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Benita27:
Your opinion. Don't stress it!.

It isn't my opinion.



It's the obvious truth.


Damaging a car or seizing the cars keys which is easier ?
.



If she bought the car

boiz2men:
It isn't my opinion.



It's the obvious truth.


Damaging a car or seizing the cars keys which is easier ?
.



If she bought the car

"Truth" is subjective. I repeat it's your opinion just as I made mine so let's not talk about that.

VargasVee:
When I meet girls with anger issues

And Egomanics.

angels09:
you assumed too much...as I did about benita27

Nah I don't know what you on about but I read it off one of her comments.



She could be anything.


Its her life, her business.... I care not

is it? I do expect much positivity from people. And I will like to believe you still have it in you. Your posts today is a huge departure from who I have come to know you to be. Try to overcome evil with good...it is in you. Don't let the evil ones rob you of your pleasantness ...arise and shine for the creation earnestly awaits your manifestation as a child of the Most High.

much regards.

Benita27:
Lol, don't expect too much from people. I know this account is an alternate so spare of what you assumed.

angels09:
is it? I do expect much positivity from people. And I will like to believe you still have it in you. Your posts today is a huge departure from who I have come to know you to be. Try to overcome evil with good...it is in you. Don't let the evil ones rob you of your pleasantness ...arise and shine for the creation earnestly awaits your manifestation as a child of the Most High.

much regards.

What's evil to you?, having the guy's car smatched?. I guess cheating isn't evil to you therefore shouldn't be condemned?. Anyway, he deserved what he got and if I were in her shoes I'd have done same.

Lalas247:
One of my favourite shows
You know that presenter has been stabbed a few times .. some people were not happy about the bust
Yh well the ladies there go crazy saw one that slapped wisdom into the guy .. Na so she they beat hubby n side chic together now threw all his things out told him to be going the excuse for cheating was ( she works too much ) imagine this guy has no job oh
I think I know the episode you're on about

not surprised to hear he was stabbed.wetin he dey do na very dangerious profession.if to say na naija he dey do such show guys for don arrange im matter tey tey for spoiling their parole

you were in her shoes and played different. cheers

Benita27:
What's evil to you?, having the guy's car smatched?. I guess cheating isn't evil to you therefore shouldn't be condemned?. Anyway, he deserved what he got and if I were in her shoes I'd have done same.

Benita27:
I can't be in a relationship knowing the guy I'm with is a serial cheat. He couldn't have begged 'cause he once told me the day he finds out I'm cheating on him, I may not like what he'll do. I returned the favour when I caught him but never went violent with it. I could have destroyed his car too but on a second thought, there was nothing to lose.

Serious Benita27 your guy (now ex guy) was a bad example. Me i know say if na me, you wont leave. You go just dey cry dey ask why, why, and the way i go spoil you, anytime you need something badly, you go begin target my phone dey pray sef say i stray small make you see something to hold onto. Also, i am not talking about serial cheats, that one na dog, that should be thrown into the garbage. You just had a bad example. You and lalas247 should get me right oh, see here, those that cheat with their partner's sister, friend, cousin etc that one is a dog and a lady that does not leave that guy alone even after marriage is a fool. These are very very bad examples, personally i cannot be friends with a serial cheat or someone that is even thinking about cheating with his gf's sister, cousin or friend, mba,mba, that is a no-no or even with a married woman. I have two stories for you, 1. When "women" prevailed on Hilary to divorce Bill, you know what her reasons where for not divorcing him? No one in the world, makes her happier, laugh, loved etc like he does, and she just could not leave him. 2. I have this igbo married lady friend, (classmates in a masters programme) she talks raw and she is very open and direct, (infact the first time she invited me over to eat i declined cos her husband had travelled, until i got to really know her) she gets asked out all the time by guys but she is committed to her marriage. Its just not in her dna to even in her remote brain think of cheating on her husband, yet, when her husband is travelling overseas she puts condoms in his bag and when he protests, she will warn him that she will stab him if he should bring any disease to her. He gisted me about his escapades one day, she was right about him yet she will never ever stray. So ladies, pick your battles, a guy that dated or will date a married woman, run away, a guy that will date your friend, or cousin, run, kids school teacher run... The dna naija guy mentality that i am guilty of that i am referring to is the chance occurrence, remote, that is just "one of those things....

You no dey shame babe...

Lalas247:
Hian

Yeah, lalas247, make you understand the clear distinction between wetin i dey talk and wetin Martin0 dey talk. It is not in naija man's dna to date his partner's sister, cousin, friend or other married women. That is so WRONG. Yes, that one na dog that should be thrown into LAWMA truck. I am talking about the responsible naija man wey just stray small due to wahala for house, long distance travel, cold for Wales, etc.

Organs:
Ok. I see. That means prior, anything that suits your fancy goes. That is why benita27 and Lalas247 and all other ladies think Naija men that cheat are "dogs". Bros, before you dey another level, me i nogo lie, i be naija man proper, but, my partner's sister or friend sef can be naked with me in a room and i will not be moved. "walahi, talahi, i am serious. As long as i am sleeping with a lady, her sister, friend, cousin etc sexually becomes like my own sister. I will not even see all those things because its like looking at my own sister. I don't know, maybe its the islamic way of raising kids, or the yoruba or hausa culturally way of distinguishing between male and female, young and old, what is sexually acceptable and unacceptable and the islamic subtle "sex education" not explicitly mentioned but taught and you grow up with very healthy sexual orientation and behaviour.

I basically don't understand what you just typed ??

My point was understandable that you can reply it...
Do you know that men can admire multiple ladies?

Well no need to talk more about this
You are not direct I mean your comment are missed with lies..

Organs:
Ok. I see. That means prior, anything that suits your fancy goes. That is why benita27 and Lalas247 and all other ladies think Naija men that cheat are "dogs". Bros, before you dey another level, me i nogo lie, i be naija man proper, but, my partner's sister or friend sef can be naked with me in a room and i will not be moved. "walahi, talahi, i am serious. As long as i am sleeping with a lady, her sister, friend, cousin etc sexually becomes like my own sister. I will not even see all those things because its like looking at my own sister. I don't know, maybe its the islamic way of raising kids, or the yoruba or hausa culturally way of distinguishing between male and female, young and old, what is sexually acceptable and unacceptable and the islamic subtle "sex education" not explicitly mentioned but taught and you grow up with very healthy sexual orientation and behaviour.

You just understand me in a differently manner

I can't believ that

Organs:
Yeah, lalas247, make you understand the clear distinction between wetin i dey talk and wetin Martin0 dey talk. It is not in naija man's dna to date his partner's sister, cousin, friend or other married women. That is so WRONG. Yes, that one na dog that should be thrown into LAWMA truck. I am talking about the responsible naija man wey just stray small due to wahala for house, long distance travel, cold for Wales, etc.

I basically don't understand you anymore it seems talking to you needed illustration!!!

I can't imagine you actually understood me in a different way..try to leav those girls out of my opinion!!!

Thanks for the convers it a pleasure talking with you thanks!!!!!!

Organs:
Serious Ben.ita27 your guy (now ex guy) was a bad example. Me i know say if na me, you wont leave. You go just dey cry dey ask why, why, and the way i go spoil you, anytime you need something badly, you go begin target my phone dey pray sef say i stray small make you see something to hold onto. Also, i am not talking about serial cheats, that one na dog, that should be thrown into the garbage. You just had a bad example. You and lala.s247 should get me right oh, see here, those that cheat with their partner's sister, friend, cousin etc that one is a dog and a lady that does not leave that guy alone even after marriage is a fool. These are very very bad examples, personally i cannot be friends with a serial cheat or someone that is even thinking about cheating with his gf's sister, cousin or friend, mba,mba, that is a no-no or even with a married woman. I have two stories for you, 1. When "women" prevailed on Hilary to divorce Bill, you know what her reasons where for not divorcing him? No one in the world, makes her happier, laugh, loved etc like he does, and she just could not leave him. 2. I have this igbo married lady friend, (classmates in a masters programme) she talks raw and she is very open and direct, (infact the first time she invited me over to eat i declined cos her husband had travelled, until i got to really know her) she gets asked out all the time by guys but she is committed to her marriage. Its just not in her dna to even in her remote brain think of cheating on her husband, yet, when her husband is travelling overseas she puts condoms in his bag and when he protests, she will warn him that she will stab him if he should bring any disease to her. He gisted me about his escapades one day, she was right about him yet she will never ever stray. So ladies, pick your battles, a guy that dated or will date a married woman, run away, a guy that will date your friend, or cousin, run, kids school teacher run... The dna naija guy mentality that i am guilty of that i am referring to is the chance occurrence, remote, that is just "one of those things....

I don't get you. What are you proposing here?.

boiz2men:
I have always found you intelligent . but this thing you typed is thrash.



What could she have invested in the life of a guy who can afford a jeep..

Her pvssy?


Your comment would make sense if she bought the car.. But its obvious she didn't

Ok, i dey wonder why girls node like date chewing gum boys like you. Lack of maturity. I can swear say dem no born you well to even ask that girl for her number, that Camry wey she dey drive go put you for your level. It shows na groundnut sellers you dey follow upandown, dem go soon arrest you for child abuse, cos those girls are like 15, 16yrs..

Benita27:
All these guys bashing her. Do you know if she has invested much into the relationship to get cheated on as reward?. Clearly, a lady who has much to lose does this. I'd do same if have got much to lose, while I walk away if there's nothing to lose.

Invest ko Invest ni ......a reasonable human being invests in a business and insures it against risk.
All ye feminists won't address the issue of whether the lady possesses bad qualities, or is forcing herself on the poor niger, or possesses a domineering spirit. No all they know is that he 'cheated'.
My sister if 2 people are NOT MARRIED, there can't be anything like cheating......GOODNIGHT.

Benita27:
STFU, and keep your silly subjective advice to yourself.

Hypocrisy is when you condemn the girl's actions but think the guy has the right to cheat on her. If she had cheated and got a worse treatment from this guy, people like you would have praised him for dealing with a cheating slayqueen. Don't you think catching him cheating while they're still dating saves her of a "Dog" she would have ended up with as a future husband?. Serves the cheating bastard right!.

damn. This one is extra dumb!

Benita27:
I don't get you. What are you proposing here?.

What i am proposing is that Cheating get level. Do not put "dogs" that cheat with their partner's friends, sisters, married women etc into the same basket as the responsible man that attended a seminar in Dubai and had a chance occurrence with the seminar instructor.

bigcil2:
And Egomanics.

lefulefu:
na mind ban ur moniker?
i saw dat ur quote about u promising to share recharge cards here wen he gets sacked
dat day go call for big owambe celebration i guess

All these qualities are found in a Lagos babe.......I've been there for 4 yrs...talkn from experience

instead of her to go on her knees pray for him to change,Only God can change him, no need to destroy his car....PRAY Change everything

Angelcute:
why she no scatter the man body join....thumbs up...she did well

She don scatter car, help her go scatter d man.


#Daughter of jezbel

amakadihot87:
........hahaha...... y did u slap her na

. She no dey hear word. Hope you no stubborn o?

Martin0:
I basically don't understand what you just typed ??

My point was understandable that you can reply it...
Do you know that men can admire multiple ladies?

Well no need to talk more about this
You are not direct I mean your comment are missed with lies..

My question is: Will you develop "zeal for sexual intercourse" if they were your partner's sister, friend or cousin?

sure nau,,,hmmmm I see u have not understand the virtues of love and sex...

Hmmm see man I have seen the in and out of a relationship I don't think the body of a lady can freak my to the extent of cheating..

Martin0, This was my question in italics and your answer in bold. What is it that i am misunderstanding? The major problem we have in Nigeria is people do not take responsibilities for their actions. If that was not what you meant to say, say so, clarify what exactly you meant, this na discussion and we all are part of it and hopefully we are learning from each other. Also, value systems are different i have found out and these things needs to be discussed, you dont have to run away or chicken out.

Benita27:
I can't be in a relationship knowing the guy I'm with is a serial cheat. He couldn't have begged 'cause he once told me the day he finds out I'm cheating on him, I may not like what he'll do. I returned the favour when I caught him but never went violent with it. I could have destroyed his car too but on a second thought, there was nothing to lose.

One more thing, this is a red flag as far as i am concerned, personally, i will not be in a relationship with you if i have to say this to you, period.

pesinfada:
She don scatter car, help her go scatter d man.


#Daughter of jezbel

jezebel no reach to b my mama...she no dey wicked sef...when i mean scatter she should have done it spiritually 2

Organs:
My question is: Will you develop "zeal for sexual intercourse" if they were your partner's sister, friend or cousin?

sure nau,,,hmmmm I see u have not understand the virtues of love and sex...

Hmmm see man I have seen the in and out of a relationship I don't think the body of a lady can freak my to the extent of cheating..

Martin0, This was my question in italics and your answer in bold. What is it that i am misunderstanding? The major problem we have in Nigeria is people do not take responsibilities for their actions. If that was not what you meant to say, say so, clarify what exactly you meant, this na discussion and we all are part of it and hopefully we are learning from each other. Also, value systems are different i have found out and these things needs to be discussed, you dont have to run away or chicken out.

chating with you actually got me confused,nobody was talking about running away I wonder why u use such statement...

This are reciprocal actions...

Regarding what I have said u give me the impression you understood me wrongly I hate talking to people that don't understand or conclude people's statement wrongly it baffles me ..

By the way you talk it mean's you actually have something you might have misunderstood about my statement..

I said a man can develope feeling/likeness for another lady even when his into a relationship with his partner,and I used myself as an example.. And you asked a question and I answered in a straight forward manner You surprise me on your thought even if you don't see it here I can basically understand what your thought is like..

You should learn to understand this word ''assuming statement''

Befor I say anything I say base on statistics and research..

Statistics has virtually show that 85% of men love and develop likeness over multiple ladies thus the existent of cheating...

I gave an answer never mean or implies I practice such am only saying what is likely to happen by using myself to illustrate

Martin0:
chating with you actually got me confused,nobody was talking about running away I wonder why u use such statement...

This are reciprocal actions...

Regarding what I have said u give me the impression you understood me wrongly I hate talking to people that don't understand or conclude people's statement wrongly it baffles me ..

By the way you talk it mean's you actually have something you might have misunderstood about my statement..

I said a man can develope feeling/likeness for another lady even when his into a relationship with his partner,and I used myself as an example.. And you asked a question and I answered in a straight forward manner You surprise me on your thought even if you don't see it here I can basically understand what your thought is like..

You should learn to understand this word ''assuming statement''

Befor I say anything I say base on statistics and research..

Statistics has virtually show that 85% of men love and develop likeness over multiple ladies thus the existent of cheating...

well like I said before I don't think I can continue to discuss with you except you can be more direct and speak truth,your words turn me up coz there is no truth in what you are saying..

And basically you are not speaking from how it looks like in reality,you sound like you trying to impress your statement or probably whoever is listening,be direct and neutral I can't continue talking with you and get lies as infor:X

Martin0:
chating with you actually got me confused,nobody was talking about running away I wonder why u use such statement...

This are reciprocal actions...

Regarding what I have said u give me the impression you understood me wrongly I hate talking to people that don't understand or conclude people's statement wrongly it baffles me ..

By the way you talk it mean's you actually have something you might have misunderstood about my statement..

I said a man can develope feeling/likeness for another lady even when his into a relationship with his partner,and I used myself as an example.. And you asked a question and I answered in a straight forward manner You surprise me on your thought even if you don't see it here I can basically understand what your thought is like..

You should learn to understand this word ''assuming statement''

Befor I say anything I say base on statistics and research..

Statistics has virtually show that 85% of men love and develop likeness over multiple ladies thus the existent of cheating...

well like I said before I don't think I can continue to discuss with you except you can be more direct and speak truth,your words turn me up coz there is no truth in what you are saying..

And basically you are not speaking from how it looks like in reality,you sound like you trying to impress your statement or probably whoever is listening,be direct and neutral I can't continue talking with you and get lies as infor:X

Martin0:
chating with you actually got me confused,nobody was talking about running away I wonder why u use such statement...

This are reciprocal actions...

Regarding what I have said u give me the impression you understood me wrongly I hate talking to people that don't understand or conclude people's statement wrongly it baffles me ..

By the way you talk it mean's you actually have something you might have misunderstood about my statement..

I said a man can develope feeling/likeness for another lady even when his into a relationship with his partner,and I used myself as an example.. And you asked a question and I answered in a straight forward manner You surprise me on your thought even if you don't see it here I can basically understand what your thought is like..

You should learn to understand this word ''assuming statement''

Befor I say anything I say base on statistics and research..

Statistics has virtually show that 85% of men love and develop likeness over multiple ladies thus the existent of cheating...

To that point of course, science has shown a man is capable of loving more than 1 woman at the same time. There are guys that will go for a hot "married woman" most exp if she is the one inviting, but i wont, also, have i cheated before, ofcourse yes, will i cheat again, yes, will i stop, yes maybe at 50 or when my daughter starts knowing left from right, ( i no wan teach bad example) but again can i cheat with my partner's friend, cousin etc if they have the kim kardashian+Jlo's or whatever the yardstick is for the best of the best, NO WAY, i cant, thats just me. That is the point i am trying to make.

Martin0:
chating with you actually got me confused,nobody was talking about running away I wonder why u use such statement...

This are reciprocal actions...

Regarding what I have said u give me the impression you understood me wrongly I hate talking to people that don't understand or conclude people's statement wrongly it baffles me ..

By the way you talk it mean's you actually have something you might have misunderstood about my statement..

I said a man can develope feeling/likeness for another lady even when his into a relationship with his partner,and I used myself as an example.. And you asked a question and I answered in a straight forward manner You surprise me on your thought even if you don't see it here I can basically understand what your thought is like..

You should learn to understand this word ''assuming statement''

Befor I say anything I say base on statistics and research..

Statistics has virtually show that 85% of men love and develop likeness over multiple ladies thus the existent of cheating...

I use the statement as you come dey vex, you no wan follow me talk again, dey troway me put inside gutter begin pour sine sine (sand sand) for my eye.

Organs:
To that point of course, science has shown a man is capable of loving more than 1 woman at the same time. There are guys that will go for a hot "married woman" most exp if she is the one inviting, but i wont, also, have i cheated before, ofcourse yes, will i cheat again, yes, will i stop, yes maybe at 50 or when my daughter starts knowing left from right, ( i no wan teach bad example) but again can i cheat with my partner's friend, cousin etc if they have the kim kardashian+Jlo's or whatever the yardstick is for the best of the best, NO WAY, i cant, thats just me. That is the point i am trying to make.

You see why I hate lies..

Statistics has shown it and it stated 85% so how are we sure you not among them..

You can't credit yourself coz we don't know who you are and what you capable of

That why I never credited myself,
I rated myself based on statistics I never mean I can do such but who knows it possible,or are u saying you can predict yourself in a relationship come
It highly impossible..