Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,152,814 members, 7,817,359 topics. Date: Saturday, 04 May 2024 at 10:55 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men (31649 Views)
It Costs Too Much To Have A Side Chick - Man Advises Other Men / Somali Man Weds Two Women At Once In Kenya, Encourages Other Men To Do Same / Nigeria Man Advise Other Men To Stop Paying Their Girlfriends Monthly Salary (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by Nobody: 2:04am On Jul 28, 2017 |
Word |
Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by ikp120(m): 2:16am On Jul 28, 2017 |
luswitz:But what he said is very true. I guess you're offended by it because it's too raw and straight to the point. He didn't sugarcoat it. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by AreaFada2: 2:28am On Jul 28, 2017 |
luswitz:Sadly my sister, the dude has a point, to my dismay. Too many women have made it clear that money and materialism are their priorities. Too many. It might not ring a bell with hardworking, dedicated & focused ladies out there but guys in the field have this experience. In fact some guys as young as 21 now take it as a philosophy to make money above everything else. Because lack of money has been used to taunt them constantly by girls. Some even see their sweetheart being cornered by a much older married rich guy. I once jokingly told a girl that I thought was very educated & level-headed that materialism is becoming too much and a guy should not be judged by his pocket only. Next thing she said was "go & make money like your mates". I was shocked. I did not complain about my economic fortunes & I did not indicate any interest in dating her. We were talking about a friend whose fiancee was planning an outrageous wedding that was economically way out of their league. My guy was already panicking. And the bride-to-be was already showing attitude each time my guy cautioned on cost. By the way, it takes two to tango. I doubt most guys set out to maltreat or to be mean. But whatever, if a relationship has become too toxic, I see no point in continuing it. 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by Nobody: 2:29am On Jul 28, 2017 |
I must admit, OP is right but what I experienced in the hands of my ex almost made me hate ladies. I gave her all the love and care nobody can give her. Though I didn't have much then, the little I hustled and toiled for, I shared with her. -She was a money freak -She pours her anger at me if she's broke or someone annoys her -I beg her to call or text me -She stopped showing me love when rich guys were all over her. -What I find painful is she telling a guy over the phone 'I love you' in my presence So all this women stories on how to treat them is a huge scam to make guys stop using women as intimacy gadgets. It will continue like this till when loyalty is in the relationship and hearts are not been broken so wickedly. The plain truth is that, if you treat a woman so much with love, she would think you can't do without her. No matter how good your woman is or how good you treat her, she has a plan B. So guys dont be fooled. I will strongly advice that you treat your woman the way she treats you(likewise ladies, treat your man the way he treats you) Let her feel the love or pain she gives you. Only God treats us with so much love even when we don't love him. Even if your woman leaves you, plead with her for some weeks. If no good response, then move on and work on your life. Love ain't stingy or self-centered. You have goals to achieve and money to get. When you get there. Worry not on women. They will hunger to bear your last name Shalom!! #SuccessSelffie @TribbIsland 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by 989900: 2:31am On Jul 28, 2017 |
Runs to another man, man gets bored, runs to another man, rinse, repeat. 7 Likes |
Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by Donald2368: 2:35am On Jul 28, 2017 |
its true. |
Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by princemartinsG(m): 2:57am On Jul 28, 2017 |
For Young Adults In a relationship with opposite sex Let's get our priority and focus right True relationship is more beyond sex and mundane pleasures True Relationship involves seeking that both patners succeed in life and achieve their optimal best potentials in life When people enter relationship majorly for amorous considerations and mundane pleasures, the man stands to later become rash and harrassing, thus making the woman vulnerable, feeling a sense of unaccomplishment, lost of succour and need to seek a more promising relationship prospect from other ever-present suitors When a man and a woman enters relationship with lofty aim to impart each other's life positively even beyond sex, the man will never maltreat the woman and the woman will never wish to leave his man's arm In positive rships positive adults pursue positive long term mutual satisfaction Young People kindly stay away from pre-marital sex. VOTE FOR POSITIVE CHANGE. 1 Like 2 Shares
|
Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by Burgerlomo: 3:08am On Jul 28, 2017 |
Dobxy: So what is the outcome? How do you get over it? |
Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by UnimkeAk(m): 3:15am On Jul 28, 2017 |
Xcelinteriors:Queen ke, How can somebody happiness be tied to someone else? Let the ladies keep jumping from guys to guys na, Naso her body count go dey increase... Is it my fussy? Guys that would do all sort of nice things to bang a girl, The dude might even b worse than ur ex. If u are of this school of thought... I bet u, ull come here to create threads about all men being the same. Guys be nice to ur ladies but dont kill ur sef, Haba 2 Likes |
Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by Burgerlomo: 3:16am On Jul 28, 2017 |
You're absolutely right. |
Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by zynzyn(m): 3:25am On Jul 28, 2017 |
A woman who is shown care and all is still finding her way into other men's arms let alone the one you are battering or not giving little of your time just to put smiles on her face. GBAM!! So WHY BOTHER MYSELF??! Any man who WILL DO ANYTHING to please a woman of today (and not his God) is setting himself up for either becoming a hypertension patient or even a murderer or suicidal!! I don talk my own! 2 Likes |
Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by Nobody: 3:32am On Jul 28, 2017 |
Why do I think this is Bisi's story? Anyways, it is one sided.... 1 Like |
Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by Adminisher: 3:49am On Jul 28, 2017 |
" When you maltreatment her, she becomes available to other men" . This is the very definition of ashewoism 2 Likes |
Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by Nobody: 3:50am On Jul 28, 2017 |
She's available to other men while she's in a relationship ONLY because she's a slut. There are things called divorce and breakups. 3 Likes |
Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by JaffyJoe(m): 3:50am On Jul 28, 2017 |
What if you are unfazed whether she becomes available to other man/men? 4 Likes |
Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by Josephamstrong1(m): 4:06am On Jul 28, 2017 |
I had wanted to overlook this buh no. It's high time all these biased and adulterated threads wtout ISBN about girls blablabla be scrutinised b4 serving to the public. Your thread is so biasd. You just brought me down the Memory Lane...buh that's okay. "Diochi anaghi akọcha ihe anya ya hụrụ n'elu nkwu." The palm wine tapper does not reveal all he saw on the palm tree. What you posted is simply overrated. I've seen guys done much more better, yet their girlfriends will still be cheating behind or better still leave them for sm other. These same girls shouting... "nice one" lol. The start gets sweeter, no girl is bad in her eyes... Nah. Buh sm are emotional abusers. "Ahapụ otele nyụrụ ahụ, avụọ isi ọkpọ." The anus that farted is left alone but the head receives the knock . Funny enough most guys don't know that they're being abused too. They man it up and the girls go on defense. Have you ever cried for a girl? Well, thank God for the later, made me kw we still have mature, sensible girls out there. Most girls are sooooo confused. God! I don't know, I don't just know. Things dey happen shaa. Meanwhile, a man can't use because of gunshots and refuse to go to war. We'll keep loving till that virtuouswoman comes. Every girl claims virtuous when the going is sweeter buh we kw the truth. "Ji gwu n'ọba, nwanyi azaba oku ike. When there are no yams in the barn, the woman becomes hostile and in-subordinate." What you wrote should be 50:50. Ain't caught up with this cowdung meen. K'emesianu. #sips my palm wine copiously. 7 Likes 2 Shares
|
Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by chibuzorAbia: 4:09am On Jul 28, 2017 |
JaffyJoe: Chop nuckle my friend, chop nuckle! 1 Like |
Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by chibuzorAbia: 4:13am On Jul 28, 2017 |
Some guy above me "When there are no yams in the barn, the woman becomes hostile and insorbodinate!" GBAM! 1 Like |
Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by emelda86(f): 4:16am On Jul 28, 2017 |
Loud it.....yes I'm shouting |
Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by praise1705(f): 4:32am On Jul 28, 2017 |
not for all women tho, good women 1 Like |
Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by immazion972: 4:50am On Jul 28, 2017 |
you said lack of care and not fulfilling their desire sexualy and other wise ooook I agree but since Almighty God cannot do that for ladies is it a man who can do it |
Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by Nobody: 4:58am On Jul 28, 2017 |
goingape1: 1 carton of your fav drink for bro, seun go pay. 1 Like |
Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by Tajbol4splend(m): 5:06am On Jul 28, 2017 |
Xcelinteriors: A queen ba? |
Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by Roselilly(f): 5:15am On Jul 28, 2017 |
I feel like this is my story, & wat i hv been thru & i ended up living cos i couldnt tk it anymore. Its nt nice at all wen u are taken for granted. |
Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by I888(m): 5:16am On Jul 28, 2017 |
Jaqenhghar: Most of them like being treated like trash. |
Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by Nobody: 5:17am On Jul 28, 2017 |
Make she go now -what's this craze all about what of when she maltreats him what happens? |
Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by Donjazzy12(m): 5:17am On Jul 28, 2017 |
bamisepeters:Op remove male from your profile, please. What type of rubbish is this? I am so so disappointed in you as a man completely. Now do this. Compare the treatment for ladies now and how our fore fathers treated them. Which one is better? Now this question is for you. Inspite of the fact that our generation treats women better, how come more and more women are turning to lesbians and divorcees? A woman needs s man who she can respect and love, who knows his value, not a wimp who worships her. Yes, love your woman but don't demand less. 2 Likes |
Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by cardoctor(m): 5:19am On Jul 28, 2017 |
Xcelinteriors: Forget that krap. Wait for your turn. |
Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by businessman7(m): 5:23am On Jul 28, 2017 |
You can never satisfy them pamper them they would take you for granted I'm currently going through one |
Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by NARYZ(f): 5:28am On Jul 28, 2017 |
Refill your cooking-gas and buy cooking-gas cylinders online #Abuja. We deliver cooking-gas to your door step in the shortest possible time. Visit www.gazhub.com to place your order. Customer Care Numbers- 09081777795,09080777795,09086GAZHUB, |
Re: When You Maltreat Her She Becomes Available To Other Men by castro(m): 5:31am On Jul 28, 2017 |
Op it is obvious that u dont really understand women especially the Nigerian woman. She seeks money n comfort from as many places as possible at d same time whether u treat her nicely or not. It is the ones with self discipline that would stick with u when they make up their mind to do so. Let's face it, how much time,love n care can ureally give a woman to make her stick with u in this era of Facebook, whatsapp n internet not to talk of when she is beautiful n an undergraduate? She will do whatever pleases her even if u are an angel. 3 Likes |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (Reply)
University Of Ghana Student Apologizes For Flogging Her Cheating Boyfriend / UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: Chosen. / My Pre-wedding Pics
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 58 |