Oma307:
why are people cursing him, he only seek for an advice, in fact my assumption is that most people laying curse on him has done more than what the op has done.

Don't mind the schmucks and self acclaimed moralists,all thanks to a faceless forum.

IFNOTGOD:


do u expect her to walk away from d man she has ever known, forget d abortion, I would marry her if I were u, except u have grave reasons not to, 10 yrs no b beans if na me I go place curse on u but den life goes on I pray God gives her strength to forget u n dis is simply wickedness.no forget say karma dey

There is no karma here. Even her own parents does not want the relationship. Go and marry her if you love her more than her parents.

Has the girl finished school / NYSC. Is she matured enought to settle down.?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OzBIHOw0X7M

Nma27:
The wickedness of man... Op just tell us you are tired of the kinni.

Abi o...

Donjazzy12:
NO! He doesn't have to marry her!

why? he spoiled her, who will marry what he spoiled?

Manueleee:

why? he spoiled her, who will marry what he spoiled?

Have you married all the girls that you slept with or that aborted for you? Who will marry them? Do you love her more than her parents who doesn't even want the relationship?

Donjazzy12:

Do you love her more than her own parents who are against the marriage? Haba! Oya go and marry her na!

You are now singing a new song ehh! because you were telling me that the marriage is loveless.

Another lesson to ladies

This your plan may end your career in life if you are not very careful.

expensiveguyman:
You are now singing a new song ehh! because you were telling me that the marriage is loveless.

Yes, he doesn't love her again. It is his right. Nobody should percecute the guy.

adeniyisamuel59:
This your plan may end your career in life if you are not very careful.

Rubbish!

Donjazzy12:

Have you married all the girls that you slept with or that aborted for you? Who will marry them? Do you love her more than her parents who doesn't even want the relationship?

By God grace, am 23, 24 by February next year. honestly I have never slept with a woman in my life. I made a vow to myself till am married. believing God that by 3years time I will. Am against guy spoiling a girl and dumping her. am totally against that.

Donjazzy12:

He doesn't belong to her. Stop typing rubbish. And he will never have any problems in life if he does not marry her. In fact he will blossom without her.

Bro I swear ur very wicked
I pray ur daughter face d same fate dat is more worst

mine too is a similar situation but In my Case she was pregnant and I Wasn't Informed and she aborted it without informing me and now she wants me to marry her but starting from dat day I got the information about the abortion i
no longer love her again

Donjazzy12:

Swear that you have not done abortions before! Swear that you married the men you did it for. Stop being a hypocrite. You are the nuisance with your hypochrisy.

David Uzoko, I meant it when I said I will make you deactivate your account.

Read my comment again and make sure you understand it
With your details down there�, back off me now!
I don't want to see your mention again!

Manueleee:

By God grace, am 23, 24 by February next year. honestly I have never slept with a woman in my life. I made a vow to myself till am married. believing God that by 3years time I will. Am against guy spoiling a girl and dumping her. am totally against that.

The girl too spoiled him by sleeping with him. Was she raped? You have never slept with a woman in your life? Good for you! But don't judge those who has, because 99% of those attacking the Op has pregnanted many girls and the girls have done countless abortions yet they were not forced to marry their victims.

isaacsegun:
Please fellow nairalanders, Ineed your urgent advice.
We started dating as far back as year 2007, then she was 17 while i was in my early 20s. I'm her first love, in fact, I was the person that deflowered her. I got her pregnant during the course of our relationship in which we aborted, the abortion almost took her life.

Since after the abortion issues that create serious problem between her parents and mine, her parents has kicked against our relationship including mine but she's insisting we must marry even up till today.

Please guys, should i just tell her that we cannot marry because i can see that she's very desperate to marry now as age is not on her side, but I'm afraid to tell her that the relationship cannot work because she can do anything (like attempting to even take her own life)

After you made a wreckage out of her, you now look for a clever way to back out of the whole mess. if you eventually back out, there's another one in a worse state waiting for you out there & the effect can be deverstating. So, clean up the mess and FORGET NOT KARMA.

Donjazzy12:

You are the one that is selfish and evil here. She was never raped. She took more from him. Imagine all the semen wasted for 10 good years. How are we even sure that the guy will not suffer from low sperm count?
10 years, 30 years any time is a good time to make a good decision in your life!

U talk without reasoning sometimes

Absolute Wickedness!!
But remember,
there shall not be peace for the wicked.
Rethink.

She will not take her life at all
I most tell you this you better marry that girl if not she will kill you and go to jail
after spoiling her and you want to leave her abi ?you are just a goon an ungreatful bastard so you are expecting who to marry her
you most marry her it's your problems not mine
or she will kill you because she will not stand and see you get married to another woman and be happy why she remain single and sad is not possible that girl will deal with you soon just watch it Ewu like you have ever ask yourself if some one did the same to your sister how will you feel and you missed up somebody's sister and you are here looking for advice pls you MOST marry her

Donjazzy12:

The girl too spoiled him by sleeping with him. Was she raped? You have never slept with a woman in your life? Good for you! But don't judge those who has, because 99% of those attacking the Op has pregnanted many girls and the girls have done countless abortions yet they were not forced to marry their victims.

Sir! any meat you cant chew, don't even put it ur mouth. let him finish what he started.

Victornezzar:

Bro I swear ur very wicked
I pray ur daughter face d same fate dat is more worst

You are very wicked by trying to force a man into an unwanted relationship. May your son be forced into a loveless marriage.

From Christian angle, they both have sinned, taken a life, and are both guilty.
From culture, it's ethical the boy and girl iron out a common ground, marry themselves against all odds as a girl in her 27 would not get easily, suitors of her desire but that which comes her way and could have no choice than settle with one in the long run, and God so did it, her past never get revealed as i doubt there's any man who would want to marry a lady u heard aborted before, fear go even high sef because your head would be counting number of times she aborted before then. But what sort of love requires you to spend 10 yrs dating a lady, if you're not ready to marry a lady, get off the relationship or stay single and if one is a flirt and wasn't interested in serious relationship, I expected by 7 months at worst get off the relationship so that no love is lost beyond the ordinary and the other partner can find his or her bearing.
Whatever happens in relationship or marriage, be it good or bad, the guy must have allowed it and if the lady is overly gullible, monsters would feed on her being unintelligent, like this case, the girl over trusted the guy and couldn't face the disgrace to mother a child of whose father never paid her bride price because u hardly see guys who would marry after one.
Anyway, it's just a lesson to others and the guy is under no obligation to marry the girl, every thing was on mutual consent, but to save the disgrace, the trauma, disappointment which could eventually make her depressed, the guy should Remember how it all started and marry his love, because if the guy loves this lady no more, it's evident when he finally marries another woman, he would marry a second wife after 20yrs because he would get tired of his wife after child birth and look for younger women out there, nature of dogs. Erico2k2, jodha.. . Let's read your views

Peterlawyer:
mine too is a similar situation but In my Case she was pregnant and I Wasn't Informed and she aborted it without informing me and now she wants me to marry her but starting from dat day I got the information about the abortion i
no longer love her again

Gbam!

If you don't marry her it shall never be well with you for the rest of your stupid life.

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after 1 abortion now u wnt to leave her...the thunder dat will strike u is doing press up in kenya!!!

Donjazzy12:

You are very wicked by trying to force a man into an unwanted relationship. May your son be forced into a loveless marriage.

may all ur children become frustrated in life also
may ur daughter neva find any good loving man till d age of 61
may ur all ur male children get used and dumped by girls
may ur wife dump u also

GREYWOLF:
After you made a wreckage out of her, you now look for a clever way to back out of the whole mess. if you eventually back out, there's another one in a worse state waiting for you out there & the effect can be deverstating. So, clean up the mess and FORGET NOT KARMA.

There is no mess here! Both of them messed around sleeping together when they were not yet married. She was not raped. He does not OWE her a wedding.

sirfee:
It is well with your soul,may you live long.Reminds me of Yeshua/Jesus and the prostitute in the bible,though I don't believe in religion but I love Jesus' response to the pharisees(Nairalanders).The world is filled with many hypocrites and sentimentalists.

seriously, its annoying, like they are saint, i don't suport him leaving the lady, 10yrs of a lady's life to one man?. Buh the curses is just too much, as if they've not done worse, how many ladies here have aborted series of abortion, with one rascal, yet he left them. How many guyz here have left innocent ladies for no just cause.

Victornezzar:

may all my children become frustrated in life also
may my daughter neva find any good loving man till d age of 61
may all my male children get used and dumped by girls
may my wife dump me also

May you get what you wish!

RealityShot:

She is a SUICIDAL MANIAC
the Op said so up there.

isaacsegun:
Don't marry a suicidal maniac!
Are you the only one that she has ever slept with since that time (2007)?

Marriage is not by force!!

That girl will blame you for ever, whether you marry her or not!

better not waste your money and create yet another marriage that will end in a DIVORCE!

Chai!