Pusyiter:
I mean offense you bastard! who dey hell do you think you are to insult me? I only ventilated my vista by mentioning that girls should be careful and watchful who they have sex with especially when they are not married and you came here to insult your fada!

gosh! father my foot... well my father is not senseless like you.
you ventilated your vista by saying girls should be careful in that manner,phew, no wonder u failed

MissRaine69:
Deal with it.

Ur scarcity nor be here oo

isaacsegun:
Please fellow nairalanders, Ineed your urgent advice.
We started dating as far back as year 2007, then she was 17 while i was in my early 20s. I'm her first love, in fact, I was the person that deflowered her. I got her pregnant during the course of our relationship in which we aborted, the abortion almost took her life.

Since after the abortion issues that create serious problem between her parents and mine, her parents has kicked against our relationship including mine but she's insisting we must marry even up till today.

Please guys, should i just tell her that we cannot marry because i can see that she's very desperate to marry now as age is not on her side, but I'm afraid to tell her that the relationship cannot work because she can do anything (like attempting to even take her own life)

You are a bastard! You wasted her past and future and now you want to run to ruin another life? If age is not on her side what about you oldest cargo? You are a very wicked person and should be begging for insults not advice on how to eat your cake and have it like a pig. No be everybody dey support evil people like you. #ShamelessnessOfTheDay #WorstThanABabyDaddy #YourDaughterGoSufferWorstIfYouNoChange

@ op, I've been in your girl's shoes but in my case it was two d/c within a space of four years. you both made the mistake and though ten good years is a long time but I don't think you should marry the lady in question; @ least if it were me, I won't marry you. The fact that you need the approval of others in a situation you both created is wack to me, if you truly loved her then you don't need Anto
nio's approval. And just so you know I walked away from my relationship without any regrets and with God's mercy and grace I've a child now with my husband not my ex. Talk to her and also pray that whatever you both decide, God's Grace and mercy matters most.

isaacsegun:
Please fellow nairalanders, Ineed your urgent advice.
We started dating as far back as year 2007, then she was 17 while i was in my early 20s. I'm her first love, in fact, I was the person that deflowered her. I got her pregnant during the course of our relationship in which we aborted, the abortion almost took her life.

Since after the abortion issues that create serious problem between her parents and mine, her parents has kicked against our relationship including mine but she's insisting we must marry even up till today.

Please guys, should i just tell her that we cannot marry because i can see that she's very desperate to marry now as age is not on her side, but I'm afraid to tell her that the relationship cannot work because she can do anything (like attempting to even take her own life)

I wanted to insult you but...

Now you are in your early 30s and your girlfriend is 27 years old.

So what has become unattractive in her ? Why do you want to leave her ?

So you wasted 10years of her life and you want to quit. You may be inviting KARMA on your life.

Let me stop here...

Benita27:
Who do you intend leaving her for after 10years of dating with an abortion?. When she was 17 she wasn't desperate, now she's 27 what were you expecting?. You better marry that girl!.

The matter tire me.

The girls parents are not even wise. Letting the guy off the hook after wasting their daughters 10years...

There is no report of DOMESTIC VIOLENCE or CHEATING, to warrant the guy to leave the girl or vice versa.

Just that she is DESPERATE.

This nigga needs drugs..

isaacsegun:
Please fellow nairalanders, Ineed your urgent advice.
We started dating as far back as year 2007, then she was 17 while i was in my early 20s. I'm her first love, in fact, I was the person that deflowered her. I got her pregnant during the course of our relationship in which we aborted, the abortion almost took her life.

Since after the abortion issues that create serious problem between her parents and mine, her parents has kicked against our relationship including mine but she's insisting we must marry even up till today.

Please guys, should i just tell her that we cannot marry because i can see that she's very desperate to marry now as age is not on her side, but I'm afraid to tell her that the relationship cannot work because she can do anything (like attempting to even take her own life)

isaacsegun:
Please fellow nairalanders, Ineed your urgent advice.
We started dating as far back as year 2007, then she was 17 while i was in my early 20s. I'm her first love, in fact, I was the person that deflowered her. I got her pregnant during the course of our relationship in which we aborted, the abortion almost took her life.

Since after the abortion issues that create serious problem between her parents and mine, her parents has kicked against our relationship including mine but she's insisting we must marry even up till today.

Please guys, should i just tell her that we cannot marry because i can see that she's very desperate to marry now as age is not on her side, but I'm afraid to tell her that the relationship cannot work because she can do anything (like attempting to even take her own life)

isaacsegun:
Please fellow nairalanders, Ineed your urgent advice.
We started dating as far back as year 2007, then she was 17 while i was in my early 20s. I'm her first love, in fact, I was the person that deflowered her. I got her pregnant during the course of our relationship in which we aborted, the abortion almost took her life.

Since after the abortion issues that create serious problem between her parents and mine, her parents has kicked against our relationship including mine but she's insisting we must marry even up till today.

Please guys, should i just tell her that we cannot marry because i can see that she's very desperate to marry now as age is not on her side, but I'm afraid to tell her that the relationship cannot work because she can do anything (like attempting to even take her own life)

u are a bad guy

Aurora Telemundo

AuroraB:
Ima whoop ya

Prof, small small with that joke

18 is

Jammiiee:
Aurora Telemundo

Jammiiee
Scratch that (Telemundo, that is )
Would ya

Mii ni scratchie

Mo n gbadun e beyen

Aurora Telemundo ni e



Abi mo ti scratchie nii

AuroraB:
Jammiiee
Scratch that (Telemundo, that is )
Would ya

Fake story for kids

Pusyiter:
I wont doubt who you are coz you are in the same boat with the victim. EASY LEG OPENER

what u have said is a reflection of who u are...

multicolored:

Lolz..... Arewa dey fear you?

The fear of them is the beginning of wisdom lol

Jammiiee:
Mii ni scratchie

Mo n gbadun e beyen

Aurora Telemundo ni e



Abi mo ti scratchie nii

Eeeeeeeeeeer...kini mo se

Mo feran e niii...

Mo feran e daku

AuroraB:
Eeeeeeeeeeer...kini mo se

Jammiiee:
Mo feran e niii...

Mo feran e daku

SssssHhhhhhhhhh
Maa so be

Ughh

Jekin sobe o
Mi o paro

O da Kin kuku sope
Mo feran e baje

AuroraB:

SssssHhhhhhhhhh
Maa so be

Jammiiee:
Ughh

Jekin sobe o
Mi o paro

O da Kin kuku sope
Mo feran e baje

Mo ti gbo
Don't stop clowning

AuroraB:
Mo ti gbo
Don't stop clowning

Jammiiee:

. Troll

Ughh mi o Kin shey trolley o

AuroraB:
. Troll

Bridgetania:
how can u waste a girl's life for 10 years then come on NL and say'i'm sorry i can't marry her'..
Are u kidding me?...
Only u achieved feats that most married guys are yet to achieve.
#1. You disvirgined her.
#2. You got her pregnant.
#3. You made her have a life threatening abortion.
#4. You tied her down to a ten year relationship deal with no compensation whatever and u want to move on...
And now the 5th feat u are planning is to break her heart..guy e never do?...
Dont allow this girl to curse u and kill herself oooo..this tin will just start to run in your family lineage and generation..

As a man.you need to stand up to your responsibilities..look for that long lost love u once had for her and marry her ooo..

All this people telling u not to marry out of pity are just joking..
If u ignore her because u dont want to marry out of pity to avoid being unhappy all your marital life..

What about her?..how will she live and survive with the memories that would forever haunt her.
What about her own unhappiness.

Be wise! Be careful and lastly...Marry her Asap.

So he use rope tie her down abi??
I don't get what he owes her
Did he commit to her and pay her bride price before she open legs?? Was she raped??

abimic:
From Christian angle, they both have sinned, taken a life, and are both guilty.
From culture, it's ethical the boy and girl iron out a common ground, marry themselves against all odds as a girl in her 27 would not get easily, suitors of her desire but that which comes her way and could have no choice than settle with one in the long run, and God so did it, her past never get revealed as i doubt there's any man who would want to marry a lady u heard aborted before, fear go even high sef because your head would be counting number of times she aborted before then. But what sort of love requires you to spend 10 yrs dating a lady, if you're not ready to marry a lady, get off the relationship or stay single and if one is a flirt and wasn't interested in serious relationship, I expected by 7 months at worst get off the relationship so that no love is lost beyond the ordinary and the other partner can find his or her bearing.
Whatever happens in relationship or marriage, be it good or bad, the guy must have allowed it and if the lady is overly gullible, monsters would feed on her being unintelligent, like this case, the girl over trusted the guy and couldn't face the disgrace to mother a child of whose father never paid her bride price because u hardly see guys who would marry after one.
Anyway, it's just a lesson to others and the guy is under no obligation to marry the girl, every thing was on mutual consent, but to save the disgrace, the trauma, disappointment which could eventually make her depressed, the guy should Remember how it all started and marry his love, because if the guy loves this lady no more, it's evident when he finally marries another woman, he would marry a second wife after 20yrs because he would get tired of his wife after child birth and look for younger women out there, nature of dogs. Erico2k2, jodha.. . Let's read your views

Yhure right that niggur is a confirm dog.. I don't blame the lady at all only that she over loved the dude more than he loved her..the love made her extremely foolish... Ka!..I'm sure she ignored the advice of good friends watching out for her because of love....

If he doesn't marry her.. He'll never be at peace... Swear or not....he didn't know his parents were against the relationship when he was doing the do...now it's time to take responsibilities em don know parents...
If she kills him and willingly agree to go to jail...nobody go blame her..because he's a big jerk...

10 whole years with one sorry niggur... God sef know I no fit try this rubbish.. No matter how the love shack me...

He knew she was extremely in love with him and he had to take advantage of that fact to the fullest....
This guy is heart less.... Even if he eventually doesn't marry I pity the sorry Lady that'll settle down with this beast..

abimic:
From Christian angle, they both have sinned, taken a life, and are both guilty.
From culture, it's ethical the boy and girl iron out a common ground, marry themselves against all odds as a girl in her 27 would not get easily, suitors of her desire but that which comes her way and could have no choice than settle with one in the long run, and God so did it, her past never get revealed as i doubt there's any man who would want to marry a lady u heard aborted before, fear go even high sef because your head would be counting number of times she aborted before then. But what sort of love requires you to spend 10 yrs dating a lady, if you're not ready to marry a lady, get off the relationship or stay single and if one is a flirt and wasn't interested in serious relationship, I expected by 7 months at worst get off the relationship so that no love is lost beyond the ordinary and the other partner can find his or her bearing.
Whatever happens in relationship or marriage, be it good or bad, the guy must have allowed it and if the lady is overly gullible, monsters would feed on her being unintelligent, like this case, the girl over trusted the guy and couldn't face the disgrace to mother a child of whose father never paid her bride price because u hardly see guys who would marry after one.
Anyway, it's just a lesson to others and the guy is under no obligation to marry the girl, every thing was on mutual consent, but to save the disgrace, the trauma, disappointment which could eventually make her depressed, the guy should Remember how it all started and marry his love, because if the guy loves this lady no more, it's evident when he finally marries another woman, he would marry a second wife after 20yrs because he would get tired of his wife after child birth and look for younger women out there, nature of dogs. Erico2k2, jodha.. . Let's read your views

I have read this over and over, so I got a bit of time so I will respond
Both persons are adult and are to blame if anything goes wrong.Young ladies should evaluate a relationship more than the man should reason is, they are the ones who lose most at the tail end cos there is always a next girl who will jump to marry such guy but cant say same for the lady.The time to date is far too long.No matter how loved up, the lady should have laid her cards on teh table long before now.
Besides 27 yrs old lady is not that of a bad age, she is still going to marry her Prince.Also the fact that she got rid of an unwanted Preg those not in anyway castigate her chances of settling down in the long run.There are references of this int eh Bible as well
My advice to girls, position yourself in a way no man would deem it fit to take advamtage of you.

simple dont marry her and u wud never have a child or even habe bigger problems u can't reap where u didn't sow.best thing is for both of u to get together acknowledge ur sins and beg God for forgiveness only that can save u oo

multicolored:

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multicolored:

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Sometimes ago I created a thread to seek people's advice, but to my surprise I was bashed beyond my imagination. Some even went as far as coursing the op,so I see it as a matter of necessity to let everyone know the full details of what prompted me to seek for people's advice. As I stated in the first thread, the abortion brouhaha happened in 2008.And after the abortion I did everything I could to stay away from her due to so much friction that the issue has caused between our parents and most especially the strict opposition from her mother, but she will never leave me. We even came to know that we are closely related. I got admission in 2009,and I left her in village. I was happy thinking it will give me the opportunity to cut off all my contacts with her,which I did. But after some years she got my phone number through a friend,and we have been calling/chatting on phone but we only saw each other once in 2011 when she came to village, and we could not even talk because her mother was around that day. Since 2011 we have only been talking on phone up to this time. I actually appreciate her love for me and I was already having a rethink towards her,but through one of our recent conversation I discovered that her mother was still strongly against our relationship likewise my parents, though I understand the reason my parents gave to me. So,I felt what is the essence of keeping a relationship that none of our parents ascent to. But she's still insisting we must marry.