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| Re: I Was Punished, Ostracized For 20 Years For Marrying A White Lady: Aroms Aigbehi by logica(m): 8:51pm On Aug 25, 2017 |
claremont:Oh, how should I describe a Negro who feels even more Caucasian than Caucasians? |
| Re: I Was Punished, Ostracized For 20 Years For Marrying A White Lady: Aroms Aigbehi by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:52pm On Aug 25, 2017 |
Chukazu:so, let me ask you, how many complete strangers have you greeted today, just as the OP want us to greet complete strangers in the west, just because they are black?! what he wrote is called INFERIORITY COMPLEX... which would be as stupid as saying that all whites in Africa should greet each other, just because they are not in their natural environment. lol! |
| Re: I Was Punished, Ostracized For 20 Years For Marrying A White Lady: Aroms Aigbehi by ojibole(m): 8:54pm On Aug 25, 2017 |
Wow this is so far the best write up I have read on nairaland...you hit the nail on the head. |
| Re: I Was Punished, Ostracized For 20 Years For Marrying A White Lady: Aroms Aigbehi by Nobody: 8:58pm On Aug 25, 2017*. Modified: 6:26am On Aug 29, 2017 |
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| Re: I Was Punished, Ostracized For 20 Years For Marrying A White Lady: Aroms Aigbehi by btoks: 9:07pm On Aug 25, 2017 |
claremont:Unfortunately, it's the attitude of not mingling (intellectually, business wise ) that is drawing us back. The Asians, Jews mingle with one other and drive themselves forward. You see results in the number of businesses owned by these groups while we Africans just work for others. Most of the shops selling African groceries and hair products are owned by Asians, I think that's saying something. It's time we start working together to move ourselves forward, whatever we've been doing hasn't worked and will never work. |
| Re: I Was Punished, Ostracized For 20 Years For Marrying A White Lady: Aroms Aigbehi by paulynpen(m): 9:48pm On Aug 25, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1: |
| Re: I Was Punished, Ostracized For 20 Years For Marrying A White Lady: Aroms Aigbehi by Nobody: 9:58pm On Aug 25, 2017 |
This n!gga got mental issues. Plenty! I wonder what was the point of this interview? |
| Re: I Was Punished, Ostracized For 20 Years For Marrying A White Lady: Aroms Aigbehi by Adieza(op): 10:00pm On Aug 25, 2017 |
ojibole:Thanks |
| Re: I Was Punished, Ostracized For 20 Years For Marrying A White Lady: Aroms Aigbehi by Ugosample(m): 10:17pm On Aug 25, 2017 |
omoharry:I think so too |
| Re: I Was Punished, Ostracized For 20 Years For Marrying A White Lady: Aroms Aigbehi by Ugosample(m): 10:25pm On Aug 25, 2017 |
hollywoodscape:You are right about crab mentality tho |
| Re: I Was Punished, Ostracized For 20 Years For Marrying A White Lady: Aroms Aigbehi by Ugosample(m): 10:30pm On Aug 25, 2017 |
hollywoodscape:You have a point. |
| Re: I Was Punished, Ostracized For 20 Years For Marrying A White Lady: Aroms Aigbehi by hegelian: 10:31pm On Aug 25, 2017 |
Adieza:Am actually with the op on this...the level of supremacy fight among black is alarming. I lost a very wonderful woman cos my parents forbade us from marrying outside Ilorin, I had to scope the lady into doing abortion cos when I figured she wasn't from Ilorin, I was scared to death.....I still surfer from that till now though I have been able to win myself over from mental slavery....in fact I have ditiched religions, and can marry from anywhere without any care in the world with what anyone think or say...the level of hatred and pretencr is just too much...the Christians hate the Muslims and the Muslims hate the xtians as well yet they laugh and play along as if nothing is wrong but deep down they know....I can't live with such again... Africa will never progress until there is a paradigm shift which I doubt will ever happen |
| Re: I Was Punished, Ostracized For 20 Years For Marrying A White Lady: Aroms Aigbehi by logica(m): 10:37pm On Aug 25, 2017 |
hegelian:It will happen. Yes, we despair sometimes, but it's a matter of grow or die. When we realize we will die as a race if we continue along this path, we will have no option but to shift. |
| Re: I Was Punished, Ostracized For 20 Years For Marrying A White Lady: Aroms Aigbehi by kabillion(m): 10:40pm On Aug 25, 2017 |
Not only okracized, u are ogbolocized too. |
| Re: I Was Punished, Ostracized For 20 Years For Marrying A White Lady: Aroms Aigbehi by Chukazu: 10:44pm On Aug 25, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1: very interesting, I love the question. Something baffled me when I traveled to my villa few months back...I noticed people naturally greeted without knowing who I was, even inside commercial buses, once someone entered bus he greets every single person inside the bus. So it's actually a culture /mindset concept. |
| Re: I Was Punished, Ostracized For 20 Years For Marrying A White Lady: Aroms Aigbehi by Adieza(op): 10:53pm On Aug 25, 2017 |
hegelian:Hmm, Sorry Bro Take Heart. I want to you to join the Campaign Now, We Must Stop This Now, Or It Will Affect Our Coming Generations More Than Us. Follow Us. Https://facebook.com/AromsAigbehi |
| Re: I Was Punished, Ostracized For 20 Years For Marrying A White Lady: Aroms Aigbehi by Prince16: 11:18pm On Aug 25, 2017 |
omoharry:lolz..... i know right! we do it everypassing day to ourselves that it has bcom our default setting. once knew of a bloke who fate smiled on, got a teaching job in the middle east. Asked 'bro' to show me the way but till tmr our 'uncle' just #lock-up! Bloke refused to share correspondence with me........ Well, we all shall reap what we sow, wont we! ![]() #karma is a ........... |
| Re: I Was Punished, Ostracized For 20 Years For Marrying A White Lady: Aroms Aigbehi by Nobody: 11:24pm On Aug 25, 2017 |
Nah phone una take type all this? After all d summary learnt in school.hmm wetin concern me sef |
| Re: I Was Punished, Ostracized For 20 Years For Marrying A White Lady: Aroms Aigbehi by Nobody: 11:25pm On Aug 25, 2017 |
omoharry:I have been nice to every Nigerian person I notice is new to where we live but I've come to realise that some of the view me suspiciously like I've come to either poison them or steal their husband (as if theirs is better than mine). Those who come to me are looking for help with childcare (even though I work), bringing their kids from school or borrowing my coolers and chafing dishes after which they begin to look at me with (and so what?) eyes. I'm very friendly and welcoming but I've decided to close up and mind my business. |
| Re: I Was Punished, Ostracized For 20 Years For Marrying A White Lady: Aroms Aigbehi by Hakeem12(m): 11:46pm On Aug 25, 2017 |
Adieza:My brother, you nailed it. |
| Re: I Was Punished, Ostracized For 20 Years For Marrying A White Lady: Aroms Aigbehi by grandstar(m): 12:59am On Aug 26, 2017 |
When I was in the UK in 2014, I went to Carincross hospital ( pardon me if I've just murdered the name), I met a Nigerian receptionist who behaved as though he had no clue who I was was (A Nigerian) Its very rampart and part of the reason boils down to the fact that most of them are illegals and don't want fellow Nigerians getting them into trouble. |
| Re: I Was Punished, Ostracized For 20 Years For Marrying A White Lady: Aroms Aigbehi by sayisayi(m): 1:26am On Aug 26, 2017 |
AdaNri1:Ada....I was born in the uk but understand the naija mentality very well...it's based on fear...everyone is an enemy....this is why the churches and mosques are full. So..they only see ppl as a ladder, very small percentage are sincere.so those ppl just want to use you for what you can get....she. You need help or something..they will be ghost! |
| Re: I Was Punished, Ostracized For 20 Years For Marrying A White Lady: Aroms Aigbehi by thoth: 2:44am On Aug 26, 2017 |
I don't know what these guys are saying, in France igbos fraternize very closely, once you can spot the person is not Senegalese or Gabonese, in China you just speak igbo almost with any black person you meet before they'll correct you they are Ghanaian or Malian and guys still fratenize as well. I have noticed the trend he's complaining about in nations with nationalized black population, like UK or US, those blacks seem disconnected and they don't rally around each other as African blacks do. most cases you assume the person is a Brit and you just walk by. |
| Re: I Was Punished, Ostracized For 20 Years For Marrying A White Lady: Aroms Aigbehi by Nobody: 4:37am On Aug 26, 2017 |
It's a cultural thing, maybe we need to talk about it |
| Re: I Was Punished, Ostracized For 20 Years For Marrying A White Lady: Aroms Aigbehi by Adieza(op): 7:09am On Aug 26, 2017 |
GogobiriLalas:We Need To Solve It Together |
| Re: I Was Punished, Ostracized For 20 Years For Marrying A White Lady: Aroms Aigbehi by oshorstan(m): 7:14am On Aug 26, 2017 |
Adieza:What a World!!!!! I would love to have a one on one discussion with you sir |
| Re: I Was Punished, Ostracized For 20 Years For Marrying A White Lady: Aroms Aigbehi by Nobody: 9:45am On Aug 26, 2017 |
Adieza:Right...the problem is that because of our culture we've developed a Napoleon Complex, everyone wants to lead but no one knows what the hell they're doing...this complex has led to a poverty mentality, a huge ego unwilling to serve unless forced and a desire to subdue others to maintain our god like status...we erroneously suppose that other people's success must of necessity erode our self worth...hence we fight against each other incessantly....furthermore because we are reluctant to work for the common good, long term objectives requiring concerted group efforts is near impossible to execute...our communal IQ is best at par with that of a harem of Gorilla's...look at the Nigerian senate for example, those thieves can never accomplish anything no matter how much money is expended on them, they have no ideal or principle except that of a prodigal...the Bible aptly stated that from those who do not have even the little they have will be taken from them...this is the embodiment of our senate. |
| Re: I Was Punished, Ostracized For 20 Years For Marrying A White Lady: Aroms Aigbehi by Adieza(op): 9:50am On Aug 26, 2017 |
oshorstan:Contact me on mail. greatestanebira@gmail.com |
| Re: I Was Punished, Ostracized For 20 Years For Marrying A White Lady: Aroms Aigbehi by Lovisious(m): 10:04am On Aug 26, 2017 |
Adieza:wel said my dear |
| Re: I Was Punished, Ostracized For 20 Years For Marrying A White Lady: Aroms Aigbehi by mikolo80: 10:20am On Aug 26, 2017 |
Chukazu:who d slap epp |
| Re: I Was Punished, Ostracized For 20 Years For Marrying A White Lady: Aroms Aigbehi by oshorstan(m): 1:34pm On Aug 26, 2017 |
Adieza:I will contact u soon |
| Re: I Was Punished, Ostracized For 20 Years For Marrying A White Lady: Aroms Aigbehi by stevecantrell: 1:43pm On Aug 26, 2017 |
Nothing new...nothing new. |
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very interesting, I love the question.