DarkRebel69:


Why do all your advice always border on the topic of boy-girl relationships and marriage? Is it that your existence is built around those things? Or is it because you're only mentally capable of dealing with those sort of triffling issues?

You're trying too hard to impress Nairaland males (and men in general), or is that not the purpose of this thread? To subtly advertise that you would make a very ''homely wife" – an euphemism for "domesticated pet".

Why not learn to live for yourself (and not for men), to aspire for greater things, rather than slaving your entire existence in a pathetic bid to be seen as "marriable" by men?

You are too basic and simple-minded, just like many Nigerian girls out there. Too simple, too average, too ordinary.

Very unnecessary. You don't have to be condescending to sound smart and intellectual. Fyi, it's okay to be ''too simple, too average, too ordinary''. Not everyone can be overly intelligent or extraordinary. She put up a harmless topic, and was open to different opinions. There were other people that had different opinions but didn't resort to name calling.

Amarabae:
Cooking is a skill,being a woman does not mean that you will know how to cook naturally, we learn how to cook.
And also in marriage, if the man want to be cooking,no Problem,
cooking has no gender jare

Cooking is also a duty; U don't have to like it to do it. It is like a man saying that he will not work because he doesn't like stress. Life is abt duties too.

Josephjnr:


Thanks dear.

You're welcome.

Daeylar:


You're welcome. I modified the post you quoted you can read the new one

Seen

my wife will not cook her fingernails are too precious for such

na house girl go dey cook our meals

DarkRebel69:


Go and re-read that post, I've added some vital points for your benefit.

What else can you say beyond "K''? Prove me wrong for once by doing something unexpected.
You're docile, conforming, ordinary, "un-opinionated", and have always shown a patent disregard for the intellectually stimulating --- a trait rife among many members of your gender, especially in this part of the world. May I never be cursed as to have someone like you for a bride. It'd be no different from wedding an unquestioning lamb.

Totter off now, and don't you give up your day-job of day-dreaming about the day of your wedding and how splendid your wedding gown would be — it's the acme of your life achievements and all you are ever good for.

Oga shut the Bleep up. Whether we like it or not there are ingridients that make for a successful marriage and the both genders have to play their roles in this regard. She was just trying to expantiate one of the roles society places on the women folk in marriage. I see no fault in that. You are the kind of person who lives life by theory and would always regret at the end.

Fadedjeans:


Very unnecessary. You don't have to be condescending in a bid to sound smart and intellectual. Fyi, it's okay to be ''too simple, too average, too ordinary''. Not everyone can be overly intelligent or extraordinary. She put up a harmless topic, and was open to different opinions. There were other people that had different opinions but didn't resort to name calling.

Thanks my brother, I trained his type in school. I love simple life and no one is complaining except that idioot with mouth like dog annus.

Fadedjeans:


Very unnecessary. You don't have to be condescending in a bid to sound smart and intellectual. Fyi, it's okay to be ''too simple, too average, too ordinary''. Not everyone can be overly intelligent or extraordinary. She put up a harmless topic, and was open to different opinions. There were other people that had different opinions but didn't resort to name calling.

It's not "name-calling" if it's true. If I used the adjective 'tall' on Yao Ming (the basketballer), it's not 'name-calling' but merely me stating an obvious truth.

Since you say her topic was meant to be open to different opinions then why did she attack my opinion when she said that I was trying too hard to impress, and why aren't you chastising her instead, after all she is also guilty of name-calling? Your critic is grossly biased.

Oyindidi:
Thanks my brother, I trained his type in school. I love simple life and no one is complaining except that idioot with mouth like dog annus.

Loving a simple life and being simple-minded are two very different things. You embody the latter, as evidenced by the petty nature of your mindset which your comments on this forum never fail to reveal, and also your topical interests on Nairaland.

Confabulate all you want, but the true explanation as to why you prefer 'simple' matters is because you're not smart enough to come to grips with 'complex and more worth-while' issues. It's for this same reason that you look with wistful eyes to the day of your marriage. Finally! You can get to off-load all responsibilities to prince charming and not worry your little, pretty head over any thing that demands even the slightest mental computation.

Go on ahead, Oyin!... No one's stopping you!... Marry, spread your legs every night for prince charming, have 10 children, grow fat, and then die. Congratulations, Oyinkansola/Oyindamola, you've lived a life of purpose and fulfillment. Muah!

Josephjnr:


Hahahaha! Finally,we end it. In Klaus' voice "Let's end this. Shall we?"

Lol. And that wicked smile on his face with his hands behind his back

lefulefu:

if u have to eat out make sure its a clean eatery and not those fly infested and poo infested mama put areas.u will be surprised that most of the diseases many nigerians contact is frm these public eating places.some of these women dem go use their hand clean poo for their pickin yansh and without washing dat hand use d poo contaiminated hand prepare food for customer.one of my guy said he had a first hand experience when he was posted for NYSC in Osun state.

He is right though, it's not every man that food leads to his heart.
I love cooking, not noodles and egg...very traditional dishes and trying my hands on new things.

...but all my guys have never been foodies.

DarkRebel69:


Why do all your advice always border on the topic of boy-girl relationships and marriage? Is it that your existence is built around those things? Or is it because you're only mentally capable of dealing with those sort of triffling issues?

You're trying too hard to impress Nairaland males (and men in general), or is that not the purpose of this thread? To subtly advertise that you would make a very ''homely wife" – an euphemism for "domesticated pet".

Why not learn to live for yourself (and not for men), to aspire for greater things, rather than slaving your entire existence in a pathetic bid to be seen as "marriable" by men?

You are too basic and simple-minded, just like many Nigerian girls out there. Too simple, too average, too ordinary.

K-O!

DarkRebel69:


It's not "name-calling" if it's true. If I used the adjective 'tall' on Yao Ming (the basketballer), it's not 'name-calling' but merely me stating an obvious truth.

Since you say her topic was meant to be open to different opinions then why did she attack my opinion when she said that I was trying too hard to impress, and why aren't you chastising her instead, after all she is also guilty of name-calling? Your critic is grossly biased.

Just because you think so doesn't make it 'true'. The example you gave of the basketballer doesn't relate to this at all. It's correct to use the adjective tall to qualify him 'cause obviously he is tall. However, calling her simple minded, too average and ordinary isn't the truth. That's just your own perception of her. I'm not attacking you ' cause you have a different opinion from hers, but because instead of just countering her opinion like you did, you went further and called her names. Attack the message and not the messenger. If for anything, I think because she was able to come out to state her opinion, albeit a bit flawed, as you rightly pointed out, she is not simple minded but only more open to learn.

Oyindidi:
Thanks my brother, I trained his type in school. I love simple life and no one is complaining except that idioot with mouth like dog annus.

If you reason without insulting, you'll learn a lot. I know he came at you first, but he made a point.

Ladies who say they don't know how to cook should swerve to the left. Did your mum teach you to fvck?!.

Still wondering ow some people are saying cooking shouldn't be a criteria for marriage
Dat sounds dumb
If ur a gal nd u don't know how 2 cook
Ur case strong

pocohantas:


He is right though, it's not every man that food leads to his heart.
I love cooking, not noodles and egg...very traditional dishes and trying my hands on new things.

...but all my guys have never been foodies.

true but there is a sort of closer connection when a woman cooks for her husband and kids.imagine a family where both the husband and wife eat out while they give money to the kids to also eat outside.there some familes like that though .

Victornezzar:
Still wondering ow some people are saying cooking shouldn't be a criteria for marriage
Dat sounds dumb
If ur a gal nd u don't know how 2 cook
Ur case strong

bro leave those ladies let them say whatever they want
It is their husbands that will teach them a lesson
They think because they educated in the western way, they can behave like ladies in the west

The thing go soon clear for their eyes

Victornezzar:
Still wondering ow some people are saying cooking shouldn't be a criteria for marriage
Dat sounds dumb
If ur a gal nd u don't know how 2 cook
Ur case strong

you have heard about the edo socialite cheif igbenedion?

lefulefu:

if u have to eat out make sure its a clean eatery and not those fly infested and poo infested mama put areas.u will be surprised that most of the diseases many nigerians contact is frm these public eating places.some of these women dem go use their hand clean poo for their pickin yansh and without washing dat hand use d poo contaiminated hand prepare food for customer.one of my guy said he had a first hand experience when he was posted for NYSC in Osun state.

Thanks.

No issues with that. I am conscious of where I eat.

lefulefu:

you have heard about the edo socialite cheif igbenedion?

Yeah Bro
wah hppnd

DarkRebel69, stay off my mention. I'm simple minded but I don't go about begging for money here.

cooking is my hobby

Victornezzar:

Yeah Bro
wah hppnd

one of im dauthers got married to the late oba"s nephew.dem say dat time the lady go dey order junk food frrm mister biggs and other fastfood areas for her husband cos she no sabi anything.upon dat dem say she sabi make trouble .na wetin come crash d marriage.dem say the day she left the oba"s nephew started dancing shoki out of pure joy .

Oyindidi:
DarkRebel69, stay off my mention. I'm simple minded but I don't go about begging for money here.

And who accused you of going about 'begging for money'? Silly woman talking off tangent.

edudguy:
Lol. And that wicked smile on his face with his hands behind his back

Yes o. The big bad wolf.

Fadedjeans:


If you reason without insulting, you'll learn a lot. I know he came at you first, but he made a point.

That's true, thanks fadedjeans. I was kinda pissed he is found of attacking me

DarkRebel69:


Why do all your advice always border on the topic of boy-girl relationships and marriage? Is it that your existence is built around those things? Or is it because you're only mentally capable of dealing with those sort of triffling issues?

You're trying too hard to impress Nairaland males (and men in general), or is that not the purpose of this thread? To subtly advertise that you would make a very ''homely wife" – an euphemism for "domesticated pet".

Why not learn to live for yourself (and not for men), to aspire for greater things, rather than slaving your entire existence in a pathetic bid to be seen as "marriable" by men?

You are too basic and simple-minded, just like many Nigerian girls out there. Too simple, too average, too ordinary.

You've started again.

Oyindidi:
You go understand later in life

It is both sex and food.

Any woman who is not ready to offer these two to her husband is not yet ready to marry..

How can you say its only FOOD ?

makydebbie:
You've started again.

Did I ever stop?

julietkcee:

weda bum bum or nyash..
En no pass mine

can I see it pls

DarkRebel69:


Did I ever stop?

You should. Everyone's view differs. Life has shaped us into what we are. You shouldn't go about insulting people because their views doesn't sit with yours. You should learn to respect people's opinion. Anyway, this world will be very boring if we all think alike.