason. Or is it that only guys are meant to do the talking alone?

why is the brain of a Nigerian girl always hardwired to think that a guy should do every little damm thing for them? thank God they know how to upload pictures aside that they are useless online and wants you to send them recharge card to buy data so that they can be more Useless.

please ladies define your purpose online. Recharge card is not everything, you can put a smile on someone's face through your chat its not always about you, you can be a good friend and give good advice and opinion.

Not every guy wants to bleep you some just want someone different to talk to. Work on your sense of humor, you can be forward in a conversation don't always wait to be fed all the time in everything.

HAHAHAHA ...!
im mainly a sadist

Ladies are the most hypocritical set of beings, only the few have been able to get past it, lame,sick, rigid and uptight responses, throw a diss word at them and you would be surpised with the speed they would use in conjuring words as a clap back

This is true to some extent, but not all, mostly those that don't love you.

shinarlaura:
Goodmorning hun. How was ur night?

my night was great........dreamt of you all through

trust you enjoyed your beauty sleep too


hey hows the modelling going