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My closest guy got married to my ex babe. From our talk before the marriage I discovered he was not much bothered to realized I once dated the wife. In fact it was him who called me to let me know he found a woman he loves. After having discussions with her, he was made to know I once dated her. He called me to inform me of the whole thing, I even spoke with the wife as he gave her phone to greet me.
     My worries comes in when I discovered she doesn't like seeing me in the house. Whenever I visit my friend (either to pick him up or drop him off) she give this impression that am not welcomed in the house. Advise me on what to do; am equally married and have no affection or any hidden feelings. Is it wise to inform my guy of this or should I just let go my friendship with him?

Never let go of your friendship ooo, reduce frivolous visit and when you visit pay more attention to her children and your friend. It's either she is still angry or ashamed; depending on how the relationship ended.



The bitter truth is: two ex-lovers can never be friends. It's either they are still in love or never were.

Na Wetin we dey always talk Wey some foolish guys no dey ever understand say "it is breaking the g-code dating or marrying ur friend's ex"...OP my advice for u na say, u need to stay away from them. Allow ur friend come find u, no dey go find them again, make e no go turn to something serious. It is always wise we avoid unnecessary problems.

Wait lemme consult ifa on yhur behalf

I'm sorry to say this, you and your ex girlfriend are immature. For you to notice her unease around you shows you also feel same around her.

Be decent and mature whemever you visit them, all these nonsense will stop.

Lol... Imagine my guy marrying any of my exes.. Consider that friendship over...

Forget, the babe still like you, she just dey form.

ArcFresky:
Forget, the babe still like you, she just dey form.

Okafors law.

You guys should have one last fvck and watch everything go cool.

Hmmm...

Dude!! Whether u like it, that friendship is a goner...
If she is behaving this way, this early, know that soon she would be poisoning the heart of ur friend against you soon except ur friend is so! So!! matured..

My only advise, cut or reduce the unnecessary visit and when u go to pick or drop him, outside his gate should be ur best option afterall, he would get his own car soon...

YOU NEED TO TO SHAK HER LIKE 8 TIMES. SHE MISS THE D BRO

Paulpaulpaul:
The bitter truth is: two ex-lovers can never be friends. It's either they are still in love or never were.

nice one

dingbang:
Lol... Imagine my guy marrying any of my exes.. Consider that friendship over...

even me?

Don't break up their home. Stay away from it if u cause tension for her there. U can always meet ur friend anywhere else. No be by force to visit them.

amuokuko:
Hmmm...

Dude!! Whether u like it, that friendship is a goner...
If she is behaving this way, this early, know that soon she would be poisoning the heart of ur friend against you soon except ur friend is so! So!! matured..

My only advise, cut or reduce the unnecessary visit and when u go to pick or drop him, outside his gate should be ur best option afterall, he would get his own car soon...

My visit is rarely unlike before and it's strictly on invitation or on a special occasion. Recently I went to ask my guy how he's preparing for his child dedication which is a normal thing. D moment she saw me the frown face appeared . I was even forced to greet her first before she reluctantly reciprocate

AyoSammyTunDe:
YOU NEED TO TO SHAK HER LIKE 8 TIMES. SHE MISS THE D BRO

Lol. Betraying my best friend ?? Dude u bad die

smithsydny:
even me?

lol all my exes dem be dundies....

amuokuko:
Hmmm...

Dude!! Whether u like it, that friendship is a goner...
If she is behaving this way, this early, know that soon she would be poisoning the heart of ur friend against you soon except ur friend is so! So!! matured..

My only advise, cut or reduce the unnecessary visit and when u go to pick or drop him, outside his gate should be ur best option afterall, he would get his own car soon...

Spot on! I couldn't have said it any better

Mrkumareze:
Lol. Betraying my best friend ?? Dude u bad die

NA WETIN SHE WANT BRO. YOU ARE DOING YOUR FRIEND A HUGE FAVOUR IF YOU DONT KNOW.

shebi na your friend
when is not your blood brother
20 friends cant play for 20 years....

dingbang:
lol all my exes dem be dundies....

Just stop going to his house

That your friend is a snitch sef, why should he date talkmore of marrying your ex.

lereinter:
shebi na your friend

when is not your blood brother

20 friends cant play for 20 years....

#word _ n!gga yu smart!

Get a gun and shoot them both

op, the woman's attitude is very ok...you want her to give u a worm welcome so that one thing can lead to another abi??....i even suspect each time you visit you went there to see her face....op face your family ooo

Rorachy:
That your friend is a snitch sef, why should he date talkmore of marrying your ex.

He never knew of that until they were both in deep love, accompanied by pregnancy . Beside that I dated the girl before we became friends.

kip ur distance then and let ur friend know the reason u are keeping away from his house

Lagbaja01:
op, the woman's attitude is very ok...you want her to give u a worm welcome so that one thing can lead to another abi??....i even suspect each time you visit you went there to see her face....op face your family ooo

Lol. Never had such at mind. And never had I visited without an invitation from my guy.

Sunkyphil:
kip ur distance then and let ur friend know the reason u are keeping away from his house

I once thought of that but how 'll my friend react as he always rely on me on important issues . Don't u think it's reminding him of the fact that I once dated his wife??

Stop visiting your guy's family, let him visit you.

Mrkumareze:
Lol. Never had such at mind. And never had I visited without an invitation from my guy.