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Re: What Do Ladies Mean When They Say, 'I Need A God-fearing Man'? by Melodyz(m): 7:14pm On Aug 20, 2017
Especially the ones dat dreams of only abt evangelism
Re: What Do Ladies Mean When They Say, 'I Need A God-fearing Man'? by Nobody: 7:14pm On Aug 20, 2017
There mean a guy that can tolerate their excesses and form gentleman while at it, or a boring fellow that has no social life that there can control undecided

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Re: What Do Ladies Mean When They Say, 'I Need A God-fearing Man'? by freddaboh(m): 7:14pm On Aug 20, 2017
Allwility:

It means they need a man that is rich, caring, tall, handsome, intelligent, goes to church on Sunday, drives a good car, have a good house, can cook, six- pack figure, whose mother is dead, without any other financial responsibility, doesn't drink or smoke and of course doesn't womanize.

That's because they know that only God can make a man all of these.

PS: I forgot to add, he must be able to take all her BS, drama, clubbing and girlish attitude with a smile and act as if it doesn't matter. Her pastor must approve of him and he musnt put a lock on his phone + no exes + baby mamas.

Another correct response...... lol

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Re: What Do Ladies Mean When They Say, 'I Need A God-fearing Man'? by onojaford(m): 7:15pm On Aug 20, 2017
Sometimes it could be a mixed feeling. But the God fearing man those ladies mean is a morally sound man. It's beyond being religious. Though most of them can't explain in details, but this is the answer.

A morally sound man won't cheat, because he doesn't like cheating, he won't beat a woman. He is morally developed. They use the term ''God-fearing'' because, religion teach people and encourage them to bear those virtues for the fear of God, however, not all religious people have them.

Ladies percieve them. That is why, a lady looking for the so-called 'God-fearing' man may turn down a pastor because they didn't percieve these virtues that are seemingly the attributes of God.

Ladies should be more definite about what they want in a partner. They should define their man in terms of virtues for the sake of clarity, using ''God-fearing'' is vague.
And they should posses virtues also.

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Re: What Do Ladies Mean When They Say, 'I Need A God-fearing Man'? by Nobody: 7:16pm On Aug 20, 2017
They need a Mummies boy that they can brow beat in conjunction with Daddy GO angry

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Re: What Do Ladies Mean When They Say, 'I Need A God-fearing Man'? by ncoolsome(m): 7:17pm On Aug 20, 2017
I once heard a girl say "I need a God fearing yahoo guy"...just wondering who does yahoo n fears God at the same time..

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Re: What Do Ladies Mean When They Say, 'I Need A God-fearing Man'? by Destined2win: 7:17pm On Aug 20, 2017
WiredLeggings:
I'll appreciate them and not take him for a weakling. smiley tongue
I hear you. OK check out this young mans comment
Humility017:

to be honest with you dear...many simply don't know what they want...
I am a guy who believes and practise "abstinence from sex till marriage"
but unfortunately I find it difficult gettin a lady by my side...
I have always loved,care and do all i need to do....
many just love me as a friend but when I wanna go extra mile they decline and take me for granted...
the truth is good people find it difficult upholding godly values in today's present world...
the only guys ladies are mad over are those who go to have sex wit them....then they will be obessed wit the dude...because he has seen them....
real God fearing guys are only needed when marriage come calling definitely not in a relationship because relationships wit such guys to them....are boring being that there is no sex, kissing and petting...

my advise to godly guys....is to keep being good and always know the reason why they're living Godly is because God say so and for their own good and not for the sake of confused lady compromise their stance
Re: What Do Ladies Mean When They Say, 'I Need A God-fearing Man'? by Humility017(m): 7:18pm On Aug 20, 2017
Destined2win:
This is exactly what I am talking about.

By going extra mile, do you mean marrying them or what
yeah....I wanted a relationship leading to marriage...
that's my plan right now...
Re: What Do Ladies Mean When They Say, 'I Need A God-fearing Man'? by enemyofprogress: 7:20pm On Aug 20, 2017
It means they need a man that is like Ogun,sango obatala,esu and amadioha
Re: What Do Ladies Mean When They Say, 'I Need A God-fearing Man'? by Destined2win: 7:20pm On Aug 20, 2017
Humility017:

yeah....I wanted a relationship leading to marriage...
that's my plan right now...
Hmmm. God help you. I believe there are still good ones
Re: What Do Ladies Mean When They Say, 'I Need A God-fearing Man'? by Nobody: 7:21pm On Aug 20, 2017
Destined2win:
90% of the times when you ask a lady the attributes she wants in a man, you will see amongst others, "he must be God fearing"! But what baffles me in actuality is that a lot of them do not act accordingly.

It leaves me wondering if they have a totally different meaning to God-fearing. I know a guy who tried to live to his dream lady's expectation of being a God-fearing young man. He goes to church always and tells the lady, he always talk about the Bible. He doesn't talk about Sex or like things. But at the end, the lady abandoned him for a guy who didn't really care much about church or related things.

Even slay queens are not left out of desiring a God-fearing man yet you see their lifestyle saying completely opposite.

Ladies maybe you can let us understand what you mean when you say, "I need a God-fearing man"!

If there is also a limit to how God-fearing your man can be, please what is it.

Thanks!
Their idea of God-fearing is someone who wouldn't cheat.

They want a "God fearing man" with swag, who still club- is like picking the two sides of a coin when told choose pick either the head or tail.

How many these ladies will date a prayer warrior in mfm or a pastor at redeem.

You're dating a guy who smoke and drinks, go clubbing, and you expect him not to cheat on you lol. Keep dreaming.

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Re: What Do Ladies Mean When They Say, 'I Need A God-fearing Man'? by Nobody: 7:21pm On Aug 20, 2017
kiss moyinbaby please comman fix me, I'm a bug !
Re: What Do Ladies Mean When They Say, 'I Need A God-fearing Man'? by imam07: 7:21pm On Aug 20, 2017
it means they want a mumu husband. the man they can control.
Re: What Do Ladies Mean When They Say, 'I Need A God-fearing Man'? by Odunharry(m): 7:22pm On Aug 20, 2017
HungerBAD:
They simply mean MAGA.

If they want to get married to a Pastor, they should simply signify that. But the "God Fearing Man" Format is old, and i doubt if they even say it again, since it never worked for them anyway.

I still wonder when women will learn that there are some certain things a man looks for in a wife in women, and 19 out of 20 times the men never say it, but just look out for those traits. And this is why it is almost comical when women start listing everything they want in a man, which is not limited to stuff like(God fearing man,already made man,Lekki Landlord man,tall dark and handsome man,must know how to cook man)and so much.

Women should learn to shut up, and look for the "Good Husbands" Traits in the men, instead of running their mouths.
Lmao.. So true to some extent.
I see God fearing man to them as Maga. A man who will always do what they want and always please them.

The reality is many always say the opposite of what they mean.

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Re: What Do Ladies Mean When They Say, 'I Need A God-fearing Man'? by columbus007(m): 7:23pm On Aug 20, 2017
This is becoming so interesting angry
Re: What Do Ladies Mean When They Say, 'I Need A God-fearing Man'? by mooresucre(f): 7:24pm On Aug 20, 2017
dey mean faithful husband
Re: What Do Ladies Mean When They Say, 'I Need A God-fearing Man'? by Destined2win: 7:24pm On Aug 20, 2017
BiggyB242:

There idea of God-fearing is someone who wouldn't cheat.

They want a God fearing man with swag, who's still club, is like picking the two sides of a coin when choose pick either the head or tail.

How many these ladies will date a prayer warrior in mfm or a pastor at redeem.

You're dating a guy who smoke and drinks, go clubbing, and you expect him not to cheat on you lol. Keep dreaming.
That's the point. They have a different meaning of God fearing

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Re: What Do Ladies Mean When They Say, 'I Need A God-fearing Man'? by Humility017(m): 7:25pm On Aug 20, 2017
Destined2win:
Hmmm. God help you. I believe there are still good ones
yeah...I believe
it has not really been easy especially when you have choosed to be different....
Re: What Do Ladies Mean When They Say, 'I Need A God-fearing Man'? by SlayQueenSlayer(m): 7:25pm On Aug 20, 2017
DebbyChris:
A man that fears God, and won't do anything God doesn't want.

But I refused to have sex and she dumped me. Why?

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Re: What Do Ladies Mean When They Say, 'I Need A God-fearing Man'? by mooresucre(f): 7:25pm On Aug 20, 2017
yinmu
Re: What Do Ladies Mean When They Say, 'I Need A God-fearing Man'? by Destined2win: 7:25pm On Aug 20, 2017
mooresucre:
dey mean
faithful husband
They mean...are you not a lady. What's your own definition
Re: What Do Ladies Mean When They Say, 'I Need A God-fearing Man'? by Destined2win: 7:26pm On Aug 20, 2017
Humility017:

yeah...I believe
it has not really been easy especially when you have choosed to be different....
My brother, ladies like sex talk. Just look for one who strikes a balance
Re: What Do Ladies Mean When They Say, 'I Need A God-fearing Man'? by Destined2win: 7:29pm On Aug 20, 2017
onojaford:
Sometimes it could be a mixed feeling. But the God fearing man those ladies mean is a morally sound man. It's beyond being religious. Though most of them can't explain in details, but this is the answer.

A morally sound man won't cheat, because he doesn't like cheating, he won't beat a woman. He is morally developed. They use the term ''God-fearing'' because, religion teach people and encourage them to bear those virtues for the fear of God, however, not all religious people have them.

Ladies percieve them. That is why, a lady looking for the so-called 'God-fearing' man may turn down a pastor because they didn't percieve these virtues that are seemingly the attributes of God.

Ladies should be more definite about what they want in a partner. They should define their man in terms of virtues for the sake of clarity, using ''God-fearing'' is vague.
And they should posses virtues also.
Impressive!!
Re: What Do Ladies Mean When They Say, 'I Need A God-fearing Man'? by SlayQueenSlayer(m): 7:30pm On Aug 20, 2017
Benita27:
Who told you men don't say what they want in a woman?. If a lady says she's looking for a God fearing man doesn't necessarily mean she's looking for a maga like you put it, it means she's looking for a man that at least has a conscious. I believe a man whose conscious isn't murdered is God fearing.

Even men say they're looking for God fearing women, does that mean they're looking for a maga?.

I am not aware that we have female MAGAs.
Re: What Do Ladies Mean When They Say, 'I Need A God-fearing Man'? by cevek11: 7:31pm On Aug 20, 2017
What they mean is they need a man
That will see their short comings, and still hang around.
That will give his all and not give up despite the outcome.
That they would give their all and it won't be a waste of time
Re: What Do Ladies Mean When They Say, 'I Need A God-fearing Man'? by omogin(f): 7:31pm On Aug 20, 2017
ShyCypher:



While d girl can act anyhow abi?
Una wise o
I owe you 2000 likes
Re: What Do Ladies Mean When They Say, 'I Need A God-fearing Man'? by Nobody: 7:31pm On Aug 20, 2017
SlayQueenSlayer:


I am not aware that we have female MAGAs.
You must be an alien.
Re: What Do Ladies Mean When They Say, 'I Need A God-fearing Man'? by Malawian(m): 7:32pm On Aug 20, 2017
Simple, the need a man who can put the fear of God in them. these bitches aint loyal

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Re: What Do Ladies Mean When They Say, 'I Need A God-fearing Man'? by MicroBox: 7:32pm On Aug 20, 2017
The mumu out of his spare time that will still do this for them
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Re: What Do Ladies Mean When They Say, 'I Need A God-fearing Man'? by iamord(m): 7:34pm On Aug 20, 2017
DebbyChris:
A man that fears God, and won't do anything God doesn't want.
When u ask for a god fearing guy do u expect him to tell u he is Satan fearing ? That statement is more of a poor use of English or expression.
Re: What Do Ladies Mean When They Say, 'I Need A God-fearing Man'? by henryhemon(m): 7:38pm On Aug 20, 2017
Find a real woman......though they are very difficult to find then you wouldn't bother yourself with those other ones .....a real woman is one who builds you up,knows what she wants,independent both financially and emotionally. A good great relationship is one both are independent but still care about each other and respect each other but those kind of women are going into extinction these days. Men stop making women depend on you so you can control or Lord it over her that's where disappointments starts. Stop dating women who can't give themselves good treat without the help of a man.

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Re: What Do Ladies Mean When They Say, 'I Need A God-fearing Man'? by Humility017(m): 7:39pm On Aug 20, 2017
Destined2win:
My brother, ladies like sex talk. Just look for one who strikes a balance
I think you're very right...
I once had one who always...love talk such..
and even told me....she can't stay in a relationship without kissing and cuddling...
she makes me know she was just being sincere...and that she can't be wit me...in a relationship and I don't give these...and that she will even go seduce me to yield to it...
I was so devastated bro...
I am really tired of everything....
I think relationships was not meant for my kind

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