multicolored:

Lolz....... Angel in a man's form.
Please,run as fast as your legs can carry you.

bayulll011:

show urself.
let see the ........

multicolored:

Wetin you wan see?

Donjazzy12:

Nope, both of them committed the sin, why are you attacking only the guy?

AuroraB:
Kikikikikikikikikikikikiiiiii @Chimk

You right on this. But, most of 'em are craddle-robbers
E sweet dem pass shitor a la northerners
Hafanaa? You no gree strike, okwaya

stinggy:

Strike ko, struck ni
God pass u na

wunmi590:
Hummm, your matter got me in the corner.

OP, I won't advice you to get married early if you are not fully ready, my definition of fully ready coupled with (financial and maturity).

But truth be told, if I were you, I would make sure I talk to her to give you more time, remember you disvergined her and she also aborted for you, so you need to always put her in consideration while planing your career.

The best you can just do for her is just let her relax her mind, assure her that you are going to marry her (that's if you intend marrying her), plan her program in your future agenda.

I know the reason why she's desperate to settle down is because of the abortion, so that it won't later have side effect when she gets to a certain age (early 30's or late 30's).

Don't let people push you to what you are not ready for, so that your future kids would not suffer.

Daeylar:
Na wa for all the people shouting marry the girl up and down, How can you guys support someone marrying a person he obviously doesn't want to marry? How can you support the girl marrying some one who obviously doesn't want to marry her.

That is not how marriage works, what kind of marriage will they have when the beginning is already a disaster, na wa o.

if he doesn't want to marry then he shouldn't. Simple

efilimu:
The guy in your story is sensed. Apart from the money factor, the guy has also reasoned that the girl might also marry him out of pity and not love.

beatcoins:
If this was done to a family or relative, will you give the same advice? If it was done to you, you will understand the gravity of this comment you uttered without reasoning. Such tolerance is why men treat women anyway they like. Men with no heart for humanity. 10 years he was drawing oil from her well, she didn't seem right to him, till she decides to settle down. I'm ashamed to see people support this. Do you know how many oppotunity she has lost? Its time to settle down now, he needs a new chap. May God forbid, this na for better or for worse, till death do them part o!

Daeylar:


I don't know about everything you just typed all I know is that marrying someone you don't want to marry or who doesn't want to marry you is a recipe for disaster.
That's all I know,

I feel the girl will be far better off without him since he obviously doesn't want to marry her


No be small till death do them part, if you guys are not careful death will really do them part.

michaelwestern:


I reject it in the name of Jesus.

If you are a Christian then I wonder who you think will enforce this curses you are laying. Do you think God will punish my children because I offended you, only the devil can do that.

So that means you're sending the devil on errand and indirectly entering into partnership with him. The problem with this is that the devil will also use the opportunity to afflict you with the same curse.

So please be careful when placing curses on people, most times you end up short changing yourself. Peace.

Sorry for insulting you btw, I just had to.

beatcoins:
Just when she needs him the most in her life, he chickens out. Op is not a man, he's a boy. A class-A fxxkboy!

bayulll011:

lol storborn woman.

multicolored:

Obedient man.

beatcoins:
If this was done to a family or relative, will you give the same advice? If it was done to you, you will understand the gravity of this comment you uttered without reasoning. Such tolerance is why men treat women anyway they like. Men with no heart for humanity. 10 years he was drawing oil from her well, she didn't seem right to him, till she decides to settle down. I'm ashamed to see people support this. Do you know how many oppotunity she has lost? Its time to settle down now, he needs a new chap. May God forbid, this na for better or for worse, till death do them part o!

NoToPile:
Lool the first page of this thread was hilarious, so nairaland males can actually support a female (that's a first)

Lemme go and read other pages.


Oga OP you must marry her oo shikena, after 10 years how won't she be desperate 10 whole years haba.
You said the abortion almost took her life meaning there may have been complications. Its both of you that will carry the cross oo.


I am always a No sex before marriage advocate but bros you no try at all.

Medicineguy:


lol..they are actually afraid that they may end up with the girl ( or maybe someone like her) if the OP decides to dump her...read btw the lines

Medicineguy:


lol..they are actually afraid that they may end up with the girl ( or maybe someone like her) if the OP decides to dump her...read btw the lines

Medicineguy:


lol..they are actually afraid that they may end up with the girl ( or maybe someone like her) if the OP decides to dump her...read btw the lines

Medicineguy:


lol..they are actually afraid that they may end up with the girl ( or maybe someone like her) if the OP decides to dump her...read btw the lines

Michelle55:
thanks for this response.. you delivered it very well. op must to marry that girl whether he likes it or not.. kapish!!!

bayulll011:

wait are u in jos?
bye lol

Oselu28:




so ur GF is an assh*le bcus u've had sex with her? ur level of comprehension is too low for dz century

NwaScore442:


Are u fuckin takin dis personal.. ....

Smh