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sunshineG:
kk I will read it thanks

good night dear..
8hrs sleep about to start now.

optional1:
good night dear..

8hrs sleep about to start now.

kk no p
sleep tight

Benita27:
Don't woo guys. You'll be used like a piece of tissue and dumped afterwards 'cause most of them are opportunist when it comes to this.

Don't say I didn't warn you!. Woo them at your peril. Men are wired to hunt, not to be hunted.

Lol, your experience tho. But the first time a lady wooed me, due to the fact that I had no emotional attachment with the lady in question, I started dodging her in the faculty. She sent her friend to me but I couldn't accept her proposal and heaven did not fall o. Later, my current babe systematically seduce me into fall in love in love with her even tho the interest was much from her than mine to her. Tho she might be cheating on me of which I have no knowledge of,but I can bet it that she loves me deep. I on the other side is currently faithful. See ehn, it's better to pursue your heart desire than to let it die without giving it a trial. Olosho girls finds better men last last.

In pursuit of a good life, bad things tend to happen. Despite she been the caller of the relationship, babe....I respect her because she's sweet, beautiful, intelligent and respectful.

Now to the level of the useless Olosho like of girls I almost ruined my career for in school. They play hard to get. Even when two finally agreed to date me, they became financial parasites....sucking me of my monthly allowances even almost my school fee, while a beautiful soul that admires everything about me is dying of emotional torments. God bless the day she couraged up to advance her feelings towards me..... If you love someone, define and redefine the kind of person the person is....if the person is not who you tot he is, you can just back out and continue jeje with no stress

Benita27:
Don't woo guys. You'll be used like a piece of tissue and dumped afterwards 'cause most of them are opportunist when it comes to this.

Don't say I didn't warn you!. Woo them at your peril. Men are wired to hunt, not to be hunted.

Who told u all these babe??
U can hunt me o....I don't mind

lefulefu:

Divay22 oya come here and learn how to toast a guy

Lol..
I no tell you about the one way i do ain't trying that shit again o..
I'll just crush on him till i get to dislike him.

Divay22:
Lol..
I no tell you about the one way i do ain't trying that shit again o..
I'll just crush on him till i get to dislike him.

damm i just forgot
anyway the wise tin to do if u like a guy na to give am signal .if he"s not gay e go understand

lefulefu:
damm i just forgot
anyway the wise tin to do if u like a guy na to give am signal .if he"s not gay e go understand

Signal
At this moment I'm searching for signal
Hope you're good

Divay22:
Signal
At this moment I'm searching for signal
Hope you're good

oh iyam fine my dear
a cold raining afternoon to u

femi4:
Only rich girl should toast me...I don't date broke girls

Lol.

It is easier to woo a quiet guy and succeed than a radical. Make sure he is showing some interest o. Hmmmm.

Madam Optional1 just quote me on today's thread abegi.
Meanwhile mukina2 we need our thread on fp!!!

I respect such ladies

Unlimited22:
Madam Optonal1 just quote me on today's thread abegi.
Meanwhile mukia2 we need our thread on fp!!!

i have called you out nah..

Lemme call again.

This is a nice post u know , but there is what I want to add here, if u are planning to ask a guy out, u 1st of all understand d type of lady he admires. For example , I myself I don't fancy dark ladies no matter what, I think this 'll help u ladies to get ur desired man. As for me, I respect and value girl that comes to me . Common muster the courage girls , especially now that sugarmummies in the town.

Benita27:
Don't woo guys. You'll be used like a piece of tissue and dumped afterwards 'cause most of them are opportunist when it comes to this.

Don't say I didn't warn you!. Woo them at your peril. Men are wired to hunt, not to be hunted.

so Benita u think d@ girls don't use and dump guys , it happened to me, or what will u call a situation whereby after 18 year old Deborah slept with me and decided to abandon me, without any quarrel .

optional1:
Let’s get this fact straight for starters, the
Nigerian society doesn’t favour a girl to be so bold as to ask a guy out (toast a guy). Thus, we ladies must take extra precautions before
embarking on this near deadly mission.

Below are some rules to follow when you want to toast a Nigerian guy as written by Nkechi Bianze.

1. Relationship status:
You must make efforts to check that the coast is clear. Make sure sey you nor go toast person husband or boyfriend. Besides the fact that the responsible men in this category will always give a heart-punching no for an answer; girls are not smiling. Acid and hot water baths are real. Some people will go any length to protect their territories.

2. Mentality:
For me, this is the most important. You see, the worst thing about taking the bold step to toast a Nigerian guy isn’t getting a no for an answer, but the attitude of response and the latter effect. I would consider myself lucky in this case because my brain is in a very good collaborative relationship with heart, when it
comes to romantic affairs. My brain assesses the individual first, then it gives a go ahead to the heart to do as it wishes.

These are the questions to ask…. How does he think, or what is his thought process? Does he belong to the 16th, 18th, 19th or 21st century? Does he align with the
school of thought that a woman is like an
ornament who should wait for the highest
bidder? What does he think about a girl asking a guy out? These are some of the things you should find out before making a bold step. For what shall it profit a girl to gather all the liver to toast a guy, only to get ridiculed, considered cheap, loose and all sorts?


3. Go straight to the point:
Whatever option you decide, don’t say long
stories, a sentence or two should do. When you toast a Nigerian guy, make it succinct and go straight to the point. After you must have let it out, let him know you expect a response. Like,“what do you think? Can we do this?”. If he thinks you are joking, or not taking your request seriously, sound it again, look him in the eyes and tell him that you are serious about what you said.

Don’t push him for answers, let him go at his pace. Remind him after a couple of days, if he
still gives you no answer, then my dear….
silence in this case most likely means no. A guy who is game would usually respond to you in 48hours or less.


4. What if he says yes, did he say yes for real? This is where your smartness, the ability to
detect behavioral code, and the spirit of
discernment is needed. From my roughly
estimated statistics, 1 in 2 of Nigerian men who say yes to women who ask them out do so for very selfish reasons, or just to ridicule the girl. Most girls should be able to detect this if they pay attention to some tiny and “irrelevant” details. When you toast a Nigerian guy, you must tell yourself some home truths, listen to your instinct, and don’t let the excitement of getting a yes for an answer cloud your senses. The signs are always there. If you think the “yes” is for real, by all means flex away. But if you think it’s not for real, withdraw a little, watch from a distance, then take a walk if you still aren’t convinced…. and if you are a good girl. If you are a baddass girl, take all you can get
from the “relationship”, but make sure you
don’t invest emotions. The sharp girls will turn it to a case of the player becoming the played.

Rejection hurts… and when it comes to
toasting, it hurts girls more due to societal influence. However, it wouldn’t be wise to stop making requests due to the fear of rejection.


5. Be realistic:
Understand that when you toast a Nigerian guy, you may get a no for an answer. And if
and when you do, dust off and move on, then wait for the next cute guy to come your way, and start the process all over again. Continue till you catch the big fish or the big fish catches you. While at these, look after yourself and look good. Make sure you also have a good brain to accompany the good looks. Most big catches fancy pretty girls with working brains. You can thank me later, or don’t even mention at all.

What are we friends for?

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Optional I am sorry, I know that you don't have a boyfriend at this stage and I want to tell you to please drop the romantic stories and set your priorities straight. I believe you don't know much about the lady that wrote this stuff, infact, if she is married now this might not be the strategies she used, but what she just feels it is right. The same way musicians sing songs because it is trending and not because it is right.. It is left for the wise to take out what is true and what is fantasy..

I really love you, and that is why I tell you this... (I mean love like a sister)

kokunrin rejo kobirin rejo , so far d snake no go my dear

I don't see anything bad in wooing a guy, so far his mentality is bein checked.


A very matured and religious guy will not see it as opportunity but take d girl to be truly in love



so far Religion doesn't go against it, go on and be brave ..... either of the gender can woo, what matters most is the wooing


Though, me I no get am for the experience o

IwillSucced:
Optional I am sorry, I know that you don't have a boyfriend at this stage and I want to tell you to please drop the romantic stories

meaning please?

optional1:
i have called you out nah..

Lemme call again.

sup with you
I have not seen you for days now

I have seen it all

sunshineG:
sup with you I have not seen you for days now

went for maternity leave...

Seems you missed me

optional1:
went for maternity leave...


Seems you missed me

maternity leave

Yeah I missed you
Most ladies see them self above we broke guys
So they hardly reply mentions, but I trust you now
You will always respond

yeah maternity leave, will have my twin girls soon

sunshineG:
maternity leave

Yeah I missed you
Most ladies see them self above we broke guys
So they hardly reply mentions, but I trust you now
You will always respond

lolz

you might be broke in pocket but not broke in heart..

No condition is permanent, same ladies will come begging you for attention tomorrow..

optional1:
yeah maternity leave, will have my twin girls soon





lolz

you might be broke in pocket but not broke in heart..

No condition is permanent, same ladies will come begging you for attention tomorrow..

maybe they will come


Twins really
I will love to see their pics when you eventually put to bed

Hope you are not messing with me

You can only see their pic if their dad permit me to show out their face..

sunshineG:
maybe they will come

Twins really I will love to see their pics when you eventually put to bed
Hope you are not messing with me

so cos i can mess, you asking hope i am not messing with you...
How can i mess on you?

optional1:
You can only see their pic if their dad permit me to show out their face..





so cos i can mess, you asking hope i am not messing with you...

How can i mess on you?

really happy for you then

So you just create the broke guys thread to catch fun after all

Same thing I tell people not to judge people by what ever they post here on nairaland

Anyway create a thread let us enjoy jare

Amen

sunshineG:
really happy for you then

So you just the broke guys thread to catch fun after all

Same thing I tell people not to judge people by what ever they post here on nairaland

Anyway create a thread let us enjoy jare

youself, is not everything you should believe on nairaland ..



Create Thread of fight bah..

optional1:
Amen






youself, is not everything you should believe on nairaland ..



Create Thread of fight bah..

yes now
Thread of fight

sunshineG:
yes now Thread of fight

na so you no like me reach bah..

You want make they break bottle for my head bah..

optional1:
na so you no like me reach bah..


You want make they break bottle for my head bah..

no now
Just a friendly bashing thread to the guys or the ladies

Just to get everyone excited

What do you think

Lolzzz

sunshineG:
no now Just a friendly bashing thread to the guys or the ladies
Just to get everyone excited
What do you think

will ask the man of the house first..