optional1:



haba so quick

na wa oh

write a book? lolzz




btw i like your lines..
How has been your day.

Benita27:
Lol, go and read "Why Men Love Bìtches" by Sherry Argov. She's a foreigner and I bet you'll learn from it that it has nothing to do with Nigerian society.

You're probably still a learner.

sunshineG:
I am ok, yours?

optional1:




men can't stop calling women bitches and they do love bitches.. Cos a bitch will also be their wife.. And a bitch was their mother...


Her book might only give you a wide view of things but it still won't stop them from calling ladies bitches...

Even a man who woo you will still call you a bitch...




Thanks anyway for your view.

optional1:



i wanted to toast you but your siggy chased me away with my hands up my head..

optional1:



i for toast you like bread but another girl don toast you and she do better toasting...

Benita27:
I suggested a book for you to read and you're saying absolutely something else. Don't get confused by the "Bìtch" on it, she described a "Bìtch" as a strong woman who knows what she wants and how to go about it. Just my summary but you'll learn from it as a young girl. I bet you that.

optional1:



hello boo, how you doing today?
Serious dearest whenever i see you viewing a thread my heart beat fast and wheneven you comment or quote me my heart fly for joy, it will come out and dance dab..

I wish i can be seeing your every day of my remaining life of earth..

I am in roff with you i can shut down nairaland for a year cos of you..

Please think about it, my heart can't stop pumping fast as i am typing this, please give me chance, lemme be your neck that carries your head.

Please boo, i am seriously in roff with you ..

Waiting for your reply boo..

Caringguy:


Is that your natural hair?

Benita27:
Don't woo guys. You'll be used like a piece of tissue and dumped afterwards 'cause most of them are opportunist when it comes to this.

Don't say I didn't warn you!. Woo them at your peril. Men are wired to hunt, not to be hunted.

Osasmd:
Nice write up

Osasmd:

Nice write up

optional1:



yes sir it is..



How our wife hope she is back?

GoldenSpine24:





lolz. I may be wrong, but i really don't think so...it's not all black or white. Beautiful grey shades exist.

Actually, some of my close friends are females who approached me for relationship...

I couldn't give love, cos i didn't feel it for them romantically.

But one thing i always gave to them was respect, especially during the "getting-over" phase. Respect cos if it's hard for guys to approach a lady, it's 10times harder for a lady to do same. When i was in a relationship, i told them i had someone i really cared about.. When i had no one and i just did not tango with them, i simply appreciated them and respected their words. Tho they didn't get what they wanted, It made them stronger. And i learnt that quality from them in dealing with setbacks.

And I wasn't rich...was just a good-for-nothing fellow trying to find his feet in the corporate world. So when they expressed their affection, it was easy to sense its genuineness.

Guys, if a lady comes up to you with a proposal, even if you reject it, Always make them feel appreciated at the same time drawing the balance so you wouldn't lead them on.

Ladies if you feel you feel it's beneath your personal vales to approach guys romantically, then wait cos they will approach you definitely.

However, if u feel you can approach a guy you like, feel free. Create value for yourself as that value will speak for you. Even if you put yourself out and do not get it right, believe me there's so much strength in vulnerability.

Caringguy:
Wow i love it..



Yea she's back

Benita27:
My dear, no matter how you paint it. You've made some sense but the odds are not in our favour so women are never advised to make that move 'cause the heart of man can't be looked into. Speaking based on Sampling; majority is taken into consideration. If out of 100%, 90 says "Don't woo me" then the opinion of the 90 is taken and not that of the small fraction. You constitute the smaller fraction. even men don't want to be wooed, and don't take such relationships seriously like they would in a relationship the reverse was the case. So please, don't advise your sister or friend to, even though, I know you're trying to be objective but I'm just being realistic here. The odds are not in our favour once again.

optional1:




perfect day blessed with an interesting story i read on literacture section..

GoldenSpine24:


I agree two.

optional1:



is doesn't matter how many i wooed what matters was i did it and felt a deep relaxed and relieved from the burden of having a feeling for a guy....

optional1:



hello boo, how you doing today?
Serious dearest whenever i see you viewing a thread my heart beat fast and wheneven you comment or quote me my heart fly for joy, it will come out and dance dab..

I wish i can be seeing your every day of my remaining life of earth..

I am in roff with you i can shut down nairaland for a year cos of you..

Please think about it, my heart can't stop pumping fast as i am typing this, please give me chance, lemme be your neck that carries your head.

Please boo, i am seriously in roff with you ..

Waiting for your reply boo..

GoldenSpine24:



Your thoughts.. i respect that too..

IamLovely:



I agree three

sunshineG:
oh great What is the story about

daewoorazer:

Jah bless u ma'am

GoldenSpine24:


Haaal...you didn't modify my quote did you?

Lolzzzzzz

optional1:



ok dear

greetings to her, tell her i am coming soon to pay her a visit and eat her delicious meal she used to win my dear brother's love.

Caringguy:
Oh OK, will tell her

Please try and come o lemme spoil you a little.

IamLovely:



somehow i doeses

Benita27:
Don't woo guys. You'll be used like a piece of tissue and dumped afterwards 'cause most of them are opportunist when it comes to this.

Don't say I didn't warn you!. Woo them at your peril. Men are wired to hunt, not to be hunted.

optional1:




i enjoyed it, i read everything for the first time.

www.nairaland.com/2859696/story-common-mistakes-ladies-make

Benita27:
I've never wooed a man so spare me the "Change your circle" mantra. Have got none to change, and what I stated is fact which has nothing to do with maturity. Have you read "Why Men Love Bìtches?" by Sherry Argov. She also pointed out the implications of asking men out and this is a best seller.

torqque7:


Really?so you are telling me (a guy) that you know men because you read a book about men written by a woman?lol really?smh anyway like I said before change from boys to men