I was in a very good relationship with my ex in school we spend most of our time together ,though she was a year ahead of me things were going fine with us until she accidentally met her ex(first luv) during an excursion trips to abuja ....to cut the story short we got issues and she personally end up the relationship after her final exam no calls no message, no information about her where about cause she even block me on her social media ...now she show up in my family house with a 14months old kid claiming am the father is this not madness the funny side of it all my mum and dad are already celebrating her and the kid in my absent what should I do?

Probably you're made ...she want an already made ground to start her fuckery business afresh & comfortable.

Tell her she made a wrong calculation..
Probably her ex denied getting her pregnant and her next move is to channel the baby to the next maga.

Chase her sorry as* far far away from you & your fam... orelse she will make your life miserable.

Haba 14month old baby +9 months pregnancy.
Only God knows the amount of in&out motion that must have gone through her..

Wholehearted, go and accept your responsibility

Shìt just got real mehn. But I don't think the shìt is too real bro because your parents ain't mad at you over the ish.

What exactly does she want from you?

Do a DNA test immediately.

It might be another man's child.
Some girls are very cunning.

it is very simple, go and do DNA

Accept your responsibility but before that do a DNA test to confirm that you are really the father

I'll give you just 3 options, and decide whatever you want....
1. DNA test
2. Take responsibility as d father
3. Reject her and the baby

U sef do simple calculations na, wen last u knack her? ....assuming na belle, I fo talk sey d girl wan Money from u be dat

First things first go and confirm if d kid is urs.. But ur ex is definitely not urs.. She ended ur relationship to run off with Prince charming and turns out d grass isn't green on d other side of d divide.. Chances are d ex she ran to denied d baby and she brought it to her next.. She seems to have a thing for exes..

even if the kid were to be yours, it still does not mean you should marry the lady. confirm the paternity of the child, take responsibility if the child is yours and fashi the babe. QED

Get a DNA test done. If she broke up with you 1 year ago, how come baby is now 14 most old? It takes 9 months to form the baby and by the time of 13 months that you guys are apart, baby should be 3-4 months old. Abi na you no calculate the age well?

mikeweezy:
I was in a very good relationship with my ex in school we spend most of our time together ,though she was a year ahead of me things were going fine with us until she accidentally met her ex(first luv) during an excursion trips to abuja ....to cut the story short we got issues and she personally end up the relationship after her final exam no calls no message, no information about her where about cause she even block me on her social media ...now she show up in my family house with a 14months old kid claiming am the father is this not madness the funny side of it all my mum and dad are already celebrating her and the kid in my absent what should I do?

What manner of woman is that?

If I were you? I would take her to the police station to spend the remainder of her visit there and possibly explain how come my sperm went inside of her during the days we went apart and brought out a child for me.

And also put her in a cell for having the guts to visit me with another man's child. Probably take her to court too for involving my parents.

What nonsense!!!!!

Ginaz:
What manner of woman is that?

If I were you? I would take her to the police station to spend the remainder of her visit there and possibly explain how come my sperm went inside of her during the days we went apart and brought out a child for me.

And also put her in a cell for having the guts to visit me with another man's child. Probably take her to court too for involving my parents.

What nonsense!!!!!

Makes no sense. Throw her in cell as in he is the law or what? This is how you people turn Nigeria upside down because you have small change to bribe the police. Throw her in cell to explain sperm and jail her for visiting without him first confirming if the child is his or not? lol. Kids Sha.

delishpot:


Makes no sense. Throw her in cell as in he is the law or what? This is how you people turn Nigeria upside down because you have small change to bribe the police. Throw her in cell to explain sperm and jail her for visiting without first confirming if the child is his or not? lol. Kids Sha.

Old papa is this all you have to say? Do you know this is a grievous offense? In a well developed country it could land you in jail for lying about the true parentage of your child? You can be sued. This is no small matter.

I guess you don't know your fundamental human right. Does it even make sense? Deceiving him when you know the man is not the right biological father ... so he will spend the rest of his life training a child that is not his while you drop your fat ass on the chair to thank God for not being caught?

He has a bloody right to send her to jail. That is an offense, for deceiving with a full intention to defraud. People are sent to jail for swapping of kids, why should this be different?

so our old ancestors, maybe you are still leaving in the old age so I won't blame you..... it is an offense in case you don't know.

Ginaz:


Old papa is this all you have to say? Do you know this is a grievous offense? In a well developed country it could land you in jail for lying about the true parentage of your child? You can be sued. This is no small matter.

I guess you don't know your fundamental human right. Does it even make sense? Deceiving him when you know the man is not the right biological father ... so he will spend the rest of his life training a child that is not his while you drop your fat ass on the chair to thank God for not being caught?

He has a bloody right to send her to jail. That is an offense, for deceiving with a full intention to defraud. People are sent to jail for swapping of kids, why should this be different?

so our old ancestors, maybe you are still leaving in the old age so I won't blame you..... it is an offense in case you don't know.

I don her you, bon baby! Tata, umu aka, omo owo, obaby, If you care so much about punishing her, then let the law take its course. No where in the world do civilians just throw another civilian into jail to explain how stray sperm entered her vagina. How did you know she was deceiving him? Because he believes so? It is an offence if a DNA is done and the woman is found wanting but not enough offence to throw her in jail without handing her over to the law. First thing first, a DNA should be done then he can know how best to proceed but don't ignorantly think he can just throw her into cell because she said he got her pregnant. If they find that she lied and her claims makes him surffer (or lose his job, break his marriage, make him miss a business deal or even mentally stressed) then he can sue her based on that. She did not swipe a child, he did not say she asked for money, what are you all about? He only said she brought a child to tell him he fathered a child by her. I don't see her blackmailing him or otherwise. Any sane person would first prove that she was wrong before planning to throw her into cell as if the police would just do so without proof that she was wrong in the first place.... Oh sorry I forgot, naija police is for the highest bidder. They would work for anyone who throws small money even if the reason is because the perceived offender "eyed" them. People like you can start a war based on 'Dem say Dem say' you will not even try to be rational. They may do DNA now and you find that the guy was wrong. Hence yes, she broke up with him but a baby is involved here. Don't use emotion to worsen things.

delishpot:


I don her you, bon baby! Tata, umu aka, omo owo, obaby, If you care so much about punishing her, then let the law take its course. No where in the world do civilians just throw another civilian into jail to explain how stray sperm entered her vagina. It is an offence if a DNA is done and the woman is found wanting but not enough offence to throw her in jail without handing her over to the law. First thing first, a DNA should be done then he can know how best to proceed but don't ignorantly think he can just throw her into cell because she said he got her pregnant. If they find that she lied and her claims makes him surffer (or lose his job, break his marriage, make him miss a business deal or even mentally stressed) then he can sue her based on that. She did not swipe a child, he did not say she asked for money, what are you all about? He only said she brought a child to tell him he fathered a child by her. I don't see her blackmailing him or otherwise. Any sane person would first prove that she was wrong before planning to throw her into cell as if the police would just do so without proof that she was wrong in the first place.... Oh sorry I forgot, naija police is for the highest bidder. They would work for anyone who throws small money even if the reason is because the perceived offender "eyed" them.

You don't need to call me those "rubbish" names wherever the heck you got them from....who does that to counter an argument? That was what you did the first time, calling names. Really? You're so matured as claimed but your writing explicit you as being a kid. Keep those "old mama names" to yourself.

Secondly, I opinionated my views on how I would have reacted, which means everyone is entitled to state their opinions. My approach might be wrong that doesn't mean you have to be so horribly rude to correct it. Counter facts with facts, that's how you debate....not you sounding like an old woman who has got too much sense but talks like a one who borrowed it.

Keep yourself in your hole, bet you, I have a lot on my mind than to worry about your flawed sentimentality. You talk base on emotions...while that is quite impressive, you should know humans are deceptive and would go out all their way to keep hiding a lie. Sometimes you use a strong hand to extract the truth (which was why I went all harsh in the beginning of arresting and stuff)

Cos you think your opinion sounds better that doesn't make it right over another. Please excused me while I go over on how to make use of my time. This case is closed as far as I'm concerned!!!! Your views are respected as well. case closed

and these ones are e-fighting on some1's land

Rorachy:
Do a DNA test immediately.

It might be another man's child.
Some girls are very cunny.

Did you mean cunning?

mikeweezy:
I was in a very good relationship with my ex in school we spend most of our time together ,though she was a year ahead of me things were going fine with us until she accidentally met her ex(first luv) during an excursion trips to abuja ....to cut the story short we got issues and she personally end up the relationship after her final exam no calls no message, no information about her where about cause she even block me on her social media ...now she show up in my family house with a 14months old kid claiming am the father is this not madness the funny side of it all my mum and dad are already celebrating her and the kid in my absent what should I do?

E don happen

Please go for a DNA test and what do you mean by your parents celebrating the kid in your absent?

Obviously you are not ready for any marital vows, So please feel free to post your complain at any of our nearest branch close to you and be rest assured you will be attended to.

Signed.

Vice Chairman, Bachelors Club Lagos

There's a 50/50 possibility that the child may or may not be yours. Do a paternity test before you take any actions. At the interim, leave your parents to care for the child just in case the test turns positive, and afterwards don't go into any relationship with your said babymama 'cause she isn't to be trusted.

Ginaz:


You don't need to call me those "rubbish" names wherever the heck you got them from....who does that to counter an argument? That was what you did the first time, calling names. Really? You're so matured as claimed but your writing explicit you as being a kid. Keep those "old mama names" to yourself.

Secondly, I opinionated my views on how I would have reacted, which means everyone is entitled to state their opinions. My approach might be wrong that doesn't mean you have to be so horribly rude to correct it. Counter facts with facts, that's how you debate....not you sounding like an old woman who has got too much sense but talks like a one who borrowed it.

Keep yourself in your hole, bet you, I have a lot on my mind than to worry about your flawed sentimentality. You talk base on emotions...while that is quite impressive, you should know humans are deceptive and would go out all their way to keep hiding a lie. Sometimes you use a strong hand to extract the truth (which was why I went all harsh in the beginning of arresting and stuff)

Cos you think your opinion sounds better that doesn't make it right over another. Please excused me while I go over on how to make use of my time. This case is closed as far as I'm concerned!!!! Your views are respected as well. case closed

But you called me your old ancestor too and it was much appropriate ba?
I guess you are right, me that said they can not just throw a woman in jail just because the man believe that the child is not his, but rather proper investigation should be carried out before hand and appropriate action be taken legally .....I am talking nonesense! But you that wants to throw her into a cell until she explains how stray sperm enters her vagina and throw her again for even saying the pregnancy is his(which no one has confirmed to be false o) You are the one making sense in your opinion. Ngwanu! Umu aka, Obaby, Tata, omo owo! you have judged the matter exactly by what you are, a kid.
If your family member is suspected of commiting a crime, would you recommend this your "harsh" hand to the police in order for them to get the truth out of him? Or it is okay because she is not your family member?

Ginaz:
What manner of woman is that?

If I were you? I would take her to the police station to spend the remainder of her visit there and possibly explain how come my sperm went inside of her during the days we went apart and brought out a child for me.

And also put her in a cell for having the guts to visit me with another man's child. Probably take her to court too for involving my parents.

What nonsense!!!!!

There's no reason here to throw her in jail.

kimbra:
There's no reason here to throw her in jail.

So you said! Opinions should be respected or countered. Your opinion...my opinion different. You get?