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Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by ibkayee(f): 4:39pm On Aug 04, 2017

Safiaa:
Honestly that was disturbing to read

Some people are sick

Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by adanny01(m): 4:49pm On Aug 04, 2017

Mynd44:
No disrespect bruh but your mum is a grown woman and after 11 years, she has been loyal.

Allow her be happy.

About your not comfortable about your mum having sex, would you be so uncomfortable if your dad is the one? Get your mind off it and be happy for her.

No mind am. Like some will not drill his sister. Which one will he choose when a rapist robber comes to his house, mother or sister.

Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by lekonso: 4:50pm On Aug 04, 2017

You are a very selfish and uncaring person. I think you should be happy that your mother has found another person to make her happy after 11 yrs of loneliness. I pray you don't experience the loss of a spouse for you to know what they call loneliness. Please allow her to go ahead as long as you are sure it will make her happy.

Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 5:00pm On Aug 04, 2017

brandydaniells:
my dad died in 2006

she is lonely

a wealthy man wants to marry her again

me ans my siblins dont like him

but then there is my mums happiness cos she clearly loves him too

cant stand another man drilling her ..
i will die

i feel as if she betrayed my dad

advice pls

can someone pls explain to this over grown cry baby the meaning of "till death do us part"? or you've been having fantasies of you 'drilling your mum'? else I don't see y you would be picturing your mum having sex. even if it were to be with your real dad, you shouldn't be imaging that shit. besides, what makes you think she isn't already getting 'drilled'? stop being a selfish bloke.

one more thing..... stop nursing desires to be d one in between her thighs. its a taboo.... ewww bruh..... ewww.....

Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by Nobody: 5:09pm On Aug 04, 2017

but if it was your dad who would have remarried 1 year later you won't see anything wrong with it.

sexist asss!

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Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by enemyofprogress: 5:11pm On Aug 04, 2017

brandydaniells:
my dad died in 2006

she is lonely

a wealthy man wants to marry her again

me ans my siblins dont like him

but then there is my mums happiness cos she clearly loves him too

cant stand another man drilling her ..
i will die

advice pls

carry your face comot there and always warn her not to scream or moan in the course of duty

Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by enemyofprogress: 5:13pm On Aug 04, 2017

brandydaniells:
lalasticlala mynd44

they have both gone to farm

Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by HaneefahRN(f): 5:15pm On Aug 04, 2017

You are so selfish and annoying.
That woman has been alone for over 11 years, she met someone willing to marry her and she loves him and all your shallow brain could think of is another man drilling her?! Unbelievable!
Stupid child

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Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by Cupcake25522(f): 5:27pm On Aug 04, 2017

swiz123:
If my mom is more than 40yrs old and wants to re-marry, I'd consider that high treason

Why?

Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by tosyne2much(m): 5:29pm On Aug 04, 2017

So you want her to remain unmarried so that so that her attention for you will not dwindle? undecided

SMH

Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by Alarib(m): 5:30pm On Aug 04, 2017

brandydaniells:
my dad died in 2006

she is lonely

a wealthy man wants to marry her again

me ans my siblins dont like him

but then there is my mums happiness cos she clearly loves him too

cant stand another man drilling her ..
i will die

i feel as if she betrayed my dad

advice pls

You do not know what she is going through. I wish my mum had remarried....at least i wouldnt always have to worry she's home alone. At some point you and your siblings will all be married....What do you expect her to do then? visit you all one by one till she passes on?

Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by KingTom(m): 5:40pm On Aug 04, 2017

skarlett:
You need help, no offense

Another man wants to drill him mama have a heart na cry

Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by pretty16(f): 5:41pm On Aug 04, 2017

brandydaniells:
my dad died in 2006

she is lonely

a wealthy man wants to marry her again

me ans my siblins dont like him

but then there is my mums happiness cos she clearly loves him too

cant stand another man drilling her ..
i will die

i feel as if she betrayed my dad

advice pls

Let your mom find happiness again. Don't be selfish. Most old ppl marry for love and companionship. By the time u are older and settle down, and your other siblings, how do u expect her to feel living in an empty house? That is what kills them faster. " Loneliness "

Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by Mrachiever(m): 5:43pm On Aug 04, 2017

Eyop:
Drilling her how? Does the man want to drill a borehole

lolzzzzz...dis 1 weak me I don't understand too ooo

Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by Nobody: 6:01pm On Aug 04, 2017

This is a very technical and delicate situation. Is d man in question a widower? If he were, it would have been easier for you and your siblings to handle. Secondly, its an emotional matter, so don't be quick to feel betrayed by your mother. Thirdly if your late father died an affluent man, it is proper for you mum to hands off his property, call a meeting involving her in-laws, her kinsmen, her children, elders of the church/mosque and intimate everyone of her plans.
Body o be firewood, and in this present day, it is more honourable as a widow to get married, than to be caught lashing a 20 year old tomorrow.
Finally, see your mum as your (younger) sister for a moment, who lost her husband; would you want her to feel tortured emotionally because her (emotionally selfish) children would feel betrayed?............cheers

Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by Bitchiamjay(m): 6:30pm On Aug 04, 2017

ibkayee:
Why are you even visualising your mum getting 'drilled'

#YOLO

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Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by itoese(m): 7:17pm On Aug 04, 2017

I know how you feel. The truth is that she needs to satisfy her emotions. The Bible also encourage young widows to get married.

Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by fojb: 8:02pm On Aug 04, 2017

brandydaniells:
my dad died in 2006

she is lonely

a wealthy man wants to marry her again

me ans my siblins dont like him

but then there is my mums happiness cos she clearly loves him too

cant stand another man drilling her ..
i will die

i feel as if she betrayed my dad

advice pls

Are you a christian?
If yes, then you should know better that marriage is till death do THEM part. Her spouse is dead, she has every right to remarry except you want her to hide it from you. Moreover, is there nothing better you can do with your life rather than this monitoring spirit you turned yourself to. very soon they will say "not too young to run". People like you can not run because instead of concentrating on your life, you turn to monitoring spirit. Or do you work for INEC as observer?

Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by Nobody: 8:15pm On Aug 04, 2017

KingTom:
Another man wants to drill him mama have a heart na

Imagining your own mother having sex is just downright sick biko embarassed

Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by shoppyanno(m): 8:17pm On Aug 04, 2017

brandydaniells:
my dad died in 2006

she is lonely

a wealthy man wants to marry her again

me ans my siblins dont like him

but then there is my mums happiness cos she clearly loves him too

cant stand another man drilling her ..
i will die

i feel as if she betrayed my dad

advice pls
Your mum deserves to be happy. She's a adult and can make decisions that won't be detrimental to her.
It is sad that your Dad is late but life has to go on. She doesn't have to be lonely or depressed. You & your siblings would get married & start your families leaving her to herself.
Be reasonable and seek happiness for your mum.

Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by Actuarydeji(m): 9:18pm On Aug 04, 2017

brandydaniells:
my dad died in 2006

she is lonely

a wealthy man wants to marry her again
me ans my siblins dont like him
but then there is my mums happiness cos she clearly loves him too

cant stand another man drilling her .. i will die

i feel as if she betrayed my dad

advice pls

Do you want to take the position of your late dad?

Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by KingTom(m): 9:50pm On Aug 04, 2017

skarlett:
Imagining your own mother having sex is just downright sick biko

No mind the mumu make he go drill the mama na grin

Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 10:46pm On Aug 04, 2017

You can't stand a man drilling her but your late father drilled her and you were born. And you have been drilling other women who will send up with other men. Someone else might be drilling your future wife. And you will still drill another woman when you decide to make your own family.
Please allow your mom to live her life. she has tried and she has to move on with her life. Don't be wicked and selfish. She deserves to be happy.

Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 11:06pm On Aug 04, 2017

INDUSTRIALFAN:
can someone pls explain to this over grown cry baby the meaning of "till death do us part"? or you've been having fantasies of you 'drilling your mum'? else I don't see y you would be picturing your mum having sex. even if it were to be with your real dad, you shouldn't be imaging that shit. besides, what makes you think she isn't already getting 'drilled'? stop being a selfish bloke.

one more thing..... stop nursing desires to be d one in between her thighs. its a taboo.... ewww bruh..... ewww.....

that op is just a very sick person. If not, what's his business with his mom being drilled by another man after 11years and loosing her husband? People just don't know the correct diction to use when they come online to type nonsense in the name of a ski g for advise. Besides, must one take everything to the public to seek for opinion? He can as well take it to CNN. Idiotic post.

Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by tuscani: 8:24am On Aug 05, 2017

Guy, she tried. She waited 11 years. Please, I know how it feels, just let her be.

Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 4:48pm On Aug 05, 2017

MISSCONGENIALITY:
that op is just a very sick person. If not, what's his business with his mom being drilled by another man after 11years and loosing her husband? People just don't know the correct diction to use when they come online to type nonsense in the name of a ski g for advise. Besides, must one take everything to the public to seek for opinion? He can as well take it to CNN. Idiotic post.

I just weak for the guy... very immature person.

Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by Nobody: 4:55pm On Aug 05, 2017

blackbeau1:
Erm you should be happy for her. Same way you wouldn't want her to stand in the way of your marriage, don't stand in the way of hers, except you have genuine complaints.

Hi blackbeau-ty, can i drill you? Oh..sorry, I meant ...can I get to know you?

Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by Nobody: 5:02pm On Aug 05, 2017

charisexy:
hey, dont die for your mom happiness since 2006 she have try nah, encourage her to be a good mother to you people and to the her new hoi dnt know your age,you can still get yourself a wife to fill love again.

her happiness should be your mean concern.

Actually, the drilling part is the OP's main concern grin

Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by Jasomine: 5:05pm On Aug 05, 2017

You are a wicked and selfish child. Die even right now. If is your father, he would have married latest a year after. Even if your mother is over 50, she is a human being and blood flows in her veins. She has really tried and you are lucky to have such a responsible mother. Let her be Mr. Spoilt child

Re: My Widowed Mum Is Trying To Marry *opinions by Amah91(m): 6:27pm On Aug 05, 2017

i was once in your shoe I felt almost the she way you are feeling now. Your mum getting married again shouldn't bother you, i lost my dad 2004 and 19 years later a man came to ask for her hand in marriage. even my younger once (girls) never accepted the man. but before then so many so my late fathers friends normally comes to the house all in the name of they care about us and how my father was so good to them but I knew why they where coming. I never like it seeing men coning to our house when my father was late. but one day she told us that she wants to remarry than men coming to disturbing her finally we accepted that man since the man's wife was also late and that man was the one that trained me in school. so there is nothing there. what you need is your mum "Happiness "

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