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Justtoluboy:
Goodmorning guys,am a guy in my early 20s..am a naval personnel.iam a kind of peson that i find it hard to ask a lady out...i hardly can talk to a lady..i dont know how to start or where to end the conversation..am not a shy person based on my job..or when i am talking to my guys..or when am chatting normally with a lady but when it comes to being commited my liver just fails me...plz guys advice me on what to do..it dosent bother me before but am not getting younger anymore..i just need your advice on what to do

SunshineR the baddest in Romance sextion will give u the best advice..

subtlemee:
Start by being very nice then you give her attention (calling and texting intermittently to check on her) top it up with compliments, popping the question and she accepting won't be hard

dayo2me:
is that what was use to win ur heart or that could be used?

IamKashyBaby:
SunshineR the baddest in Romance sextion will give u the best advice..

Justtoluboy:
Goodmorning guys,am a guy in my early 20s..am a naval personnel.iam a kind of peson that i find it hard to ask a lady out...i hardly can talk to a lady..i dont know how to start or where to end the conversation..am not a shy person based on my job..or when i am talking to my guys..or when am chatting normally with a lady but when it comes to being commited my liver just fails me...plz guys advice me on what to do..it dosent bother me before but am not getting younger anymore..i just need your advice on what to do

subtlemee:
We all fall for this except there's nothing in you she likes

Justtoluboy:
Goodmorning guys,am a guy in my early 20s..am a naval personnel.iam a kind of peson that i find it hard to ask a lady out...i hardly can talk to a lady..i dont know how to start or where to end the conversation..am not a shy person based on my job..or when i am talking to my guys..or when am chatting normally with a lady but when it comes to being commited my liver just fails me...plz guys advice me on what to do..it dosent bother me before but am not getting younger anymore..i just need your advice on what to do

dayo2me:
wow! that's interesting, u mean the key to unlock the heart of all girls ar wat u previously stated?

tobianthony:
Confidence comes experience .

Focus on your job and your social circle but be yourself .

Self confidence to me are of two types - one comes from accomplishments the other from a mental source irrespective of accomplishments .

Start to expand your mind and feed your imagination .

Go on you tube there's tons of videos on how to approach women and talk to them .

But you gotta start to talk to yourself ...and tell yourself that you are the man .

And start to accomplish things . I've seen a guy I know who doesn't have much pull some of the baddest things ever ...how does he do it ...even with no money he believes he's Jim Morrison resurrected . In his mind he's the man . And this energy flows out of him.

So my dude money or no money ...it's like selling soap get out there and sell yourself .

All the best .

subtlemee:
Yes except the materialistic ones then i'll add give her money and buy her expensive gifts then take her out on expensive dates

Rorachy:
So many mummy's boys on nairaland.

Always asking questions on how to ask a lady out or looking for wife or better still telling us a lady is too hot for them.

Na low self esteem dey worry all of una..

subtlemee:
Start by being very nice then you give her attention (calling and texting intermittently to check on her) top it up with compliments, popping the question and she accepting won't be hard

DarkMagic:
Man...ur case tho
U av to start from somewhere..
Work on urslef...yh..ur confidence..
Dnt see girls as aliens or some shii..they are also humans like u...
Then...once u av approached her...start a conversation...
From dere...keep flowing with her...
Be funny...make her laff..Girls like that....
That is like ma main weapon...from there..do watever u want to do


But mainly,build ur confidence...

tobianthony:
Confidence comes experience .

Focus on your job and your social circle but be yourself .

Self confidence to me are of two types - one comes from accomplishments the other from a mental source irrespective of accomplishments .

Start to expand your mind and feed your imagination .

Go on you tube there's tons of videos on how to approach women and talk to them .

But you gotta start to talk to yourself ...and tell yourself that you are the man .

And start to accomplish things . I've seen a guy I know who doesn't have much pull some of the baddest things ever ...how does he do it ...even with no money he believes he's Jim Morrison resurrected . In his mind he's the man . And this energy flows out of him.

So my dude money or no money ...it's like selling soap get out there and sell yourself .

All the best .

Arthurwinner:
buh to b honest ur look don't worth ur comment.....u CNT giv smone low esteem with d way u look.....ur face looks pale and fade...and u don't look classy...wen did u cm awt of sec school b4 u cm hia and insult people DAT can feed ur pale face frog

Rorachy:
So many mummy's boys on nairaland.

Always asking questions on how to ask a lady out or looking for wife or better still telling us a lady is too hot for them.

Na low self esteem dey worry all of una..

Justtoluboy:
plz if you dont have anything to say just keep mute

IamKashyBaby:
SunshineR the baddest in Romance sextion will give u the best advice..

Rorachy:
I've already told you my mind, get some self esteem, and you won't be scared talking to a woman...

Justtoluboy:
do you think if you dont have self esteem you can be a military man...anyway thanks for your opinion

Rorachy:
Do you know that you can be the richest man on earth and still have low self esteem? its not like am insulting you o, but low self esteem comes from within, its a psychological something.

For example, you might see a lady but your mind tells you immediately that you are not good enough for her or she is too big for you, thereby stopping you from approaching her, that's low self esteem at work and it eats at your self-confidence.

I am an introvert too but I don't feel shy talking to my fellow human being, if I feel displease about something I tell the person or if I want something from a person, I approach the person.

Always bear it in mind that she is just a lady, the highest she can do is to say No to you and that's it, you try another girl, its not possible for all the ladies to say No to you.

sunshineR:
its the lord of FTC again

and which baddest

i'm still taking lessons from oga synzu o

i dont wanna derail but just so you know if you ever decide to come to naija please come with excorts o 'cause i'll steal you away (kidnap you) if you come alone..................see pure ethereal beauty @ur profile

(oh lawd let jude not see this )

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iamJ:
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Paulakosu:
ermm actually, it is